Hmmmm, your opinion is noted, but Id say your off by allot in your stats, and everyone has the capacity to cheat, excluding noone. As long as your aware of this and you use your intuition youll never "be that guy"
Why Do Women Cheat?
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Hmmmm, your opinion is noted, but Id say your off by allot in your stats, and everyone has the capacity to cheat, excluding noone. As long as your aware of this and you use your intuition youll never "be that guy"
Maybe its you and not him mediocore pussy will cause any man to fuck mediocore. A matter of fact alot of you chicks need to tighten up your vaginas shit be looking like roast beef hanging out and shit.
come on man... personal responsibility.
I think the best thing would have been not to cheat. You should have left him and found someone after. This is how men try to justify shit. However I can't hate because I did the same shit before. Props on your honesty.
Thanks...well, I did leave. I do have a temporary love thing my "maintenance man" going on til I find a new man. But I just cannot give my heart away again like that. This happened to me twice in my lifetime. Faithful to my first for 10 years. Then faithful to my EX fiance for almost 6. Fuck that, not gonna let this happen to me again. I'd be a damn fool! Thanks again for the feed back.
Hey I been thru the same more than once and I am pretty much the same way you are except not really bitter. The main thing is I in fact refuse to make any type of monogomous agreement with any man as I trust not one of them to hold up their end and I am not going thru that ever again.
OOoo-WEE! U sayin 90-95% of women cheat only after all else has failed?!
Don't buleee DAT, pimp! You settin ya self up for a fall, EARLY.
Women can be the most clever, seamless, discreet cheaters on the planet.
In fact some of their anger at catching men cheating stems from "You sloppy, stupid, embarrassment! If you were gonna do it, you could at least have covered your tracks--spared me the humiliation..."
Bruh, you win the award for one of the most accurate post of the year. Most women are guilty of doing this. I call it cross transitioning of relationships. LOL And what pisses me off is these women think they aren't cheating when they do it.
A dude in the married thread mentioned how most guy don't even his girl is making plans to move on.
There is even a chart on it.
Oh and BTW. Most of the time when women cheats, emotions are involved. That's why I always say it is worse when a woman cheats. A guy can have sex with a girl and not even care if she is stranded in the cold afterwards but will go home and take a bullet for his wife.
Wow that chart is the SHIT.
LMAO at this diagram!
Thanks. I realize that now. It was stupid to stay there when I wasn't happy. . But hey. . . learning experiences.
Women cheat because they love getting away with shit. Most women get caught only after telling what happened because they feel they can pretty much explain their way out of it. Its like being 007 to them. They got a story to tell their girlfriends. They walk around their man and look at him with the squint eyed evil look like "he has no idea" then do the evil laugh. Its a rush to do something that's wrong and get away with it. If you robbed a bank and got away can you imagine the rush, same shit. Maybe there are some deep underlying feelings to it too. Women can reason their way into doing all kinds of shit. As long as the explaination is good enough for them that's all that matters. Whether or not you get it really doesn't matter, because any woman they tell why they did it will be like "yeah girl I see what you saying".
Aint that the muthafuckin truth. Ive had friend explain that they cheated because, she wanted to see if she could get this guy her friend said wouldnt bite. I asked her if her man wasnt doing something and she was like not really, we actually have a good relationship, so I asked how the sex was, she said it was great. So I asked why she felt the need to cheat if shit was cool, she was like I cant stand the way that bitch thinks she can get anyone she sets her sights on, she thought he was gay, I said maybe he just didnt like you, she said no he must be gay, so I wanted to prove her wrong.
Sorry ladies but that was one of the dumbest reasons to fuck up a decent relationship Ive ever heard, but Im sure some of you can rationalize doing it though.
Boy I swear women aint shit, not all, but most.
Aint that the muthafuckin truth. Ive had friend explain that they cheated because, she wanted to see if she could get this guy her friend said wouldnt bite. I asked her if her man wasnt doing something and she was like not really, we actually have a good relationship, so I asked how the sex was, she said it was great. So I asked why she felt the need to cheat if shit was cool, she was like I cant stand the way that bitch thinks she can get anyone she sets her sights on, she thought he was gay, I said maybe he just didnt like you, she said no he must be gay, so I wanted to prove her wrong.
There is a huge amount of women whose #1 problem is giving too much of a fuck about impressing / listening to / living for their friends.
This too. Though I'd say "some" not all.
I cheated on my high school boyfriend when I was in college. He cheated on me/did me wrong, and I hadn't really gotten over it. At a party, met this guy who I was really just physically attracted to.. We chilled a few times, banged a few times, and then the boyfriend found out... I'm a HORRIBLE liar, so it wasn't shit I could do to cover it up... we broke up.. still was kickin it... got back together...HE cheated again...
shit happens.. you live, you learn, oh well...
it wasn't that he didn't satisfy me sexually, or an I'm gonna get him back situation, I just did it.. no reason.
shit happens.. you live, you learn, oh well...
it wasn't that he didn't satisfy me sexually, or an I'm gonna get him back situation, I just did it.. no reason.
