how to deal with Gays in college dorms???? Anybody ever have a gay roommate?

[BDR]

I had a gay roommate after I transferred schools... I could tell right off bat something was up with dude but I never really saw him on the reg. We had a 3 story spot and there were 4 of us, he just so happened to be the only gay dude in the house. I had morning classes and was done by 12. I can't tell you dude's name since we never spoke but I had no issue with the dude until I would come home AFTER him and whomever got finished doing their thing. My room was next to his and you could tell if that cat got some ass or was giving it up cause it smelled like shit.

There were more than a handful of nights where I would come home with a shortie and we would have to leave cause you had to walk thru the smell to get to my room. For the most part he kept to himself and tried to do his thing when no one was home but there were times when either me or one of the other two roommates would run into this cat when he would be trying to sneak one of his "friends" out the house after a session. Shit was nasty... His room always smelled like shit. There was one morning I woke up with my shortie and was on my way to the restroom. I see this man door open and since I had to walk past his door to get to the restroom I was going to say "Sup" and I wish I didn't... this nicca was looking at BET that morning BEATING HIS SHIT, DOOR WIDE THE FUCK OPEN and it smelled like SHIT ALL IN THE HALLWAY... and without thought I yell out AWW DAMN turn around, go back into my room and told lil mama, I'm sick... She asked me what was wrong. cause I know I had a crazy look on my face. I told her what the fuck just happened and she didn't believe me. (thinking to myself, why the fuck would I make up some shit like that) I know I had to have one of those looks like I should slap the shit out of you... I told her to go in the hall and see for herself. We could hear this man moving around so she waits a few before getting up herself. So I'm sure he heard us talking about him which is why he got up and rolled out the spot so quick. After he left, she got up, opened the door was just as mad and sick as I was... I never saw dude again in the house and he moved out at the end of the semester. Heard him a few times after that but I kept my door shut and never came out when I knew he was home.

We complained to the folks in the office how he had the place smelling. The other two roommates had to smell it too cause the washer and dryer were on the top floor where my room was. The lady in the office kept saying there was nothing she could do to remove the dude. She just said he had to leave on own and the fastest way to get him to do that was make him feel uncomfortable but quickly followed up even that may not work. The lady in the office just laughed at me when I told her the story even had to take a seat... but was just as disgusted as I was when I told her what the hallway smelled like. and understood where I was coming from

 

[djkidrich]

gay as a rainbow tailed pony.

 

[dtownsfinest]

So, 2 gay men in their domicile is over the top gay pride shit? Is it unrealistic if he asked you not to bring a woman about?

I already answered this. Yea it is unrealistic for him to ask me not to bring a woman about. Which is why I said he wouldn't want me to bring a women to a crib and be intimate with her in front of him so why the fuck would I want him to be intimate with his partner?

 

[BGLR1212000]

Had a gay roomate freshman year. I was gonna ask to move, but I procrastinated til it was too late. Dude ended up being alright though, he never said he was gay, and I never saw him with a dude. Buddy was flaming though, but it never came up, so really it was all good.

 

[redemption]

For some reason when I hear y'all talk about gays the way you do, I can't help but think about how white folks used to talk about blacks back in the day...

"I can't move into the dorm room because my roommate is black/gay"

Sounds the same to me. You guys really need to get over this homophobic shit. I doubt any of you had ever experienced any violation from someone who is homosexual. Yet you act all scared, like they are gonna pin your black ass down, and rape you in front of your mother or something

Like seriously? Why are you so fucking scared?? You don't have to like them, or like what they do, but quit acting like scared little bitches. This scary ass, "gay man is gonna rape me", or "watch me have sex with my girl", talk is fucking pathetic.

Grow a damn pair. It's a dorm room! FOR SCHOOL! TO LEARN! Keep to yourself, study, and get the fuck out of there. Period. White folks treated us THE SAME DAMN WAY, so you would think we would have some sort of tolerance in these circumstances...

