you know that will only help you if you have a union job since most jobs don't need a reason to fire you.
and you can only sue for wrongful termination if you can show one of the isms
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you know that will only help you if you have a union job since most jobs don't need a reason to fire you.
and you can only sue for wrongful termination if you can show one of the isms
Unless?
You need another fucking lesson?
Don't do it.
Ever.
Never fuck up your money and your family life.
It is NOT worth the risk.
Go find a slam thread and handle your business.
Leave these chicks alone.
It's a different world out here right now.
A lot of you are NOT in the game and are tempted to take bait.
Brothers, google "4th wave feminism"
The system is NOT built to give you the benefit of the truth
So why play russian roulette when it's full of bullets?
Get too close to women at the workplace if you want to. Plenty of humans to be friendly with on the planet. Say 'hi' and 'bye' to the women at your jobs and keep it moving. And only fools think that only cac bitches will sink them.
Join a gym. Flirt there. Go to the club. Don't care if your 50. Talk shit online. Just leave women in professional settings alone.
Join a gym. Flirt there. Go to the club. Don't care if your 50. Talk shit online. Just leave women in professional settings alone.
I have see at a client:
A black male brought in to boost diversity numbers, guess where he worked?
yup
mailroom
his white coworkers loved him, joked with him, made him feel comfortable.
He wasn't a threat to their promotion, he wasn't making that much money so he def can't stack to sent his kids to teh college they want to send their kids.
No threat.
He felt so comfortable that he told a white chick would would visit the office from another location "you look nice today"
Ooops.
Gone
How dare you think you can speak to disney princess and you work in the mailroom?
A black male brought in to boost diversity numbers, guess where he worked?
yup
mailroom
his white coworkers loved him, joked with him, made him feel comfortable.
He wasn't a threat to their promotion, he wasn't making that much money so he def can't stack to sent his kids to teh college they want to send their kids.
No threat.
He felt so comfortable that he told a white chick would would visit the office from another location "you look nice today"
Ooops.
Gone
How dare you think you can speak to disney princess and you work in the mailroom?
If you cant get pussy at the gym, either you dont want any, or you are tryin too hard and look
desperate..
that shit will just walk right up to you and damn near smack you in the face... especially if you
join like a cycling class...
True. But too many people want to be too friendly at work. This isn't the 80s. You will end up on YouTube over a knock-knock joke. Just do that shit elsewhere like at the gym where you lose a membership or get kicked out the bar. Workplace is on lockdown these days.
like I said above, only a fool would shit where he eats....
and the higher up you go, the more they will use hoes and money to test you
or set yo ass up!!!
It is easier to have someone do negative SEO on his name to reduce the hit probability.
I used to work part-time at UPS. One day, a box breaks open and it's full of belts. One of the women(black) grabs one, makes a spanking motion, then says she's going to use it one me. I replied something like "I knew you were a freak. You probably have all kinds of whips and whatnot at home." This type of talk went on for about 2 weeks.
Then one day, another lady I knew comes up to me and says she was with the employee retention committee. She goes on to say the woman was talking about filing a sexual harassment complaint against me. I told the lady that we had been joking for the past 2 weeks and that the woman initiated the conversation. I then go to the woman and ask, "why didn't you tell me we weren't joking anymore? I would've stopped." She says "I didn't know how to tell you."....But you are comfortable getting me fired?
It never went beyond that.
Then one day, another lady I knew comes up to me and says she was with the employee retention committee. She goes on to say the woman was talking about filing a sexual harassment complaint against me. I told the lady that we had been joking for the past 2 weeks and that the woman initiated the conversation. I then go to the woman and ask, "why didn't you tell me we weren't joking anymore? I would've stopped." She says "I didn't know how to tell you."....But you are comfortable getting me fired?
It never went beyond that.
some men need to do better introspective
imagine every time a chick sees you at the office she says "happy hour? or you are broke?"
and she has a higher position than you
how would you feel?
have little personal shit to tell people at the office
the higher you go the harder you can fall
i don't tell anyone shit can these white dudes will put you out of a job quick as well
imagine every time a chick sees you at the office she says "happy hour? or you are broke?"
and she has a higher position than you
how would you feel?
have little personal shit to tell people at the office
the higher you go the harder you can fall
i don't tell anyone shit can these white dudes will put you out of a job quick as well
I actually thought about that while I was playing 2K15. You are correct. There shoukd not be an UNLESS.
