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Women in a Long Distance Relationship...Get in here!
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Interesting post TnE
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Thanks 1/3 of the mod squad...
ur sig change is striking
SO... according to his logic...which mall would you pick?
Omg. . . first of all that was hilarious.
But all jokes aside. . I really don't believe in long distance relationships. I think that it may work for some people, but I think most people don't have the patience, devotion, and trust that is needed to make a long distance relationship last. It takes a looooooooooooot of work. A lot. . . .
I think it is entirely possible for it to work. As Chi said it would definitely require work.
TnE I think human nature would possess me to take a look in the mall. However dependent on how deep my ties to the LD partner I would only window shop. Get a lil flirt on and bounce.
Thats just me though.
And thanks for the props on the sig
thanks to the Famous81 of course. please check out the sig forum his stuff is amazing 
TnE I think human nature would possess me to take a look in the mall. However dependent on how deep my ties to the LD partner I would only window shop. Get a lil flirt on and bounce.
Thats just me though.
And thanks for the props on the sig
thanks to the Famous81 of course. please check out the sig forum his stuff is amazing
is this a universal rule?
or a sore spot for you...I am curious because you took the time to respond twice.
did u watch the vid...what did you think?
I watched some. I don't like the guy so I stopped watching. I don't like american ghetto guys like that so....
lolll dude is hilarious. But... I bet only like 5percent of those types of relationships work.
Now this caught me off guard!
Now this caught me off guard!
So is it a sore spot or no?
The guy says hes from london and new york on his channel... so by process of elimination I am guessing he's got some Caribbean in him.
As a side note... if you think 2:50-3:00 is an example of an american ghetto guy then...
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I don't hear no London nor no Caribbean in him but it doesn't even matter. That type of guy is the type I RUN from.
No sore spot. Reality.
Ain't this the type of negative shit that got you banned before? Don't like Americans? Carry your dumb ass to a Caribbean message board.
Ain't this the type of negative shit that got you banned before? Don't like Americans? Carry your dumb ass to a Caribbean message board.
Oh so all americans are like that guy?
BTW this is not an american message board you dumb motherscunt.
anyone who thinks a long distance relationship works check out this video
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WOW
So you would like to think.
I said I don't like ghetto american guys like that guy. Learn how to read you ignorant scunt.
Listen harlot, do you wonder why your lonely? Can't keep a man or a woman? Guess what? I'ts you.
Listen harlot, do you wonder why your lonely? Can't keep a man or a woman? Guess what? I'ts you.
hustle what hardah? crack rocks? ignorant waste product
hustle what hardah? crack rocks? ignorant waste product
why is it that whenever I want to talk about something seriously you manage to come in my threads and take the focus off whatever the topic is because of your insolent comments.
please before responding to anything I post please watch the whole thing or read the whole thing... anyone who saw the whole video could see that this is a seemingly educated man made the video for hilarity's sake. He was playing a role...and he snapped out of it later in the video... the man spat some knowledge about the mall anaology...which I am sure you missed.
if, bigirl, you would like to comment about that... I am curious to know what you think...
if your comments are not about the topic at hand... please just start your own thread...and insert any irrelevant comments there. (people please do the same... pick on her in another thread not this one).
Thanks a billion,
TnE
I COULDN'T WATCH THE WHOLE THING CAUSE THE DUDE IS WACK AND HE IS NOT FROM ANYWHERE IN THE CARIBBEAN NOR LONDON THAT IS A GRIMEY NY ACCENT AND THATS THAT AND HE WEARS TACKY CHAINS TOO
you can speak to hustlemorecrackhardah about insolent comments
I came and spoke my peace on long distance relationships about which I know alot unfortunately. fuck the stupid video i speaking on the title of the fucking thread.
a fish die by your mouth.
btw i dont go to malls EVER
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so what happened with you?
were u thinking it was all good with your dude and it wasnt?
Its fine. I just said don't expect monogamy on either end or you are an idiot.
Thats the real truth right there. I just fail to comprehend any woman who thinks she is in a monogamous long distance relationship
First off, how are you going to critique something or even speak on a topic without taking it in fully? The question that was proposed IS BASED ON THE VID...you just said you didn't watch thoroughly, you dismissed dude because you thought he was ghetto (He definitely is not, maybe goofy, but not ghetto at all) and you're speaking already from a skewed, bias, and negative standpoint. Bottomline, with the statements you made, you just said your opinion doesn't count numberous times.
