What's the ideal woman?

shanebp1978 said:
A woman with an old soul. A dreamer, and fighter who only concedes to maneuver for the final win.

A woman who understands self reflection and is not afraid of self improvement. A woman who inspires me, who can tame me but makes me free.

A woman who understands that if we were married, my last name is dynastic, and what we do today will effect our progeny through the ages. Let's do the best we can.

A woman who loves people, black people, life, the good and it's bad, and who understands that you don't always need to talk to communicate.

A woman who I respect so much, and think about so much, I talk to her in my head, and I know her answers, and I do it so much . . . I have no reason to talk to her when I see her! :D

Someone who likes rain.
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Wow Shane :eek: such clarity...
 
followup said:
See--this is the problem. Yall don't have any idea what you are even looking for :( Except Shadow, Stumpy, & Apophis. Shane what are your thoughts?
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I'm young so I can afford to be shallow. Hehehe. :D:hmm::D

I know exactly what I want but finding that woman will not happen anytime soon (if it happens at all) I have lowered the bar a bit. If I could build the perfect woman, I would. :D

It's unfair to ask for perfection when I am so flawed. I have learned to compromise and make sacrifices.
 
shanebp1978 said:
A woman with an old soul. A dreamer, and fighter who only concedes to maneuver for the final win.

A woman who understands self reflection and is not afraid of self improvement. A woman who inspires me, who can tame me but makes me free.

A woman who understands that if we were married, my last name is dynastic, and what we do today will effect our progeny through the ages. Let's do the best we can.

A woman who loves people, black people, life, the good and it's bad, and who understands that you don't always need to talk to communicate.

A woman who I respect so much, and think about so much, I talk to her in my head, and I know her answers, and I do it so much . . . I have no reason to talk to her when I see her! :D

Someone who likes rain.
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This is so sweet!

Awwwww I am in e-love again:yes:
 
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http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=256626

nicca tried to flip my shit! that's fucked up bruh. i ain't hatin' but damn homie!:smh::smh::smh: at least I'm rubbin' off on niccaz, i guess! therefore, why niccaz bite/flip?:confused:
 
heres some qualities my ideal would posses

natural beauty
opinionated- gotta have a mind of her own and be able to hold a convo.
originality- i like a woman who stands out
personality- gotta be lively with hers
a great sense of humor- i love to laugh
gotta love music and art as much as i do.
affectionate
understanding
loyal
inspirational
determined
and one who will satisfy my scorpion's lust
 
shanebp1978 said:
A woman with an old soul. A dreamer, and fighter who only concedes to maneuver for the final win.

A woman who understands self reflection and is not afraid of self improvement. A woman who inspires me, who can tame me but makes me free.

A woman who understands that if we were married, my last name is dynastic, and what we do today will effect our progeny through the ages. Let's do the best we can.

A woman who loves people, black people, life, the good and it's bad, and who understands that you don't always need to talk to communicate.

A woman who I respect so much, and think about so much, I talk to her in my head, and I know her answers, and I do it so much . . . I have no reason to talk to her when I see her! :D

Someone who likes rain.
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I cannot tell you how much alike you are to me. Got me at "old soul". Reading what you wrote was like deja vu Shane. You've expressed what i've been saying for years about my ideal life partner. Brought tears to my eyes, knowing that some MAN out there understands. You've started my day out on the right footing. Thanks
 
Such a subjective question.

The simple answer: A woman who I am attracted to with a great personality, similar pedigree, and congruent life goals who can mentally challenge me but not to the point of overexauhstion.
 
Da Don said:
so what was the problem?

i didn't ask for anythng "unreasonable"

originally posted by me:
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I'm not gonna tell you that your preferences are a problem ... cuz they are yours and you are entited to them ... I just think your list is stupid ... which is just my opinion and I'm entitled to it as well so we'll just agree to disagree:)
 
shanebp1978 said:
A woman with an old soul. A dreamer, and fighter who only concedes to maneuver for the final win.

A woman who understands self reflection and is not afraid of self improvement. A woman who inspires me, who can tame me but makes me free.

A woman who understands that if we were married, my last name is dynastic, and what we do today will effect our progeny through the ages. Let's do the best we can.

A woman who loves people, black people, life, the good and it's bad, and who understands that you don't always need to talk to communicate.

A woman who I respect so much, and think about so much, I talk to her in my head, and I know her answers, and I do it so much . . . I have no reason to talk to her when I see her! :D

Someone who likes rain.
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Wow...just utter wowness...
 
