Women that get divorced because he got boring

[Sir_Fuzzy_McWaffle_Feet]

There are women that will say/admit that their ex husband was a good guy. But she got bored. He didnt have the same ambitions as her, maybe she wanted to travel see the world and he just wanted to stay at home.

Maybe she wanted to start a company or go back to school and he could not match her ambitions.

Maybe his swag wore off.

I dont know but if you have talked to women intimately then you not the only person to hear that story.

Just talked to a chick that said she divorced her husband because he got too boring and she needed excitement.

And it was like she didnt see anything wrong with that.

Here is what scares me of the prospect of marriage. Here you supposed to marry someone for better or worse, till death do you part through sickness and health, wealth and poverty. Yet you wont stay because of unhappiness? Because he got boring?

I never hear men say this ever in my life and i had plenty of barber shop discussions. But women do.

Some of these women depend on their man solely for her own happiness. These the type of women that admit or will admit if you ask them that they get bored easily.

And one thing ive noticed about women that get bored easily they are: avg looking- very attractive and or they do not have a lot of habbits outside of taking selfies on instagram and shopping and gossiping. I never meet a woman that has more than 10 habbits and gets bored easily.

But that is my peace but i ask you...

 

[Mrfreddygoodbud]

Then what are vows for and all that for better or for worse bullshit..

That's why I will always say don't let women trick you into those sappy vows...


Lay down the law from sex when you expect it..

To sharing time with each other but also me time for both of yall...

Don't wait till you deep in the marriage..

Say that shit day one while you have witnesses

And shit

 

[ZuluSam]

I won't say bored, because that's on you; but unhappy..yes

 

[clitsational]

broads are socialised now to think that whatever they think is important and has merit

so whatever she said 5 minutes ago is no longer valid in the light of this new revelation they had

pointless taking any of them seriously

particularly when as a dude u hunt with the goal of no longer having to hunt

while she is like

and where a man might get his head turned by new pussy

a woman will get excited about restaurants travel concerts or anything that takes u out of the comfort bubble that u need at the end of the day


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[Sir_Fuzzy_McWaffle_Feet]

broads are socialised now to think that whatever they think is important and has merit

so whatever she said 5 minutes ago is no longer valid in the light of this new revelation they had

pointless taking any of them seriously

particularly when as a dude u hunt with the goal of no longer having to hunt

while she is like

and where a man might get his head turned by new pussy

a woman will get excited about restaurants travel concerts or anything that takes u out of the comfort bubble that u need at the end of the day


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And how are women socialized into this

 

[Sir_Fuzzy_McWaffle_Feet]

I won't say bored, because that's on you; but unhappy..yes

You wont say it is because her man is boring and not charming and dont do the things he used to, that they dont go out anymore like when they first got together?

 

[KunningLinguist]

And how are women socialized into this

media....tv....movies....books...bird-brained friends

who knows....

everything with them is about how they feel.....

anyone who makes decisions based on emotion cant be trusted to make logical choices

 

[Bluelaser]

Hey Man !

Never Get Married ...

 

[bgbtylvr]

When they can’t or won’t match your work, bounce. Realty catches up to all of us.

 

[KunningLinguist]

besides being one of the worst human beings ever....

my ex didnt want anything new out of life....same thing....same places over and over

my idea of travel is NOT vegas and tailgating college football games

theres a giant world out there....and i'm seeing it

 

[Osca Lee]

Why worry about it when you can move on in life and start a better life.

 

[Dannyblueyes]

I have specific dreams and goals in my life. Any woman I marry would come second to these. I would expect her to do the same.

That way neither of us has to worry about the other being boring

 

[keith6]

 

[bigman23]

people cheat out of boredom all the time

 

[Kubrick]

Not quite the same, but I have seen a couple cases of women who hit their mid 30s and think they are missing out on something and leave/divorce their husbands.

Starts off with going to Happy Hour at the club once a week, to going out every weekend. Next comes the trips out of town with the girl friends and then it is a wrap.

What's crazy is that the women weren't the street/hood chick that some square tried to tame.

 

[bgbtylvr]

Hol’ Up..


Let me cook this Shit up right quick..

A woman’s complaint is often who and what SHE is. (Same for men, but in this case) A woman gripes about what she deals with, through selection, that she cannot change-the man. When she says she’s bored, what she is saying is she lacks the ability upgrade a dude she likely knew wasn’t about the shit she was into off rip. Likely tried to nag her dude into compliance instead of finessing that Shit. If dude is a stick in the mud, he was always one. Broads that say this married for security. They hoe’d out, had a few kids by street Kats, then found a Sampson to marry em. Sampson don’t drink, smoke or mind a couple kids that ain’t his. Sampson didn’t talk back or correct her on her bullshit. She found comfort in that, and figured all that rah rah shit played, so she married him. He works hard, that provides the lifestyle they live. Shit is good. But all her friends are still hoe ass hoes. Still puff, drink? Fight and creep. They getting tattoos and telling stories of how they can’t believe they made it to work the next day. All the shit she misses. Sampson is decent in bed. He gets her there either through oral or lengthy coitis. Rodney use to spit in her face and choke her, that Shit made her Pussy explode. Sampson would never grudge fuck, slap or spit on her. If she says no, he goes immediately to sleep. No pushback.