TnE, as far as the vid and the question it poses, I agree with ChiCutie and LS. It definitely is possible that it CAN work, but effort and hard work must be put in to it. I have a friend that got married to her husband and they are both from Cape Verde originally. She met him on a trip back in 2002, they met again in 2005, and maintained the relationship the whole time until they got married in 2007. Might I add that she lived in Atlanta, GA and he lived in Cape Verde. He then moved to the U.S. and they commenced the engagement. So it DEFINITELY is possible.
2nd, it's not just women that have to worry about their mate in a long distance relationship, and I'm talking from personal experience. I'm a firm believer that people only accuse you of things they are guilty of themselves, and I definitely have been with women that were insecure with themselves and thought that I might cheat on them, even though I was loyal. I have been in quite a few long distance relationships, and from my standpoint and experience, it takes a person with great patience, understanding, love, and support of the other and vice versa in order for it to work.
Lastly, I pose this question to you and other women as well as men on the board...If you can't see yourself maintaining or being in a long distance relationship with someone you supposedly love, then what does that say about you and the love for that person? To liken it to an ancient Egyptian believe of "As is above, so is below", I believe it's the same with relationships, "So is then, as is now"...meaning that if you can't forsee yourself being with someone and sticking by them through your own insecurities, temptations, and rough times long distance wise, then how do you expect to handle hard and rough times in a relationship that's closer?
Sorry about the rant, just had to get that off my chest...
If you can't see yourself maintaining or being in a long distance relationship with someone you supposedly love, then what does that say about you and the love for that person? To liken it to an ancient Egyptian believe of "As is above, so is below", I believe it's the same with relationships, "So is then, as is now"...meaning that if you can't forsee yourself being with someone and sticking by them through your own insecurities, temptations, and rough times long distance wise, then how do you expect to handle hard and rough times in a relationship that's closer?
Sorry about the rant, just had to get that off my chest...
you have so many pearls of truth in your whole post its ridiculous...but to the ones that you posed to the board... I cant even answer that...I just think that is a real question you asked...that i needed to hear...
onslaught... u are the man...
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TnE, as far as the vid and the question it poses, I agree with ChiCutie and LS. It definitely is possible that it CAN work, but effort and hard work must be put in to it. I have a friend that got married to her husband and they are both from Cape Verde originally. She met him on a trip back in 2002, they met again in 2005, and maintained the relationship the whole time until they got married in 2007. Might I add that she lived in Atlanta, GA and he lived in Cape Verde. He then moved to the U.S. and they commenced the engagement. So it DEFINITELY is possible.
2nd, it's not just women that have to worry about their mate in a long distance relationship, and I'm talking from personal experience. I'm a firm believer that people only accuse you of things they are guilty of themselves, and I definitely have been with women that were insecure with themselves and thought that I might cheat on them, even though I was loyal. I have been in quite a few long distance relationships, and from my standpoint and experience, it takes a person with great patience, understanding, love, and support of the other and vice versa in order for it to work.
Lastly, I pose this question to you and other women as well as men on the board...If you can't see yourself maintaining or being in a long distance relationship with someone you supposedly love, then what does that say about you and the love for that person? To liken it to an ancient Egyptian believe of "As is above, so is below", I believe it's the same with relationships, "So is then, as is now"...meaning that if you can't forsee yourself being with someone and sticking by them through your own insecurities, temptations, and rough times long distance wise, then how do you expect to handle hard and rough times in a relationship that's closer?
Sorry about the rant, just had to get that off my chest...
C/s 300%
Go head grasshopper!
ummmm what about him makes him ghetto? and if he was a non-american type of "ghetto" guy would you have continued watching?
hmmmm that was a snap judgement you made and i think you should give the video a try. sometimes we jump to conclusions too soon and wind up missing on something good.
and you said you know a lot about LD relationships unfortunatelythat sounds like a sore spot of reality for you.
with the mall anology, are you talking about what he spoke about or actually going to the mall?
