that's an insult.......i don't have shit in common with a fucking honky, grasscutter or chink.
Why Men Love Bitches
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that's an insult.......i don't have shit in common with a fucking honky, grasscutter or chink.
Have the book and its sequel... got the first one for laughs...and then realized this stuff actually works.
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But I gotta give it to the author. Put the word bitch in the title and all the real bitches will buy it up because it speak to their nature in a positive light. All the real women who get passed over for bitches will buy it to find answers. And they get for their money is some bullshit acronym.
BRILLIANT!!!!!!
Please expound TnE. What principles worked?
1. Anything a person chases in life runs away- Basically telling women that they shouldn't actively pursue what they want. BULLSHIT. Games.
2. The women who have the men climbing the walls for them are not exceptional; often they appear to not care that much- Basically telling women a man will appreciate you more if you show disinterest. BULLSHIT. More games.
3. A woman is a challenge to a man if he doesn't have a 100% hold on her- BULLSHIT, I shouldn't have to explain.
And those were the first three in the book. I don't really feel like typing them all out. She's saying the same damn 5 things over and over again 20 times and she's just using different words to say it. She took a 10 min lecture and turned it into a 255 page book of Bullshit. The men who would respond to this horse manure, well, I guess you might want them. Like I said, most of it is common sense: Be well put-together, don't be too overbearing, and have an edge.
Good luck with your book, I hope you catch a good one!
Why are you ASSuming that I'm even using these principles? I'm quite happy with my current situation, but thanks for the well wishes.
It's just a book. And this is just a thread asking people who have actually read the book (not just skimmed and glossed over it) what they think. I don't understand the hostility.
You might need to work on your reading comprehension skills though. Although the first principle at initial glance might seem to be about "gameplaying", it's really about not having sex/participating in sex acts with a man that you barely know. An actual quote from that chapter,
"He runs because the woman's behavior doesn't suggest that she places a high value on herself. The relationship is new, and the bond between them is relatively shallow. Yet she's already dealt him her best card."
Respecting yourself is gameplaying? Hmmm.
In the explanation of the second principle, the author even points out that it's NOT about game playing. And it has absolutely nothing to do with showing disinterest. Another quote for you,
"This isn't about how to play a game or how to manipulate someone. This is about whether you are genuinely needy, or whether you can genuinely show him that you will be an equal partner in the relationship. It's about whether you are capable of holding your own in a relationship."
Being independent is gameplaying? Hmmmm.
And finally, the third principle is about not sitting at home and waiting for a man to call you. That's good advice, no? It's basically saying that while dumb chicks are sitting at home, waiting for some attention, a real woman should be continuing her life, and when he does call, she'll either have time to talk to him, or she won't, because she doesn't drop everything for him.
Reading is fundamental.
Why are you ASSuming that I'm even using these principles? I'm quite happy with my current situation, but thanks for the well wishes.
It's just a book. And this is just a thread asking people who have actually read the book (not just skimmed and glossed over it) what they think. I don't understand the hostility.
You might need to work on your reading comprehension skills though. Although the first principle at initial glance might seem to be about "gameplaying", it's really about not having sex/participating in sex acts with a man that you barely know. An actual quote from that chapter,
"He runs because the woman's behavior doesn't suggest that she places a high value on herself. The relationship is new, and the bond between them is relatively shallow. Yet she's already dealt him her best card."
Respecting yourself is gameplaying? Hmmm.
In the explanation of the second principle, the author even points out that it's NOT about game playing. And it has absolutely nothing to do with showing disinterest. Another quote for you,
"This isn't about how to play a game or how to manipulate someone. This is about whether you are genuinely needy, or whether you can genuinely show him that you will be an equal partner in the relationship. It's about whether you are capable of holding your own in a relationship."
Being independent is gameplaying? Hmmmm.
