Faking Orgasm

SEXY_SCORPIO

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What a surprise? I see I'm not the only one! :yes: So yes ladies its a two way street. Men sometimes have to do these things to soothe your egos too. Then some of you have the nerve to be asking "is it good daddy?" :eek: P-L-E-A-S-E !!!

What do you want us to say?

"Bitch please get the fuck off of me with that dead ass pussy or I've had better?" Especially to those of you with weak head games. Then ask "emm how was that?" Didn't you hear me snoring?

or maybe

"Please, just stop. I just can't take it anymore. This is just not working for me. STOP IT NOW" :rolleyes:

So just stop with the male bashing because some of your sistas are just as inept as the men your talking about! :hmm:


Who the fuck is male bashing?? Me personally would rather a man tell me he isn't enjoying it so I can either correct it or get the fuck up.
 

Buttnaked

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I have faked quite a few orgasms for various reasons. If I'm tired and just want it to be over I will fake it so he hurries up and finishes. If I want to stroke his ego I'll fake it so he feels like he's "the man." If he keeps asking me "did you cum yet?" I'll say yes so he'll stop asking. I know it's lying, but sometimes it's just necessary.

Have any of you other ladies faked it?

when i saw this topic, i just had to add my 2 bits...

as a man who has been fortunate enough to mostly have been w/women who are free enough physically, psychologically, and emotionally to have multiple orgasms, fakin' O's is not the way to go...EVER...

i have told my wife for years, i could care less if i nut when i'm gettin' it in. why? quite simply because i can nut by my goddamned self. i've got 2 hands and i ain't scared of my own dick. cats front & act like they don't spank the mizonk, but fuck it, i do. i ain't ashamed & i ain't mad. it's a different kind of nut...kinda like nuttin' from oral is different from nuttin' from pussy.

anyways, since i can make myself cum, my goal when gettin' my poke on is for my partner to cum as frequently as physically and psychologically possible. with the exception of 1 ex who had serious enough emotional issues to where she had nut back up, and 1 other ex who was a virgin when we met (her cooch would shut down after 1 nut :(), i have been blessed as stated above.

you are only shortchanging yourself as a sexual being when you lie to a partner about your sexual interactions. it is never necessary. if you find it is, then your physical relationship ain't shit. it is severely lacking and you ought to either roll the fuck out, find a way to communicate more openly, or go get some serious counseling (if it's that serious and/or a long-term relationship). i value my sex too highly to lie or be lied to about some shit like that.

i think faking O's is worse than lying on your dick, or talking shit about your sexual prowess w/o backing it up. you hurt yourself by depriving you partner of the information they need to make the pokin' a mutually pleasurable experience. in the end, you're really the person who's suffering.

if you aren't fully enjoying getting it in, why in the hell are you even being bothered? for example, i don't eat pussy just because it makes women cum all over my chin. i do it because i really dig to the utmost the placing of a woman's vagina in my grill while i'm doing what i do w/my mouthpiece. it ain't nothing fake or pretentious about it.

STOP FAKING O'S!
STOP ROBBING YOURSELVES!
TELL THE DAMN TRUTH...
MAKE THAT NIGGA WORK...:lol:

seriously though...:cool:
 
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SinaminDelite

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when i saw this topic, i just had to add my 2 bits...

as a man who has been fortunate enough to mostly have been w/women who are free enough physically, psychologically, and emotionally to have multiple orgasms, fakin' O's is not the way to go...EVER...

i have told my wife for years, i could care less if i nut when i'm gettin' it in. why? quite simply because i can nut by my goddamned self. i've got 2 hands and i ain't scared of my own dick. cats front & act like they don't spank the mizonk, but fuck it, i do. i ain't ashamed & i ain't mad. it's a different kind of nut...kinda like nuttin' from oral.

anyways, since i can make myself cum, my goal when gettin' my poke on is for my partner to cum as frequently as physically and psychologically possible. with the exception of 1 ex who had serious enough emotional issues to where she had nut back up issues, and 1 other ex who was a virgin when we met (her cooch would shut down after 1 nut :(), i have been blessed as stated above.

