woman's intuition. Is it real or just a hustle?

[Dannyblueyes]

The past two relationships I've been in were with women who claimed to see the future. The first one was religious and told me that God was revealing shit to her . At first I believed her, but as time went on she made Madame Cleo look like Nostradamus. regardless I still smiled and nodded so that I wouldn't hurt her feelings. Eventually she started doing scandalous shit and saying things like "Don't worry about this huge debt I just racked up in your name. I just had a dream that you were recording with Christina Agulara."

The second woman wasn't manipulative with her shit, but again claimed she could see the future. Of course she was about as accurate as Stevie Wonder doing a traffic report. She would say crazy shit like "If you move to Oakland your going to get shot."

My mom even got in on that. I was about to drive to an out of town show last winter and she begs me to cancel. She says that if I go she has a "feeling" that I'm going to hit some black ice on the road, spin out, have an accident and die. I did the show anyway and aside from a few minor fishtails on the way back I was fine.

Forgive me for generalizing but after dealing with these and other would be female fortune tellers I really got to ask, do y'all really believe that you have that ESP or is just a tactic you use to get an upper hand?

Men, how do you tactfully put a woman in check when she starts with that nonsense?

 

[DeSiRe]

i do believe in women's intuition

ive gotten a gut feeling about situations and they have ended up being true

i dont know about seeing the future...

but for example... i was dating this guy....i had no real reason to beleive he was seeing someone else...but it was just something about him that didnt sit right with me

and sure enough a few months later his girl called me...and only reason she found out about me was a gut feeling she had...no solid evidence to prove he was unfaithful

this intution just isnt about if your man is cheating or not...it can be about anything

when i was younger i would brush the "feelings" off...as i have gotten older and found that my gut is been right more than its been wrong i have been paying more attention to it

 

[Shadow]

Eventually she started doing scandalous shit and saying things like "Don't worry about this huge debt I just racked up in your name. I just had a dream that you were recording with Christina Agulara."

Wait...

What?

 

[Harbinger]

And I thought the women I hung out with were crazy. LOL.

Nah dude, no such thing, those women you were with had ISSUES, which I'm sure has something to do with why you're no longer with them.

What women, or people in general call intuition, gut feeling, etc. are just context clues your subconscious has put together from the things you've seen, heard, smelled, etc. that really didn't register to your conscious mind at the time.

This let you make more of an informed decision than you actually might've thought it was. So the things that you do are really based on experiences that you have, both conscious and unconscious, past and present.

 

[mrjody]

To bad womens intuition doesnt work on other women....


Assume he's doing something wrong.
Dig long enough, youll find something....
Even if it ten years later..

 

[Harlem's Angel]

Women's intuition is very real but it is not the ability to see into the future. Its the feeling that something may not be right about a situation and its usually right. But men have it too but they don't like to follow that gut feeling for whatever reason. My intuition is very strong and if you listen to it it can be a very good tool in your life.

 

[xfactor]

woman's intuition. Is it real or just a hustle?

It's real but all people have intuition, not just women.

Problem is, most people don't listen to their inner conscience, and end up getting themselves in bad situations.

 

[Digital Angel]

My intuition has never been wrong.

I've caught the best cheaters just off a bad feeling alone. I've broken off two relationships due to vivid dreams of them cheating. You could say I'm just paranoid but my boo for life has never given me any bad vibes and "were still together".

If you don't believe in such a thing you can call it a keen common sense (funny thing is common sense isn't so common).

 

[Mo-Better]

Women's intuition is very real but it is not the ability to see into the future. Its the feeling that something may not be right about a situation and its usually right. But men have it too but they don't like to follow that gut feeling for whatever reason. My intuition is very strong and if you listen to it it can be a very good tool in your life.

Excellent response and men too have this gift but with men its called a gut feeling.

 

[Dannyblueyes]

Women's intuition is very real but it is not the ability to see into the future. Its the feeling that something may not be right about a situation and its usually right. But men have it too but they don't like to follow that gut feeling for whatever reason. My intuition is very strong and if you listen to it it can be a very good tool in your life.

Have you ever used that intuition to manipulate a situation? for instance he wants to take you to a movie that you really don't want to see. You say something like "Honey lets not do this. I have a feeling that something bad is going to happen at the theater."

I'm not trying to judge. I'm just curious to see how common this might be.

 

[moblack]

Man she did you like a simp. How you gonna let a woman put something in your name on your credit line?

 

[Dannyblueyes]

Man she did you like a simp. How you gonna let a woman put something in your name on your credit line?

She was supposed to pay half the rent. Instead she went shopping. I had to use my credit to pick up the slack.

I'll admit it. I AM a simp. I usually don't fall for a female's bullshit, but every so often I'll fall in love with a broad and become the biggest fool in the world. This is why I try to avoid women for the most part. In the mean time I study them from a distance to figure out what makes them so evil.

 

[LoneStar29]

It's real but all people have intuition, not just women.

Problem is, most people don't listen to their inner conscience, and end up getting themselves in bad situations.

C/S ... it's all about following that gut feeling man or woman

Have you ever used that intuition to manipulate a situation? for instance he wants to take you to a movie that you really don't want to see. You say something like "Honey lets not do this. I have a feeling that something bad is going to happen at the theater."

I'm not trying to judge. I'm just curious to see how common this might be.

If a woman does that she is obviously full of shit ... I don't do that kind of crap

 

[LoneStar29]

She was supposed to pay half the rent. Instead she went shopping. I had to use my credit to pick up the slack.