LoneStar29 said:
I'm not gonna tell you that your preferences are a problem ... cuz they are yours and you are entited to them ... I just think your list is stupid ... which is just my opinion and I'm entitled to it as well so we'll just agree to disagree:)
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that's your problem. your either too afraid to speak what's on your mind, or you just aren't able to verbalize properly. this is a forum, don't be afraid to talk, we are all adults here. i'm not going to bite your head off.:confused::D
 
Da Don said:
that's your problem. your either too afraid to speak what's on your mind, or you just aren't able to verbalize properly. this is a forum, don't be afraid to talk, we are all adults here. i'm not going to bite your head off.:confused::D
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Me ... afraid to talk:confused::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:Now I know even YOU know better than to say some dumb shit like that:roflmao2:And I gave my opinion ... I said I thought your list was dumb ... well not all of it ... but there was some stupidness on there IMO ... but like I said before it's YOUR list of what YOU want in a woman so I can't say I have a problem with it ... wtf I gotta keep repeating myself to you for all the time:dunno:it's like you're trying to drag an arguement out of me or some shit:smh::)
 
i like fucking with you....:lol:

that's all

like a moth to a flame....

naw i'm gonna stop your going to pop a vessel or something...

but naw seriously the only thing u can actually disagree upon is the weight thing....hey it's my preference. i'm sure you have a preference about the men you date. or else you'd be married by now.
 
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physically, she has to be a pecan tan stallion, about my height or close to it. thick with a noce rack, wide hips, and a phat ass. Ans even though its mot popular for some reason, I'm a hair freak. I like long hair up top, and down low. On the inside, she needs to have character, integrity, honesty, and no stranger to hard work, and sacrifice just like me.
 
A woman who is willing to die for me...down for me no matter what


One who is able to deal with me and my faults



One who is truly sincere and not just stroking my ego cause i'm a man. There's a huge difference between sincerity and flattery.



Physical attributes and all that good shit come afterwards...
 
SWATLANTA said:
-Feminine
-she has a backbone/not afraid to challenge me
-sense of humor
-loves to suck dick (required)
-goal oriented
-loves kids
-sense of community
-socially conscious
-looks good in boy shorts and wifebeaters/t shirts :D
-good convo
-no drama
-mindfucks me on the regular/ keeps me on my toes
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Wow :D
That is such a turn-on

shanebp1978 said:
A woman with an old soul. A dreamer, and fighter who only concedes to maneuver for the final win.

A woman who understands self reflection and is not afraid of self improvement. A woman who inspires me, who can tame me but makes me free.

A woman who understands that if we were married, my last name is dynastic, and what we do today will effect our progeny through the ages. Let's do the best we can.

A woman who loves people, black people, life, the good and it's bad, and who understands that you don't always need to talk to communicate.

A woman who I respect so much, and think about so much, I talk to her in my head, and I know her answers, and I do it so much . . . I have no reason to talk to her when I see her! :D

Someone who likes rain.
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Shane... shane... simply poetic your description....
 
-Attractive and comfortable in her own skin.
-Intelligent with common sense. Not only is she book smart but she's able to make rational decisions in trying circumstances. The bookmark of a good mother.
-Is good with kids
-Independent enough to have her own thing going on.
-Not so independent that she is unwilling to compromise.
-Outgoing but low key.She has a dynamic personality,good conversationalist and a good sense of humor but does not need to be the center of attention
 
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LoneStar29 said:
During my time of the month I gave my ex head everyday(wether I felt like it or not)cuz he was a horny bastard and I wanted to keep him satisfied:lol:
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LoneStar29 said:
Although I do find myself extra horny around that time I would prefer to wait ... I don't wrong others that do it though to each his own I guess:dunno:So I'll just suck his dick till he cums everyday instead:)
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I hope this doesn't make me shallow. :rolleyes:
 
1. has a good head on her shoulders *both ways*
2. looks beautiful when she is sleep.
3. very laid back *to counter my abrasive attitude*
4. loves my taste in music
5. will challenge me mentally, and physically *basically motivate me to stay in shape*
6. has a self esteem, and self confidence as high as I do.
7. won't mind watching a porn or two with me.
8. Do not abuse drugs *an occasional X pill won't hurt though*
9. Not afraid to bite, or be bitten *down with some spontaneous sex*
10. Is not affected by what others think, or say. *go the same "fuck all of yall" mentality I have*
 
The perfect woman, she must be spiritual, attractive, ambitious, enjoy life, love to cook, be very sensuous, strong and supportive. :yes:





























Actually she doesn't have to be spiritual. :eek:
 
LoneStar29 said:
I never quite understood this one ... I've been told this by all my exes and I sort of found it strange that they watched me while I was sleeping:eek::confused::lol:
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Do you snore? I used to look at my ex while she was sleep but that was because she sounded like a chainsaw starting up.
 
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