you are only shortchanging yourself as a sexual being when you lie to a partner about your sexual interactions. it is never necessary. if you find it is, then your physical relationship ain't shit. it is severely lacking and you ought to either roll the fuck out, find a way to communicate more openly, or go get some serious counseling (if it's that serious and long-term of a relationship). i value my sex to highly to lie about some shit like that.

i think faking O's is worse than lying on your dick, or talking shit about your sexual prowess w/o backing it up. you hurt yourself by depriving you partner of the information they need to make the pokin' a mutually pleasurable experience.

if you aren't fully enjoying getting it in, why in the hell are you even being bothered? for example, i don't eat pussy just because it makes women cum all over my chin. i do it because i really dig to the utmost the placing of a woman's vagina in my grill while i'm doing what i do w/my mouthpiece. it ain't nothing fake or pretentious about it.

STOP FAKING O'S!
STOP ROBBING YOURSELVES!
TELL THE DAMN TRUTH...
MAKE THAT NI**A WORK...:lol:

seriously though...:cool:

So damn true.
 

INVICTUS3RD

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Aw....this is so cute. The men getting their little feelings hurt :lol:

AND THIS IS THE BULLSHIT RIGHT HERE...LADIES, DESPITE WHAT A MAN SAYS OR DOES, WE HAVE FEELINGS AND ARE NOT FAGGOTS OR WIMPS WHEN WE EXPRESS THEM...

SO LADIES, U DO NOT HAVE TO BE NASTY ABOUT IF THE SEX IS TRASH...HAVE A NICE LONG TALK WITH HOMEBOY, IF HE IS OF SOME IMPORTANCE TO YOU, AND WORK WITH HIM...AND IF HE GIVES A DAMN AND WANTS TO BE THAT MUTHAFUCKER RIGHT THERE FOR U, THEN MOST LIKELY IT WILL HAPPEN...IF NOT, THEN AT LEAST U HAVE EACH OTHER'S RESPECT AND NOT HAVE EACH OTHER IN CROSS HAIRS.

AND LEADS ME TO SOMETHING ELSE...THESE WOMEN THAT SAY THE LICK EACH OTHER CAUSE A MAN DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO SATISFY THEM...ARE THE MOST IGNORANT, RABBIT ASS, WOMEN.
SEE...THEY ARE SUPPRESSING SUM SHIT ABOUT THEMSELVES THAT THEY REFUSE TO CONFRONT!
AND THAT IS SUM BULLSHIT RIGHT THUR!!!
 

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Man I feel for you women that are not getting off that is so easily for men to do. It's a disservice to you women. Men on this board and those who care to share with their guys, pick up a copy of David Shade's masterful-lover.com or davidshade.com

This stuff actually works, all you need it dedication and committment, everything else will follow through. Shit, women will be after your ass all the time :) Have them distracted during their work day is what you want them to be :)

James
 

Izayoi

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What do you want us to say?

"Nigga get the fuck off of me with that wack ass flaccid piece of penis?"

or maybe

"Please, just stop. I just can't take it anymore. This is just not working for me. STOP IT NOW"

:lol::lol::lol: Damn! Femme is something else!

:dunno:

Then why fuck? Is it that women can't separate sex from emotions? I would think sex would be a great escape/stress reliever.......school me please.

Sex is a great stress reliever


Ladies...I gotta give my 2 on this one. Here is a question: What about communication and understanding???? So far I have not read where anyone of you sisters have said, " I had to fake, 'cause I sat down and TALKED to my partner and SHOWED him what makes me happy and he has not, or refused to comply or just does not get it!"

If you did that and he still does not get you off, then Houston...we got a problem.

As a man who prides himself on making a woman happy, you gotta talk to me. You have to talk to me, you gotta show me, 'cause I want to make you happy! That faking orgasms and lying in the bedroom sucks.



c/S 100%!!!!! communication...sometimes though one has communicated and it's still wack :( Then its a really bad situation. If you hurt someone's sexual self esteem they are that much less likely to enjoy or place importance on you enjoying the experience. Some people will avoid sex altogether rather than feel like he/she is not doing it "right." Then everybody is angry and bitter- not a good look. At that point, I recommend seeing a professional couple's therapist, because it is very hard to be objective with hurt feelings.