I'll admit it. I AM a simp. I usually don't fall for a female's bullshit, but every so often I'll fall in love with a broad and become the biggest fool in the world. This is why I try to avoid women for the most part. In the mean time I study them from a distance to figure out what makes them so evil.

Your first mistake was paying her half of the rent when the bird went shopping with the money insteadYou shoulda let her know if she aint got her priorities straight she aint gonna have a roof over her head either ... PERIOD

Not all women are evil ... you and I have gone over this a couple times before ... you made some bad decisions in women ... those women don't represent all of us so cut that shit out pleaseStudying a woman is not a bad idea cuz I study men too ... now take those studies and apply them to the next woman you meet ... I ask any man I am dating 1,000,000 questions(but not all at once lol) ... questions they may not even realize are important ... I take all the answers and figure out his character then decide wether he should stay or go ... so next time you meet a woman ask her about her intuition ... if she says it's a gut feeling she follows to stay safe from harm she is a keeperif she says she can see the future and you will be performing with Christina so don't worry about the rent she has got to goPERIOD

 

[Harlem's Angel]

Have you ever used that intuition to manipulate a situation? for instance he wants to take you to a movie that you really don't want to see. You say something like "Honey lets not do this. I have a feeling that something bad is going to happen at the theater."

I'm not trying to judge. I'm just curious to see how common this might be.

No. I'm not that kind of woman. I'll say I don't want to see this movie. But I usually just go to the movies cuz he wants to anyway. But I never use my feeling for evil lol. Only a manipulative woman would do that.

 

[DarkCity]

No. I'm not that kind of woman. I'll say I don't want to see this movie. But I usually just go to the movies cuz he wants to anyway. But I never use my feeling for evil lol. Only a manipulative woman would do that.

You sound like a superhero lol

 

[Dannyblueyes]

Your first mistake was paying her half of the rent when the bird went shopping with the money insteadYou shoulda let her know if she aint got her priorities straight she aint gonna have a roof over her head either ... PERIOD

Not all women are evil ... you and I have gone over this a couple times before ... you made some bad decisions in women ... those women don't represent all of us so cut that shit out pleaseStudying a woman is not a bad idea cuz I study men too ... now take those studies and apply them to the next woman you meet ... I ask any man I am dating 1,000,000 questions(but not all at once lol) ... questions they may not even realize are important ... I take all the answers and figure out his character then decide wether he should stay or go ... so next time you meet a woman ask her about her intuition ... if she says it's a gut feeling she follows to stay safe from harm she is a keeperif she says she can see the future and you will be performing with Christina so don't worry about the rent she has got to goPERIOD

I see how much these blanket statements upset you so I'll stop saying women are evil, at least on SOL anyway.

To explain though, when I say that all women are evil it's a little like saying that all snakes are poisonous. Of course not all snakes are. Even the ones that can poison you won't do it under normal circumstances, still you have to be VERY careful before you take the risk.

I agree with you about my ex, I should have qualified her before we got married and had children. I can only blame myself for that one. The only problem is that I see the same shit that happen to me happen to a lot of my friends, family, media figures, and so forth. We also live in a society that rewards women for irresponsible behavior while punishing men for doing the "right thing". It makes dealing with women similar to playing craps with someone holding loaded dice. Sure, not every woman will use these unfair advantages, but it's still a hell of a chance to take.

 

[Harlem's Angel]

You sound like a superhero lol

That's cuz I am.

 

[LoneStar29]

I see how much these blanket statements upset you so I'll stop saying women are evil, at least on SOL anyway.

To explain though, when I say that all women are evil it's a little like saying that all snakes are poisonous. Of course not all snakes are. Even the ones that can poison you won't do it under normal circumstances, still you have to be VERY careful before you take the risk.

I agree with you about my ex, I should have qualified her before we got married and had children. I can only blame myself for that one. The only problem is that I see the same shit that happen to me happen to a lot of my friends, family, media figures, and so forth. We also live in a society that rewards women for irresponsible behavior while punishing men for doing the "right thing". It makes dealing with women similar to playing craps with someone holding loaded dice. Sure, not every woman will use these unfair advantages, but it's still a hell of a chance to take.

I completely understand where you are coming from and I can't wrong you for feeling that way due to your personal experiences(I can't believe you married her)but the same ish you said about women can be said for men too ... there is good and bad on both sides ... if you believe you are a "good guy" when women always complain there aren't any then you gotta believe there are good women out there too.

I'm just sayin' if you hold every woman you meet to those negative ideals then that is what you are going to meet ... if you only look for bad that is all you will see ... be open to the fact there are good women out there and you will meet some ... just use the warning signs from past chickenheads to weed out the birds... just please don't assume we are ALL bad ... that's all I'm sayin'

 

[AlexandMorgan]

With some women it is just gas and/or a low fiber diet.

With others it is the female network which they use which allows them copious knowledge of your every action and whereabouts.

On the real though the intuition we speak of is when we notice something that triggers an alarm. Our brain logs the information until we can actually process or understand why we are uncomfortable with it and/or what it is that has caused the discomfort.

 

[DeSiRe]

Have you ever used that intuition to manipulate a situation? for instance he wants to take you to a movie that you really don't want to see. You say something like "Honey lets not do this. I have a feeling that something bad is going to happen at the theater."

I'm not trying to judge. I'm just curious to see how common this might be.

sounds like your girl is on some "thats so raven" type shit

no this isnt normal

 

[mariano42]

men also have this ability.

 

[Arctic Sun]

Women's Intuition = Women's Insecurity

Nothing special.