What she misses are the days when she wasn’t shit, wanted little out life, and had the attention of dangerous, unpredictable men. Moral of the story: if you take a woman’s struggle away from her, she has nothing. She will long for the people who were with her in that struggle because the people around her with seemingly not a care in the world are boring.

 

[killagram]

Brah..I'm bout sick of you trying to make these soap opera women bashing threads..fuck outta hea

 

[kirkout]

I will say it again, marriage takes work. It takes hard work. Yes, there will be good times, but there will be adversity. It’s what you do in those times that will tell, if your marriage will be successful or not. Marriage is great when the good times are rolling, but as soon as folks hit a bump they want a divorce. Basically, turning the marriage into a relationship instead of a union — a bond. Everyone always thinks the grass is greener on the other side. Then they make the mistake of a divorce and find out it isn’t. Don’t get me wrong sometimes a divorce is needed especially, if the environment is toxic and both sides aren’t willing to bend and work on their differences. Marriage is about sharing your life with someone else and building a life together. Conquering all odds that one may face. It’s a beautiful thing when done correctly. Folks need to be more perspective and introspective in a relationship. Always looking inward to make sure you’re upholding your end of the bargain, and if not, willing to make the changes necessary. Life is better if you have someone to share it with. Life’s challenges become a little easier. I wish my brothers and sisters were willing to try more often and try building a life with someone. You will find that there is strength in numbers.


Edit: Be wary of the he/she got boring and feeling that the other person is “cramping your style”. That person is the same person you married. You may need to check yourself and understand what’s important.

 

[trstar]

Not quite the same, but I have seen a couple cases of women who hit their mid 30s and think they are missing out on something and leave/divorce their husbands.

Starts off with going to Happy Hour at the club once a week, to going out every weekend. Next comes the trips out of town with the girl friends and then it is a wrap.

What's crazy is that the women weren't the street/hood chick that some square tried to tame.

They see the “housewives “ shows and believe they are missing out on a better life. “Designer” outfits, lunches at expensive spots, and exotic vacations on the regular. If she’s a a cutie with body, she’s being gassed up every day.

But when reality hits and ride stops and the bill comes due....it’s ugly. Then they are looking for a savior to care for them. It’s tragic and funny

 

[bajanbadman]

Hol’ Up..


Let me cook this Shit up right quick..

A woman’s complaint is often who and what SHE is. (Same for men, but in this case) A woman gripes about what she deals with, through selection, that she cannot change-the man. When she says she’s bored, what she is saying is she lacks the ability upgrade a dude she likely knew wasn’t about the shit she was into off rip. Likely tried to nag her dude into compliance instead of finessing that Shit. If dude is a stick in the mud, he was always one. Broads that say this married for security. They hoe’d out, had a few kids by street Kats, then found a Sampson to marry em. Sampson don’t drink, smoke or mind a couple kids that ain’t his. Sampson didn’t talk back or correct her on her bullshit. She found comfort in that, and figured all that rah rah shit played, so she married him. He works hard, that provides the lifestyle they live. Shit is good. But all her friends are still hoe ass hoes. Still puff, drink? Fight and creep. They getting tattoos and telling stories of how they can’t believe they made it to work the next day. All the shit she misses. Sampson is decent in bed. He gets her there either through oral or lengthy coitis. Rodney use to spit in her face and choke her, that Shit made her Pussy explode. Sampson would never grudge fuck, slap or spit on her. If she says no, he goes immediately to sleep. No pushback.

What she misses are the days when she wasn’t shit, wanted little out life, and had the attention of dangerous, unpredictable men. Moral of the story: if you take a woman’s struggle away from her, she has nothing. She will long for the people who were with her in that struggle because the people around her with seemingly not a care in the world are boring.

no matter what you always have to be the MAN, always be a bit dangerous even it not to wifey directly, and always be a bit fresh and fun.

 

[Mello Mello]

Like Corey Holcomb was saying yesterday in that thread why women cheat. You can be responsible and loving but that isnt going to keep them. They want to be stimulated either by dick or other means.

It might have nothing to do with you at all or it maybe it does. What they are seeking it could be some insecurity within themselves they are chasing something they are looking for someone else to fill.

Women marry for convenience all the time, we think its for love we want to believe its for love but even if it is that dont mean she wont divorce your ass.

 

[Kubrick]

They see the “housewives “ shows and believe they are missing out on a better life. “Designer” outfits, lunches at expensive spots, and exotic vacations on the regular. If she’s a a cutie with body, she’s being gassed up every day.

But when reality hits and ride stops and the bill comes due....it’s ugly. Then they are looking for a savior to care for them. It’s tragic and funny

Yep. That and the bullshit they see on Facebook and Instagram.

