You’re (men) just insecure

[nawlinsn931]

Got roped into a discussion with my wife and her (single) friends about girl’s trips etc
How it came about is because my wife been just burning herself out so I cash app her homegirl to take her to the Mexican place for dinner and drinks
Next thing I know “oh she can go to dinner but not the club,n——- are just so insecure and controlling, grow up”
I unloaded the clip on her ass
So basically you’re saying it’s cool for a married woman to be in an environment that invited all types of disrespect and fuckery. She refuse a drink or to dance with a man, he get mad and shit escalates and it gets physical, then what? Or I’m SUPPOSED to be cool with her in a strip club with different men throwing they meat in her face?
If that’s what she wants then shouldn’t be in a relationship
Your priorities/thoughts when you go out as a single woman aren’t the same as hers as a married woman. So that’s the difference, so being grown is about having respect for your man, your relationship, especially yourself but I’m gone let you think this shit a Tyler Perry movie
My wife just laughed

So why is it insecure to have rules and standards with your woman?

 

[ViCiouS]

So why is it insecure to have rules and standards with your woman?

 

[Hey Julian!]

Got roped into a discussion with my wife and her (single) friends about girl’s trips etc
How it came about is because my wife been just burning herself out so I cash app her homegirl to take her to the Mexican place for dinner and drinks
Next thing I know “oh she can go to dinner but not the club,n——- are just so insecure and controlling, grow up”
I unloaded the clip on her ass
So basically you’re saying it’s cool for a married woman to be in an environment that invited all types of disrespect and fuckery. She refuse a drink or to dance with a man, he get mad and shit escalates and it gets physical, then what? Or I’m SUPPOSED to be cool with her in a strip club with different men throwing they meat in her face?
If that’s what she wants then shouldn’t be in a relationship
Your priorities/thoughts when you go out as a single woman aren’t the same as hers as a married woman. So that’s the difference, so being grown is about having respect for your man, your relationship, especially yourself but I’m gone let you think this shit a Tyler Perry movie
My wife just laughed

So why is it insecure to have rules and standards with your woman?

Get your wife from around these single no man having hoes if you can bruh. A woman's friend circle is a big indication of what she'll latch on to in her thinking.

 

[M.H.C.]

Women love to weaponize that “Insecure” word in hopes that it’ll give them freedom to do whatever they want. That’s why single people stay single. You just can’t do everything you did when you were single while in a relationship. That goes for us men too. They seem to not understand that

 

[BlackGoku]

Funny you bring this up...

 

[Autobot8655]

If you are married...no "girls trip"...no "guys trip".

Now, if you have an UNDERSTANDING with your spouse, then so be it.

But leaving your spouse while you go travelling (husband or wife) is diabolical and is saying something without using words.

 

[4 Dimensional]

Single bitches are single for a reason.

Women get conflicted between trying to maintain a relationship with their single friends and their husband’s boundaries.

I said it before “don’t let your friends put you in a situation you can get out of.”

 

[nawlinsn931]

My wife already told her friends she not doing girls trips etc or strip cubs because it’s not worth losing me and she wasn’t a strip cub/male review woman before she met me

 

[BlackGoku]

My wife already told her friends she not doing girls trips etc or strip cubs because it’s not worth losing me and she wasn’t a strip cub/male review woman before she met me

You got a good one fam.

 

[Mask]

Man you know how some of them gulls think

 

[NightMare Paint]

That girl just don't like you, fam. You will never actually know why. This "reason" is fabricated to pop off on you.

 

[jawnswoop]

Got roped into a discussion with my wife and her (single) friends about girl’s trips etc
How it came about is because my wife been just burning herself out so I cash app her homegirl to take her to the Mexican place for dinner and drinks
Next thing I know “oh she can go to dinner but not the club,n——- are just so insecure and controlling, grow up”
I unloaded the clip on her ass
So basically you’re saying it’s cool for a married woman to be in an environment that invited all types of disrespect and fuckery. She refuse a drink or to dance with a man, he get mad and shit escalates and it gets physical, then what? Or I’m SUPPOSED to be cool with her in a strip club with different men throwing they meat in her face?
If that’s what she wants then shouldn’t be in a relationship
Your priorities/thoughts when you go out as a single woman aren’t the same as hers as a married woman. So that’s the difference, so being grown is about having respect for your man, your relationship, especially yourself but I’m gone let you think this shit a Tyler Perry movie
My wife just laughed

So why is it insecure to have rules and standards with your woman?

Those 2 highlights are what women love to use when a man set boundaries not allowing her to do whatever she wants, because I'm not dealing with any women who aren't gonna respect my boundaries or follow my program when it comes to respect because i will drop her like a bad habit and keep it moving without arguing with her to the point she can do whatever she wants since we aren't together anymore.

I'm glad you set the record straight on her ass because women love that direct and straightforward masculine energy when ou put them in check.

But if she gotta problem with it then it would be your best bet to get a divorce and get with a women who would respect you and your boundaries that you set for yourself and her.

"Stand For Something Or Fall For Anything"

 

[0utsyder]

How old is the single friend?

