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Where Are All The Single Black Men? [INFOGRAPHIC]
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True. Because a woman's only value is in her looks. And the same thing can't really be said for men because a man's only value is what he can provide. So he has to have a fat bank, and she has to look good. I most certainly agree.
I don't advocate lowering standards either really. I was just talking to a woman yesterday about knowing her bars. Tiers if you will. A guy who says he wants to be with you, will do things to be with you. Don't fudge on your standards for the guy who says he wants to be with you. Don't give an inch. You start doing that next thing you know you'll make making exceptions and exemptions for all of his behavior and then.... you'll wind up with a broke ass dude a baby, and him fucking somebody else.
And you're dead on right about women need to focus on do'ers and not say'ers. The problem is
THE PROBLEM IS...
That women get a lot of criticism for not being with a guy when he had nothing and he was struggling. So when he gets something, then she's called a golddigger. Or it's the Mike Jones crap, or it's the bitch ass cartoon guy who is carrying books and then all of sudden he has a car and walking around with money in his hand. You didn't want me then. So the issue is those women will get with those guys in order to give him a chance. Maybe he'll grow into something. I saw his potential they would tell me.
I say fuck all dat. When he's coming up, you tell him to come up. You don't need me a woman to help you come up if what you really want to do is come up. Especially if he's already missing other key values. Youngins need to learn to play the odds. And in the meantime, work on their appearance so they can catch a man. Because that's all that's important for women.
Now why would you want to disprove this coping mechanism chicks stand on to deal with the fact that they alone unless it's 2 a.m. , he has a 3 hour lay over, or his wife is out of town.
*two cents*
Exactly....notice there was no comparison for those stats.
was just about to post about that. how come they don't show the womens' stats side by side..don't just tell one side of the story.
Saw my homie for the first time in five years this week. He saw me looking at his Asian wife:
"I know what you're thinking, Wobble Wobble."
Me: "WTF? How you know what I'm thinking?"
Friend: "You're thinking, should I break the bounds and give it a try. I'll save you from grinding gears: I've been with her for two years and we've never had an argument. She's so cool, I can't believe how things are going. If things ever go south with you and ol' girl, don't let our upbringing make you turn your back on peace in your life."
Me: "What do you mean?"
Friend: "You know that statistic about one in four Black men are in prison, one in four is Gay and another one is dating outside his race? It's all a construct, designed to make you limit yourself. I thought I was a traitor to my race until I started seeing that Black women who are NBA or rapper groupies, or are drug dealer groupies, or white boy groupies or Lesbian groupies - it all matches out. The pool of eligible Black women is very, very small."
"I know what you're thinking, Wobble Wobble."
Me: "WTF? How you know what I'm thinking?"
Friend: "You're thinking, should I break the bounds and give it a try. I'll save you from grinding gears: I've been with her for two years and we've never had an argument. She's so cool, I can't believe how things are going. If things ever go south with you and ol' girl, don't let our upbringing make you turn your back on peace in your life."
Me: "What do you mean?"
Friend: "You know that statistic about one in four Black men are in prison, one in four is Gay and another one is dating outside his race? It's all a construct, designed to make you limit yourself. I thought I was a traitor to my race until I started seeing that Black women who are NBA or rapper groupies, or are drug dealer groupies, or white boy groupies or Lesbian groupies - it all matches out. The pool of eligible Black women is very, very small."
Some people will get and others will never get it. The ones that understand will be happy and the ones that don't will stay miserable. It's that simple. There is no need to fight with each other, call names or etc...
LoneStar29
Banned
THE PROBLEM IS...
That women get a lot of criticism for not being with a guy when he had nothing and he was struggling. So when he gets something, then she's called a golddigger. Or it's the Mike Jones crap, or it's the bitch ass cartoon guy who is carrying books and then all of sudden he has a car and walking around with money in his hand. You didn't want me then. So the issue is those women will get with those guys in order to give him a chance. Maybe he'll grow into something. I saw his potential they would tell me.
