Who has more pressure on them to perform sexually...men or women?

who has more pressure to perform perform sexually

  • women

    Votes: 3 4.3%
  • men

    Votes: 67 95.7%

  • Total voters
    70
not until he recognizes that he said some really foul and repulsive shit that sounds just like something a cracka would say and reflects all that is wrong with amerikkka

like you should talk stalker jr. :rolleyes:


is this what the fuss is about over here???

ooookay.
 
You can't substitute men in there because theres not much men can do physically in comparison to women.
Woman can do anal sex, swallow cum, eat pussy and that'll be ok with her man, can fuck 2 guys at the same time, have you cum inside their pussy...blah blah blah....If they are good in bed and know what they want.
Men can't do all of that. All our pressure falls on stamina, not cumming quick, and knowing what we're doing while fucking...real simple compared to the pressure of women who can do so much more with themselves...ya feel!!!????

Yeah but all a women has to do is put forth some sort of effort. Men play QB and women play WR, all they have to do is run clean routes and catch the ball, the QB has to do everything. Noone blames the WR for a bad game, the blame goes to you know who, I guarantee Manningham wont get one finger pointed at his ass for all those damn drops.:angry: Theres more brainwork involved with what were doing,, they can just lay there if they want, out of everything a women can do 80-85% of that shit is just giving effort, not much talent involved. Head is about effort, anal is about effort, ridin is about effort, swallowing is about effort, and damn near all of what determines a women sex game is basically letting us have out way with them. Yeah they have it soooo hard.:rolleyes:
 
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Yeah but all a women has to do is put forth some sort of effort. Men play QB and women play WR, all they have to do is run clean routes and catch the ball, the QB has to do everything. Noone blames the WR for a bad game, the blame goes to you know who, I guarantee Manningham wont get one finger pointed at his ass for all those damn drops.:angry: Theres more brainwork involved with what were doing,, they can just lay there if they want, out of everything a women can do 80-85% of that shit is just giving effort, not much talent involved. Head is about effort, anal is about effort, ridin is about effort, swallowing is about effort, and damn near all of what determines a women sex game is basically letting us have out way with them. Yeah they have it soooo hard.:rolleyes:

You see i disagree with you my dude. "Effort" my be cool and all but that DOESN'T/will never substitute in for "talent" and skill and thats where the pressure, comes in on(no pun intended). I've been with tons of women who put in "effort" but really didn't satisfy me enough compared to the women who had real talent and skills.
I don't know about you, Sun...but thats what keeps me around..word!!!
 
You're counteracting basic anatomy and physiology. A woman can sit on your dick and just go up and down and you will nut. You can rub a woman's clit directly and she can not cum. Men are built to orgasm, female orgasm is more mental.
 
You see i disagree with you my dude. "Effort" my be cool and all but that DOESN'T/will never substitute in for "talent" and skill and thats where the pressure, comes in on(no pun intended). I've been with tons of women who put in "effort" but really didn't satisfy me enough compared to the women who had real talent and skills.
I don't know about you, Sun...but thats what keeps me around..word!!!

But what makes talent in the sense were talking??? Yeah genetics play a part of how fast you can run and how high you can jump, but a chick doesnt just stumble on a dick and know what to do, its not innate, they dont just come with those skills. They have to learn em, how do you learn??? Experience and effort to want to get better. So IMO if a chick gives effort, she will get better. But it all starts with effort.
 
You're counteracting basic anatomy and physiology. A woman can sit on your dick and just go up and down and you will nut. You can rub a woman's clit directly and she can not cum. Men are built to orgasm, female orgasm is more mental.

Yes and no. If she is tense and distant emotionally no it likely won't but there are some basic mechanics some men don't get right- if they did it is very very hard not to climax. Trust me I have tried.

Some of yall rub on a clitoris like you are polishing an old football trophy :smh:. Also, direct stimulation- dead center- can be numbing more than stimulating. Try the sides, or just underneath or the very very tip lightly . Play with it rather than press on it and it's difficult to not come barring as you said some other physical or mental block.
 