 

[patscorpio]

subs for later reading and contribution

 

[D-TOWN REP]

never had a gay roommate in college had a bitch ass roommate, which I think is worse than have a gay roommate who keeps that shit to himself

nigga was just a flat out hoe ass nigga

 

[melonpecan]

No I said I don't want to be around that gay shit. And what I mean by that is two dudes being affectionate towards each other. That's a no go. I don't believe that makes me homophobic. Its unrealistic to ask him not to bring a partner home because he will and shit will hit the fan. I don't have any problem with gay people. Its that over the top gay pride shit I don't like.

Oh ok...you made it seem like -


...wait. Over the top gay pride? YOU try going to school with a Black Panther in the 90's and come back to me on that.

There's a new phrase making the rounds called homointolerant. Homophobic is misused.

Homointolerant sounds worse.

A lot worse.



I'd rather just use the word ignant but I don't feel like explaining myself in my convo right now - I got math homework.

For some reason when I hear y'all talk about gays the way you do, I can't help but think about how white folks used to talk about blacks back in the day...

"I can't move into the dorm room because my roommate is black/gay"

Sounds the same to me. You guys really need to get over this homophobic shit. I doubt any of you had ever experienced any violation from someone who is homosexual. Yet you act all scared, like they are gonna pin your black ass down, and rape you in front of your mother or something

Like seriously? Why are you so fucking scared?? You don't have to like them, or like what they do, but quit acting like scared little bitches. This scary ass, "gay man is gonna rape me", or "watch me have sex with my girl", talk is fucking pathetic.

Grow a damn pair. It's a dorm room! FOR SCHOOL! TO LEARN! Keep to yourself, study, and get the fuck out of there. Period. White folks treated us THE SAME DAMN WAY, so you would think we would have some sort of tolerance in these circumstances...

I've said before I don't like equating homosexuality with race but this is my sentiments exactly.

 

[naturalistic]

King James Vr.Mark 9:43
And if thy hand offend thee, cut it off: it is better for thee to enter into life maimed, than having two hands to go into hell, into the fire that never shall be quenched.

I'm offering to help you follow your beliefs to the letter. Isn't that what you're doing when you speak against homosexuals? lol white people and the black people who follow them. White people taught you the book you're following. Why are you speaking about yourself there?

The bible is a spiritual book, to be comprehended by one possessing first a spirit, wisdom and at the very least some common sense. It is a book of metaphors and symbols and literal in places. I've already tried to help you with understanding the meaning to the passage but it seems that went over your head. So as for helping me to follow to the letter, you have already shown yourself an unworthy teacher. As for speaking against homosexuals, it is not just the letter which speaks against them, nature closes it's door to them also, but they refuse to heed the signs.

There is no sin differentiation. All sins are the same in the eyes of god. If only god can judge, and you are not god. Then by you judging is blaspheming. As you are placing yourself in a position akin to god.

Sin ultimately leads men to one destination, but there are sin's in the bible that God does not just call a sin. He called homosexuality an Abomination. He called beastiality confusion. Thieving, lying these are sins yes, but God does not go out his way to then give those sins an extra added statement of repulsion. I'll say this it is a sin God will forgive but not something society should Molly coddle after all we don't Molly coddle murderers do we? As for me judging, I don't need to judge the scriptures was here long before I came here and it will be here when I am gone, it is the text of that book which judges us and seems to be a thorn in the side of the debauched West.


You're stumbling by being here. So put out that thing which causes you to stumble.
Never been a one to turn down good advice, but I feel you have ulterior motive, I get the feeling you don't want me here

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[Art-Retired]

You know what you have to do...

 

[RoadRage]

come on dude, you ran into one self hating gay person and now you dont trust gay people?

Nah he was honest. Matter of fact working nights, me that homo and three females used to have debates, usually they went why do guys do this and why do guys do that. The homo used to try to answer for us guys, and I had to check him, and say dont speak for us strait guys just like I wont speak on you homos.
But he explained to me alot of bullshit I suspected homos did. And trust me when I say this, if your a strait guy, most homos dont give a fuck about you.