I say fuck all dat. When he's coming up, you tell him to come up. You don't need me a woman to help you come up if what you really want to do is come up. Especially if he's already missing other key values. Youngins need to learn to play the odds. And in the meantime, work on their appearance so they can catch a man. Because that's all that's important for women.
We're expected to accept a man with nothing and see his potential and build with him ... but these guys dont do that for women. They dont look for a woman with potential and build with her ... they want someone perfect from the beginning ... she needs to have great body, face and hair, she needs to be educated and make money and be independent but not say she is independent, she needs to be damn near a virgin but still be a freak ... these guys have their list as well and their standards and expectations are just as high and they dont think twice about settling
Also how many women have stuck by a mans side when he has nothing only for him to turn around and start treating her like crap and fucking mad other women cuz he has the money and options now? He cheating on the woman who loved him when he had nothing with women who wouldnt look twice at him now if he wasnt paid. Alot of times these guys just arent worth the emotional investment
that advice is pretty terrible.
first off a supportive woman is one of the best things a man can have. thats that person that helps reassure you and gives you that lil push when the world is kickin ur ass or when ur kickin the worlds ass.
2nd a woman that has been with a dude from before is looked at more favorably cuz to us...its like u didnt have to gamble on him but u did and he loves and respects u even more for that. he knows that u are down. u have been proven.
if u just out here chasing a dude that already won....thats cool and all that but just know that she's more likely to be disposable in his mind cuz he dont even know if ur here for the $$, the shit he can provide or cuz you really love him for him. in his head you are just one of the nice things that comes w/ success... a trophy wife. trophies can be replaced. well anybody can but a trophy holds much less value than a woman who has held it down.
The pedestal is ON FIRE . . . and it can't turn to smoldering ash fast enough.
I can't wait until we see the end of econo-sexual politics. Then, women will HAVE to come to the table with more than appearance, and men swag, and all that low level bs, IF a ltr is what they're seeking.
JG
I can't wait until we see the end of econo-sexual politics. Then, women will HAVE to come to the table with more than appearance, and men swag, and all that low level bs, IF a ltr is what they're seeking.
JG
AWESOME POST
i had the same conversation with my sisters first husband a while back
all he talked about was how peaceful his life is now
and how motivated he is to get shit done with his asian wife having his back
i had the same conversation with my sisters first husband a while back
all he talked about was how peaceful his life is now
and how motivated he is to get shit done with his asian wife having his back
You beat me to this. I was about to state the exact same thing.
You're just wayyyy off completely...
If you really observe men and just observe them and the type of women they with and I'm speaking the happily married or the ones in LTR most of the women they get with are very average... in fact most men will tell you they prefer a 5 over a 10 due to the hassle of trying to please the 10 and her attitude.... men don't like hassles in relantionships, alot of men will lower their standards just to get a good woman.
It's not just broke niggas doing that, it's well off cats too... you're looking at the super fine dimes and the young cats walking around in fresh, up to date gear and a clean cut and that's usually nothing more that a future hook-up.. most these young dudes ain't even trying to get too close to these really fine chicks...
All these pictures of dimes on bgol, most niggas don't even have a girl half as fine... real talk... men are usually insecure and don't want to deal with the hassle with chicks...
This....
Men love a woman that's supportive... one that's by a man's side when he's broke especially... keep in mind a single man without kids is in the highest tax bracket... irs and ss and so forth will rape you, you make 80k but after taxes you barely bringing home anything, combine that with when tax season comes around and you fill out taxes you barely got back anything...
A woman who sticks by a man when he's broke is so respected by men it's not even funny, we all ain't baller, city jobs usually don't pay much beyong 50k for brothas, a good amount are between 28k and 50k so a woman who looks at you when you pushing around on hubcaps is automatic wife material...
