Ok. So for years I've been on all the different dating sites at some time or another.
Blackplanet, Blackvoices, Blackpeoplemeet, Tagged, Mocospace, eHarmony, Match. Blah, Blah, Blah.
When I'm searching through I see a good number of sistas have the most NEGATIVE profiles... and I wonder do they even realize how a man would actually percieve it. Now I'm not talking about young women... this applys to the females that are age 27+
IF you refer to yourself as a DIVA that is an automatic turnoff.
IF under the race section you list MIXED or have something that is ignorant and wrong like "half black- half Jamaican" or "half black-half puerto-rican"
of if you have on the profile "I'm an outspoken female, I tells it like it is"
or if you list all the THINGS YOU DON'T want from a man... and that is all you post on your profile.
Of if on your profile you Rant about how dissapointed you are with the quality of dudes that have sent you messages.
You really don't see white/asian/latino women taking that approach when they fill out a dating profile. Usually they just LIST all the activities and things that they enjoy doing... and say that they are looking for a partner that enjoys the same?
Why are sistas so HOSTILE yet expect to attract a man?
