No doubt fam...thanks for being civil
Why are there so many Single Moms in the Black Community
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No doubt fam...thanks for being civil
No placing blame at all just showing the options. If you had to hand over your gun to someone who may shoot you with it, would you hand it over loaded?
How come some Women can FUCK 100's of guys and never get pregnant? It could be because they "CHOSE NOT TO"
That is all I am saying.
hey listen up buddy we gonna need u to stop saying these intelligent answers and responses
This is a great topic and response. You make it seem really easy man, but I know older women and men that don't know their partner/spouse.
It's hard outchea for us single negras, man. These chicks chameleons, shapeshifters, perpetrators, FLAUGHJALATORS!
and DeSiRe won't call or text me.
Say she ain't got my contact info no mo' 
Sometimes all a ninja want is a hug
Most black women opt for never married single motherhood.
But don't get it twisted there are plenty of white single moms. They just opt for married and divorced single motherhood.
Only difference is in method.
Women are in the drivers seat when it comes to reproductive rights.
I will say this year alone three different women have asked me for a baby after turning 35, 30, and 32.
That's 3 wombs for rent.
One of them brought up that I said I would give her a baby if she wasn't pregnant by 35. I have no recollection of ever saying that shit.
But that's how bad she wanted a baby.
The other two keep making plans to be pregnant by me. Keep asking me to at least donate some sperm for later I'm like wtf!? Another said lets make a baby, I said naw we can practice she said, "ain't no practice bih" I still got the text in my phone. I'll probably post later.
Two of them said they would put me on child support and keep telling me I don't have to be involved, saying shit like CS isn't that much and don't worry about the baby. The other one who is in nursing field doing something I forget makes a lot of money tho, but she says she won't put me on CS cuz she can take care of the cost. So they have no plans on keeping me around or in the picture from jump.
I fucked with them for a bit about it, teasing that I would nut up all in their pussy just so I could watch them get hot and squirm. Shit was hilarious.
They all want the baby, marriage was never in the conversation.
I've had similar offers years ago but this is the first time I've had this many offers in one year I think it has more to do with their increasing age.
So take that how you will. That's what the landscape is like out here for creating kids.
It ain't just mens fault how society wants to portray it. Any broad getting pregnant now is doing it deliberately or so reckless as to be deliberate.
But don't get it twisted there are plenty of white single moms. They just opt for married and divorced single motherhood.
Only difference is in method.
Women are in the drivers seat when it comes to reproductive rights.
I will say this year alone three different women have asked me for a baby after turning 35, 30, and 32.
That's 3 wombs for rent.
One of them brought up that I said I would give her a baby if she wasn't pregnant by 35. I have no recollection of ever saying that shit.
But that's how bad she wanted a baby. The other two keep making plans to be pregnant by me. Keep asking me to at least donate some sperm for later I'm like wtf!?
Another said lets make a baby, I said naw we can practice she said, "ain't no practice bih" I still got the text in my phone. I'll probably post later. Two of them said they would put me on child support and keep telling me I don't have to be involved, saying shit like CS isn't that much and don't worry about the baby. The other one who is in nursing field doing something I forget makes a lot of money tho, but she says she won't put me on CS cuz she can take care of the cost. So they have no plans on keeping me around or in the picture from jump.
I fucked with them for a bit about it, teasing that I would nut up all in their pussy just so I could watch them get hot and squirm.
Shit was hilarious. They all want the baby, marriage was never in the conversation.
I've had similar offers years ago but this is the first time I've had this many offers in one year I think it has more to do with their increasing age.
So take that how you will. That's what the landscape is like out here for creating kids.
It ain't just mens fault how society wants to portray it. Any broad getting pregnant now is doing it deliberately or so reckless as to be deliberate.
Props to your longevity but that just means you should know better. In real life if you walked into a new barber shop asking questions while only getting an edge up, eventually somebody will call you out on it.
For the record I would seed this chick up. Probably bounce. It's obvious she doesn't live in the hood but I'm just saying.
but am I wrong for leaving this chick?
In a relationship there's choices and decisions to be made. When a man chooses to not use a condom a decision is made, the woman is involved in this decision making process. In this relationship if they don't want kids and no longer want to use condoms, the woman takes the pill and or is in charge of contraceptives.
Yes, the man gives her that responsibility and that level of trust. Then a baby's born, this is usually how it happens.
I know what you're saying, Fam. I just don't believe there are no other options. If that same chick that FUCK 100's of guys and didn't get pregnant, would YOU still bust in her if given the opportunity?
Vanessa Blue is like, "Cybts1, I'm going to give you the pussy." Then she says. "You can beat raw if you want to." Now, you know she goes hard in the paint and you know, as well as she know, there is a chance she may get pregnant if you bust raw. Are YOU going to bust raw in her? And when she gets pregnant by you are you going to say "Well, you shouldn't have let me beat raw."?