My wife goes on girls trips all the time without me. She just got back from one...with her mother, my mother and our daughter. They went to Vegas last year and Mall of America this year.

 

[Autobot8655]

How old is the single friend?

My wife goes on girls trips all the time without me. She just got back from one...with her mother, my mother and our daughter. They went to Vegas last year and Mall of America this year.

lol

Bruh, that is a family trip not a girls' trip

 

[Chuck_Luck]

I have a friend that did the girls trip/guys trip.

They are now recently divorced.

It's hard as he'll staying married.

 

[slewdem100]

That girl just don't like you, fam. You will never actually know why. This "reason" is fabricated to pop off on you.

Yeah cause how the hell that convo switch up like that

 

[nawlinsn931]

She don’t like me because I make her take accountability for her choices
You can’t say all n——- ain’t shit etc when you choose bottom of the barrel men

 

[doe moe]

Single women, keep women SINGLE.

 

[jawnswoop]

She don’t like me because I make her take accountability for her choices
You can’t say all n——- ain’t shit etc when you choose bottom of the barrel men

 

[APOPHIS]

She's creating unnecessary tension in your relationship.
Tell your wife to dump her or support her from afar--REALLY FAR.
A real friend would respect what you have built and working to maintain with your wife.

 

[RoadRage]

That type of woman X-man superpower is the ability to shame into simphood, their typical pronouns they use are broke, small dick, insecure, toxic masculinity, betta, gay, gamma, weird, creepy, and doing too much. It is advised that as soon as you hear one of those being mentioned, you should stay on code by pointing out that as long as they can use those derogatory then you should be able to use these terms, fat, broke, hoe, hitting the wall, coon, ugly, baldheaded, masculine broad, tranny vibes, hoodrat, and big Keisha.
Don't say it with malice or anger, let them know that either all insults are fair game or it has to be taken off the table. Oh, and P.S.: never waste your time arguing with a bunch of angry women, especially if they are single, because chances are their logic is flawed, and the notion of being able to shame while demanding not to be shamed makes total sense to them. But if you do choose to do so, first set out guidelines for what's acceptable and what's not.
One last point: do not try if you're stupid or overly emotional, because it will not end well for you!

 

[xxironxx]

Different strokes for Different folks. But I'm like go have at it. My wife goes to the bar with her sisters/homegirls. They take girls trips. Hell last weekend they had an air bnb bout an hour outside the city. Dropped her ass off and didn't look back.

 

[havelcok]

i wouldnt go to a strip club and neither would my wife

but girls trips and vacays are fine by me

shit, the more she is out the house, the happier I am

if she is going to cheat, she is going to do so

my homies wife was a deaconess in the church and still fucked around on dude

 

[RUDY RAYYY MO]

Do yall have a playful relationship, cause that nigga shit is disrespectful.

 

[Coldchi]

her single friend will likely be single for a long time.

 

[Helico-pterFunk]

I unloaded the clip on her ass
So basically you’re saying it’s cool for a married woman to be in an environment that invited all types of disrespect and fuckery.

 

[nawlinsn931]

Do yall have a playful relationship, cause that nigga shit is disrespectful.

She knows better to call me one
I don’t even say the word
But I told her “stop dealing with n’s and get you a real man”

 

[yaBoi]

Got roped into a discussion with my wife and her (single) friends about girl’s trips etc

first offf..................bruh......SMH...lol

Get your wife from around these single no man having hoes if you can bruh. A woman's friend circle is a big indication of what she'll latch on to in her thinking.

this! big red flags are women with NO female friends..........and women with a bunch of can't keep a man friends.....shit is toxic...

 

[CptMARVEL]

Why would any man marry a woman they couldn't fully trust even when she's out partying with her friends?


And if a girls trip worries you, then perhaps there are deeper issues in the relationship you need to address...

 

[tallblacknyc]

That girl just don't like you, fam. You will never actually know why. This "reason" is fabricated to pop off on you.

You posted this b4 I did.. I was thinking clearly there's animosity within her

 

[mcguyver]

Got roped into a discussion with my wife and her (single) friends about girl’s trips etc
How it came about is because my wife been just burning herself out so I cash app her homegirl to take her to the Mexican place for dinner and drinks
Next thing I know “oh she can go to dinner but not the club,n——- are just so insecure and controlling, grow up”
I unloaded the clip on her ass
So basically you’re saying it’s cool for a married woman to be in an environment that invited all types of disrespect and fuckery. She refuse a drink or to dance with a man, he get mad and shit escalates and it gets physical, then what? Or I’m SUPPOSED to be cool with her in a strip club with different men throwing they meat in her face?
If that’s what she wants then shouldn’t be in a relationship
Your priorities/thoughts when you go out as a single woman aren’t the same as hers as a married woman. So that’s the difference, so being grown is about having respect for your man, your relationship, especially yourself but I’m gone let you think this shit a Tyler Perry movie
My wife just laughed

So why is it insecure to have rules and standards with your woman?

You should ask one of the women on the board...... @Heavenlywings77

 

[Heavenlywings77]

You should ask one of the women on the board...... @Heavenlywings77

Not coming from you. The guy who wants to be everyone's sidekick