CO-SIGNI was gone say the same thing. How you gone "let" your girl read something.
And hate to say it but most black women have so many flaws to read those books just makes it worse. Black women read those books because it mirrors what they are already doing in their life or secretly want to do.
I dont let my girl do anything, I would buy her a zhane book so fucking what...
dude trust me, chicks would run to other ninjas faster based on your insecurity, more so than any book zhane can write....
dude your a major control freak...... and dudes like you get cheated on with the swiftness!!!
to show that you aint in as much control as you think you are....
while zhane's books are not my philosophy at all, because aint no wife of mine fucking the whole neighborhood talking about its because of some past experience and expect me to stay... yeah right...
but nevertheless thats zhane and I wouldnt date a chick that weak to let books or other folks to influence her to be something she is not...
and thats another thing, if a chick is that influenced by a zhane book, it aint zhane that put it there, she just bought it out...
just choose wisely and stop being so gotdamn controlling....
if you are worried about an outside entity influencing your relationship.....
you need to question your relationship....
Shit nigga, at least that bitch is reading! You know how many bitches don't even read? And if they do, its a fashion magazine at best. Nigga, be happy that bitch at least reading. She got potential. hah
Why would you want to be so controlling that your woman can't read a book?
okay... can i state why I asked this question first instead of being labeled as the mean guy?? I started this post to see if you niggaz knew what those books are about? Why the fuck would I want to controll my girl in reference to reading. My shit is, i know what influences my girls thinking! As for me, she can read what the fuck she want but if she starts trippin' I'm gonna call her out and be out regardless if her influence is a book or someone which is not the case because she don't have any zhane books at all!! Anyway, I've had a recent conversation with a friend whom his wife started trying to live out some shit she was reading from sex chronicles, zhane, etc., now they on the rocks!
If your wife or gf has those books get ready to pack your bags
They read those books to satisfy an innate nature within themselves meaning they are living vicariously through those books.
Seriously I once dated a chick that had every book of Zane and this chick mirrored every lifestyle within those books. I'll never forget one day this chick out of no where just started talking about "cum tasting parties" it was depicted in "sisters of the APF" where these chick invite dudes over to ............ well you get the picture.. I'm looking at her like WTF because she was too intrigued about??? Needless to say I bounced from tha with the quickness not just because of the book but she just had other flaws. I wasn't good enough for her because I was a shade too dark and didn't have good hair
But those books are not positive especially if you're in a marriage or relationship because they promote infidelity. And hate to say it but most black women have so many flaws to read those books just makes it worse. Black women read those books because it mirrors what they are already doing in their life or secretly want to do.
Personally, I hate Zane, but you can't fault someone who reads it. If she didn't read it would be a problem. I think its just these people don't understand. I don't like Zane, but I found good use for it... Borrowed it from a friend for me and my dude to read to each other... In the right hands Zane can work in your favor. I have NEVER read a book and been like "oohhh, I need to try this..."