Why are age gap relationships frowned upon but sugar daddy/sugar baby relationships are not?

[ORIGINAL NATION]

It is like the masses frowning on incest but the Rothschild's have to marry at least a cousin. They present it to the world that they are keeping the money and empire within the blood. Cleopatra was stated as being one of the most beautiful women that ever lived because when the king and queen had kids the brothers and sisters were mating with each other. She was the result of 6 generations of this and this is why she was so beautiful.
During the 60's we were calling each other brothers and sisters as though we was one black family. After the government pumped all those drugs into the black communities the desire changed to just wanting to be carbon copies of white devils.

 

[guyver]

Nikki Manji is an exception. And there are some men who are in relationships with women that pay all the bills and he plays x box all day. These men are allways dating ugly or fat women and these women want a man that is above their sexual market value but can’t so they pay for it by being the provider.

Just as a man, no fine ass woman is splitting bills 50/50 with a man…..not when there are men that will take care of her and she knows how to use her pretty privilege…..Nikki been knew her husband. Didn’t want to date or marry him until she tested her sexual market value out with her peers and fellow millionaires and found out the hearse reality that she is only desired for sex and that’s it. So she had to go back and date her husband who she already had the opportunity to date if she wanted him so bad. He was the 56th option.

Other than that all relationships are transactional.

You have drop dead gorgeous lesbians that won’t even go 50/50 with their lesbian partner cuz they know their sexual value is much higher in the heterosexual world and they could get a man to pay all their bills or most of their bills so why am I settling going 50/50 with another woman….so they cheat or they are in a open relationship and she is a sex worker taking use of the max benefit of her pretty privilege.


50/50 relationships with below avg looking women isn’t hard but who wants a avg looking woman?

Even avg looking women if they spend a hour to get ready have the same entitlement as a 8 or 9

Skimmed what you said because know your talking points.

You can't acknowledge that Nikki exists and then say it's normally just unattractive women who do this. Which is false. Even if I gave you that, it still occurs.also, most people men or women are average looking.

In today's world, you have women who make more than men, so there are times when the man's money is secondary. Can't say for a fact but let's look at Nikki's top Op Cardi B and her former husband Offset. Again, happens more often then you would think.

I know you are still going to say this only applies to unattractive women again. What about pimps? Pimps have women across the board in terms of looks , but most of these women are attractive. He doesn't have his own money.

The problem is men are taught to lead with their wallet. The truth is you don't need money to lead. They mainly need to respect you and trust in your decisions. In today's society, there are more women who prefer to take this role. Usually, the man is fine if he isn't a true bum and adding value to that women's life.

All of this is irrelevant though because your initial question was around the difference between sugar daddies and age gaps. I assume you are a old member with a new username/account asking these tired childish questions. I entertained it because I was once young on the board, so I imagine there are 18 to 25 ( or younger) here now that may not engage, but lurk. Hopefully, they are able to get a world view of life instead focusing on what they believe to see around them, the internet or upholding teachings of the past that more and more are changing.

If you just happen to be a young man OP, the status of women has changed over the years. They aren't dependent on men like when they couldn't have a bank account. their financial change is changing the dynamic of the relationship of men and women. Yes, there are women who still favor the traditional relationship because it is somewhat in their interests. However, there are also plenty of attractive women who aren't worried about your money, sharing financial responsibilities or mind financially leading. Its probably been this way for a long time, but society made people hide the status of their household. Men were too embarrassed about not earning more than their girl and the woman didn't what to make her man look bad. As an example i know you are old enough to remember the episode of Martin where it is revealed that Gina made more money than Martin and his ego couldn't take it. Art often imitates life. If you want a traditional relationship there is a woman out there for you. If you want a non traditional relationship, there is a woman out there for you and she isn't unattractive. Don't listen to the internet and you don't know what goes on behind closest doors.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Skimmed what you said because know your talking points.

You can't acknowledge that Nikki exists and then say it's normally just unattractive women who do this. Which is false. Even if I gave you that, it still occurs.also, most people men or women are average looking.

In today's world, you have women who make more than men, so there are times when the man's money is secondary. Can't say for a fact but let's look at Nikki's top Op Cardi B and her former husband Offset. Again, happens more often then you would think.

I know you are still going to say this only applies to unattractive women again. What about pimps? Pimps have women across the board in terms of looks , but most of these women are attractive. He doesn't have his own money.

The problem is men are taught to lead with their wallet. The truth is you don't need money to lead. They mainly need to respect you and trust in your decisions. In today's society, there are more women who prefer to take this role. Usually, the man is fine if he isn't a true bum and adding value to that women's life.

All of this is irrelevant though because your initial question was around the difference between sugar daddies and age gaps. I assume you are a old member with a new username/account asking these tired childish questions. I entertained it because I was once young on the board, so I imagine there are 18 to 25 ( or younger) here now that may not engage, but lurk. Hopefully, they are able to get a world view of life instead focusing on what they believe to see around them, the internet or upholding teachings of the past that more and more are changing.