And finally, the third principle is about not sitting at home and waiting for a man to call you. That's good advice, no? It's basically saying that while dumb chicks are sitting at home, waiting for some attention, a real woman should be continuing her life, and when he does call, she'll either have time to talk to him, or she won't, because she doesn't drop everything for him.
Reading is fundamental.
Good luck with your book!
Balance is the key.
When it gets to a point that you have to read books to understand the most simple things in life, something has went terribly wrong.
BTW, I see where you coming from.
Why are you ASSuming that I'm even using these principles? I'm quite happy with my current situation, but thanks for the well wishes.
It's just a book. And this is just a thread asking people who have actually read the book (not just skimmed and glossed over it) what they think. I don't understand the hostility.
You might need to work on your reading comprehension skills though. Although the first principle at initial glance might seem to be about "gameplaying", it's really about not having sex/participating in sex acts with a man that you barely know. An actual quote from that chapter,
"He runs because the woman's behavior doesn't suggest that she places a high value on herself. The relationship is new, and the bond between them is relatively shallow. Yet she's already dealt him her best card."
Respecting yourself is gameplaying? Hmmm.
In the explanation of the second principle, the author even points out that it's NOT about game playing. And it has absolutely nothing to do with showing disinterest. Another quote for you,
"This isn't about how to play a game or how to manipulate someone. This is about whether you are genuinely needy, or whether you can genuinely show him that you will be an equal partner in the relationship. It's about whether you are capable of holding your own in a relationship."
Being independent is gameplaying? Hmmmm.
And finally, the third principle is about not sitting at home and waiting for a man to call you. That's good advice, no? It's basically saying that while dumb chicks are sitting at home, waiting for some attention, a real woman should be continuing her life, and when he does call, she'll either have time to talk to him, or she won't, because she doesn't drop everything for him.
Reading is fundamental.
Basically, you/the book is saying that these niggas out here ain't shit. Women should not worry about dudes, and live their life....right?
I'm getting it right...RIGHT?
So if this is true, that means YOU can't get mad if someone YOU like decides to date outside their race...right?
That means if someone hit that right *Better than your vibrator is program to do*, and don't call you for four days, you won't be tripping right?
I am getting this right...Right?
When it comes down to it, women are just like men on the most part. The same game you just quoted has been ran by countless men. Why you think we don't call after we fuck? Why you think we don't show our emotional side? Why you think when you call, we say "im busy"?
I hope you not just discovering this piece of game.
we can be talkin about swiss cheese and you will find some way to tie that into dating outside your race
chic: what you doing?
actin: makin a sammich, a swiss cheese sammich
chic: eww i don't like swiss cheese
actin: see that's yall problem, yall stay sayin eww, now don't be surprised/mad when we go out and fuck chics outside our race
chic:
why do you do that? if that is what you do then do it, stop tryna find new ways to justify it
damn near everyone in here either said this book was written for a CAC women OR have went the route of all men are men and all women are women and here you go making it seem like its black women only living by these principles which results in YOU messing with chics of other ethnicities.
yeah...if your on tonight, i will be asking you about this in XAT
we can be talkin about swiss cheese and you will find some way to tie that into dating outside your race
chic: what you doing?
actin: makin a sammich, a swiss cheese sammich
chic: eww i don't like swiss cheese
actin: see that's yall problem, yall stay sayin eww, now don't be surprised/mad when we go out and fuck chics outside our race
chic:
why do you do that? if that is what you do then do it, stop tryna find new ways to justify it
damn near everyone in here either said this book was written for a CAC women OR have went the route of all men are men and all women are women and here you go making it seem like its black women only living by these principles which results in YOU messing with chics of other ethnicities.
yeah...if your on tonight, i will be asking you about this in XAT
POP OFF JuJu!!
we can be talkin about swiss cheese and you will find some way to tie that into dating outside your race
chic: what you doing?
actin: makin a sammich, a swiss cheese sammich
chic: eww i don't like swiss cheese
actin: see that's yall problem, yall stay sayin eww, now don't be surprised/mad when we go out and fuck chics outside our race
chic:
why do you do that? if that is what you do then do it, stop tryna find new ways to justify it
damn near everyone in here either said this book was written for a CAC women OR have went the route of all men are men and all women are women and here you go making it seem like its black women only living by these principles which results in YOU messing with chics of other ethnicities.
yeah...if your on tonight, i will be asking you about this in XAT
I guess I'll see you tonight...