If I came up tomorrow and make 80 and bought a bmw, you think I'm running to the altar with the first girl I met? I'll be fucking around playing head games and just ignoring chicks because I can and becuase no one gave a damn when I was broke living off 30k paying rent and so forth. America is conservative, these old school cacs have the same mentality the young hip hop flossing street cats have, nothing has changed.... be there when I'm in the dump and I'll respect you. Modern day feminism and liberalism won't be around too long... you can trust me on that.
True. Because a woman's only value is in her looks. And the same thing can't really be said for men because a man's only value is what he can provide. So he has to have a fat bank, and she has to look good. I most certainly agree.
I don't advocate lowering standards either really. I was just talking to a woman yesterday about knowing her bars. Tiers if you will. A guy who says he wants to be with you, will do things to be with you. Don't fudge on your standards for the guy who says he wants to be with you. Don't give an inch. You start doing that next thing you know you'll make making exceptions and exemptions for all of his behavior and then.... you'll wind up with a broke ass dude a baby, and him fucking somebody else.
And you're dead on right about women need to focus on do'ers and not say'ers. The problem is
THE PROBLEM IS...
That women get a lot of criticism for not being with a guy when he had nothing and he was struggling. So when he gets something, then she's called a golddigger. Or it's the Mike Jones crap, or it's the bitch ass cartoon guy who is carrying books and then all of sudden he has a car and walking around with money in his hand. You didn't want me then. So the issue is those women will get with those guys in order to give him a chance. Maybe he'll grow into something. I saw his potential they would tell me.
I say fuck all dat. When he's coming up, you tell him to come up. You don't need me a woman to help you come up if what you really want to do is come up. Especially if he's already missing other key values. Youngins need to learn to play the odds. And in the meantime, work on their appearance so they can catch a man. Because that's all that's important for women.
A woman's value to get some dick and maybe a couple bucks is in her looks but wifey, the looks don't matter as much... trust me on that... turn off bet and look around you...
Dating is a man's game long term, short term it's a woman game. I agree that if a man wants you, you'll know in his actions, not his words...
The $30'000 a year salary is really all you need to know why these black women bitch so much, the men are out there but sisters think of them as bums...
If that the's case
C/S. Instead they go for broke cats that give off the illusion that they're paid for the short term but have nothing going for them in the long term...
LoneStar29
Banned
AWESOME POST
i had the same conversation with my sisters first husband a while back
all he talked about was how peaceful his life is now
and how motivated he is to get shit done with his asian wife having his back
Here we go with the so and so race are soooooo much better than black women song and dance
the black man = the new KKK
LoneStar29
Banned
OMG this is such a lie, please stop ... maybe YOU do that (I'll give you the benefit of the doubt) but most men dont do that shit
Yeah he will love her while he is broke ... and the second he gets some more dough he ditches her for a dime. This is ESPECIALLY true for bm who feel new money = new pussy
I know from personal experience that this is not true
The higher a woman aims the more she is respected by men ... heffas fuckin with low level cats get low level treatment
OMG this is such a lie, please stop ... maybe YOU do that (I'll give you the benefit of the doubt) but most men dont do that shit
Yeah he will love her while he is broke ... and the second he gets some more dough he ditches her for a dime. This is ESPECIALLY true for bm who feel new money = new pussy
I know from personal experience that this is not true
The higher a woman aims the more she is respected by men ... heffas fuckin with low level cats get low level treatment
You need a man badly. White, black, asian, or whatever. You need a release. Fuck some of that anger out of your soul.
Niggas just get the whip and a couple button up shirts with writing on the back and a cut and they holla at mad chicks, these dudes don't have anything except a nice whip. Dudes don't even have 1 credit card and they flaunt the whip till they sleeping with mad chicks. Women are so infatuaed with image that they don't even see what the man or what's he's about.