If you just happen to be a young man OP, the status of women has changed over the years. They aren't dependent on men like when they couldn't have a bank account. their financial change is changing the dynamic of the relationship of men and women. Yes, there are women who still favor the traditional relationship because it is somewhat in their interests. However, there are also plenty of attractive women who aren't worried about your money, sharing financial responsibilities or mind financially leading. Its probably been this way for a long time, but society made people hide the status of their household. Men were too embarrassed about not earning more than their girl and the woman didn't what to make her man look bad. As an example i know you are old enough to remember the episode of Martin where it is revealed that Gina made more money than Martin and his ego couldn't take it. Art often imitates life. If you want a traditional relationship there is a woman out there for you. If you want a non traditional relationship, there is a woman out there for you and she isn't unattractive. Don't listen to the internet and you don't know what goes on behind closest doors.

A avg look man with abov avg money is entitled to above avg looking women so it doesn’t matter. I skimmed thru ur post also

There is nothing other then make up that a avg looking woman can do to increase her smv to men.

In today’s world men still out earn women. That has never changed. Nikki settled. She is a celebrity. Her practicing hypergamy is a lot harder then a say 23 year old working at McDonald’s that found a guy that working at Amazon which is a baller to them in their eyes if they have never dated a man that really makes money.

All of this is still a transaction. She is with him for money he is with her because of looks.

I don’t know any fine women taking care of a man even if he is considered to have the same smv or handsome.

It doesn’t exist.

Women will pay $1,000 to hug Chris brown. But do you think the women that Chris brown date in his personal life are taking care of him or not getting any financial compensation from him or getting their bills paid?

He would want top tier women in looks and even those women would require Chris Brown to pay bills. That is a transaction


If you want free pussy date below avg looking women.

 

[guyver]

A avg look man with abov avg money is entitled to above avg looking women so it doesn’t matter. I skimmed thru ur post also

There is nothing other then make up that a avg looking woman can do to increase her smv to men.

In today’s world men still out earn women. That has never changed. Nikki settled. She is a celebrity. Her practicing hypergamy is a lot harder then a say 23 year old working at McDonald’s that found a guy that working at Amazon which is a baller to them in their eyes if they have never dated a man that really makes money.

All of this is still a transaction. She is with him for money he is with her because of looks.

I don’t know any fine women taking care of a man even if he is considered to have the same smv or handsome.

It doesn’t exist.

Women will pay $1,000 to hug Chris brown. But do you think the women that Chris brown date in his personal life are taking care of him or not getting any financial compensation from him or getting their bills paid?

He would want top tier women in looks and even those women would require Chris Brown to pay bills. That is a transaction


If you want free pussy date below avg looking women.

You probably should read every word i write as this could be life changing information/thoughts for you. You'd probably live longer due to less stress about being a provider. You also wouldn't have a trick mindset. Hence, you are reducing women you are in a relationship with to just pussy. If you look around you, there's a high chance there are more fat and unattractive women happily married than super attractive women are even in a stable long-term relationship; let alone married.

In an alternate universe Chris Brown is with Rhianna who is worth millions herself. ASAP isn't remotely close to income as some of the men Rhianna has been linked to in the past. Outside looking in, it doesn't appear to be an issue for them. If I had to guess, Rhianna's income covers alot of their lifestyle. Not saying he doesn't contribute anything.

Jay-Z and Beyonce are a couple who aren't dependent on each other financial. Not only that, Jay-Z is a average looking dude with a highly attractive wife. Again, she could have chosen any man to be with. There are men like Jay who attempt to date women close or not far removed from their station. Jay could have easily dated down settling for just an attractive women. He choose a rising star who turned into one of them.

Regardless of Oprah's true sexuality/rumors, she's been linked to a man who earns far less than her. Jennifer Lopez dated her dancer.

Rubi Rose didn't stay with Druski. Why? And we are talking from the perspective that they were in fact dating.

Alot of strippers take care of men or are the main income in their relationships.

Its ok. You need money to attract women and maintain a leadership role in a relationship. Its not a slight and im not being sarcastic. There are people who don't conform to your mindset. You gave an example of Chris Brown being paid by attractive women just for a picture which ultimately hurts your overall stance. According to you, attractive women would never need or want to do this. I could make the argument that the women paying to take pictures with CB are highly likely to support men.

Correct if im wrong. Barack Obama was not always the main/top earner in his marriage. Ryan Coogler may have had a similar situation. I just recall him stating his wife gave him the software to write scripts. Usually up and coming artist aren't the bread winner in the relationship.

More importantly, most people are average. In today's world a lot of people need two incomes to support their families. Black women are out pacing Black men in education, income and careers. Like i said before ,your old world views are shifting. That doesn't mean it doesn't exist, but it's no longer a universal truth and it hasn't been for a long time.

Again, this is irrelevant as it has very little to do with your initial question. Not that the question was deep or complex to begin with. I could take this to other areas of life. Why do you go to work? Its mostly transactional. If they stop paying you, you aren't going to show up. However, you may enjoy what you do, so you may volunteer your services, maintain it as a hobby, teach/mentor/coach others, reduce your usual fee or find another employer.