Anyone ever dated a chick thats been raped???

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i've dated 2 before......one being my first wife. not a good look at all....especially the intimacy part of the relationship. they always seem to re-live the moment and the sex just becomes dull. one chick would always tear up and cry, especially if i would pound too hard or have her in a certain position.. its hard to have a relationship with a woman that has been violated in that way. many don't seek counseling or try to get some kinda help afterwards....so it not only affects them in a bad way,....but the person they're with as well.
 
Who hasn't?? Sadly, a high percentage of black women have been molested at some point in their young lives by family, clergy or family friends (and forced to keep quiet about it by the macho society they live in).
 
Kats get on my case about my "pump'em & dump'em" philosophy but these broads have waaaaaaay too much baggage. Like that never ending luggage carousel at the airport. They aren't worth the trouble. Just bang'em out until they pull that "where are we going with this" line and bounce.
 
So how many of y'all have persisted when chick was saying no?

How many of y'all done roughed the puddy?

How many of y'all may have crossed the line between date and date rape ?

How many of y'all heard maybe when she said no ?
 
So how many of y'all have persisted when chick was saying no?

How many of y'all done roughed the puddy?

How many of y'all may have crossed the line between date and date rape ?

How many of y'all heard maybe when she said no ?

I don't rape bitches. I remember back in college this chick was but naked in my bed gettin down. Then all of a sudden she stopped, talkin about it was wrong, then started rambling off scriptures. Had the nerve to ask me what she should do. I told her to GTFO. The bitch wouldn't leave, talkin about how bad of a person I was because all I waned her for was sex. I threatened to call the cops and she gtfo. I'm not trying to catch a case over a Ho.
 
I messed around with a chic once. After we had relations and got to know each other she told me her pops used to molest her as a child. That was the last real time I hung out with her. Fuck dealing with that.
 
So how many of y'all have persisted when chick was saying no? Not Me

How many of y'all done roughed the puddy?She Loved It

How many of y'all may have crossed the line between date and date rape ?Not Me

How many of y'all heard maybe when she said no ?
No Means No
 
So how many of y'all have persisted when chick was saying no?

How many of y'all done roughed the puddy?

How many of y'all may have crossed the line between date and date rape ?

How many of y'all heard maybe when she said no ?

I've seen enough SVU episodes to know that I've raped a few ladies. But I stopped playing those games 3 years ago with delusional brawds.
 
A lot of guys have, but don't know, they just label her crazy...but don't think about what made her crazy.
 
lots...one girl had been stalked and then raped by a serial rapist then testified agianst him. but she didn't have any hangups that i could see...definitely not regarding sex.
 
Alot...the ones that are molested = Freaks that can't control their impulses.

The rape victims are usually emotionally unstable and can freak out at any moment.
 
My guess most have, but the chick is reluctant to say something....especially to her man when she's never came clean to her family
 
Who hasn't?? Sadly, a high percentage of black women have been molested at some point in their young lives by family, clergy or family friends (and forced to keep quiet about it by the macho society they live in).

Ther same applies to women regardless of ethnicity so please drop the ridiculous premise your putting forward.
 
Had THREE of them.

1. Molested as a child. Turned out to be a extremely decent woman with a good head on her shoulders. I dumped her for some freak back in HS.

2. Raped as a teen. Met her after HS and was together for about a year. I fucked her a couple times and she would start crying and give a blank stare. I kept fucking, yep, got my nut and comforted her later. She just graduated college. Still talk to her to this day but she play alot of mind games and munipulative.

3. This bitch here... :smh:. when she was about 16 or 17, she got mad and ran away from some problems at home. Stayed with some friends in another state. That "friend" took her to a party and set her up with a older cat. The nigga slipped her a mickey... took her to the crib and locked her in the basement. He and his 17 year old son took turns going into the basement raping the bitch. This went on for 2 days... said she wasn't in "her right mind" and took that long for the drugs to wear off. She escaped, got them niggas locked up, and went back home to moms. Fast forward... I meet the chick and dated for a few months thought she was cool and well rounded. THEN... one day she start to open up and tell me the story and how she fucked like 40 niggas within a 3 year period to cope with the thought of this (???). Needless to say I smashed a couple more times and got ghost. Even though she claimed to want a relationship and be faithful... She was a true smut and could not be trusted. That head was championship worthy however. :lol:
 
This one chick had to really stop and tell herself "I want this and he's not making me" fucked me up! I still to this day hate fags, rapist and dark chicks all the same..
 
Who hasn't?? Sadly, a high percentage of black women have been molested at some point in their young lives by family, clergy or family friends (and forced to keep quiet about it by the macho society they live in).

