Where does confidence stop, and arrogance start? Ghanaian woman titles IG page "Yes_am_pretty"

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There is a difference between confidence and charasmatic.

All confident people are not charasmatic

And not all charasmatic people are confident.

Her confidence in directly correlated with how much attention she gets. Let an avg looking light brite be in the room with her you will see how "confident" she really is
 
Take all the weave and. make up off most these chicks and they average Walmart chicks.

:confused: So, if she didn't wear all of that, and did look like a Walmart chic, you sayin you would be more impressed with her?

I have nothing against "Walmart chics", but we didn't come to BGOL to look at Walmart chics. We came to look at women like her.
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:confused: So, if she didn't wear all of that, and did look like a Walmart chic, you sayin you would be more impressed with her?

I have nothing against "Walmart chics", but we didn't come to BGOL to look at Walmart chics. We came to look at women like her.
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No, what he is saying is that some of can see through the facade and mask. And those of us who can don't come to BGOL to look at women like her, but women that are "pretty" without having to spend 5 hours in the bathroom before going out the house.....and BGOL is full of those kind of women. So is the world.
 
When she’s annoyed by the attention she did everything to attract.

To that here's a thought exercise...

Every notice that women who primarily complain about male attention are women who get male attention from the men they don't think are 'worthy'?

As if....water doesn't seek it's own level.

Quiet as it's kept very few men "shoot their shot", most either fuck with chicks they deem realistically attainable and or beneath them.

So if a cat is getting at a chick more often than not it's because he thinks he has a legitimate shot.

IMHO of course.

*two cents*
 
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To that here's a thought exercise...

Every notice that women who primarily complain about male attention are women who get male attention from the men they don't think are 'worthy'?

As if....water doesn't seek it's own level.

Quiet as it's kept very few men "shoot their shot", most either fuck with chicks they deem realistically attainable and or beneath them.

IMHO of course.

*two cents*
Real talk as I see this at the gym on a daily basis

Chicks come in half naked and all kinds of make up, but if the wrong kat tries to holla, they give him the gas face. But you're in the gym half naked and you're upset a dude puts his bid in??

But if its the right playa, they're all smiles and shit.

Just how the game goes
 
No, what he is saying is that some of can see through the facade and mask. And those of us who can don't come to BGOL to look at women like her, but women that are "pretty" without having to spend 5 hours in the bathroom before going out the house.....and BGOL is full of those kind of women. So is the world.
So it's safe to assume that we each come here for what we individually like. I see women posted on here that i wouldn't look at twice, and some that i would love to have posters of on my bedroom wall. I won't knock what another man is into on BGOL, as long as SHE has tits, ass and a real pussy she was born with.
 
To that here's a thought exercise...

Every notice that women who primarily complain about male attention are women who get male attention from the men they don't think are 'worthy'?

As if....water doesn't seek it's own level.

Quiet as it's kept very few men "shoot their shot", most either fuck with chicks they deem realistically attainable and or beneath them.

So if a cat is getting at a chick more often than not it's because he thinks he has a legitimate shot.

IMHO of course.

*two cents*
#facts. Flashy guys approach women like her the ones that are border level sociopaths and excellent manipulators. Guys would be surprised how many fine women dont get approached. This is why women set thirst traps to attract men to give the illusion she is so desired by men
 
Real talk as I see this at the gym on a daily basis

Chicks come in half naked and all kinds of make up, but if the wrong kat tries to holla, they give him the gas face. But you're in the gym half naked and you're upset a dude puts his bid in??

But if its the right playa, they're all smiles and shit.

Just how the game goes
Yup, women know how to dress to not attract that kind of attention. And if she wanted a specific man attention at the gym she knows how to attract him and get "caught" looking at him dressed modestly. Women's love for attention controls them.
 


These women want to attract attention 1st and impress women 2nd and get a man 3rd.

It is crazy when you look at online dating and how hard it is to pull a decent looking woman off of online vs in real life.

These millenial women just dont know how to hold a convo look at social media a woman will get on social media and say absolutely nothing and just play in her hair. And will get flooded with thirsty niggas but she doesnt want a man that fell for her thirst trap. Why?

Cuz all these women think they pussy is the golden ratio of pie squared.

