Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to him?

[followup]

Re: e: Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to

So if you arent into a guy who buys you something, why not just refuse to take it? He could very well be one of those guys who could try to buy your affections and you accepting his gifts wont make anything better. One day he could snap and the next thing you know, tragedy could befall you. You could come up missing, or worse.....

this is why buying women drinks at the club is a foolhardy action.

HE IS A FUCKING MORON IF HE IS TRYING TO BUY LOVE AND AFFECTION! Period. LOL @ tragedy befalling me Tragedy "befalls" women all the time from their husbands, boyfriends, men they trust. That is a childish mentality to have. Might as well not have friends of the opposite sex, right? As long as dude is not displaying stalker-like tendencies and we are friends, I have no problem with it. Different story when married. That's all I have to say about the matter.

 

[BCAA2009]

Re: e: Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to

HE IS A FUCKING MORON IF HE IS TRYING TO BUY LOVE AND AFFECTION! Period. LOL @ tragedy befalling me Tragedy "befalls" women all the time from their husbands, boyfriends, men they trust. That is a childish mentality to have. Might as well not have friends of the opposite sex, right? As long as dude is not displaying stalker-like tendencies and we are friends, I have no problem with it. Different story when married. That's all I have to say about the matter.

Yeah, keep on accepting gifts from "friends" and youll see exactly what I am speaking about .

 

[followup]

Re: e: Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to

Yeah, keep on accepting gifts from "friends" and youll see exactly what I am speaking about .

Been doing it, aint shit happened except enjoying life. I notice you never touch on the fact that I also pamper/spend on my friends (male & female).... you sound like one of those hurt stalkers who try to buy a woman's affection... "youll see". Right

 

[BCAA2009]

Re: e: Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to

you sound like one of those hurt stalkers who try to buy a woman's affection... "youll see". Right

sorry to burst your bubble nena...but your ASSumption is incorrect. I'm married.

I could touch on what YOU sound like, but its been said enough on here already, so I won't waste the keystrokes doing so.

 

[4North1Side2]

Re: e: Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to

Been doing it, aint shit happened except enjoying life. I notice you never touch on the fact that I also pamper/spend on my friends (male & female).... you sound like one of those hurt stalkers who try to buy a woman's affection... "youll see". Right

I don't even know why you dignified that fat ass loser with a response.

 

[followup]

Re: e: Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to

I don't even know why you dignified that fat ass loser with a response.

I don't know anybody here personally, but I answered the question: would I allow someone to pamper me if I was not attracted to them... I don't have to be attracted to someone to care about them and for them to care about me It's just that simple. If I feel like he's trying to stalk me and if he starts to say or do little things that make me feel uncomfortable, then it will stop.

 

[LoneStar29]

Re: Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to him

I know what it feels like to care for someone and try to do nice things so they will care for you back and have them just take advantage of that so I wont do it to another person ... all that shit about it being on them is true but it never hurts for the person on the receiving end to show some decency

 

[followup]

Re: Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to him

I know what it feels like to care for someone and try to do nice things so they will care for you back and have them just take advantage of that so I wont do it to another person ... all that shit about it being on them is true but it never hurts for the person on the receiving end to show some decency

I could see if I was not friends with the person and just using them. but I don't agree

 

[kjxxxx]

Re: Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to him

I could see if I was not friends with the person and just using them. but I don't agree

Followup is being real. What others are failing to see is that it is consential and that the other person benefits also. The other persons need to pamper someone is being fulfilled. I don't see the difference between people who are having sex and not in a relationship.

For the fellows who ever wish they could be like Hugh Heffner and attacking her then you are hipocrits because that is exactly what he does. He pampers them bunnies. Pampering is not really a big deal for people with means. They appeal to what method works to get what they want.

Everyone is using the other for something.

 

[BCAA2009]

Re: Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to him

all that shit about it being on them is true but it never hurts for the person on the receiving end to show some decency

I don't agree with you on a lot of things on here, but I have to give you props on this.

 

[Nigga Infamous Still 16]

Re: Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to him

If she is a decent shorty and I wasn't really attracted to her I would let her do what she want... If she want to treat me like a king I'm wit that...​

 

[M.H.C.]

Re: Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to him

"Never treat somebody like a priority when you are only an option."

I would not do it to a woman and wouldn't allow her to do it to me.

 

[LoneStar29]

Re: Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to him

I don't agree with you on a lot of things on here, but I have to give you props on this.

 

[BCAA2009]

Re: Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to him

yeah, you too.

 

[followup]

Re: Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to him

(i.e. buy you drinks at the club, cook for you, buy you things, lick the clit off, etc.)

Men: Would you still allow a woman to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to her?

As long as, like ash said, u didn't lead them on
or make them think they were getting anything more from u what's wrong?

this is what happens when I respond to the thread title and not read carefully...

No, I would not allow a man I was not attracted to or want to be with lick my clit or do anything sexual with me.

I would have drinks with him and accept meals & gifts.

 

[BCAA2009]

Re: Would you still allow a man to pamper you, if you weren't really attracted to him

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