Men have the pressure. Men must perform because if man doesn't satisfy the woman, the woman searches for another man that can. End of story.
 
Men have the pressure. Men must perform because if man doesn't satisfy the woman, the woman searches for another man that can. End of story.

Many women stay in sexually dead relationships for a long time. There are a lot that don't know any better based on previous sexual experience. Yes, If a woman meets a man that shows her a side of sex she's never seen before she might wander off, but I don't believe they go actively seeking better dick. It's not like yall wear "I got good dick" armbands with ratings and shit. Wouldn't that be nice !:)
 
Men have the pressure to perform. Just look at womens longing for all of the bad boys. Most women want them "thug types" because they figure that he will knock the bottom out from to here to oblivion, and besides, my stepfather told me something that is true about women to this day... "they can look up longer than you can look down".... The old heads will know about that one..:lol::lol::lol::lol:
 
Many women stay in sexually dead relationships for a long time. There are a lot that don't know any better based on previous sexual experience. Yes, If a woman meets a man that shows her a side of sex she's never seen before she might wander off, but I don't believe they go actively seeking better dick. It's not like yall wear "I got good dick" armbands with ratings and shit. Wouldn't that be nice !:)

My response was based on single women, not those who are married. As a man I've done the same thing moved on because because the woman just didn't make sex enjoyable. If sex becomes like work then its not worth pursuing.

However lets say you were in a relationship (Guy A) with a man that made your sex life wonderful. Your having orgasms so strong your legs are cramping, your ripping the flesh off the man's arms and back as you cum. You whole body is just rippling with mini orgasms. When the man walks out the room your whole body is like :yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes: Get the picture?

Then one day you find out Guy A is cheating on you, so you dump him. Now tell me your not out going to find another man who can make you feel the way that Guy A made you feel.

So you meet someone new (Guy B) but its not the same. He doesn't kiss the same, he don't lick you right cause he's really not into oral sex, he's not big enough, thinks anal is nasty but you like it sometimes, doesn't talk to you during sex. Your mind, body and pussy knows what it wants but its not getting it. Mentally you know your not happy with this man. You try working it out but he just doesn't have it or doesn't get it. (either way your not getting it) Right here your starting to put pressure on the man. He tries but your body wants more. He just can't deliver. Your body still remembers Guy A. So whatcha gonna do? Stick with Guy B or search for another Guy A type. You know you got to find another Guy A.

Its all about the orgasm IMO. Like it or not ladies you expect men to make you feel special in bed. You want that man to deliver in bed. So the pressure is on the man.

BTW that armband with ratings isn't a bad idea but how about you ladies wearing one too.:yes:
 
Many women stay in sexually dead relationships for a long time. There are a lot that don't know any better based on previous sexual experience. Yes, If a woman meets a man that shows her a side of sex she's never seen before she might wander off, but I don't believe they go actively seeking better dick. It's not like yall wear "I got good dick" armbands with ratings and shit. Wouldn't that be nice !:)

LMAO @ good dick armbands. .:lol:

Somebody needs to invent that haha.
 
Many women stay in sexually dead relationships for a long time. There are a lot that don't know any better based on previous sexual experience. Yes, If a woman meets a man that shows her a side of sex she's never seen before she might wander off, but I don't believe they go actively seeking better dick. It's not like yall wear "I got good dick" armbands with ratings and shit. Wouldn't that be nice !:)

I agree.. But I have no respect for those kind of women who stay but yet never reaches out to their man to try to make their sex experience better..
 
I agree.. But I have no respect for those kind of women who stay but yet never reaches out to their man to try to make their sex experience better..

C/S

Talking about sex is tough for a lot of people and relationships can break up under the silence.
 
BTW that armband with ratings isn't a bad idea but how about you ladies wearing one too.:yes:

For pussy ratings, I'm thinking something more delicate like an anklet.

You made some great points, and yes given a choice what woman WOULDN'T want a man that can break her back out on the regular. Good sex puts a shine on the whole day, and bad sex just pisses one off :angry:

For a woman who is married or in a LTR its different because so much more is invested and at stake.
 