I don't fake orgasms. I've never had to even when the sex was wack. I am determined to get mine. As long as the ninja isn't hurting me, I slip off into my favorite porno fantasy and yeah I can get it. I can only multi though when I'm really feeling him and the exchange, but certainly one off sheer imagination and will power alone. I'll be damned if I'm going to walk away empty handed. :hmm: The downside is, the ninja thinks he did something for me- uh no, it was all in my mind :D
 

INVICTUS3RD

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when i saw this topic, i just had to add my 2 bits...

as a man who has been fortunate enough to mostly have been w/women who are free enough physically, psychologically, and emotionally to have multiple orgasms, fakin' O's is not the way to go...EVER...

i have told my wife for years, i could care less if i nut when i'm gettin' it in. why? quite simply because i can nut by my goddamned self. i've got 2 hands and i ain't scared of my own dick. cats front & act like they don't spank the mizonk, but fuck it, i do. i ain't ashamed & i ain't mad. it's a different kind of nut...kinda like nuttin' from oral.

anyways, since i can make myself cum, my goal when gettin' my poke on is for my partner to cum as frequently as physically and psychologically possible. with the exception of 1 ex who had serious enough emotional issues to where she had nut back up issues, and 1 other ex who was a virgin when we met (her cooch would shut down after 1 nut :(), i have been blessed as stated above.

you are only shortchanging yourself as a sexual being when you lie to a partner about your sexual interactions. it is never necessary. if you find it is, then your physical relationship ain't shit. it is severely lacking and you ought to either roll the fuck out, find a way to communicate more openly, or go get some serious counseling (if it's that serious and long-term of a relationship). i value my sex to highly to lie about some shit like that.

i think faking O's is worse than lying on your dick, or talking shit about your sexual prowess w/o backing it up. you hurt yourself by depriving you partner of the information they need to make the pokin' a mutually pleasurable experience.

if you aren't fully enjoying getting it in, why in the hell are you even being bothered? for example, i don't eat pussy just because it makes women cum all over my chin. i do it because i really dig to the utmost the placing of a woman's vagina in my grill while i'm doing what i do w/my mouthpiece. it ain't nothing fake or pretentious about it.

STOP FAKING O'S!
STOP ROBBING YOURSELVES!
TELL THE DAMN TRUTH...
MAKE THAT NI**A WORK...:lol:

seriously though...:cool:

WHAT DA FUCK!!! DAT IS WHAT I HAVE BEEN SAYING!!!

So ladies, as you can read from the brothers on this bitch Sunday afternoon, it is up to you.
 

Shadow

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when i saw this topic, i just had to add my 2 bits...

as a man who has been fortunate enough to mostly have been w/women who are free enough physically, psychologically, and emotionally to have multiple orgasms, fakin' O's is not the way to go...EVER...

i have told my wife for years, i could care less if i nut when i'm gettin' it in. why? quite simply because i can nut by my goddamned self. i've got 2 hands and i ain't scared of my own dick. cats front & act like they don't spank the mizonk, but fuck it, i do. i ain't ashamed & i ain't mad. it's a different kind of nut...kinda like nuttin' from oral is different from nuttin' from pussy.

anyways, since i can make myself cum, my goal when gettin' my poke on is for my partner to cum as frequently as physically and psychologically possible. with the exception of 1 ex who had serious enough emotional issues to where she had nut back up, and 1 other ex who was a virgin when we met (her cooch would shut down after 1 nut :(), i have been blessed as stated above.

you are only shortchanging yourself as a sexual being when you lie to a partner about your sexual interactions. it is never necessary. if you find it is, then your physical relationship ain't shit. it is severely lacking and you ought to either roll the fuck out, find a way to communicate more openly, or go get some serious counseling (if it's that serious and/or a long-term relationship). i value my sex too highly to lie or be lied to about some shit like that.

i think faking O's is worse than lying on your dick, or talking shit about your sexual prowess w/o backing it up. you hurt yourself by depriving you partner of the information they need to make the pokin' a mutually pleasurable experience. in the end, you're really the person who's suffering.

if you aren't fully enjoying getting it in, why in the hell are you even being bothered? for example, i don't eat pussy just because it makes women cum all over my chin. i do it because i really dig to the utmost the placing of a woman's vagina in my grill while i'm doing what i do w/my mouthpiece. it ain't nothing fake or pretentious about it.