Yeah, God knows that the sorry ass mothers who blame them and force them to keep quiet, bares no responsibility in this. :rolleyes:
 
ya, that shit is more common that more cats think. A lot of girls i know have hand some foul shit happen to them.

ive come to realize this too. i mean its WAYYY more common than people think. i just dont understand how u can convince yourself to fuck someone who dont want to fuck u. it just dont work for me :smh:

but alot of females are good at hiding that shit
 
It does, and at the same time, it can be gray.... but of course it's smart to not play in that gray area. If she says no, stop... and for females, if you don't mean no, don't say no (cause honestly, some chicks will be saying no while they're humping your crotch).
When the roles are reversed, it gets even more confusing. Probably TMI, but a few years back, during my one and only one night stand, the chick was sitting on my lap, riding, and for reasons I won't go into, I wanted out of there, so I told her to to stop, and get off me, but she wouldn't, and in the end I had to lift her big ass up off me :lol: (she was beyond thick). I've had women who are militant about "no means no" try to tell me that it wasn't rape in that situation :confused:



No Means No
 
well what is it called when she doesn't say no, she keeps grabbing you and pushing you away at the same time:confused:
 
Most kats probably have and don't know about it.

True because so many don't say, because society always ask the question what did SHE do to cause it. :smh:

So how many of y'all have persisted when chick was saying no?

How many of y'all done roughed the puddy?

How many of y'all may have crossed the line between date and date rape ?

How many of y'all heard maybe when she said no ?

Many won't admit, they've done this.

I've seen enough SVU episodes to know that I've raped a few ladies. But I stopped playing those games 3 years ago with delusional brawds.

At least you're honest.

A lot of guys have, but don't know, they just label her crazy...but don't think about what made her crazy.
Good point Complex

My guess most have, but the chick is reluctant to say something....especially to her man when she's never came clean to her family

Hey Smokeon! But you're right and as I said above, most times friend, family, etc will ask what did she do to cause it, before they even ask if she's ok. So a lot of women just feel the need to be quiet and deal with it internally.
 
well what is it called when she doesn't say no, she keeps grabbing you and pushing you away at the same time:confused:

crazy and that's when you make the decision to get up and leave or ask her does she have a rape fantasy.
 
i had one chick tell me this wild story that i dont even have time to type. Shit was pretty sad when it came down to it i couldnt even fuck her. I was str8 up with her i told her i couldnt smash after what she been through and she understood. But she out in cali doing good for her self im happy for her.
 
Had THREE of them.

1. Molested as a child. Turned out to be a extremely decent woman with a good head on her shoulders. I dumped her for some freak back in HS.

2. Raped as a teen. Met her after HS and was together for about a year. I fucked her a couple times and she would start crying and give a blank stare. I kept fucking, yep, got my nut and comforted her later. She just graduated college. Still talk to her to this day but she play alot of mind games and munipulative.

3. This bitch here... :smh:. when she was about 16 or 17, she got mad and ran away from some problems at home. Stayed with some friends in another state. That "friend" took her to a party and set her up with a older cat. The nigga slipped her a mickey... took her to the crib and locked her in the basement. He and his 17 year old son took turns going into the basement raping the bitch. This went on for 2 days... said she wasn't in "her right mind" and took that long for the drugs to wear off. She escaped, got them niggas locked up, and went back home to moms. Fast forward... I meet the chick and dated for a few months thought she was cool and well rounded. THEN... one day she start to open up and tell me the story and how she fucked like 40 niggas within a 3 year period to cope with the thought of this (???). Needless to say I smashed a couple more times and got ghost. Even though she claimed to want a relationship and be faithful... She was a true smut and could not be trusted. That head was championship worthy however. :lol:

:eek::eek:
 
Didn't read through the post so dont know if anyone said it..but I dated a chick for like 2-3 years that one day couldn't do it anymore. Long story short after a little over a year, she basically admitted she made the whole thing up:eek::smh: Needless to say fucked my whole world up. I believe i start a thread about something like this a while ago.
 
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It does, and at the same time, it can be gray.... but of course it's smart to not play in that gray area. If she says no, stop... and for females, if you don't mean no, don't say no (cause honestly, some chicks will be saying no while they're humping your crotch).
When the roles are reversed, it gets even more confusing. Probably TMI, but a few years back, during my one and only one night stand, the chick was sitting on my lap, riding, and for reasons I won't go into , I wanted out of there, so I told her to to stop, and get off me, but she wouldn't, and in the end I had to lift her big ass up off me :lol: (she was beyond thick). I've had women who are militant about "no means no" try to tell me that it wasn't rape in that situation :confused:

Aw bruuuh! She was fat and stanky?!!!... :lol::lol::lol:
 
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