Ain't no chick's at my gig worth sexually harassing, best looking chick in my office is a partner and that bitch is a straight up cunt. There are some decent looking broads in the building that work for other companies, but I don't fuck with them other that hi and bye. I got to much at stake to shit where I eat.
I remember in NYC a dude got fired for explaining a joke from an ep of seinfeld to a chic...she heard him and another dude laughing...asked him what the joke was..,he explained...got canned when she complained...for anyone who cares it was the ep when he couldn't remember the chic he was dating name but could only recall it rhymed w/ a woman's body part (dolores)
You should've reported her ass.
that's what i thought too but we are not really built like that to take food out someone's mouth
reminds me of Dr Henrik Clarke's lecture about us: our humanity being our greatest strength and greatest weakness
the first time was 1995, my first management position with Disney. this slore had been flirting with me forever, and one day i said something slick back to her. this jealous instigating jack ass overheard us, and started screaming sexual harrassment! you can get paid for that! so her dumb ass believed him. the dingy broad, looking for a pay day, went straight to my ASSHOLE of a boss and said that i told her to take her titty out.
i mean just like that, i pushed up on her out the blue and said take out your titty.
so they had me in the hot seat, told me i was committing career suicide. i was young, inexperienced, and had no clue what my rights were. the whole time though, this miserable sonofabitch wanted me to KEEP producing the way i was, as it was leading to some historic profits for that cot damn pimpin' mouse, and got HIM a 30k RAISE.
after a month (and after that jealous cat said he didnt know what that bitch was talking about) they called me in the office and told me there was no proof that i did anything wrong, but it WAS STILL MY FAULT.
so i transferred to another shift then quit and moved to Atlanta. they laid the stupid bitch off and the asshole boss got caught in his own shit. one day he left work at lunch, got coked up and was found THE NEXT DAY at the Gentlemen's Club on Airways.
the second time was in 2004 which ended in my receiving a settlement from my company. i wont talk about that in detail cause i signed a confidentiality statement, but i will say this: technology had changed by then and voice recorders were easy to come by. as long as it isnt illegal in your state, RECORD THEM HOES. then when your lawyer presents evidence during discovery that all you were doing was responding to an invitation you suddenly become THE VICTIM.
i mean just like that, i pushed up on her out the blue and said take out your titty.
so they had me in the hot seat, told me i was committing career suicide. i was young, inexperienced, and had no clue what my rights were. the whole time though, this miserable sonofabitch wanted me to KEEP producing the way i was, as it was leading to some historic profits for that cot damn pimpin' mouse, and got HIM a 30k RAISE.
after a month (and after that jealous cat said he didnt know what that bitch was talking about) they called me in the office and told me there was no proof that i did anything wrong, but it WAS STILL MY FAULT.
so i transferred to another shift then quit and moved to Atlanta. they laid the stupid bitch off and the asshole boss got caught in his own shit. one day he left work at lunch, got coked up and was found THE NEXT DAY at the Gentlemen's Club on Airways.
the second time was in 2004 which ended in my receiving a settlement from my company. i wont talk about that in detail cause i signed a confidentiality statement, but i will say this: technology had changed by then and voice recorders were easy to come by. as long as it isnt illegal in your state, RECORD THEM HOES. then when your lawyer presents evidence during discovery that all you were doing was responding to an invitation you suddenly become THE VICTIM.
that's what i thought too but we are not really built like that to take food out someone's mouth
reminds me of Dr Henrik Clarke's lecture about us: our humanity being our greatest strength and greatest weakness
You're right tuff and you're right kaya.
I should have reported her and gotten her fired
and kaya part of it was humanity but most of it was self preservation. at the time i just knew that i wouldn't be believed simply because she's a white woman. i would've been drug through the mud and somehow blamed or looked at differently because i turned her in.
that's what i thought too but we are not really built like that to take food out someone's mouth
reminds me of Dr Henrik Clarke's lecture about us: our humanity being our greatest strength and greatest weakness
Agreed
I honestly don't even think most blacks would have the will to practice Black Supremacy on whites.
