This seems to be my one big hurdle in getting with someone and making it last. Women nowadays seems to have way too many guy friends. No matter what a woman tells me about them, I know that the guy she considers "just a friend" is either someone she's been fuckin, or is now tryna fuck. I know cause i've been that guy before.
But where do you draw the line when it comes to having male friends in a relationship? Do you tone it down a notch? Do you keep doing you and make the nigga adjust to it?
And what is the motivation in having them for you women? Are we truly plan b? Just in case shit goes sour with the front line nigga?
I feel like in order to keep any chick I get with in check, I gotta keep my girl friends around to let her know what the deal is. That in itself feels low, but what else is a nigga to do? Its like fighting fire with fire, and the whole time i'm asking, if this is suppose to work what the hell are we fighting for??
I think I need to find me a nun.
Peace.
But where do you draw the line when it comes to having male friends in a relationship? Do you tone it down a notch? Do you keep doing you and make the nigga adjust to it?
And what is the motivation in having them for you women? Are we truly plan b? Just in case shit goes sour with the front line nigga?
I feel like in order to keep any chick I get with in check, I gotta keep my girl friends around to let her know what the deal is. That in itself feels low, but what else is a nigga to do? Its like fighting fire with fire, and the whole time i'm asking, if this is suppose to work what the hell are we fighting for??
I think I need to find me a nun.
Peace.