I'm going to need for you to go back and re-read my entire post.
I think that you guys have a real issue with reading comprehension.
No where did I write that "niggas ain't shit", and come on Actin, have I ever said that?
And WTF does dating outside of your race have to do with any of this?
I really wish people that have read the book and are capable of comprehending it would respond to this thread.
Ju, I'll buy the plane ticket to Dallas so y'all can just grudge fuck.
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don't you mean PLANE ticket? ok guy..lol
anyway...how bout no
actin n i will engage in a conversation 2nite on XAT about this....i really wanna know y interracial dating gets tied into a large proportion of his conversations...or any conversation.
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I'm going to need for you to go back and re-read my entire post.
I think that you guys have a real issue with reading comprehension.
No where did I write that "niggas ain't shit", and come on Actin, have I ever said that?
And WTF does dating outside of your race have to do with any of this?
I really wish people that have read the book and are capable of comprehending it would respond to this thread.
I think only 3 or 4 have, if that, so your discussion will be very limited. And you know people don't like to post.
I'm going to need for you to go back and re-read my entire post.
I think that you guys have a real issue with reading comprehension.
No where did I write that "niggas ain't shit", and come on Actin, have I ever said that?
And WTF does dating outside of your race have to do with any of this?
I really wish people that have read the book and are capable of comprehending it would respond to this thread.
About the outside race.
Didn't you say, in the chat room, that seeing black men going outside their race bothered you?
From what I've been reading *your quotes*, you really shouldn't even invest any type of emotion to something like that. You should just go and live your life without even getting mad.
Didn't you not type that women shouldn't really worry about us calling them? If women shouldn't worry about us calling, doesn't that mean we aren't important? (translation.. Niggas ain't shit)
BTW, a book can be interpreted in many ways.
I think you misinterpreted me, or are confusing me with someone else.
So let me clarify now. When I was younger, it bothered me (think back...HS or something).
Now, I don't care who dates who. It's none of my concern. I've dated non-black men before, and had a great time. Men are men.
I KNOW I've said that before.
Besides, race still has absolutely nothing to do with this, and my opinion on interracial dating is irrelevant to what WMLB is about. The author doesn't reference race at all.
And you're reading ENTIRELY too deep into this. "Women shouldn't worry about men." That means exactly that! It means girl, don't worry about it! If he doesn't call, he doesn't call. That's that. Stop "translating" things to make it mean what you want it to.
My thing is, if you consider this man as being important, you would value the time that you have when you have contact with him. 9 times out of 10, you would want to talk to him more than anything in the world. The whole notion that "you shouldn't worry about him calling" is easier to say when you do not have anyone on your menu like that. To me, that quote seems like a hood chick telling another girl that "dont worry about him, he ain't shit". Thats TO ME.
Now, I'm not saying that you should be waiting by the phone for a man to call, and not living your life. However, for you to tell me that a woman shouldn't worry about a man AT ALL. That we are basically irrelevant in a woman's life. To me, thats bullshit.
yall niggus better be smooth when talking to PC
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Really tho!
Until I read the book I will refrain from commenting but from the comments that I've read it doesn't look like I'm missing anything. So I'll probably just skip this one.
Now stop fuckin' postin' my YOUNGER twin Sean....
I can grow facial hair...
OMG,it is you.Just missing the side part
FUCK YOU SS...you damn well I didn't have a side part after the age of 6....NIGGU, straighten up or fly right...
he lighter than me joe
FUCK YOU SS...you damn well I didn't have a side part after the age of 6....NIGGU, straighten up or fly right...
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