Fuck that. Do to them before they do to you. Execute their fuckin asses in every way you can possible. If not they'll come for you. There's alot more of them gunning for your neck than they have people against them. I was telling someone about that just today how you have to see them all as the enemy because they'll smile in your face and behind your back they'll always join up with their kind.
And get some of your "kind" on their side against you.
You're right. At the time I wasn't treating or looking at her or any white folks at the job as friends. I mean I operated like what you're saying just not in the prosecution sense. I kept them at a distance and tried my best to make sure office politics didn't come into play. They couldn't fuck with me on the work performance so the clique shit is what they wanted to get me on. Either too buddy or complain that I'm too cold. I chose too cold and they tried to play those cards before too saying I needed to warm up etc.. the few folks that actually were above me at the office basically told them "fuck out of here bills does his thing he don't have to like none of you" and from there it's been on.
If it happened TODAY that ass would've been reported officially right in the middle of the conversation. But then...
Yea I've seen it play out like that. And nobody helps them or looks out for them or nothing just grown ass high school that's all every single thing is. there isn't anything adult about adult relationships in the workplace or anywhere to be honest.
people clique up and play games and you're in or out and all sorts of bullshit.
yup
it's def a game and you have to be aware of he long tail in making moves.
things like referrals depend on someone in your current job vouching for you etc
got to stay steps ahead and play
you go direct in the wrong timing and even the peeps who are cool with you will clam up
at the end of the day you got to take care of you and navigate as if you have no backup, if help comes then that's good, if it doesn't then you are prepared.
align with the true power brokers and the ones who will leave to go on the better things
they become he source of your next job
I have not been directly accused but some of my friends have.
Many women use what they deem as sexual harassment as upgrade strategy.
And many times when women feel scorned they use it as an easy out. The chick that half ass told on me used it as an out because she couldn't do her job. She use to give me hints that she liked me but I had someone. So, one day she wore this outfit and I told her that she was beautiful and that the outfit was totally her. 2 days later I confronted her about not finishing her part of an assignment and the next thing I know I was in the HR office watching a training video. A friend in the office gave me the skinny later but it was just some BS that could have been handled better.
Many women use what they deem as sexual harassment as upgrade strategy.
And many times when women feel scorned they use it as an easy out. The chick that half ass told on me used it as an out because she couldn't do her job. She use to give me hints that she liked me but I had someone. So, one day she wore this outfit and I told her that she was beautiful and that the outfit was totally her. 2 days later I confronted her about not finishing her part of an assignment and the next thing I know I was in the HR office watching a training video. A friend in the office gave me the skinny later but it was just some BS that could have been handled better.
And the worst that I have seen is one of our supervisors had been funking one of the clerks for over 3 years and we got this new young chick that they hired to boost morale(we think she stripped in college because of her demeanor{she chatted dudes up like a stripper}) and she went ballistic. She started doing all this stupid stuff because she said his ass like that girl(it actually helped to hire her). He ignored her and she told him he would pay! She went to HR claiming he was harassing her and rubbing on her. He counter claimed and showed proof. HR fired both. She was fired for misuse of the email system and he was fired for not reporting her and others for their lack of professionalism. The funny thing about him is that he has been fired multiple times about his dealings with other women. His last job(not the one we worked on together) was the only one they directly fired him for SH. And again, he had been funking the chick for over a year. She caught him doing one of his old chicks and everything went downhill from there.
It is very difficult to sexually harass someone at work. The other party has to first say no to your advances.
The law allows you to approach anyone unail they say no. If you still approach anyone after they say no then you are thirsty and deserve what's coming.
The law allows you to approach anyone unail they say no. If you still approach anyone after they say no then you are thirsty and deserve what's coming.
You should have filed against your job as you did nothing wrong. They owe you money because she would have needed to tell you that she was offended and if you did it again she could have complained.
Sexual harassment class we took said just lookin' at one of these hoes for a second too long could be harassment. Think it's a game if you want to. 
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