OMG this is such a lie, please stop ... maybe YOU do that (I'll give you the benefit of the doubt) but most men dont do that shit
Yeah he will love her while he is broke ... and the second he gets some more dough he ditches her for a dime. This is ESPECIALLY true for bm who feel new money = new pussy
I know from personal experience that this is not true
The higher a woman aims the more she is respected by men ... heffas fuckin with low level cats get low level treatment
You don't get it at all.
Trust me alot of these really pretty chicks are single and they usually get used for some pussy and abandoned. Women who "aim for the sky" usually get labeled badly... you can't get into the game in the 9th inning...
Cheating has been there since the beginning of time... nothing to do with money.. money brings more confidence usually but plenty of men cheat and are broke....
boom
LoneStar29
Banned
Please
you can show these niggas all the love in the world ... it doesnt mean ANYTHING to them
black men are heartless
wow...i'm 3 out of 100
But the part about not wanting a man who already has kids and a man who isn't obese is hilarious because those 2 things eliminate most sistas.
-ctf
bingooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You're absolutely correct
1) A woman needs to take care of her self because men are visual, we notice a womans ass before anything, we're programmed that way.
2) She needs to have a job and an education, money needs to come into the household especially with the cost of living nowadays.
3) I don't know about being a freak, but I'm assuming that if a woman truly loves her man she would do anything to please him.
Honestly this is not a difficult list, we as human beings should aspire to take care of ourselves physically and financially.
LoneStar29
Banned
So then if you guys want us to come to the table with all that make sure you do the same
Dont be a broke bum asking for a heffa to "work" with you or see your "potential", period
Fair enough. I will skip your handler and deal with you directly....
Using your statement above if a woman has a kid by another man and the man she fancies is childless then the woman should be automatically out of the running. Don't be a busted out baby mama asking for a cat to 'work ' with you or 'understand' your past situation with another man who you had a kid with. PERIOD.
No need to 'work' with a woman through that shit right...
Right.
*two cents*
LoneStar29
Banned
You really need to come off of this dumb shit ... using that logic I guess all you guys on here who agree with each other are bitches and handlers too right??
GTFOH
Do yourself a favour and put me on ignore since you seem to have such a HUGE issue with every post I make
Stupid bitch ... I dont even pursue childless men ... I dont ask for SHIT I cant give in return ... you fags dont know me so stop fucking pretending like you do
Your right, I don't know you, yet I do know you are a single parent. Now how would I know that if you didn't say so yourself.
And using your statement above- not pursuing childless men- then you can understand how your long-term relationship pool would be drastically reduced....by your own doing.
You are a good looking chick so you can still catch dick however. Try to find comfort in that.
There are 'good' men out there its just due to your situation you won't have access
to as many as you could childless.
Once again, my apologies to legacy infinity, it just that its late and this yapping you was doing had to be addressed.
Thanks for not calling me a COON. Its such a dirty word, like n***er girl.
*two cents*
I say fuck all dat. When he's coming up, you tell him to come up. You don't need me a woman to help you come up if what you really want to do is come up. Especially if he's already missing other key values. Youngins need to learn to play the odds. And in the meantime, work on their appearance so they can catch a man. Because that's all that's important for women.
A lot of women simply don t know how to build with a man.......
A lot of women simply don t know how to FUNCTION WITHOUT THE PEDESTAL
TODAYS relationships are gonna demand a lot more humanity and humility. Most won't see that until it's too late.
JG
LoneStar29
Banned
A lot of women simply don t know how to build with a man.......
And YOU know how to build with a woman???
You're one of the main ones looking for mrs.perfect
good luck finding that heffa ... you might have to go to the white side since apparently they are all perfect according to these other COONS here
Lucky for black men they can lack BIG TIME in both those departments and still find a bitch thirsty enough to settle for them cuz she doesnt want to be alone
And YOU know how to build with a woman???
You're one of the main ones looking for mrs.perfect
good luck finding that heffa ... you might have to go to the white side since apparently they are all perfect according to these other COONS here
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