This topic should not be limited to just sex! But that's cool too!
BE REAL!
BE REAL!
This topic should not be limited to just sex! But that's cool too!
BE REAL!
i doubt if any of them answers because truthfully nobody knows what their ideal man or woman is until they are with them.....
a person can say they want this this and that in a mate but will do a 360 and will get the exact opposite.....

If I could put a man together he'd look like Darren Sharper, fuck like Justin Slayer, and have the intelligence and passion for social reform like Barack Obama and with all that be one of the most down to earth, honest and genuine people ever.
Since most of you women are never satisfied the answer is simple. There never will be such a man.
WELCOME TO THE HUSBAND STORE:
A store that sells husbands has just openes where a woman may go to choose a husband.
Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates. You may visit the store ONLY ONCE!
There are six floors and the attributes of the men increase as the shopper ascends the flights.
There is, however, a catch...you may choose any man from a particular floor, or you may choose to go up a floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building!
So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband...
On the first floor the sign on the door reads:
Floor 1: These men have jobs and love the Lord.
The second floor sign reads:
Floor 2: These men have jobs, love the Lord, and love kids.
The third floor sign reads:
Floor 3: These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids and are extremely good looking.
"Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.
She goes to the fourth floor and sign reads:
Floor 4: These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop-dead good looking and help with the housework.
"Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!"
Still, she goes to the fifth floor and sign reads:
Floor 5: These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop-dead gorgeous, help with the housework, and have a strong romantic streak.
She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor and the sign reads:
Floor 6: You are visitor 4,363,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please.
Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store. Watch your step as you exit the building, and have a nice day!
** Please send this to all men for a good laugh and to all the women who can handle the truth!
REMEMBER: Greed is one of the seven deadly sins. You have to learn to be grateful for what you have to get more. When you are ungrateful you end up with nothing .![]()

Funny, but somewhat true...I know many a woman that has passed up a good man or a good thing with a hard-working man because they wanted more...only to realize there was no "more" out there...Funny, but somewhat true...I know many a woman that has passed up a good man or a good thing with a hard-working man because they wanted more...only to realize there was no "more" out there...


If I could put a man together he'd look like Darren Sharper, fuck like Justin Slayer, and have the intelligence and passion for social reform like Barack Obama and with all that be one of the most down to earth, honest and genuine people ever.

You know what I want from you. Then you might answer the question.
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Shane, I'm a little lost...can you clue me in?
I might be a psychologist by occupation, but sometimes I'm just not as introspective as I may appear.
Black, intelligent, kind, handsome, socially conscious, and well-employed. Yeah I think there's more than one "soulmate" for all of us
Word? That's pretty interesting. I bet you've heard it all...
I work with children, so many of my dealings are not "crazy" per se, but sad and disappointing, as in, "darn, I hope these parents get it together for the sake of this child," or, "what can I do to serve as a buffer and role model for this child?"
I like a man that respects women(doesn't think he is always right just because he has a penis), is trustworthy, honest, faithful, mentally physically and sexually strong ... there is more but I can't think of it right now ... as long as he isn't a chauvinist, arrogant, or materialistic I'm good
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You could have just said me baby. No need to hide our e-love any longer.

If I could put a man together he'd look like Darren Sharper, fuck like Justin Slayer, and have the intelligence and passion for social reform like Barack Obama and with all that be one of the most down to earth, honest and genuine people ever.
"The Perfect Man"
It happened the other day, while waiting in line at the movies. I overheard three Sisters in front of me discussing the type of man they wanted to marry. One said the man she would spend the rest of her life with would have a face like Denzel, a body like Tyson and money like Jordan. The second one added that her man had to have Babyface's romanticism, Puff Daddy's style, and Bishop T.D. Jakes' conviction. The third one added that her man had to have all of that, plus Grant Hill's politeness and Cosby's humor.In the end, they all agreed that the man who would win them over had to be the perfect man–funny, fashionable, cute, rich, religious, romantic, respectful–and "love me for me, or I'm not wasting my time," one Sister said.It was obvious that each of these women truly believed she was deserving of the perfect man and would eventually find him. It was just a matter of weeding though the Rodmans to find the Jordans, the Fat Alberts to find the Cosbys, the babies and the daddies to find the Babyfaces and the Puff Daddys. But in the end, the tireless search would be worth it, because this man–this perfect man–would love her as she had never been loved before, and take her away from a world filled with the want-to-be players and perpetrating men who make up the '90s dating scene–men who are the antithesis of perfect. At one point during their conversation, I wanted to interrupt and tell them that their skewed expectations were probably the reason none of them had a movie date. And unless they had a face like Halle, legs like Tina, curves like Bingham, could cook like mama and age like Lena, then they, by their own high standards, were faulty.
I'm sure all men–from the Brother waiting tables who was slighted by a Sister because she felt he wasn't worth her time to the Brother at the train station who was overlooked by a Sister who figured he couldn't give her the finer things in life–have wanted to express the same sentiment, but were either afraid to say it or thought it futile to do so.
Indeed, these three Sisters aren't the only ones on a quest for The World's Best Brother. There are many women–too many women–on the same mission impossible. They suffer from what Gladys described years ago as a "love overboard" high, a habitual yearning for unattainable men, an all-out longing for catches they have no hope of ever reeling in. With many women, the more unattainable a man is–be it a movie star, singer, athlete, wealthy businessman or a married man–the more desirable he is and the more he is deemed perfect.
For some Sisters, holding out for the perfect man gives them such a rush that even if they manage to hook a "Mr. Perfect," their fixation will not be cured. Soon, he too will wear thin, and be thrown back. She will misinterpret his sensitivity as softness, his spirituality as oddness, his money as his cure-all, his romanticism as an attempt to hide something. She will call him a "smotherer," or say that he was "too nice," or just plain "too perfect"–and will never be able to fully explain exactly what was wrong with him, only that "something just wasn't right."
You see, these women aren't really in love with the perfect man–they are in love with the idea of loving the perfect man. For them, the idea provides a stress-free mind excursion, the automatic go-ahead to quickly dismiss average Brothers who can't live up to their high expectations. Because many women are so focused on finding a particular type of man, they don't feel a need to "waste" time–or even a smile–on the Brother waiting tables or the one at the train station.
In the end, the "love overboard" high clouds a Sister's ability to understand that the true goal of a relationship is not the search but the find. It's not about looking for the perfect man and weeding out the average Brothers. It's about finding perfection in the average Brother and bringing out the best in him–and allowing him to bring out the best in her. It's about finding a diamond in the rough, taking her mind off cruise control and challenging herself to work as hard as she's ever worked to see if a man with potential could actually be her potential Prince Charming.
When more Sisters open up and stop looking for "love overboard" and start looking for love on board, only then will they come to understand that the average Brother can also be the perfect Brother.
And the best thing about it: She won't have to piece him together while she stands in line at the movies with two other dateless Sisters. Because her dream guy–perfect imperfections and all–will be there by her side.


My ideal man is someone who:
respects me
is intelligent
caring
has a sense of humor
adventurous
affectionate
sexy
good with their hands
clean
honest or loyal
i doubt if any of them answers because truthfully nobody knows what their ideal man or woman is until they are with them.....
a person can say they want this this and that in a mate but will do a 360 and will get the exact opposite.....
