White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (post)

Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

wish you read my post and REALLY understood the point ... maybe one day you will :dunno:

While you are looking at them disgusted that they want sympathy the underdeveloped world is looking at YOU 100x more disgusted that you want sympathy ... so excuse me while I respectfully bow out of this pity party

peace

i don't want sympathy.
you didn't even read the 1st line in my post
i said NOBODY IS A VICTIM. meaning me and him. so re-read what i wrote understand the words and facts i said then live with it.
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

Everyone needs to quit cryin victim ... yall can go by a 3000 calorie meal for $3 ...

some of our street beggars make 30k+ a year ...

while some people in India eat rats as a TREAT homie ... dudes in Nigeria live in the landfill diggin through it and that is a GOOD JOB to them

I ain't no patriot but all this 'I have it so hard' while we are on our wireless Macs and Laptops is kinda disgusting when you think of it

Who's crying.

Since when did talking on the truth constitute "crying" ?
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

Who's crying.

Since when did talking on the truth constitute "crying" ?

we're not supposed to say anything. we're not supposed to say anything about our situation. the way he copes is by looking at underdeveloped countries and saying they have it worse than me i have it ok compared to them so i shouldn't complain
that's not life.
those people aren't in that position because of HIM they're in that position because of WHITE people....especially the nigerians he mentioned.
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

we're not supposed to say anything. we're not supposed to say anything about our situation. the way he copes is by looking at underdeveloped countries and saying they have it worse than me i have it ok compared to them so i shouldn't complain
that's not life.
those people aren't in that position because of HIM they're in that position because of WHITE people....especially the nigerians he mentioned.

preach
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

wish you read my post and REALLY understood the point ... maybe one day you will :dunno:

While you are looking at them disgusted that they want sympathy the underdeveloped world is looking at YOU 100x more disgusted that you want sympathy ... so excuse me while I respectfully bow out of this pity party

peace

True Les, but it's 360. The so called "underdeveloped world" is mostly underdeveloped because of the ones we look at in disgust. The ones we look at in disgust are victims of their own self loathing, the world suffers because of that. The cypher can go both directions.
We also can look at the poor nigerians in Lagos digging through trash with envy because at least they still have a direct link to their culture and family identity and name despite their immense poverty (Ibo, Yourba etc). The grass will always be greener on EVERYSIDE in various capacities, it's "in the eye of the beholder".
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

I posted in the suicide thread that I expect their is more pressure for a white man to suceed. But there is also more opportunity for a white man to suceed as well. It's called benefit of the doubt and presumption that because you are white you will get the job done.

There is little govt assistance for single men period, black or white. So if any man falls short he is assed out. The difference is black men are expected to be fuck ups, so while their is less of a stigma on black men who are on hard times, their also will be less opportunity given to you to overcome any obstacles in your way.

Real talk. I know a older white guy at my job that embezzeled a million dollars, got caught did his time and got rehired in a top supervisor position...:hmm:
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

Everyone needs to quit cryin victim ... yall can go by a 3000 calorie meal for $3 ...

some of our street beggars make 30k+ a year ...

while some people in India eat rats as a TREAT homie ... dudes in Nigeria live in the landfill diggin through it and that is a GOOD JOB to them

I ain't no patriot but all this 'I have it so hard' while we are on our wireless Macs and Laptops is kinda disgusting when you think of it

Don't know what you mean by "quit cryin" but regardless of hustle blacks have it rough in America and if you don't see or believe in it then oh well.

What that man said was the truth, nothing short of a amazing response. Don't mean be lazy but even the "street hustler" has a negative image as a "street hustler", another stereotype for the white man to lay onto us.

Whites don't have to be street hustlers, they have doors open to them automatically due to color.
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

I posted in the suicide thread that I expect their is more pressure for a white man to suceed. But there is also more opportunity for a white man to suceed as well. It's called benefit of the doubt and presumption that because you are white you will get the job done.

There is little govt assistance for single men period, black or white. So if any man falls short he is assed out. The difference is black men are expected to be fuck ups, so while their is less of a stigma on black men who are on hard times, their also will be less opportunity given to you to overcome any obstacles in your way.

Real talk. I know a older white guy at my job that embezzeled a million dollars, got caught did his time and got rehired in a top supervisor position...:hmm:

Please tell me you are making this up. I know you aren't though. :smh:

Made me think about that white dude who was the con artist--they made that movie about him, "Catch me if you can".

This motherfucker swindled millions, pretended he was a doctor, a pilot, etc.