Man made laws have our minds screwed up. I don't believe humans are meant to be monogamous.
I'm hearing a few cats speak on this subject and they know whats up. Women cheat for the same reasons dudes do. Wanna impress their friends, bored in the relationship, not getting the attention they need, the thrill of rebelliousness, revenge, lack of respect for themselves and/or their mate, etc. There is no one reason why women cheat just like there is no one reason why dudes cheat. Women are too complicated to just put them in a box and say "well they only cheat because". If this was the case, cheating women would be a rarity. I work for a corporation with tons of women. I see all kinds of dirt from women in relationships and marriages. Someone earlier said only 5-10% of women cheat. at that bs statistic. Women are no more "moral" than men. Aren't we on a porn site dedicated to women?
at that bs statistic. Women are no more "moral" than men. Aren't we on a porn site dedicated to women?Why do women cheat? Its the same story different moment. Everyone blame the other party for their cheating. Cheating is a Character flaw of the cheating party. No excusing it away. You have many option in a bad relationship, leave, counseling, talking by sharing of the microscopic truth, surrender to love, heal your passed demons, but cheating is not a option. If you result to cheating, you are the problem and not he/she. Never take the blame for someone elses cheating. That's their deep issue problem. Cheating is a character defect that can only be dealt with by going within and doing some serious soul certain. Until we face this, the self sabotaging behaviors will continue. Many people go through the same relationship problems but they don’t cheat and you don’t have to either.The moral to this story is: You are the Cause for all the things in your life.
that's soul searching.
AlexandMorgan
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Well, my 2 Cents:
Most women very rarely cheat.For this category to cheat, all else has failed and seek to fill the "LOST VOID"
If a woman cheats it could be for any damn reason she wants it to be. Could have been a big dick she always wanted to try, he said the right words or made the right moves at the right time, he was there, revenge but it all ties back into opportunity. For some women it is pretty simple it was there so i took the chance.
Bottom line sex is a weapon to those that do it, so they use it as such. A woman may fuck around on you but she will usually never leave you unless it is for a better deal.
Yes i said it. She aint moving out of no three bedroom house for no shitty one bedroom apartment no matter how big his dick is or how long the tongue unless u are a real degenerate rasshole.
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Some of you cats are dumb as hell. Quit letting these women hype your heads up with that bullshit that they only cheated because of _________...fuck that they cheat the same reason men do, cuz they want to. There is no fucking excuse, and I get tired of women trying to get away with making them. Guess why i fuck other women, cuz i wanted some other pussy. If the woman I have isn't satisfying me in a certain capacity I can stick with her, or tell her I don't want her and move on. I don't have to cheat, unless I make the decision to, and women don't either.
I agree. As well as I think there are other reasons - something lacking from their current relationship, craves attention from other men, greed, low self-esteem (meaning they may use sex as a way of defining themselves), etc. It just depends on the woman.
Don't forget about money. They cheat because of that, too---even when the sex is good. I knew that wasn't a problem with this one girl I was with in my early 20's. She used to tell me her past boyfriends would be jealous of me because she let me hit it more than anybody and that I was best.
Before she finally stepped off (which took a while for her to do), she would always bug me about my money and getting a job cuz I didn't feel like working at the time.
Before she finally stepped off (which took a while for her to do), she would always bug me about my money and getting a job cuz I didn't feel like working at the time.
You got it right. I never cheated before, that was my dumb ass fault. I will NEVER EVER be faithful to another man again for the rest of my life. I was neglected sexually for a brief period of time, but thought I could be patient and work it out. Eventually things got better. Then I found out he was screwing around on me.
I had plenty of opportunities to cheat, but I thought I had a good man that did not deserve to be disrespected or dogged out. If I had done my share of dirt, I don't think I would have been as devastated as I was when I learned he was fucking around like he was.
Women cheat for many different reasons, but greed is not usually one of them. Men usually cheat for no other reason but greed. Now that I understand the rules, Ima just treat them the same way they treat us.
Dat's right, I'M BITTER!
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Some Women cheat just because of the thrill - Cheating is an addiction just like drugs,alcohol ,gambling
shit happens ,but for some people its an addiction - thrill of the chase ,doing something in secret ..and the danger of possibly getting caught
but ladies always try to make it seem like -- Only Men cheat
a Woman can be has "Whorish" as A Man
Yea I have been cheated on - I was working all the time and she felt neglected - I felt her slipping away ,but once it gets to that point
its hard to repair the relationship
shit happens ,but for some people its an addiction - thrill of the chase ,doing something in secret ..and the danger of possibly getting caught
but ladies always try to make it seem like -- Only Men cheat
a Woman can be has "Whorish" as A Man
Yea I have been cheated on - I was working all the time and she felt neglected - I felt her slipping away ,but once it gets to that point
its hard to repair the relationship
Co-Sizzle
BINGO!!! Someone who understands the game. Woman are some of the most manipulative creatures on the planet. Woman cheat for the exact same reason men do. Like the post above they cheat because they wanted to. Woman always hide behind the excuse of "Emotions" Well he is not treating me right. Some woman think men are Dr Phil.
preach