Anyone ever dated a chick thats been raped???

[marca]

Most kats probably have and don't know about it.

C/S

So how many of y'all have persisted when chick was saying no?

How many of y'all done roughed the puddy?

How many of y'all may have crossed the line between date and date rape ?

How many of y'all heard maybe when she said no ?

too many say yes to pursue a no
honestly its always scared me cause if she ever called rape now she got bruises to back it up
fuck that walk away

Alot...the ones that are molested = Freaks that can't control their impulses.

The rape victims are usually emotionally unstable and can freak out at any moment.

cause they hid that shit and never sought out help

Ther same applies to women regardless of ethnicity so please drop the ridiculous premise your putting forward.

C/S

ive come to realize this too. i mean its WAYYY more common than people think. i just dont understand how u can convince yourself to fuck someone who dont want to fuck u. it just dont work for me

but alot of females are good at hiding that shit

C/S

It does, and at the same time, it can be gray.... but of course it's smart to not play in that gray area. If she says no, stop... and for females, if you don't mean no, don't say no (cause honestly, some chicks will be saying no while they're humping your crotch).
When the roles are reversed, it gets even more confusing. Probably TMI, but a few years back, during my one and only one night stand, the chick was sitting on my lap, riding, and for reasons I won't go into, I wanted out of there, so I told her to to stop, and get off me, but she wouldn't, and in the end I had to lift her big ass up off me (she was beyond thick). I've had women who are militant about "no means no" try to tell me that it wasn't rape in that situation

i dont play those games, was hanging with a woman at her place, we chillin talking , she was tired, she stretch out on the bed and fell asleep. i bounced. next day she asked why i left, u didnt invite me in your bed we never had intimate contact before that and i dont need you waking up screaming rape.

 

[Cock Head Jones]

So how many of y'all have persisted when chick was saying no?

How many of y'all done roughed the puddy?

How many of y'all may have crossed the line between date and date rape ?

How many of y'all heard maybe when she said no ?

Please also include your ip address at the end of this survey.

 

[Deacs]

I have experience with only one I know of, and it is a trying perdicament. I had to deal with intimacy issues, trust issues, couldn't do simple things like kiss her on the head when she sleep, etc. I would not recommend it, but since I only have the one experience and with the constant frustration which came from having a normal relationship... hell I double the recommendation.

 

[crossovernegro]

lol.... nah, she wasn't stanky thankfully.... and not huge, but put it this way, I went outside of my usual standards for size/weight....she was like Queen Latifah's size/shape.

Aw bruuuh! She was fat and stanky?!!!...

 

[guyver]

g1. will fuck anyone and is a drinker.
g2. seemed normal didnt drink because thats how she got raped but was very gifted except the head.

g3. i came home from work while she was sleep in my bed with a light on. i turned the light off and brursed her face. she wakes up with a really panic look until she figures it was me and she still had her clothes on. the next morning i asked her about it joking to get her to tell me because i figured something had to happen to her. at first she tried to say i scared her and she wasn't use to my spot. l tell her from her reaction i thought maybe she'd been raped before. her reply was who said i hadn't been. she wouldn't say anything else about it so im not sure if something happened or if she was just playing but she was bi and from understanding only fuck females now.

 

[Rossini]

So how many of y'all have persisted when chick was saying no?

 

[mk23666]

Yep, I dated her when we were teenagers. She was raped by her older brother's best friend when she was a pre-teen. (Fatherless household) It went on for a year or so and she never told anybody. She became a cold stone freak from that experience, from the way she dressed to the way she acted around guys. She was always cheating on her boyfriends (including me) So I had to let her go for fear of STDs and I couldn't trust her.

Oh yeah, she ended up getting sent to Iraq during this last Gulf War and was raped over there too. They eventually sent her home early cause she had a breakdown. She seems to hang around more women than men now.

 

[K Luv]

OP why you marry her then if you knew how it was?