Now he works for the FBI, specializing in counterfeit checks.

They claim he doesn't get paid by the FBI, but he does speak across the country on counterfeit checks and he gets paid.

White people are the devil incarnate.


 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

I posted in the suicide thread that I expect their is more pressure for a white man to suceed. But there is also more opportunity for a white man to suceed as well. It's called benefit of the doubt and presumption that because you are white you will get the job done.

There is little govt assistance for single men period, black or white. So if any man falls short he is assed out. The difference is black men are expected to be fuck ups, so while their is less of a stigma on black men who are on hard times, their also will be less opportunity given to you to overcome any obstacles in your way.

Real talk. I know a older white guy at my job that embezzeled a million dollars, got caught did his time and got rehired in a top supervisor position...:hmm:

its a different kind of pressure.
and also without money they feel useless. this is why they kill themselves. they have no hope they havent been through shit so when they go through shit they cant take it they kill themselves. my dad worked damn hard. he lost his job more than once, more than thrice and when he came home he didn't get a gun and say fuck it! he said fuck it i gotta work harder i got a family i can do it and he did. this is the difference i saw that growing up and it made me a fighter. no matter how hard life is. if i lost my job and house tonight tomorrow i'd be up early trying to find a way to make it cause that's what's in my dna. in their dna is if you don't get it legit get it illegal if you cant get it either way take it if you have it and you're about to lose it and no immediate way to get it back then end it. its about them. they'll kill their whole family instead of facing facts and working through shit.
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

we're not supposed to say anything. we're not supposed to say anything about our situation. the way he copes is by looking at underdeveloped countries and saying they have it worse than me i have it ok compared to them so i shouldn't complain
that's not life.
those people aren't in that position because of HIM they're in that position because of WHITE people....especially the nigerians he mentioned.

You said what I was trying to say but in a more practical "in your face" manner! props!
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

All I have to say to the white boy:

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Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

its a different kind of pressure.
and also without money they feel useless. this is why they kill themselves. they have no hope they havent been through shit so when they go through shit they cant take it they kill themselves. my dad worked damn hard. he lost his job more than once, more than thrice and when he came home he didn't get a gun and say fuck it! he said fuck it i gotta work harder i got a family i can do it and he did. this is the difference i saw that growing up and it made me a fighter. no matter how hard life is. if i lost my job and house tonight tomorrow i'd be up early trying to find a way to make it cause that's what's in my dna. in their dna is if you don't get it legit get it illegal if you cant get it either way take it if you have it and you're about to lose it and no immediate way to get it back then end it. its about them. they'll kill their whole family instead of facing facts and working through shit.

:yes:


I agree, but lets not generalize all, but a vast majority do have serious mental and spiritual problems, the world pays for their lack of introspection, lack of self reflection and fear of genetic annihilation.
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

Everyone needs to quit cryin victim ... yall can go by a 3000 calorie meal for $3 ...

some of our street beggars make 30k+ a year ...

while some people in India eat rats as a TREAT homie ... dudes in Nigeria live in the landfill diggin through it and that is a GOOD JOB to them

I ain't no patriot but all this 'I have it so hard' while we are on our wireless Macs and Laptops is kinda disgusting when you think of it
Eggg Zact Lee!! Who cares about social injustices, systematic racism, white supremacy, and the effects of psychological warfare as long as we have Mickey D's selling underpriced food and Steve Jobs selling overpriced laptops. Great point! Andi love the perspective!!

wish you read my post and REALLY understood the point ... maybe one day you will :dunno:

While you are looking at them disgusted that they want sympathy the underdeveloped world is looking at YOU 100x more disgusted that you want sympathy ... so excuse me while I respectfully bow out of this pity party

peace
Right, because we all know its all just one big contest of who life is shitting on worse. And as long as 3rd world residents remain in 1st place of this race to the bottom then our issues are rendered null and void! Keep it comin' fam!!!
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

Who's crying.

Since when did talking on the truth constitute "crying" ?
So are you saying one can't tell the truth and be cryin about it???? :confused:

What are you sayin fam?

we're not supposed to say anything. we're not supposed to say anything about our situation. the way he copes is by looking at underdeveloped countries and saying they have it worse than me i have it ok compared to them so i shouldn't complain
that's not life.
those people aren't in that position because of HIM they're in that position because of WHITE people....especially the nigerians he mentioned.

