why do female always fall for the bad guys?

whatever y'all! :rolleyes:
why do nice girls finish last and men like bitches who nag about silly stuff, fuck dat shit man! :angry:

You should just make a new thread for this.

you can fake both, so that's not good enough.

Real confidence can't be faked over a long period of time. If you're bitchmade, it will come to the surface when you're tested. As for the job unless the woman is dim, she'll find out. You can say that it isn't good enough, but if you're genuine in your actions and behaviors, and you mind your own business, THE RIGHT women will flock to you. I can't make this shit up; I'm living it.

Because good men ain't shit. Have to be at work on time or the mighty boss man might fire him. Have to work late on a term paper so that he might have a future. Have to make a budget so that he can buy his precious insurance to insulate him against things that might happen to him. He's a pathetic, shriveled little marshmallow scared of getting wet. He's also safe, boring, and predictable. The only thing he has to offer a woman is the same. Offering a woman a choice between a good man and a thug is like a choice between a Friday night out at the library and Friday night out at the club.

These women also know that once they get tired of the bad boys your good lil' simp ass will still be waiting with candy and flowers in hand. So why not grab the excitement as long as possible?

:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol: ~ This would be completely true if it said that the "good" man was a pushover, but that's not necessarily the case. A good man is one thing, an overly nice man is something else.

This is a serious subject especially if a woman wants a quality man

To my understanding younger women are attracted to bad boys, older women are more attracted to either the nice guy or the rich guy. of course these are loose catagories. It is actually quite simple, it is basic human nature. Women like a person that exudes confidence ( doesn't have to be a bad boy) because inside each woman is a girl who needs to feel secure and is looking for an alpha male, think pack animals Wolves, lions ect. If a girl talks to you and you are coy she might not conciously think of you as weak, but sub conciously her mind will be telling her if the shit goes down he is going to be the first person hiding, so she feels that you are not man enough. plus as she gets older and is like yeah the bad boy doesn't treat me well, and thinks she is stepping up she actually will then be attracted to men with money and that is because in the world of adults the one with more money has more power and the cycle continues itself.
Unfortunately many women usually have been damaged emotionally from the badboy of there youth and now carry baggage or worse end up with a multitude of children from there bad boy and have a lesser chance now of catching the man they really want

I remember I asked my Ex-why she liked thugs she said "they never walk away when shit go down"
Most guys in prison are there because they couldn't walk away from shit and now she is learning the hardaway like Tim and Anfernee :smh:

They are attracted to strength...not necessarily muscle, but spirit. Also, women like to utilize the beauty that they have been conditioned by society and nurture to compete for a "challenge" -not a guy who is easily caught. Why do you think women are prone to trying to take other women's men? It validates their beauty. On a different tact, some women like the jerks because they "know" deep down that they WILL NOT have a chance of a permanent relationship. (self-destructive tendency -or self-preservation/validation of low self-esteem by sabotage) Example: My ex-GF is terrified of being in another long term relation, so she is only into guys that are not candidates for LT relations. Also, women and men tend to copy the chaos that they observed in their childhood watching how their parents related. In Taiwan, many people still subscribe to not marrying a woman with divorced parents. It's considered "bad luck". (In reality, how would she know a normal lifestyle?) People tend to re-create what they saw as "normal" growing up.

There's a lot of experiential wisdom in this post.
 
Real confidence can't be faked over a long period of time. If you're bitchmade, it will come to the surface when you're tested. As for the job unless the woman is dim, she'll find out. You can say that it isn't good enough, but if you're genuine in your actions and behaviors, and you mind your own business, THE RIGHT women will flock to you. I can't make this shit up; I'm living it.

You ain't never lied!
 
Theres something else I want to address with you ninjas...
we need to stop putting these females on a pedistal cupcaking and shit..if a woman get out of pocket give her the boot...
There are too many below average sisters that think they got it goin on..and they don't( by below average I dont just mean looks but just intelligence emotional stability ect...) ...Value yourself as a man..
I hate to sound too much like Tariq Nasheed but its true
You can turn down sex...its nothing wrong with it...
Dont chase it so much or so hard it'll be there fellas

bottom line men and woman have to hold eatch other to higher standanrds...
Do you know how many times I hear girls say shit like "He aint working now but its just so had out there"
This is my fav "Damn I love him but i just get tired of driving an hour to pick him up"
Oh how about "He beats me , damn he must really luv me"

You can be a nice guy and not finish last, just be stern and tactful with you ish
Nice guys may finish last but they usually finish better
Most of the self proclaimed bad boys I know end up as miserable old men

In an effort to try to not sound angry I just want to say yea it is shortage of black men so men we are at the advantage and really get to be pickier than our female counterparts..So we can basically call the shots..if women dont like it well they have three choices -they have either be single , be lesbians or date white men...
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co-sign...it's real tricky sometimes because some girls 18-21 do look for that bad dude or whateva, but in that age you can find some of them girls that are really mature and know what they want and just need a good man beside them...also what i've noticed w/ women older than the age group, if you are independent man, living in your own crib, paying your own bills,
you've pretty much paved the road for a good woman to scoop ya up....just a matter of time.... when i was 18, 19. i chased the nice bodies, bad attitudes, life of parties and all that.....and i used to always complain to my dad about how these girls were giving me hell....he sat me down and said, you giving yourself hell by looking for girls and not women...remember ya'll sometimes it's not the girls.....it's probably yourself....
You see how important it is to have DAD!!!
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This could be a huge debate. But I wont indulge. All I will say is nice girls look for nice guys. Some of us are still looking with zero luck.
 
I can only speak for myself but it was the desire to be that woman who would make it wanna settle down. So everytime he may resist or not call as often you push more, you try to do more so he'll finally gives it - silly but aye I was young and dumb...

And the way they carry themselves - they way they talk with such an authority is sexy. Normally they are well respected which is a turn on as well...
 
Check it man just do you! There will never be a legitimate explanation as to why some "girls" are attracted to niggas that do them wrong. Maybe it comes from them not having a dominant male figure in their life and they feel the thug niggas are that dominance they are wanting.

Don't ever believe that bullshit line "Good girls like Bad Guys" if they tell you that cause its full of horse and pig shyt! Do You and a smart "WOMAN" will come across ya way, but you gotta pursue and not sit back and wait!
 
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