STOP FAKING O'S!
STOP ROBBING YOURSELVES!
TELL THE DAMN TRUTH...
MAKE THAT NIGGA WORK...:lol:

seriously though...:cool:

STANDING OVATION FOR THIS ONE HERE....
 

Izayoi

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when i saw this topic, i just had to add my 2 bits...

as a man who has been fortunate enough to mostly have been w/women who are free enough physically, psychologically, and emotionally to have multiple orgasms, fakin' O's is not the way to go...EVER...

i have told my wife for years, i could care less if i nut when i'm gettin' it in. why? quite simply because i can nut by my goddamned self. i've got 2 hands and i ain't scared of my own dick. cats front & act like they don't spank the mizonk, but fuck it, i do. i ain't ashamed & i ain't mad. it's a different kind of nut...kinda like nuttin' from oral is different from nuttin' from pussy.

anyways, since i can make myself cum, my goal when gettin' my poke on is for my partner to cum as frequently as physically and psychologically possible. with the exception of 1 ex who had serious enough emotional issues to where she had nut back up, and 1 other ex who was a virgin when we met (her cooch would shut down after 1 nut :(), i have been blessed as stated above.

you are only shortchanging yourself as a sexual being when you lie to a partner about your sexual interactions. it is never necessary. if you find it is, then your physical relationship ain't shit. it is severely lacking and you ought to either roll the fuck out, find a way to communicate more openly, or go get some serious counseling (if it's that serious and/or a long-term relationship). i value my sex too highly to lie or be lied to about some shit like that.

i think faking O's is worse than lying on your dick, or talking shit about your sexual prowess w/o backing it up. you hurt yourself by depriving you partner of the information they need to make the pokin' a mutually pleasurable experience. in the end, you're really the person who's suffering.

if you aren't fully enjoying getting it in, why in the hell are you even being bothered? for example, i don't eat pussy just because it makes women cum all over my chin. i do it because i really dig to the utmost the placing of a woman's vagina in my grill while i'm doing what i do w/my mouthpiece. it ain't nothing fake or pretentious about it.

STOP FAKING O'S!
STOP ROBBING YOURSELVES!
TELL THE DAMN TRUTH...
MAKE THAT NIGGA WORK...:lol:

seriously though...:cool:

Excellent post buck.
 

Buttnaked

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it all really boils down to open communication. if you really look, what you'll tend to find is that in situations where 2 peeps don't know each other all that well, if you ain't just wil'out excited from 1st encounter/new sex, sex w/unfamiliar peeps is never as intense as sex w/someone who knows your body, buttons, & desires.

there are techniques i've been able to develop and spots on a partner's body that i've been able to become familiar with because of the length of time i was involved w/the person. there's shit i do now that i was not doing 10-15 years ago. there is shit i do w/my wife that will set her the fuck off, that will not likely excite another woman the same way. really, that is the point:

you got to know your partner like you know yourself. the better you know them, usually equates to a better experience mutually.

most cats don't know themselves, let alone the person they happen to be fuckin' at the moment. imagine being a dude and fucking and you don't know what your dick is gonna do from moment to moment...your level of confidence is going to be severely lacking. as a result, your sexual approach/actions will reflect your lack of self-confidence. when you're familiar w/yourself you function at a far higher level. when you have that & similar if not identical awareness of the other person...BLISS!

fuck being tired, fuck not being in the mood, fuck all that shit...

when people know each other on that level, shit like the above tends not to be much of an issue...

that's why i've never really been one to be a ho'. most dudes may or may not admit it, but most dudes are straight up flick-a-dick ho's. i ain't righteous, i'm an opportunistic ho', but i've never chased after pussy. i'm more interested in quality than quantity...
 