That if you fuck them you gonna fall inlove. And as a man if you desperate to get her number and showering her with compliments she looks at you like "he hasnt even fucked me and he this desperate i know he would be crazy stalking type after i put this pussy on his ass, im good pass".
 
#facts. Guys would be surprised how many fine women dont get approached.

Not this guy. I learned a long time ago that the prettiest woman in the room is the loneliest woman in the room. I can't county how many times I've walked into a room/bar, etc. and approached the pretty girl. All of a sudden we are laughing and yucking it up and before you know it I would see kneegrows practically lined up to try to get a word in because I gave them courage...... SMH
 
Not this guy. I learned a long time ago that the prettiest woman in the room is the loneliest woman in the room. I can't county how many times I've walked into a room/bar, etc. and approached the pretty girl. All of a sudden we are laughing and yucking it up and before you know it I would see kneegrows practically lined up to try to get a word in because I gave them courage...... SMH
Yes and women know this which is why the thirst trap is so important to her . She get one guy to fall for it the rest will follow suit
 


These women want to attract attention 1st and impress women 2nd and get a man 3rd.

It is crazy when you look at online dating and how hard it is to pull a decent looking woman off of online vs in real life.

These millenial women just dont know how to hold a convo look at social media a woman will get on social media and say absolutely nothing and just play in her hair. And will get flooded with thirsty niggas but she doesnt want a man that fell for her thirst trap. Why?

Cuz all these women think they pussy is the golden ratio of pie squared.

That if you fuck them you gonna fall inlove. And as a man if you desperate to get her number and showering her with compliments she looks at you like "he hasnt even fucked me and he this desperate i know he would be crazy stalking type after i put this pussy on his ass, im good pass".


I got through about 3 minutes of that chicks schlock and....

I KNOW why she's single.

I'm almost certain that she doesn't know why she is...

*two cents*
 
But she think she know why cuz aint no good black men.

That's a cop out.

The truth is is that there has NEVER been enough good men to go around...

Ever.

Quality = Value and something with enough value in a market becomes valuabe and valuable items- in part to demand/increased price point - become more scarce and harder to obtain.

Economics 101.

In short, there are good men on the market, they are just above her price point. She can't or can no longer AFFORD one; either she never could or she could have but didn't buy in when she had the purchasing power.

Now instead of stepping her game up and increasing her buying power to increase her chances of obtaining "a good man", she'll just sit and pout that there are not enough good men to go around.

There never was....

And whose to say she's a good woman?

*two cents*
 
That's a cop out.

The truth is is that there has NEVER been enough good men to go around...

Ever.

Quality = Value and something with enough value in a market becomes valuabe and valuable items- in part to demand/increased price point - become more scarce and harder to obtain.

Economics 101.

In short, there are good men on the market, they are just above her price point. She can't or can no longer AFFORD one; either she never could or she could have but didn't buy in when she had the purchasing power.

Now instead of stepping her game up and increasing her buying power to increase her chances of obtaining "a good man", she'll just sit and pout that there are not enough good men to go around.

There never was....

And whose to say she's a good woman?

*two cents*
When they say good men.....they dont mean good men that are 50 plus and dont want anymore kids. They mean good men her age range and are very attractive to her. I mean cuz there are some good men that may be old, ugly short.....
 
When they say good men.....they dont mean good men that are 50 plus and dont want anymore kids. They mean good men her age range and are very attractive to her. I mean cuz there are some good men that may be old, ugly short.....

There in lies the rub...

"Good man" is speculative and based soley on whatever the woman thinks "Good" is.

Whatever that is in her mind she doesn't have it or know how to obtain it.

It's on her.


*two cents*


 
There in lies the rub...

"Good man" is speculative and based soley on whatever the woman thinks "Good" is.

Whatever that is in her mind she doesn't have it or know how to obtain it.

It's on her.


*two cents*
Yeah they claim they not settling at all*

But yet some of them will become dike claiming there are no good men. But wait.......thought you were not settling? :idea:

Not only did you settle but you settled for a woman. So you wont settle for a man but will settle for a woman?

Then they become straight after that wears off. A lot of women would rather date a pretty broke lesbian before they date a ugly or fat or old good man
 
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