A conscious person would be like, "Damn, I shouldn't have beat raw." Hindsight is always 20/20 when you know you could have controlled everything.
I hear where you are coming from but you missed the point.
Its not guys that are responsible enough to take precautions before sex or owning up to their responsibility that are creating all these fatherless kids.
Its the bums these woman are letting run up in them raw and walking away that is causing the problem.
So just because you take responsibility, that doesn't mean that Tyrone and the rest of the brothers in the hood she has let ride her ass will do the same.
So short answer is; some black woman make bad choices about who they sleep with and refuse to own up to their responsibility in selecting a proper husband and father for their children.
If a woman doesn't want to be a single mother, she should not procreate with bums and man-children who cant even take care of themselves.
This one would definitely have to track me down to find me after I bust.
She's what Google Voice was made for.
She's what Google Voice was made for.
but that's not the picture being painted here. the picture being painted is women are saying go raw and dudes have no choice but to go raw and nut in them.
but if men don't want a baby they know how to not have a baby period. doesn't matter what pill she's on etc. you don't have to take that risk if you don't want to relationship or not.
1st point not true.
Just completely not true lol like not rooted in any sort of truth to it. black women don't opt for that shit at all.
There are single moms across the board. MTV has made millions of dollars showing teenage white moms being single parents its not a black issue.
Women are in the drivers seat when it comes to reproductive rights
and that's after you've given her your sperm
she has no right to it when its inside of you and yours and you can choose to never ever give it to her no matter what
you're in the drivers seat when it comes to making a baby.
OP said he's been around since Esco/Godson.
Remember this pic bro? You staying or making her a statistic?
Remember this pic bro? You staying or making her a statistic?
Most black women opt for never married single motherhood.
But don't get it twisted there are plenty of white single moms. They just opt for married and divorced single motherhood.
Only difference is in method.
Women are in the drivers seat when it comes to reproductive rights.
I will say this year alone three different women have asked me for a baby after turning 35, 30, and 32.
That's 3 wombs for rent.
One of them brought up that I said I would give her a baby if she wasn't pregnant by 35. I have no recollection of ever saying that shit.
The other two keep making plans to be pregnant by me. Keep asking me to at least donate some sperm for later I'm like wtf!?
Two of them said they would put me on child support and keep telling me I don't have to be involved, saying shit like CS isn't that much and don't worry about the baby. The other one who is in nursing field doing something I forget makes a lot of money tho, but she says she won't put me on CS cuz she can take care of the cost. So they have no plans on keeping me around or in the picture from jump.
I fucked with them for a bit about it, teasing that I would nut up all in their pussy just so I could watch them get hot and squirm.
They all want the baby, marriage was never in the conversation.
I've had similar offers years ago but this is the first time I've had this many offers in one year I think it has more to do with their increasing age.
So take that how you will. That's what the landscape is like out here for creating kids.
It ain't just mens fault how society wants to portray it. Any broad getting pregnant now is doing it deliberately or so reckless as to be deliberate.
But after all the begging and negotiating that was done by them, you still had the ultimate decision not to get those chicks pregnant no matter how much they wanted. That my friend is called, personal responsibility. It's a lost art with knuckleheads now of days.
I'm not responding to the "Picture painted", I'm just stating one reason why there's so many Black single mothers.
Thats just it though. I refuse to believe most of the children of single mothers were in a relationship. They were just fucking most likely. If a man respects a woman enough to be in a relationship, they wont just leave her high and dry. I also dont believe the hype that allot of these women are doing it alone. Dude more than likely is on child support, and/or is still his child(ren) lives and she just says it to make herself look better.
This is how I like to leave them. Sticky and funky. No need for me to stay.
I hear where you are coming from but you missed the point.
Its not guys that are responsible enough to take precautions before sex or owning up to their responsibility that are creating all these fatherless kids.
Its the bums these woman are letting run up in them raw and walking away that is causing the problem.
So just because you take responsibility, that doesn't mean that Tyrone and the rest of the brothers in the hood she has let ride her ass will do the same.
So short answer is; some black woman make bad choices about who they sleep with and refuse to own up to their responsibility in selecting a proper husband and father for their children.
If a woman doesn't want to be a single mother, she should not procreate with bums and man-children who cant even take care of themselves.
That doesn't work then how about that?
If you're trying to separate the good guy from the bums leaving kids behind
then separate the good black women from the ones who don't care who they lay with and have kids with.
and in the scenario you provided BOTH PEOPLE STILL NEED TO OWN UP TO THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES.