Izayoi

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I just want to know how dumb these dudes are that fall for these fake orgasms.

I wonder that too:confused:. Can't men feel the contractions, feel the heart and pulse race, skin get extra hot? I guess if they are just going on the sounds?

Maybe the ladies can answer- how do you fake a convincing orgasm? I'm curious.
 

bigirl

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I wonder that too:confused:. Can't men feel the contractions, feel the heart and pulse race, skin get extra hot? I guess if they are just going on the sounds?

Maybe the ladies can answer- how do you fake a convincing orgasm? I'm curious.

you see? if i can fake it and the guy actually believes it then he really sucked for real. easy to fake contractions. just squeeze and pulse your muscles. make noise and breathe heavy and its a wrap.
 

mcguyver

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you see? if i can fake it and the guy actually believes it then he really sucked for real. easy to fake contractions. just squeeze and pulse your muscles. make noise and breathe heavy and its a wrap.

:smh: I can't believe this. What a waste of a potentially good time.
 

bigirl

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:smh: I can't believe this. What a waste of a potentially good time.

you are misunderstanding. this is the desperate last ditch effort to make it be done already when it is beyond apparant that it just will not happen with this dude. all else has already been tried in this instance.
 

mcguyver

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you are misunderstanding. this is the desperate last ditch effort to make it be done already when it is beyond apparant that it just will not happen with this dude. all else has already been tried in this instance.

The way I am if you are not enjoying it that will play on my conscience. I must make a good impression. But you ladies must admit sometimes you let your mind take you to a place so far away that no matter how good the guy is he can't bring you back.
 

bigirl

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The way I am if you are not enjoying it that will play on my conscience. I must make a good impression. But you ladies must admit sometimes you let your mind take you to a place so far away that no matter how good the guy is he can't bring you back.

once its already been that shitty for that long, the thought of having the guy try again for a longer period of time is hell. its either clicking or its not. you know?
 

MartinAsante

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you see? if i can fake it and the guy actually believes it then he really sucked for real. easy to fake contractions. just squeeze and pulse your muscles. make noise and breathe heavy and its a wrap.

Maybe I'm too smart, but heavy breathing and some noises and squeezing your kegels doesn't do it. Too many tell-tale biological signs of a real orgasm that cannot be faked.
 

Buttnaked

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once its already been that shitty for that long, the thought of having the guy try again for a longer period of time is hell. its either clicking or its not. you know?

that ain't necessarily so...

1 chick i messed w/had me come back 2X before i wore her the fuck out on visit #3. i was mad @ myself the 1st 2X. i had been on my drought jawn & i believe i was overly excited. i actually fucked up coming back though.

after i hit it like i was supposed to be hittin' it, she kinda fell for me, but i was not into her like that. i just didn't want her to think i was going out like that. we never could have been a couple anyway. she didn't like to receive oral, and she also tended to use oral as a reward. she wanted me to say i loved her 'n' shit to get head...

fuck that. either we're fuckin' or we're not. i'm all out w/mine or it ain't out at all. that's why i'm Buttnaked...

i ain't tryin' to bribe nobody's emotions w/my sexual abilities. that's some nut ass shit...

besides, this chick used to growl like an animal sometimes when i was in it...that was unsettling...:eek::smh:
 

bigirl

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Maybe I'm too smart, but heavy breathing and some noises and squeezing your kegels doesn't do it. Too many tell-tale biological signs of a real orgasm that cannot be faked.

props to you for knowing this and being perceptive enough to notice.
you would be surprised how many grown ass men in their 30s and 40s don't :smh:
 

Buttnaked

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props to you for knowing this and being perceptive enough to notice.
you would be surprised how many grown ass men in their 30s and 40s don't :smh:

that's 'cause they don't give a fuck. don't fuck w/them type dudes...ultimately, it's your decision...:yes:
 

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NOTICE....PAY ATTENTION....MOST OF THESE SISTA HAVE NOT MADE ANY MENTION THAT THEY SAT OL' BOY DOWN AND HAD A TALK WITH HIM OR THEM...ALL THE ENERGY IN FAKIN' AND NOT MAKIN' AND NO SISTA HERE SAID THAT THEY TALKED TO THE MAN(S) AND THINGS TURNED BETTER....ALL THEY HAVE SAID IS THAT DID THIS DURING SEX AND THAT...