Apparently in you head it is either say NOTHIN or cry about it and wallow in misery ... no middle ground
Your emotions make you think like an extremist ... imo
As a man Me I discuss problems for only two reasons:
a) to solve them
or
b) to try to figure them out so I can do a)

Everything else is just gonna drag you down and make the problem worse

One of my favorite all time quotes:
I just play the hand I'm dealt, I can't say I've never knelt
before God and asked for better cards at times to no avail
But I never sat back feelin sorry for myself
Don't waste your time complaining ...
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

The hell? who would take time out to write this shit? I saw it and look directly pass it. I mean some people(white(mostly),black,Asian,Hispanic) get hook-ups but to write some like this? :smh: No idea. I saw the thread and look pass it for a few minutes didn't even wanna participate in this ignorance or rather buy into it. I could careless about anyone stress as I am dealing with my own that goes for white,black,purple,yellow damnit even monkey stress I could careless about at this point in my life. :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

Apparently in you head it is either say NOTHIN or cry about it and wallow in misery ... no middle ground
Your emotions make you think like an extremist ... imo
As a man Me I discuss problems for only two reasons:
a) to solve them
or
b) to try to figure them out so I can do a)

No that's not the way it is but in my response I didn't see how i was crying. I just pointed out the hands that were dealt and how life is different. I play my cards, i don't think woe is me or oh its just me. I think this is what it is and i work through it. I'm not in misery but what i said were facts. It is designed for us to be miserable in this system. It isn't designed for us to succeed. it doesn't cater to us of color. I don't wallow in anything I keep going. I don't think extremist I think logically. I don't think all white people are the same. I do know the ones with power designed it so that I could not win before I even played the game. that isnt on emotion that's on fact. I DID MAKE IT THOUGH despite that.
He was talking about pressure etc. and i disputed his thoughts and false sense of being a victim when he isnt. again i prefaced my other post by saying we both aren't victims in the bigger picture as being an american.
and as a man i won't let someone shit on my fellow man
or my fellow brother
i will stand up and say something about it.
the 1st step in solving a problem is addressing what the problem is and i think i did that. so from here on out we can discuss a way to solve it.
im all ears.
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

OP is a Man

Old black women don't troll porn boards.
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

Well boo fuckin' hoo hoo A-Ten. Fuckin' crakkka. Crakkka's are always whining and when they don't get their way, they cheat. A-Ten is a grade A cocksucker and a cuckhold.
:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

Well boo fuckin' hoo hoo A-Ten. Fuckin' crakkka. Crakkka's are always whining and when they don't get their way, they cheat. A-Ten is a grade A cocksucker and a cuckhold.



Man you and...(well not Dr.Truth cause at least he love Asian women) but damn who don't you hate fat boy?
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

Eggg Zact Lee!! Who cares about social injustices, systematic racism, white supremacy, and the effects of psychological warfare as long as we have Mickey D's selling underpriced food and Steve Jobs selling overpriced laptops. Great point! Andi love the perspective!!

Right, because we all know its all just one big contest of who life is shitting on worse. And as long as 3rd world residents remain in 1st place of this race to the bottom then our issues are rendered null and void! Keep it comin' fam!!!
A 'wise' man once said:
'To live is to suffer'
...at first I didn't understand the wisdom and then I thought on in some and figured what he MIGHT have meant... to me this means when you learn how to manage YOUR suffering you learn to live.

[rant] :rolleyes:
You all looked at the people who you say are causing you pain and apparently they themselves are in pain so much so they are MORE likely to commit suicide (although I don't trust the statistics) ... you see this not as proof of the nature of this world we live in where everyone is basically miserable but you see this as a 'white' disease ...

but this happens EVERYWHERE and happened at EVERY TIME in human history to EVERY PEOPLE ... so it is reasonable that this is not a 'white' thing but a human thing ... when you visit a third world country you will understand things are REALLY REAL out there for 85% of the world and YOU and I ... the black and economic debt slaves are also part of the problem

So its best to stop cryin about if 'black or white' people have more stress in america... you are the prodigal son ... time to be a man[/rant]
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

So are you saying one can't tell the truth and be cryin about it???? :confused:

What are you sayin fam?

What I am saying is that some of us are too quick to make statements that have me wondering whether any lessons have been learnt from history.

What's good fam?
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

Yeah you have too many peckerwoods crying now since they missed out on the White Supremacist gravy train.:lol::lol::lol:
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

What I am saying is that some of us are too quick to make statements that have me wondering whether any lessons have been learnt from history.