 

[dat_cartel_boi]

I'm sure quite a few. You'll be surprised these days

 

[guyver]

It does, and at the same time, it can be gray.... but of course it's smart to not play in that gray area. If she says no, stop... and for females, if you don't mean no, don't say no (cause honestly, some chicks will be saying no while they're humping your crotch).
When the roles are reversed, it gets even more confusing. Probably TMI, but a few years back, during my one and only one night stand, the chick was sitting on my lap, riding, and for reasons I won't go into, I wanted out of there, so I told her to to stop, and get off me, but she wouldn't, and in the end I had to lift her big ass up off me (she was beyond thick). I've had women who are militant about "no means no" try to tell me that it wasn't rape in that situation

depending on the state or even county women cant rape men. at best she would be charged with sexual assault.

 

[SpiritualPorn]

ya, that shit is more common that more cats think. A lot of girls i know have hand some foul shit happen to them.

For real....

The OP should have asked.....

Ever dated a chick that HASN'T been raped

 

[J.E.T.S]

lol.... nah, she wasn't stanky thankfully.... and not huge, but put it this way, I went outside of my usual standards for size/weight....she was like Queen Latifah's size/shape.

 

[tical]

Yep, I dated her when we were teenagers. She was raped by her older brother's best friend when she was a pre-teen. (Fatherless household) It went on for a year or so and she never told anybody. She became a cold stone freak from that experience, from the way she dressed to the way she acted around guys. She was always cheating on her boyfriends (including me) So I had to let her go for fear of STDs and I couldn't trust her.

Oh yeah, she ended up getting sent to Iraq during this last Gulf War and was raped over there too. They eventually sent her home early cause she had a breakdown. She seems to hang around more women than men now.

What species was she?

 

[crossovernegro]

Is that actually state/county laws on the books though? Not arguing with you, but if there are any actual state or county laws that you know of that specifically say women can't rape men, can you post them, because I'd be interested in reading up. thanks

Edit...this was in NJ... from what I can tell, the NJ statue isn't gender specific, but I see that in Georgia, they do specifically say (not in these exact words, but....) "when a man forces a woman". ...but in NJ, that big bitch could have been prosecuted .

depending on the state or even county women cant rape men. at best she would be charged with sexual assault.

 

[mk23666]

What species was she?

Human hybrid

 

[Rocky Miavia]

And I don't believe them anyway. In my 10 years of dating I've met at least 3 rape victims per year.

Wow, I thought I was the only one encountering that bullshit.

 

[guyver]

Is that actually state/county laws on the books though? Not arguing with you, but if there are any actual state or county laws that you know of that specifically say women can't rape men, can you post them, because I'd be interested in reading up. thanks

Edit...this was in NJ... from what I can tell, the NJ statue isn't gender specific, but I see that in Georgia, they do specifically say (not in these exact words, but....) "when a man forces a woman". ...but in NJ, that big bitch could have been prosecuted .

im from the dmv so of the top of my head im not sure but i think it was pg county md. the program i was a part of gave out booklets regarding the issue so when i get a chance ill see if i can find the info.

 

[ScottyPiffen745]

Yeah, she always acted crazy, a bit childish at times, but I thought maybe she just had a fun personality. She would also talk about sex a lot like she's this sex goddess (when it's the right guy, I guess) but then she'd shut down any sexual advances I'd attempt.

 

[Coldchi]

OP why you marry her then if you knew how it was?

because she liked to swallow and take it up the ass.




nah but for real.....it was after the fact. but it wasn't why we ended up gettin a divorce.

 

[NICKLEBAGKILLA]

I dated a chick who was anally raped. She was like no anal sex which was cool with me cuz I'm not really into that. But first time I went over her house she hid all the knives in the house....

 

[Flawless]

does it count if you are the one that raped her?

 

[Esquire1978]

Most of the women I've dated have been. Sad but true...

