The value of the wine is in the bottle.
The legacy he left and the lives he touched is what made him who he is.
There is no life without death, transfiguration...... and the impact we make while we are here gives us life forever through the thoughts and memories we leave.
There is no death, energy is neither created nor destroyed. Today his energy will still be felt.
We are all a piece of him, all of humanity. Love the live he lived, we are all but passing through.
I pray we are all at peace when that time comes for all of us.
He would want you to keep the life he lived in remembrance and not his death.
Celebrate his life.
Don't give death power, claim it back.
This written by a man who lost his father, whose father never got a chance to see his seed blossom.
I'm still trying to make him proud, living the way he would want me too and that is his legacy.
I don't grieve for his passing but rather thank him for the sacrifice he made to show me another way of life.........
We can only live to put our own brick upon the wall of life........
Be strong for his kids and your kids sake, that is what he would want.
Travel light
Bless.
Kaya.
This is too much....I cant go to the funeral...He would not want a open casket, when he was so damaged...He would not want that. His mom wont not listen.
I cant deal with this.....
How am I going to go to this funeral? I am sick at the stomach. I am sorry for venting on BGOL...I have no where else to vent to.
The body that will be there is NOT my man..Only a shell.
I have so many emotions........so many...I think I am loosing my mind.
This is too much....I cant go to the funeral...He would not want a open casket, when he was so damaged...He would not want that. His mom wont not listen.
I cant deal with this.....
I have giving this a lot of thought. I was the on his speaker phone when the truck crashed into him. I heard his last words. Why did God make me the one to hear this I don't know. But I do know this-he suffered major head trauma. I know that his head was split open and he was not in good shape. He said repeatedly that he didn't like funerals because he didn't want to remember the person that way. So why his mom is insisting on a open casket is beyond me. Me nor his ex wife will be attending. I can not go to the funeral but I will have my own memorial for him. My own way.
But sis dont you think he would want you there?? And how about the kids, wouldnt he want them there and dont they want to be there??
Maybe you can go and not look in the casket??
And you hearing his last words is very fitting .. consider it a gift
I have giving this a lot of thought. I was the on his speaker phone when the truck crashed into him. I heard his last words. Why did God make me the one to hear this I don't know. But I do know this-he suffered major head trauma. I know that his head was split open and he was not in good shape. He said repeatedly that he didn't like funerals because he didn't want to remember the person that way. So why his mom is insisting on a open casket is beyond me. Me nor his ex wife will be attending. I can not go to the funeral but I will have my own memorial for him. My own way.