What's good fam?
I'm real good ... hope you are the same ... name names and say what you mean I honest to god don't know what/who you are talking about
:confused:

No that's not the way it is but in my response I didn't see how i was crying. I just pointed out the hands that were dealt and how life is different. I play my cards, i don't think woe is me or oh its just me. I think this is what it is and i work through it. I'm not in misery but what i said were facts. It is designed for us to be miserable in this system. It isn't designed for us to succeed. it doesn't cater to us of color. I don't wallow in anything I keep going. I don't think extremist I think logically. I don't think all white people are the same. I do know the ones with power designed it so that I could not win before I even played the game. that isnt on emotion that's on fact. I DID MAKE IT THOUGH despite that.
He was talking about pressure etc. and i disputed his thoughts and false sense of being a victim when he isnt. again i prefaced my other post by saying we both aren't victims in the bigger picture as being an american.
and as a man i won't let someone shit on my fellow man
or my fellow brother
i will stand up and say something about it.
the 1st step in solving a problem is addressing what the problem is and i think i did that. so from here on out we can discuss a way to solve it.
im all ears.

So you 'made it' by not complaining but takin it for what it was and doing what you had to do, is that what you are saying here?

largebillsonlyplease said:
so for a white male to cry like the world isn't his oyster is insulting to me as a black male with real problems that i have no control over.

Cause it sounded a lot like YOU were crying the world wasn't your oyster here:

largebillsonlyplease said:
we get judged on our skin first our talents next and skin is always a factor even if you do have talent that's the point.
in america where we live racism is alive and well. racism is almost accepted openly its been accepted privately.

Maybe it's a typo :rolleyes:
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

So you 'made it' by not complaining but takin it for what it was and doing what you had to do, is that what you are saying here?



Cause it sounded a lot like YOU were crying the world wasn't your oyster here:



Maybe it's a typo :rolleyes:


i made against the odds that are stacked against us. if you don't think things arent stacked against then i dont know what to tell you.

the world isn't my oyster the world is his where is crying? did i say how come the world isnt my oyster as well or i need that too? nope i didnt.

see i'm not even gonna go back and forth with you, when you refuse to even try and comprehend anything.
you're on your on tip and i hope it works for you.
i stated facts and the way things are and set up.
i didnt cry about it not being my way. i just said the way it was. you said was crying.
i prefaced my response to you saying that nobody is a victim
you straight ignored it even though it was the 1st line in the post to go into some maybe one day i'll understand type stuff.
its cool homie. you have you beliefs i have mine
nobody on this end is crying.
nobody is begging anyone for sympathy.
if you can't take the way things are for the way they are then that's fine.
you said you stay problems to discuss or find a way to solve them. i responded with im all ears...and you said nothing to come to a solution. follow your own advice. why go at me for saying how things are.
1st thing you say is someone is crying
other people have it bad
im emotional
etc
etc
when nobody was crying
other people do have it bad but what do they have to do with US black people in america. this isn't a world scope conversation. this is a white man trying to discredit anything we have to go through and say he is a victim when NEITHER of us are victims but we're supposed to be victimized by the system by design.
i'm not emotional im logical and im not gonna be quiet. im not militant, im black.
now again im all ears for any solutions or constructive advice you have for people who are struggling. im not struggling but this world isnt about only me.
and the nations that are underdeveloped is not because of my people its because of the person who was in here complaining about shit that just simply wasn't true.

its sad that you can sit there and accuse me of crying...when i said something factual. i said what it was. we get judged by our skin first everything else second. where did i say man i wish they had to deal with what we deal with! man i wish life was so much different or easier where did i say awww man im a victim of this or that...where did i cry?
randomly quoting shit YOU interpreted as crying doesn't make it crying.
where am i asking for help
where am i begging
where am i even complaining...im just stating facts.
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

Please tell me you are making this up. I know you aren't though. :smh:

Made me think about that white dude who was the con artist--they made that movie about him, "Catch me if you can".

This motherfucker swindled millions, pretended he was a doctor, a pilot, etc.

Now he works for the FBI, specializing in counterfeit checks.

They claim he doesn't get paid by the FBI, but he does speak across the country on counterfeit checks and he gets paid.

White people are the devil incarnate.




It's unfortunate but true. I see his ass skipping down the hallway everyday...:lol:
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

A-ten is right. White men have pressure we don't.
However, A-ten fails to factor in the point that black men have to deal with white men bullshit on a daily basis.We have all the issues placed on us by his society; of being black and of being black men in a white male dominated society.
Should he care? We must make it more costly to be left on the outside in order for us to be let on the inside. You see how they cry for people not to upset the Muslims or make things worst for our soldiers by burning a Koran or disrespecting MUHAMMAD?
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

largebills please continue to ether that coon
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

a-ten is right. White men have pressure we don't.
.....
bullshit. Fuck that lazy, whining, cheating, cum guzzling cuckholded crakkka f-minus!!!!

