Why do some many young broads look at dudes much older than them?

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Obviously with such a big age difference relationshipare outta the question. So why would a 20 year old look at a 40 year old knowing damn well nothing but dick would come out of it?

I'm closing in on 40 and I got youngins still looking and i'm talking 18, 19 here and that's a big gap.

What? These young dudes with abs and energy ain't enough? They want some old dude that goes to bed early?
 
because, while you might not look at them............the majority of these thirsty muthafukas chase young girls.........so the young hoes are used to older dudes checking for them, and in turn they check for the older men.....
 
Maturity level + level of comfort...even tho you not gonna give them any $$$ it's still nice that they have someone w/ a car and a place of their own
 
Older guys are more established. At the end of the day women are attracted to security.
 
Im 34 and have a 21 year old semi hoodrat sidepiece.I treat this chick like shit.Never spent a dollar on her.She drives to my place,gets fucked then goes home.I don't have shit in common with her ass either.I can't even stand pillow talking with her.That said, her ex boyfriend is her age and begging for her back.A few weeks ago she told him that she moved on and "dating" a dude in his 30's.She said he got beyond pissed because of the age and felt he couldn't compete.:smh: I was kind of surprised because im not spending money and don't really talk to her,but I think its more that she just respects that I have my own shit.May care about her,buy her shit,eat the pussy etc etc, but she just respect the fact he lives at home and plays Call of Duty all day.
 
Obviously with such a big age difference relationshipare outta the question. So why would a 20 year old look at a 40 year old knowing damn well nothing but dick would come out of it?

I'm closing in on 40 and I got youngins still looking and i'm talking 18, 19 here and that's a big gap.

What? These young dudes with abs and energy ain't enough? They want some old dude that goes to bed early?

Women mature faster than men. Doesn't mean they get smart, just mature. So that stupid thug, hat sideways, drunk slang talk, and all that bullshit isn't all attractive to some of those younger women. Not to mention, men their age are usually idiots. All think they are rappers and have nothing to offer but sex. Not always of course.

Simple science. My last three women were 10+ years younger than me. If I ever get single again, I'll be dating young once more.
 
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I know, just figured nothing long term can come of it due to age. I got a young girl who doesn't like to call, just text and thinks I'm the finest nigga in the world and i'm almost twice her age. I don't have much furniture, don't spend on her, just text her and meet her at Fridays, then come back to my small ass apartment and beat.

Very pretty girl though. It's just funny since age different and me losing hair and all and these young dudes are built like football players lol.

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simple answer. young niggas wanna fuck for free. older dudes, they'll at least get a meal before they gotta give the twat up.
 
Men their age are broke, they want citizen jeans and handbags.

^^this

Older guys are more established. At the end of the day women are attracted to security.

not sure about that.

security are what those 'nice guys have to offer'
a female's quest for security will hind her well-fed,
bored, and craving some loose-cannon thug wannabe.
her desire to be secure is temporary at best.
 
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Obviously with such a big age difference relationshipare outta the question. So why would a 20 year old look at a 40 year old knowing damn well nothing but dick would come out of it?

I'm closing in on 40 and I got youngins still looking and i'm talking 18, 19 here and that's a big gap.

What? These young dudes with abs and energy ain't enough? They want some old dude that goes to bed early?

The Honorable Elijah Muhammad teaches us, that a man should be twice the age of his woman, plus seven years.

The Honorable Elijah Muhammad teaches us, that a younger woman feels safe with a much older man so she flocks to him for security in his wisdom of his age.

The Honorable Elijah Muhammad teaches us that, if your woman is older than you, that you are basically fucking up in the game.
 
I know, just figured nothing long term can come of it due to age. I got a young girl who doesn't like to call, just text and thinks I'm the finest nigga in the world and i'm almost twice her age. I don't have much furniture, don't spend on her, just text her and meet her at Fridays, then come back to my small ass apartment and beat.

Very pretty girl though. It's just funny since age different and me losing hair and all and these young dudes are built like football players lol.

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Just enjoy and don't impregnate.
 
I know, just figured nothing long term can come of it due to age. I got a young girl who doesn't like to call, just text and thinks I'm the finest nigga in the world and i'm almost twice her age. I don't have much furniture, don't spend on her, just text her and meet her at Fridays, then come back to my small ass apartment and beat.

Very pretty girl though. It's just funny since age different and me losing hair and all and these young dudes are built like football players lol.

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what State ya in bruh
 
For all those that say that is a daddy issue is not in mycase my dad was in my life when I was growing up. The man I am in love with is 8 Years old than me. Maturity is my reason.
 
Because we...oooops i mean they dont mind giving a little money..