Women have to deal with the fact that this one swallows, this one takes it in the ass, etc. Its alot of pressure too.
 
Men.

There is no such thing as bad pussy. Any of you ladies out there in the audience think you have bad pussy, meet me after the show and let me give you a Second Opinion.

-Richard Pryor


They are lying.

Or they don't know what they are missing.

You go to the amusement park- its nice its sunny family fun but everybody knows you go to ride the fuckin coaster. If you are fucking and not cumming a solid 9/10 times you are not even in line for the ride. Doesn't mean the outing was bad, but it wasn't what it could have been.

I like how you think. :lol:

I don't care how good I think I am in bed I tell my woman if you don't cum let me know. If I can't go again I'll eat the pussy or do whatever it is to get you off. Part of the reason I enjoy sex is satisfying a woman.

And sheit I'm damn sho gone get my nutt if we fuck so why shouldn't she?
 
Interesting thread.

IMO, it depends on the situation or the style of relationship between the man and woman.

It seems to me that almost every sexual dysfunction is pointed toward men..

What would you expect in the feminist era?

premature ejaculation (do women even suffer from their version of that?)

I'd say yes. I've been with women that came just off of finger fucking :hmm:

But I guess the term "pre-mature ejaculation" is relative.
 
woman Do!!!
There are 3 types of sexual women:

1)the real wack ones..y'know the girls who aren't good in bed because they are inexperienced and tense.

2)the girls who are good but just good at the basic things...riding, sucking dick, etc.

3)the real freaks! These are the ones who do it all...and the ones that most men fantasize about. They're into 3somes, swallowing, nymphos, eat pussy, etc.

So the pressure falls on what category she falls into. And because there are so many different beautiful women...men have the option to pick and choose to our liking, until we find the ones that satisfies us. So as a female the pressure is on them to perform better or just as good as the next chick...or else we lose interest and move on to the next.

I def. kinda agree with this, but I just can't pick one side. For ladies, you don't wanna be with a dude who thinks you're "too wide," not freaky enough, not adventuresome enough, or whatever. But I know that if I'm with a guy and the sex is whack.. it's a deal breaker... If the first time is whack, he gets a second chance, and if that doesn't cut it... I usually lose interest... :smh:
 
I def. kinda agree with this, but I just can't pick one side. For ladies, you don't wanna be with a dude who thinks you're "too wide," not freaky enough, not adventuresome enough, or whatever. But I know that if I'm with a guy and the sex is whack.. it's a deal breaker... If the first time is whack, he gets a second chance, and if that doesn't cut it... I usually lose interest... :smh:

I agree with CJ. It depends on the circumstances of the relationship.

If I was with a jumpoff and didnt perform up to her standards. Do you think I give a fuck?

If I was with a woman I had genuine interest in, then yeah I'd care how things were when we got intimate.

I'd imagine it is the same way from the female perspective. Especially if she was with a guy she cared about.
 
For pussy ratings, I'm thinking something more delicate like an anklet.

Good sex puts a shine on the whole day, and bad sex just pisses one off :angry:

An anklet not a bad idea. Subtle, stylish yet says it all. :D

Physical problems aside (tired, medicated) bad sex is a mental thing. A persons approach and attitude makes all the difference to me.

I agree with you, bad sex usually puts me in a "why do I bother mood." Just last week I rejected this woman strickly because of her approach. You try, you drop hints and nothing changes. What can you do?
 
Men

It takes a lot to get hard looking at an ugly bitch.
Women are judge more on how well you suck a dick.
Men are judge more on how well we beat the pussy up.
 
You see i disagree with you my dude. "Effort" my be cool and all but that DOESN'T/will never substitute in for "talent" and skill and thats where the pressure, comes in on(no pun intended). I've been with tons of women who put in "effort" but really didn't satisfy me enough compared to the women who had real talent and skills.
I don't know about you, Sun...but thats what keeps me around..word!!!

Sound like your ready to put your cape on cpt. Savem!!
 
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