I wish someone would merck his family to really give him something to worry about. Fuckin' faggot.
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

Nobody reads on BGOL but I'll go ahead and say it anyway.

Back in the early 1990s, there was a white guy by the name of Joshua Solomon who was inspired by a book he read called Black Like Me. As an experiment to really see how much racism a Black man experiences, he took pills to turn his skin "black" and shaved his head bald.

He planned to do it for a whole semester off from college. He never got passed two weeks. The story was reported in the Washington Post.

Eye opening book.. read it 2 or 3 times in my lifetime. Another good supplemental read is Man In The Mirror by Robert Bonazzi. It dissects and analyzes John Howard Griffin's original book.
 
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i made against the odds that are stacked against us. if you don't think things arent stacked against then i dont know what to tell you.

the world isn't my oyster the world is his where is crying? did i say how come the world isnt my oyster as well or i need that too? nope i didnt.

see i'm not even gonna go back and forth with you, when you refuse to even try and comprehend anything.
you're on your on tip and i hope it works for you.
i stated facts and the way things are and set up.
i didnt cry about it not being my way. i just said the way it was. you said was crying.
i prefaced my response to you saying that nobody is a victim
you straight ignored it even though it was the 1st line in the post to go into some maybe one day i'll understand type stuff.
its cool homie. you have you beliefs i have mine
nobody on this end is crying.
nobody is begging anyone for sympathy.
if you can't take the way things are for the way they are then that's fine.
you said you stay problems to discuss or find a way to solve them. i responded with im all ears...and you said nothing to come to a solution. follow your own advice. why go at me for saying how things are.
1st thing you say is someone is crying
other people have it bad
im emotional
etc
etc
when nobody was crying
other people do have it bad but what do they have to do with US black people in america. this isn't a world scope conversation. this is a white man trying to discredit anything we have to go through and say he is a victim when NEITHER of us are victims but we're supposed to be victimized by the system by design.
i'm not emotional im logical and im not gonna be quiet. im not militant, im black.
now again im all ears for any solutions or constructive advice you have for people who are struggling. im not struggling but this world isnt about only me.
and the nations that are underdeveloped is not because of my people its because of the person who was in here complaining about shit that just simply wasn't true.

its sad that you can sit there and accuse me of crying...when i said something factual. i said what it was. we get judged by our skin first everything else second. where did i say man i wish they had to deal with what we deal with! man i wish life was so much different or easier where did i say awww man im a victim of this or that...where did i cry?
randomly quoting shit YOU interpreted as crying doesn't make it crying.
where am i asking for help
where am i begging
where am i even complaining...im just stating facts.
Before I reply to this essay please show me where I ACTUALLY described you or anything you said as 'crying'
:dunno:
You gettin all emotional about me sayin you were crying right?
:dunno:
Ok, show me where I said that please.... where did I quote you, name you, post directy under you, reference your post etc?
Cause I can not find it.

Let's talk 'facts' and I will break it down one more time so you can understand it
largebills please continue to ether that coon

oh my :lol:
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

Ninjas don't read so I posted the book in mp3 format in my audiobook thread.


I have not gotten around to listening to it yet but I will eventually.

If you got links to the book, please post. I can't do audio books :smh:
 
Re: White BGOL member tells black men "Quit bitching!White men have equal stress (pos

Before I reply to this essay please show me where I ACTUALLY described you or anything you said as 'crying'
:dunno:
You gettin all emotional about me sayin you were crying right?
:dunno:
Ok, show me where I said that please.... where did I quote you, name you, post directy under you, reference your post etc?
Cause I can not find it.

Let's talk 'facts' and I will break it down one more time so you can understand it

where am i emotional. stop throwing that out there because that i am not :lol: im not writing an essay.
how you gonna try and quote examples of what you interpreted as crying in the post i responded to, then say where did you describe anything i said as crying....in the post that i responded to :lol: look at it.

so you didn't quote my words and then try and say that i was crying? you didn't make this post?

So you 'made it' by not complaining but takin it for what it was and doing what you had to do, is that what you are saying here?



Cause it sounded a lot like YOU were crying the world wasn't your oyster here:



Maybe it's a typo :rolleyes:
........
 
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