VERY INTERESTING.

AND THERE IS A WONDER ABOUT ABOUT LOUSY SEX???:confused:
 

bigirl

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that's 'cause they don't give a fuck. don't fuck w/them type dudes...ultimately, it's your decision...:yes:

right but sometimes you don't find out they are that type til you already fucking. thats the point at which its best to just get the shit done with as quickly as possible.
 

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Props to SinD and Cleo for not faking. Letting a dude think hes doing something is worse than hurting his ego for a few minutes. Let that ninja know what he has to do. I don't know why a woman would short change herself like that anyway.
 

bigirl

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Props to SinD and Cleo for not faking. Letting a dude think hes doing something is worse than hurting his ego for a few minutes. Let that ninja know what he has to do. I don't know why a woman would short change herself like that anyway.

I am talking about when you already told him many times. Then he either cuts your clit with his finger nails or presses it so hard that its going to go right thru the bone into the pussy or whatever other clumsy and horrible attempt it may be and there is a point where its enough already and the 2 options are tell him he sucks and throw him the fuck out or just fake it and let him leave quietly.
 

swiftandsilent

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:lol: Believe it or not, I'VE faked an orgasm to get outta some wack ass sex:yes: I don't even remember the details, it was so long ago. But I had a condom on...made a couple ugly cum faces, a few grunts and groans:eek: ...snatched it off quickly, and flushed it down the toilet..

:roflmao::roflmao::roflmao:
 

INVICTUS3RD

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I am talking about when you already told him many times. Then he either cuts your clit with his finger nails or presses it so hard that its going to go right thru the bone into the pussy or whatever other clumsy and horrible attempt it may be and there is a point where its enough already and the 2 options are tell him he sucks and throw him the fuck out or just fake it and let him leave quietly.

With the exception of SinD and Cleo, most of these sisters did not say what you said, about talking to the dude many times.

Cause if they or u did, then we would all say, tell him to get the fuck out if he cannot follow instructions properly!!!:angry:
 

Pussy Krook

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I am talking about when you already told him many times. Then he either cuts your clit with his finger nails or presses it so hard that its going to go right thru the bone into the pussy or whatever other clumsy and horrible attempt it may be and there is a point where its enough already and the 2 options are tell him he sucks and throw him the fuck out or just fake it and let him leave quietly.

Its simple don't fuck with dude any more. If he can't get it right why waste your time?

As far as a guys go we aren't going to turn down pussy cause a man can cum by fucking regardless if a chick knows what shes doing or not. But say she doesn't know how to give head and no matter how much you tell her she still can't do it the way you like it. Shit I rather not even have her try than to stand there and act like I like the shit. :smh:
 

Mo-Better

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Me personally would rather a man tell me he isn't enjoying it so I can either correct it or get the fuck up.

I like that. That makes you somewhat rare. Most women would be either hurt or pissed if a man told them they weren't doing anything for them.

Every woman wants to know she has satisfied her man, the same as every man want's to know his woman is satisfied.
 

Pussy Krook

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exactly but you just want him gone that night asap in the least dramatic fashion possible. dig?

Oh you mean he can't get it right on the first night. I thought you meant he couldn't do it right the first time and you fucked him again. Okay I getcha. Damn. I'm glad I'm a man. :smh:
 

swiftandsilent

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What a surprise? I see I'm not the only one! :yes: So yes ladies its a two way street. Men sometimes have to do these things to soothe your egos too. Then some of you have the nerve to be asking "is it good daddy?" :eek: P-L-E-A-S-E !!!