 

[Jae]

they have rights to................. I hear you flawless but man i dont hear you. Its just a uncomfortable situation for everybody u cant fuck your girl cuz his gay ass might be under the covers watching! and he better not be fucking nothing! I be damn if im in the same room with all that going on. even if he was on some im bout to have company type shit and they go in the back i dont wanna even want the gay mist on my belongings............

icb......

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I already answered this. Yea it is unrealistic for him to ask me not to bring a woman about. Which is why I said he wouldn't want me to bring a women to a crib and be intimate with her in front of him so why the fuck would I want him to be intimate with his partner?

In that case, if you had a gay roomate and this was agreed upon. There should be no issues.

 

[doggish_098]

I already answered this. Yea it is unrealistic for him to ask me not to bring a woman about. Which is why I said he wouldn't want me to bring a women to a crib and be intimate with her in front of him so why the fuck would I want him to be intimate with his partner?

so you going to go around all backed up because you worried about what the next "man" is doing in his bedroom

get it how you live it and dont worry about nobody else

 

[8/11Streetz]

Learn to tolerate it man. As long as their respectful it's the same as living with a straight person. Ya'll need to make a rule, no hooking up in the room lol. Seriously though it could be a good experience living with somebody who's different than you.

indeed

 

[RoadRage]

Originally Posted by suga
Learn to tolerate it man. As long as their respectful it's the same as living with a straight person. Ya'll need to make a rule, no hooking up in the room lol. Seriously though it could be a good experience living with somebody who's different than you.

Yo when you hear rumors that you go both ways and scrach your head why females thet used to sweat you wont even return your calls, well dont say I didn't tell you so.

 

[doggish_098]

Yo when you hear rumors that you go both ways and scrach your head why females thet used to sweat you wont even return your calls, well dont say I didn't tell you so.

this aint high school is it

 

[hussla's paradice]

interesting

 

[RoadRage]

this aint high school is it

Whats sad is that with all the down-low shit that's circulating, many black females are scared shitless, and when they hear a homo say something they believe that shit 100%. So when I heard it from the mouth of a certified fago who admitted he lied on a strait guy just because he turned him down I was like fuck that shit, I would never allow a homo to get close enough to me that he knows my business.
I am just passing on info I heard, if you do believe me, then hey do what ever you think is right. 'Cause I know what i am going to do.

 

[dailysmoka]

grow up, my man... u r going to find out half the men on campus r on the d/l...

 

[8/11Streetz]

didnt expect it to get to 4 pages i just got outta class i cant read all this tonight


I see i might have ruffled a few feathers well to each his own but i cant do it. Call me homophobic or whatever but i will not be in the same room with a Pootchaser spreading his fairy shit mist around the room. No matter how cool he is. I just dont care to be around them like that. Some of yall cool with letting your rainbow bandana hang out the left pocket of your zebra skin skinny jeans thats okay but i just cant room with you bruh

 

[Big Tex]

Just tell xxxxxxxxlllllllllllllllll to keep that shit to himself.

 

[stickyfingerz]