First off, how are you going to critique something or even speak on a topic without taking it in fully? The question that was proposed IS BASED ON THE VID...you just said you didn't watch thoroughly, you dismissed dude because you thought he was ghetto (He definitely is not, maybe goofy, but not ghetto at all) and you're speaking already from a skewed, bias, and negative standpoint. Bottomline, with the statements you made, you just said your opinion doesn't count numberous times.
TnE, as far as the vid and the question it poses, I agree with ChiCutie and LS. It definitely is possible that it CAN work, but effort and hard work must be put in to it. I have a friend that got married to her husband and they are both from Cape Verde originally. She met him on a trip back in 2002, they met again in 2005, and maintained the relationship the whole time until they got married in 2007. Might I add that she lived in Atlanta, GA and he lived in Cape Verde. He then moved to the U.S. and they commenced the engagement. So it DEFINITELY is possible.
2nd, it's not just women that have to worry about their mate in a long distance relationship, and I'm talking from personal experience. I'm a firm believer that people only accuse you of things they are guilty of themselves, and I definitely have been with women that were insecure with themselves and thought that I might cheat on them, even though I was loyal. I have been in quite a few long distance relationships, and from my standpoint and experience, it takes a person with great patience, understanding, love, and support of the other and vice versa in order for it to work.
Lastly, I pose this question to you and other women as well as men on the board...If you can't see yourself maintaining or being in a long distance relationship with someone you supposedly love, then what does that say about you and the love for that person? To liken it to an ancient Egyptian believe of "As is above, so is below", I believe it's the same with relationships, "So is then, as is now"...meaning that if you can't forsee yourself being with someone and sticking by them through your own insecurities, temptations, and rough times long distance wise, then how do you expect to handle hard and rough times in a relationship that's closer?
Sorry about the rant, just had to get that off my chest...
^ true story
you can have someone in the same town, even on the same block...if they are going to be inaccessable, they are going to be inaccessable. if they want to cheat, they are going to cheat. if they are going to be faithful, they are going to be faithful.
i believe that if you are going to be in a LD relationship, it shouldn't be in the beginning stages of the relationship becuase usually a strong foundation isn't established yet.
it is DEF a test of your relationship but also an opportunity to explore some other ways of communication and expression of your feelings towards your partner. you will see the strengths and weaknesses a lot sooner and clearer.
granted LD relationships aren't for everyone BUT, some people can make it work, especially since they aren't usually permanent.
I just wanted to come back and say thank you ladies for reading my post thoroughly in the first place. I appreciate all the love and commonalities as well as the differences we all have.
Sometimes I just think people aren't willing to make a sacrifice of the heart anymore, and that's ashame. If you as a person thought enough to get involved in a relationship with the person you're with in the first place, why wouldn't you go the extra mile for them? That's just how I see it.
Sometimes I just think people aren't willing to make a sacrifice of the heart anymore, and that's ashame. If you as a person thought enough to get involved in a relationship with the person you're with in the first place, why wouldn't you go the extra mile for them? That's just how I see it.
After just being on the phone with him for nearly an hour this morning, I come back thru to say the worst part of a long distance relationship is the frustration. We were both nearly in tears. Yes wonderful to talk to him as always but we both are dying to see each other but we can't until who knows when. So thats the real killer IMO. No amount of nice words on the phone comes close to eye contact and a hug.
BI, I used to hate this saying but it's so true, "Distance makes the heart grow fonder." I know it's hard but that just means that when you are able to express those feelings it will be that much more rewarding. You gotta look at it like that or else it's just negative energy flowing around...what's the use of that?
BI, I used to hate this saying but it's so true, "Distance makes the heart grow fonder." I know it's hard but that just means that when you are able to express those feelings it will be that much more rewarding. You gotta look at it like that or else it's just negative energy flowing around...what's the use of that?
We will have one hell of a great time whenever it is we get to see each other again and I look foward to it. I try to not even think about it much and keep myself distracted. Still frustrating though lol. "Cheating" is not even an issue for us because we both want each other to get some. Doesn't work for me too well though as I wish it was him instead of whoever else.
I got a theory yall...the dude in the vid prolly reminds here of a dude that broke her hears. huh? huh?
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