Henrica's in Rosedale on Francis Lewis, Chinese Jamaican fusion - used to be Nagasaki. they had a fire last xmas, should have reopened in July or will do so soon. cool spot, live band on Saturday nights.
Moments in Elmont on Old Dutch Broadway - Sunday nights, west indian and most times a mature crowd.
Cabana in Forrest Hills, great food, cuban / caribbean fusion - hot ass waitresses
Peking House on Union Turnpike - great chinese restaurant - very friendly staff and they have a bar.
Riverview in LIC -
www.riverviewny.com -cool lounge/ restaurant - used to have a live jazz band on Sundays, incredible view of the NYC skyline and sunsets, one of the best places in Queens to go in the summer.
Ravel Hotel in LIC -www.ravelhotel.com - rooftop lounge / restaurant - incredible view of NYC skyline and 59th Street Bridge
There are alot of lounges in Astoria, Elmhurst, Maspeth, and Forrest Hills - none stand out to me right now to recommend...