ONE OF THE HOMMIES HAD THIS PROBLEM..... HE WAS REAL PISSED ABPUT IT... HE COULDNT BEAT THE DUDE DOWN CAUSE HE DIDNT ACTUALLY DO ANTTHING TO HIM NOR DID HE LOOK LIKE A FAG..... SO... I TOLD HIM TO BRING IT TO THE DEAN OF THE DORM ... JUST TRY TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT & SEE IF HE CAN GET ANOTHER ROOM OR A SINGLE ROOM... THE DEANS A FAG!!! TELLS HIM TO DEAL WITH IT... GAY PEOPLE ARE EVERYWHERE... GET USED TO IT........ SON IS ..... SO I TOLD HIM.... TYPE A LETTER... TO THE DEAN OF STUDENTS... EXPLAINING THE SITUATION &HOW YOU FEEL YOU'RE BEING SEXUALLY HARRASED BY YOUR ROOMMATE & THAT YOU BROUGHT IT TO THE DORMS DEAN & EXACTLY WHAT HE SAID TO YOU & HOW HE SAID IT & HOW IT MADE YOU FEEL VICTIMIZED ALL OVER AGAIN...& THAT YOU NOW ASSUME THAT THE SCHOOL PROMOTES AN ATMOSPHERE FOR STRAIGHT MALE STUDENTS TO BE SEXUALLY HARASSED BY THE OBVIOUSLY GAY DORM DIRECTOR & HIS GAY FLUNKIES & GAY MALE STUDENTS THAT LIVE IN YOU'RE DORM.... CC A COPY TO THE DEAN OF THE DORM, THE PROVOST, & THE PRESIDENT.... MAKE AN APPOINTMENT TO SEE THE DEAN OF STUDENTS.... HAD HER THE LETTER.... & SHOW HER THE COPIES OF THE LETTERS TO BE MAILED.... HE DID IT.... HE CAME OUT THE OFFICE LIKE.... SHE ASKED HIM TO PLEASE LEAVE ALL OF THE LETTERS WITH HER AS SHE TORE UP THE ONE THAT SHE JUST READ.... SHE THEN CALLED THE DORM DIRECTOR.... & TOLD HIM TO GET MY DUDE A SINGLE ROOM ON THE TOP FLOOR...... HE SAID WHEN HE GOT TO THE DEANS OFFICE IN THE DORM.... DUDE WAS ... DIDNT EVEN LOOK @ HIM.... TOSSED THE KEYS @ HIM & TOLD HIM THE ROOM #......

FAGGOTS NEED THEIR OWN DORM...... DYKES DO TOO..... THEY SHOULD JUST HAVE A FAGGOT SECTION OF THE CAMPUS.... LIKE A FAGGOT OR QUEER TOWN...THIS WAY... YOU ONLY GOTTA DEAL WITH THEM DURING CLASS TIME... IJS...

shit is serious biz tho....they didnt want him to file a sexual harassment charge & name the school in a lawsuit.. they wouldnt be able to afford it....& in the end .. when it was all said & done... he didnt pay tuition or room & board or the fee for having a single room for the semester......

one night we was blooooowedded & i asked him what the kid was doin...... bwaaaahahahahahahaaaa...... he said.. in the mornings... he'd get up... buddy is sleep wit his face to the window / wall..... ( he got all sorts of victoria secrets body splash on his dresser..... but he didnt have a gf or a jumpoff...) when he would leave to go take a shower.... but when he would come back.... dude would be turned around.... in his direction.... faking like his eye were closed.... but he could feel like someone was watching him... shit went on for about 3 weeks... said he got tired of trying to figure out if it was just him or if it was really dude....it was dude.... never ever seeen that mafukka wit not 1 bitch ever...lol

 

[stickyfingerz]

Whats sad is that with all the down-low shit that's circulating, many black females are scared shitless, and when they hear a homo say something they believe that shit 100%. So when I heard it from the mouth of a certified fago who admitted he lied on a strait guy just because he turned him down I was like fuck that shit, I would never allow a homo to get close enough to me that he knows my business.
I am just passing on info I heard, if you do believe me, then hey do what ever you think is right. 'Cause I know what i am going to do.

WOW SON.........YOU RIGHT THO...... THEY DO SHIT LIKE THAT..... JUST TO HAVE YOU FUCKED UP IN THE MIX... ONCE THAT SHIT GOES VIRAL WIT THE BITCHES ON CAMPUS... ITS A WRAP!!!!!!!!

 

[Drayonis]

FAGGOTS NEED THEIR OWN DORM...... DYKES DO TOO..... THEY SHOULD JUST HAVE A FAGGOT SECTION OF THE CAMPUS.... LIKE A FAGGOT OR QUEER TOWN...THIS WAY... YOU ONLY GOTTA DEAL WITH THEM DURING CLASS TIME... IJS...

Ya'll negros wild.