 

[Cock Head Jones]

honestly i think theres alot of sick shit that goes on (that gets swept under the rug) in the hood...between rape, molestation, incest, oldheads openly fucking young girls because he's breaking the girl off with $$ and the girl is breaking her mom off. momma boyfriends fucking with her kids and momma turning a blind eye...

i guess its the same in trailer parks of america and in the mountains with them dirty inbred cacs that look like the hills have eyes n shit.

 

[smiffnwessun]

So let me get this straight cats are up in here confessing to rape? I wonder if y'all would be so forthcoming if you were locked up for rape to a fellow inmate. It just shows which cats are diehard attention whores.

 

[Dirty Dade]

Of course! This is America!

 

[GreedySmurf]

my ex wife

ditto

Don't ever wife up a female who has gone through that shit. Marriage is hard enough...

 

[unlurked2007]

I messed around with a chic once. After we had relations and got to know each other she told me her pops used to molest her as a child. That was the last real time I hung out with her. Fuck dealing with that.

Me too, except she said it was her uncle. I refused dealing with that emotional rollercoaster. ALL do respect to rape and molestation victims but I wouldn't want to be the rebound in that scenario.

 

[JD Walker]

honestly i think theres alot of sick shit that goes on (that gets swept under the rug) in the hood...between rape, molestation, incest, oldheads openly fucking young girls because he's breaking the girl off with $$ and the girl is breaking her mom off. momma boyfriends fucking with her kids and momma turning a blind eye...

i guess its the same in trailer parks of america and in the mountains with them dirty inbred cacs that look like the hills have eyes n shit.

You're right. I always hear about this shit going on, fortunately I've never witnessed it. But how shitty of a parent are you to allow your seed to get molested? And you know these bitches who were abused will mimic the same behavior when they become mothers.

 

[geechiedan]

gatdayum..the fucking sympathy in this thread...

and some you guys can't understand how someone like tyler perry can capitalize on the ill feelings of hurt and damaged black women..

hint: its because some of you have all the sympathy of a brick.

 

[lightbright]

I have....and she was supposedly "mentally[/i" cured of it.....then one day when she was riding me....she just blanked out and started crying mommie...............

Most kats probably have and don't know about it.

And I don't believe them anyway. In my 10 years of dating I've met at least 3 rape victims per year.

Ninja you'd be amazed at how many have been raped.....truthfully.....a lot of ninjas don't know that "No" means "No" and will just take the pussy....it ain't always by a stranger....

They carry that shit like an albatross.

Be prepared for an Emotional Rollercoaster.

 

[Deacs]

Being sympathetic is one thing, but if the trauma from the rape is affecting the relationship then dude is recieving punishment for a crime he did not permit, and that's what you are hearing. I do believe or rather hope to believe that none of us men are rapists..

 

[tmp1971]

I have kicked it 2 that were molested and 5 that were raped. They all had serious issues. Just glad I didn't have kids by them. They either suffered severe relationship issues, especially intimacy. Had I probed a little more I still would have fucked them but it would have been one and done situations.

 

[marcvoi]

I dated a chick who was anally raped. She was like no anal sex which was cool with me cuz I'm not really into that. But first time I went over her house she hid all the knives in the house....

damm

 

[geechiedan]

Being sympathetic is one thing, but if the trauma from the rape is affecting the relationship then dude is recieving punishment for a crime he did not permit, and that's what you are hearing. I do believe or rather hope to believe that none of us men are rapists..

i don't think anyone has raped a chick (at least i hope) but if you consider dealing with her issues as punishment...thats what I'm talking about..

 

[Deacs]

i don't think anyone has raped a chick (at least i hope) but if you consider dealing with her issues as punishment...thats what I'm talking about..

Well... if she juxtapose her anger, bitterness, and distrust on to the male which she is with, then that is an issue. Wouldn't be any different than a person going through a bitter divorce and takes that baggage into the next relationship.