I hate for any woman to tell me "be a man" or "that's what a mna's supposed to do."
As the great David Ebo said: "I never told you how to be a woman, what makes you think you can tell me how to be a man?"
See, when there was a quid pro quo to it, when chicks knew dinner=givin up that ass shit was fine. Once that dynamic changed all bets are off.