 

[^SpiderMan^]

There are women that will say/admit that their ex husband was a good guy. But she got bored. He didnt have the same ambitions as her, maybe she wanted to travel see the world and he just wanted to stay at home.

Maybe she wanted to start a company or go back to school and he could not match her ambitions.

Maybe his swag wore off.

I dont know but if you have talked to women intimately then you not the only person to hear that story.

Just talked to a chick that said she divorced her husband because he got too boring and she needed excitement.

And it was like she didnt see anything wrong with that.

Here is what scares me of the prospect of marriage. Here you supposed to marry someone for better or worse, till death do you part through sickness and health, wealth and poverty. Yet you wont stay because of unhappiness? Because he got boring?

I never hear men say this ever in my life and i had plenty of barber shop discussions. But women do.

Some of these women depend on their man solely for her own happiness. These the type of women that admit or will admit if you ask them that they get bored easily.

And one thing ive noticed about women that get bored easily they are: avg looking- very attractive and or they do not have a lot of habbits outside of taking selfies on instagram and shopping and gossiping. I never meet a woman that has more than 10 habbits and gets bored easily.

But that is my peace but i ask you...

You seem to always point the finger at women in your threads. The truth is that men do this same thing in a different way. I can't tell you how often i've seen dudes leave their wife and family for a younger prettier woman because they bored of their wife's looks or got bored by the sex. It's the same thing. Both of these cases seem to be more prevalent with white folks or people that got married young/inexperienced. In my observations,in our current society,one of the keys is for both people to have had alot of dating experience. I call it a "hoe phase". This is when both have dated and fucked a variety of people. I feel this is important because then they have a more accurate comparison for who they married and have an understanding of what they are actually "giving up" by being married. The woman that got married without much experience is more likely to leave her marriage for say a "bad boy" type than a woman that actually dated a "bad boy type" and had a negative experience with him. A dude that got married without experience might just leave his marriage for a big booty hoodrat where a dude that fucked a few has more accurate assessment of what the experience is like and whether it is worth the marriage. I work with a whole bunch of dudes that left their wives for young chicks that offer absolutely nothing but better looks and then complain about the divorce and the new chick later.

Not quite the same, but I have seen a couple cases of women who hit their mid 30s and think they are missing out on something and leave/divorce their husbands.

Starts off with going to Happy Hour at the club once a week, to going out every weekend. Next comes the trips out of town with the girl friends and then it is a wrap.

What's crazy is that the women weren't the street/hood chick that some square tried to tame.

Exactly....the "street/hood chick" has already been on the trips and fucking a variety of dudes and usually value their marriage more because they know what it is like on the other side.

I will say it again, marriage takes work. It takes hard work. Yes, there will be good times, but there will be adversity. It’s what you do in those times that will tell, if your marriage will be successful or not. Marriage is great when the good times are rolling, but as soon as folks hit a bump they want a divorce. Basically, turning the marriage into a relationship instead of a union — a bond. Everyone always thinks the grass is greener on the other side. Then they make the mistake of a divorce and find out it isn’t. Don’t get me wrong sometimes a divorce is needed especially, if the environment is toxic and both sides aren’t willing to bend and work on their differences. Marriage is about sharing your life with someone else and building a life together. Conquering all odds that one may face. It’s a beautiful thing when done correctly. Folks need to be more perspective and introspective in a relationship. Always looking inward to make sure you’re upholding your end of the bargain, and if not, willing to make the changes necessary. Life is better if you have someone to share it with. Life’s challenges become a little easier. I wish my brothers and sisters were willing to try more often and try building a life with someone. You will find that there is strength in numbers.



Edit: Be wary of the he/she got boring and feeling that the other person is “cramping your style”. That person is the same person you married. You may need to check yourself and understand what’s important.

Really good post man.

 

[The Plutonian]

Maybe she want some strange dangalang up her twat like a lot of women do. Hell when I was married I got tired of that same pussy. Strange cunt keeps you going. Then again, at some point that shit gets old and you just want to be happy

 

[daddyfatsacks9000]

And how are women socialized into this

You tell us, you got the most insight on being a woman. Seeing as you are a woman.

 

[clitsational]

And how are women socialized into this

i hope this is not a serious question

i mean just look around

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[Amajorfucup]

Women will cheat out of boredom. But women ain't divorcing out of boredom. They smarter than that.

 

[Texas Catdaddy]

You tell us, you got the most insight on being a woman. Seeing as you are a woman.

Sir Fuzzy McVagina Feet .....

 

[bgbtylvr]

Women will cheat out of boredom. But women ain't divorcing out of boredom. They smarter than that.

Exactly. Shit gotta be bad all the way around. Sex whack, constantly broke, arguing AND bored. Bitch ain’t walking away from comfort unless he’s abusive.

 

[bgbtylvr]

Women will cheat out of boredom. But women ain't divorcing out of boredom. They smarter than that.

Exactly. Shit gotta be bad all the way around. Sex whack, constantly broke, arguing AND bored. Bitch ain’t walking away from comfort unless he’s abusive.