*On the real I don't want to discriminate on anyone, but I think as people get more open there's bound to be more conflict.

 

[stickyfingerz]

You see ya'll into some Eddie Long hero worship business. I don't hero worship anyone, wasn't how I was raised. So anything you have to say about Eddie Long as really zero to no effect on me in regards to the impact that you require. I will say Men and Women fail that's a given, thats why I don't put my trust in any man like that. The Word of God though that remains.

Old Testament
# Leviticus 18:22
Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.
Leviticus 18:21-23 (in Context) Leviticus 18 (Whole Chapter)
# Leviticus 20:13
If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.
Leviticus 20:12-14


New Testament
25Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.

26For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:

27And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.

28And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;

29Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,

Even Eddie Long and the Pope himself can't change what is written.

I'm surprised at the gay defenders !!!

you need to pm this shit to these faggot loving niggaz that are married to dyke bitches.... faggotry is faggotry.... mafukkaz know they homos but wont admit it... they damn sure support gsy rights / agenda..... they married to dykes....dykes that love real dick....

they not ready...... its gonna be the ones that clown you for posting some bible shit on a porn board ... or someone that dont believe in GOD @ all.....

 

[code_pirahna]

Yeah this has caused a lot of college to have a no sex in the dorms policy...

I don t know what I would have done if I would have had a roomate that had another dude in the bed with him.....that is fucking terrible....

 

[Chitownheadbusa]

On another note....I bet a lot of them gays dudes be fucking a large percentage of the females on campus. That should be a thread...why do more and more Women fuck guys that THEY KNOW or can safely assume is gay? Especially Sista's.

 

[^SpiderMan^]

On another note....I bet a lot of them gays dudes be fucking a large percentage of the females on campus. That should be a thread...why do more and more Women fuck guys that THEY KNOW or can safely assume is gay? Especially Sista's.

I have a cousin that is a complete hoodrat.Multiple kids with dudes who are now serving time.Anyway,now she is engaged to a flaming fag that does hair.I just don't get it.She went from thugs to a homo.

 

[BGcruiser]

Learn to tolerate it man. As long as their respectful it's the same as living with a straight person. Ya'll need to make a rule, no hooking up in the room lol. Seriously though it could be a good experience living with somebody who's different than you.

And pick up their mannerisms, gestures and voice dialects! I DON'T THINK SO!

 

[mark115]

And pick up their mannerisms, gestures and voice dialects! I DON'T THINK SO!

grow up dude, you cant catch it like the flu.

 

[BDR]

On another note....I bet a lot of them gays dudes be fucking a large percentage of the females on campus. That should be a thread...why do more and more Women fuck guys that THEY KNOW or can safely assume is gay? Especially Sista's.

Co sign, thats the bigger issue... Shit is digusting for real

 

[RoadRage]

why do more and more Women fuck guys that THEY KNOW or can safely assume is gay? Especially Sista's.

Because they have been brainwashed to believe that being gay is only a choice of lifestyle not a added risk to catching HIV.

 

[crossroads]

It's all cool until he decides he wants to have company over.

 

[8/11Streetz]

So the plot gets thicker!!!!!!!!!!!


I brought this conversation up with my sister this morning and she told me some shit. My sister was an RA while she was in college and man she said when she use to go to certain niggaz room the shit she would see from gay dudes was crazy. She even said i dont see how a str8 male can live with someone thats flamboyantly gay.

She said one time she went to one of her homeboys dorm and dude was sitting on the coach with a WTF im super pissed off look on his face. She ask him what was wrong he said go in my room. She went and peep in the door it was 2 dudes hug up all on each other in a lil ass twin size bed

NOW REALLY BGOL YOU MEAN TO TELL ME YOU WOULD BE COOL SLEEPING IN THERE..............If you tell me yall cool with it ill delete this thread right now

dude said he aint have no beef with buddy until that shit happen. He said when he went to bed it was just him then he woke up to them to niggaz laying on top of each other snoring

But in the end my sis talked to her boss and got dude up outta there.