2 bum ass people are still having the kids
its equal footing she's not more of a bum for choosing him than he is for sleeping with her and leaving the kid
they both on the same level right?
both not a part of the "good" black man and woman crew right?
so this owning up to responsibility shit and then placing that solely on the woman who made the choice to have the baby but absolving the dude who made the choice to cum in her is bs
just doesn't work
A woman has 100% control in who she chooses to fuck!! OR not fuck!
Stop fucking bums you know aint shit and the problem if single mother hood would be greatly reduced if not resolved.
Don't normally flow with the snowflakes but that TV says hood to me.
Does she count if I 'make/force' her into single momness?
Does she count if I 'make/force' her into single momness?
but we can't ignore it though. and really the light is on black activities more than other groups of people but im willing to be across the board the numbers aren't that much higher for black than another large group of people
a man has 100% control on whether or not he will have unprotected sex
stop having unprotected sex and cumming in women you don't want to have a baby with and the single mother hood rate would be greatly reduced if not resolved
we're human beings aren't we? capable of making decisions and saying no or making smart choices right? im talking about men
cause in every scenario you're providing you're basically saying men have no self control and if a woman says fuck me raw and cum in me its not the man's fault for doing it, he had no choice but to do it.
Single momming or taking her to the family cookout (Lastdayz voice)
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I hear where you are coming from but you missed the point.
Its not guys that are responsible enough to take precautions before sex or owning up to their responsibility that are creating all these fatherless kids.
Its the bums these woman are letting run up in them raw and walking away that is causing the problem.
So just because you take responsibility, that doesn't mean that Tyrone and the rest of the brothers in the hood she has let ride her ass will do the same.
So short answer is; some black woman make bad choices about who they sleep with and refuse to own up to their responsibility in selecting a proper husband and father for their children.
If a woman doesn't want to be a single mother, she should not procreate with bums and man-children who cant even take care of themselves.
IMO, that is a predisposed decision by the woman and many times they are to blame as much as the man is because sex is 50/50. But I'm not going to act like men ( regardless of how bum they are) do not know how babies are made.
Naw nigga.... it's a dead horse....and your one trick pony ass keep coming with the same shit. The hood this, the hood that....get the fuck out of here cracka. ... fucking Oreo
This. He needs to verify.
Or their pussy game is weak as hell!!!
Lot of sisters got that hmmm mmm good coochie, so
that could be another reason..
when that good coochie grabs the dee..... man it feels too
good to pull out..
everybody aint the pull out king...
thanks for reading,
Yours Truly..
The Pull Out King!!
This
I'm drunk and thinking about calling a bitch that said she was pregnant by me & lied about getting an abortion twice....
but she got some good jugg
... look like thundercat's sig when shaved....ev'm tho I know she ain't shit.
Sex is a very primordial force and depending on the amount of testosterone a man has the controlling forces of sex may vary...
But its not the act of sex that produces bastard children, because if thats the case porn chicks would all have at least 15..
What causes children is choice and right now the only choices men have is to abstain (not realistic, thats like telling a fag not to be a fag) or to wear rubbers taking away from the pleasure in only the male...
Women on the other hand have many choices and none of them takes away from her pleasure and her ability to enjoy sex..
The trap is planted around this concept.. By rewarding women to trick men in to pregnancy and punishing them, it give the women a sense of entitlement and power while giving little regard to the well being of her children..
She is allowed to make mistake after mistake, while being rewarded for her actions, while the man is often thrown in jail after one mistake...
Here is a perfect example of this bullshit in action...
Notice how this bitch feels that its the world responsibility (see vidio below) to care for her mistakes...
Now imagine a deadbeat dad with 15 kids demanding the world to take care of his mistakes like this....
If you take away the women golden parachute, I bet you overnight the amounts of bastard birth would drop dramatically...
Notice its the dumb ass chicks with out any money that seem to be having these accidental births, hardly anyone else.., because according to the chart when they get money or brains the accidental birth stop occurring... What they not fucking??
Dont believe, fuck oppinion lets go to the charts..
Maybe the question should be is why is it so hard for dumb broke bitches to protect themselves, hmmmm could it be because they see having bastards as a come up or hustle? And their stupid baby daddies too dumb or caught up into getting easy pussy to realize that its a trap..
Don't normally flow with the snowflakes but that TV says hood to me.
Does she count if I 'make/force' her into single momness?
YEa, just don't go raw. Tha's Defenately a struggle T.VE. for 2015
Yes, a Man does...but we are talking about these man-child like fools who are making all these babies, not real men.
Real men have control and make better choices about who he procreates with, man-child doesn't, that's what makes him the man-child.
Stop opening your legs for man-child!
Your putting all men in one box and that is just not the case.
No one is asking whats up with all these single dads!?!
Its the woman who gets left holding the bag, so she has to make better decisions about who she procreates with.