No comparison. You can go your entirr life having sex and not have children. You cant even go 6 months driving and not need some type of maitence done. That is inevitable
Your on child support your baby momma car is broke down do you help her
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That's why you save and set aside money for repairs and maintenance the same way you would for gas, parking and insurance. If you can't afford to do that then you can't afford to own a car. Period.
Women don't "have to spend loads of money on hair?" Why can't they have a friend do it for them? If fixing a car is a man's job then clearly doing hair is a woman's, right?
Can't catch the bus at midnight? Obviously you've never taken public transportation after the club closes.
Can't find a sitter? LOL. Single or not, part of a working parent's responsibility is to find reliable daycare.
Can't find a man cause he might be pedo? Do a search on Megan's Law. Date men that already have kids. Pedophiles are the extreme exception, not the norm.
For a so-called Male Feminist, you sure do waffle a lot. Second and Third Wave Feminism insists that men and women are equal and that Gender roles are a bullshit Social construct. You are one confused muhfucka Bruh.
I've always had custody of my sons their entire lives. I've been a single father. I've had to turn down jobs that would've put me in areas of the State of Wisconsin where there are few Blacks, if any, because I wasn't going to put my children in an environment of 98% White people and they can't even get a haircut or a decent home-cooked meal or hang out with their cousins and shit like that.
I could refute ALL of what you wrote from personal experiences as a Single, Custodial Father and the network of others that I had found from dealing with the Courts. This includes dating a woman who would mistreat my sons whenever she was mad at ME.
*I never suspected it and they never told me about that shit until they were adults and were reminiscing about childhood memories.
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IG is full of women who think with their pussies. Onlyfans is filled with bitches who think with their pussies. Need I say more?
Men and women are equal. Men are stronger physically women are stronger mentally.For a so-called Male Feminist, you sure do waffle a lot. Second and Third Wave Feminism insists that men and women are equal and that Gender roles are a bullshit Social construct. You are one confused muhfucka Bruh.
I've always had custody of my sons their entire lives. I've been a single father. I've had to turn down jobs that would've put me in areas of the State of Wisconsin where there are few Blacks, if any, because I wasn't going to put my children in an environment of 98% White people and they can't even get a haircut or a decent home-cooked meal or hang out with their cousins and shit like that.
I could refute ALL of what you wrote from personal experiences as a Single, Custodial Father and the network of others that I had found from dealing with the Courts. This includes dating a woman who would mistreat my sons whenever she was mad at ME.
*I never suspected it and they never told me about that shit until they were adults and were reminiscing about childhood memories.
Gender roles are bullshit that dont mean a man shouldnt take pride in hiself and man the hell up.
Men and women are built and wired differently.
Women are stronger than any male during childbirth. They're built for that. I woke up in the middle of a Colonoscopy with my fuckin gut all inflated and shit...
.The Nurse rushed over and started giving me muhfuckin' LaMas classes."Breathe...pant, pant, pant...breathe!"
The Anesthesiologist put me back under in about 20-30 seconds after that.
There are some pressures that women aren't mentally equipped to deal with and will wear down much faster than a man would.
There are plenty of tasks that you say a muhfucka should "man up" to do and then you still hollering about social constructs. You are conflicted man.
I don't expect a female to have to change a tire or do other routine car maintenance, cut the grass, or take out the trash IF there is a man around. It doesn't mean that she shouldn't know HOW to do it.
Men and women are built and wired differently.
Women are stronger than any male during childbirth. They're built for that. I woke up in the middle of a Colonoscopy with my fuckin gut all inflated and shit...
The Nurse rushed over and started giving me muhfuckin' LaMas classes."Breathe...pant, pant, pant...breathe!"
There are some pressures that women aren't mentally equipped to deal with and will wear down much faster than a man would.
There are plenty of tasks that you say a muhfucka should "man up" to do and then you still hollering about social constructs. You are conflicted man.
I don't expect a female to have to change a tire or do other routine car maintenance, cut the grass, or take out the trash IF there is a man around. It doesn't mean that she shouldn't know HOW to do it.
I hear ya but see that last paragraph you
Wrote..
That was great when women didn't mind being women
Now they want to box fight mma
Play football. Become policemen
Which is cool
But become fuckiin insanity when they want all that and chivalry too
U
I got zero time for such confusion
Which is why I fully support the hoes
These silly niggas taking the bait and writing synopsis and shit. Come on bruhs
Im outraged
If she's single, it would be on a case-by-case basis. And no fucking in exchange for help.
If married, I'd say one thing...
Where's your HUSBAND?
I'm not your man anymore, go ask your man!
If married, I'd say one thing...
Where's your HUSBAND?
I'm not your man anymore, go ask your man!
Consistently
Real talk, if she got a man, then really you are stepping on his toes. I mean just think if you had a woman who was called the next dude to save her. If you cool with that, then that's not your woman.
Now if she don't have a man, and we not together, I'll help out, but that shit is a loan. At some point that bill gone come due....then we gone have to work something out.
And that shit need to be understood up front....just saying.
Real talk, if she got a man, then really you are stepping on his toes. I mean just think if you had a woman who was called the next dude to save her. If you cool with that, then that's not your woman.
Now if she don't have a man, and we not together, I'll help out, but that shit is a loan. At some point that bill gone come due....then we gone have to work something out.
And that shit need to be understood up front....just saying.
Gotta be careful about that one, too. There is an old saying which says that you shouldn't expect money back that you loaned out. She can suddenly come up with selective amnesia and say "Money? What money? Loan? What loan? Excusez-moi? No habla ingles! Je ne parle pas anglais!"
Or be bold and say " You ain't getting shit!" Or the most famous one - "I don't have it right now." She can use this one indefinitely. You could have a verbal agreement, but those are hard to prove. You could write a contract or IOU, but that's too much hassle. Perhaps it's better not to loan her money - especially if money's tight for you.
If your check is being garnished by the State, it's out of your control and they will not likely consider any "extra" support that you may have or would provide. They're making money off of your ass so they have NO fucks to give.
So, I'll tell you what I'm gonna do for my CHILD, but you're on your own for YOUR personal circumstances. Call your family or whoever is gettin' the guts right now.
That's like the video of the Brother who took his daughter out to dinner for her birthday and Baby Mama tagged along and wanted HIM to pay for her dinner too and she acted a fool and made a damned scene.
Im embarrassed i even conversed with your weird ass
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Wait, Dannyblueyes talking about "personal responsibility"? I figured you'd blame the car breaking down on the government and explain why it's their job to fix it. Lol
This Is basically, ends this thread, as stated earlier, there are to many variables to answer the question. All baby mommas collecting child support are different. There are some that should get the help and then there are some that shouldn't.
why do y'all entertain his shit????
You weren't too embarrassed to revisit the conversation. You could've left well enough alone, but you just want this tread bumped...that's all. I see you.