What do you want us to say?

"Bitch please get the fuck off of me with that dead ass pussy or I've had better?" Especially to those of you with weak head games. Then ask "emm how was that?" Didn't you hear me snoring?

or maybe

"Please, just stop. I just can't take it anymore. This is just not working for me. STOP IT NOW" :rolleyes:



So just stop with the male bashing because some of your sistas are just as inept as the men your talking about! :hmm:

AMEN,

That brotha just said a mouth full

:yes:
 

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Well, I've had women friends of mine tell me the same sort of reason I've heard on this discussion so far as to why they fake it. And a lot of times, they were talking about some of my running partners. of course my boys version of the story is always different. To my knowledge , I've never had a woman fake it with me . And I say that for these reasons: I have always gotten the same reaction from women, verbally , facially and physically while having an orgasm. So unless they are all be reading the same book on what to say and how to act I assume I must be getting the job done. Secondly, I've had sex with women that run in the same social circles as other men I've known, whom they have also had sex with, and bad mouthed them afterwards, but not me. And thirdly, I go out of my way to make sure a woman enjoys herself on the day I'm gonna make my move. I make sure she has a good time, good food, and that she never stops laughing. And when I do make my move, my foreplay usually last about 45 minutes , before any penetration gets started. So by the time the dick comes out , ( and no i'm not a 5 minute brother) she's good and wet and ready. And of course if the foreplay was'nt good, she would'nt give me the chance to pull my dick out at all. Lastly , I always let her know I appreciate it. Because when they are extremely atractive, there is usually a line of competitors, so if she chosse me , I feel I am obligated to let her know ,it was'nt a waste of time, it was'nt a bad choice and she can call me anytime. We can make love ,or we can make dinner.
 

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right but sometimes you don't find out they are that type til you already fucking. thats the point at which its best to just get the shit done with as quickly as possible.

you might not wanna hear this right now, but i'm known for being brutally honest in life...

if you've gotten that far and you find yourself in that situation, believe you played a role in that. how? probably you weren't paying attention to the tell-tale signs. much like women broadcast certain shit that dudes ignore for a chance to get some new ass, y'all do the same shit. it may be for different motivational reasons, but y'all do that shit.

i've seen many women bitch & moan about there are no good men and all that bullshit. well, any woman who comes around me w/that bullshit can go home & eat it. that's what that is, bullshit. you fuck w/who you choose to fuck/w. unless you've been abducted, restrained, and ultimately raped, your sexual choices are just that.

if you choose to ignore the warning signs for whatever reason & fuck w/dead dick donald, that's on you. i don't think it's an accident that i have had few if any bad sexual experiences w/women. it's because i have been extremely highly selective. when i have chosen to fuck w/a female on the sex tip, no matter how throwed off she may be otherwise (i'm personally drawn to crazy broads...that's another long story for a different post), we click sexually or find a way to do so...

i was bonin' this 1 chick who would not admit that she not only didn't love me, she didn't even like me. because of the type of sex we had, she would just not admit that shit. the only time she wasn't pissed at me about something was when i was either eatin' or strokin' her pussy. that ain't right, but she couldn't see the signs. i saw them shits all too clear, so i got the fuck out while i could. was the sex great? at the time hell yeah! this chick was so wild i kept her locked in a closet for almost 10 hours straight 1 day under restrictive living conditions, so we could sneak and fuck at will. she actually stayed in the closet w/the door locked. matter of fact, when i 1st put her in the closet, she had all her clothes on. when i came back she was butt ass naked. believe me, there was minimal space for movement in this closet. she could barely sit down, let alone undress. i couldn't believe it, but she wanted the dick that bad...:smh:

so, to make a long ass post not that much longer, pay attention to all the forms of communication exchanged w/a potential sexual partner, verbal and especially non-verbal. look at where you meet these motherfuckers. what the fuck were they doing? what were you doing? fuck it, what did that motherfucker smell like! all this shit is important. ain't shit trivial at all about bustin' a nut...get that shit right...

FUCK BAD SEX!
 
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