One of the young brother from the barberhop said he might get his chick a beer if shes lucky!!!:smh::smh:
 
because, while you might not look at them............the majority of these thirsty muthafukas chase young girls.........so the young hoes are used to older dudes checking for them, and in turn they check for the older men.....

It has nothing to do with thirsty muthafukas.....It has to do with young cats not being on their game. Young dudes are into impressing other dudes instead of learning the game of wooing women...Many young dudes lack the knowledge necessary to approach women. They are in the hood and have been seasoned with disrespectful behaviors toward females. When young women get tired of the same old bullshit, they look for the difference....mature men, other women or mature men of another race!! PLEASE BELIEVE IT!!!
 
For all those that say that is a daddy issue is not in mycase my dad was in my life when I was growing up. The man I am in love with is 8 Years old than me. Maturity is my reason.

8 yrs ain't a huge diff esp. when the op is talking about a chic he 20 yrs older than (2x her age) :dunno:
 
It has nothing to do with thirsty muthafukas.....It has to do with young cats not being on their game. Young dudes are into impressing other dudes instead of learning the game of wooing women...Many young dudes lack the knowledge necessary to approach women. They are in the hood and have been seasoned with disrespectful behaviors toward females. When young women get tired of the same old bullshit, they look for the difference....mature men, other women or mature men of another race!! PLEASE BELIEVE IT!!!

Truth. A young man who has his shit together and mature has no problem pulling chicks from his peer group and older seasoned vets who keep their body and health together. Clearly economics.
 
For all those that say that is a daddy issue is not in mycase my dad was in my life when I was growing up. The man I am in love with is 8 Years old than me. Maturity is my reason.

In talking 10 or sometimes 2 times the age.

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Older mf'ers are more liberal with that $$$. Been fuckin up the game for a min. Then i got older and some chicks thought i was going continue the cycle. Nah, not gonna be able to do it :smh:

I learned all that 'maturity & security' shit was a front.

But there are exceptions...


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Older mf'ers are more liberal with that $$$. Been fuckin up the game for a min. Then i got older and some chicks thought i was going continue the cycle. Nah, not gonna be able to do it :smh:

I learned all that 'maturity & security' shit was a front.

But there are exceptions...


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That's not a older thing. That's a thirsty thing (young/older).
 
The Honorable Elijah Muhammad teaches us, that a man should be three times the age of his woman, plus seven years.

The Honorable Elijah Muhammad teaches us, that a younger woman feels safe with a much older man so she flocks to him for security in his wisdom of his age.

The Honorable Elijah Muhammad teaches us that, if your woman is older than you, that you are basically fucking up in the game.

Fixed...Dam Perv...:(


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I agree with others who say it's mainly due to an economic factor, all that maturity shit comes in a distant second.

Sad epidemic in the hood, older established cats tend to prey on these young females who naively believe they are more mature than there male peers all because they fucking with someone who has a little change, a place, and a ride.

 
Older guys are more established. At the end of the day women are attracted to security.

This is probably more along the lines than anything. I've always been attractive to older guys, as a matter of fact, for years, I've always said "I don't like anything young but money" but as far as having daddy issues, I have and still do have my father in my life, and my mom and dad are three years apart, my dad being the oldest, so that has nothing to do with nothing.

To me younger guys come with just as much baggage as women do. Now at 43, I can see me with someone in their 40's because I think the maturity level is about equal now, but in my 30's it was too much baby mama drama, they weren't stable, or in between jobs, and I've never come to a guy and my stuff wasn't together, so I expected the same. Even now my husband has some years on me.
 
It has nothing to do with thirsty muthafukas.....It has to do with young cats not being on their game. Young dudes are into impressing other dudes instead of learning the game of wooing women...Many young dudes lack the knowledge necessary to approach women. They are in the hood and have been seasoned with disrespectful behaviors toward females. When young women get tired of the same old bullshit, they look for the difference....mature men, other women or mature men of another race!! PLEASE BELIEVE IT!!!

nigga shutup, they like older niggas cuz they dont mind spendin cake, thats all it is. shit they usually fuckin the niggas in the hood then usin the sugardaddy for $$
 
nigga shutup, they like older niggas cuz they dont mind spendin cake, thats all it is. shit they usually fuckin the niggas in the hood then usin the sugardaddy for $$

This man knows. :lol: These old heads ain't giving these young chicks the excitement they seek.
 
nigga shutup, they like older niggas cuz they dont mind spendin cake, thats all it is. shit they usually fuckin the niggas in the hood then usin the sugardaddy for $$

I probably agree but alot of old heads are broke and got nothing but a pad and a car and still bang young chicks.

Remember when she sweating you she don't know where you work at or how much you make, all she sees is a fine nigga.

I can't tell you the times where a pretty nigga I know smashed someone's girl/ wife that I also know.

Looks is a serious thing, these young women think older men are usually more attractive....
 
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