I was talking to this guy for a while. He didn't have time for a girlfriend due to school and other extra-curriculars so we just ended up being friends. I thought he would come around but he never did. Now we're friends but in public he acts hot and cold with me. Even when we were talking I was always the one that brought up the questions about our relationship, like what's going on, what do we do to fix it. So maybe he's scared to speak up or something. At parties sometimes we would talk, joke around, dance etc. Other times he could walk right past me and go dance with other people. I don't really understand this. I thought it was me, but I think it's on him. I would make an effort to call him once in a blue moon and his responses vary from, "Hello, yeah, you called?" to "Hey what's up?" I'm not on his balls when we're out at a party, I don't call him 24/7. I rarely talk to him. I give him his space. In private we're cuddling (that happened a few months ago) but in public I can get two different sides to him. If I'm near his apartment at a friend's house, I would let him know I'm in the area, visit him at work once in a blue moon because I never see him. I still like him as a friend, maybe a little more, but I realized I don't want to be with someone like that. But other times, my feelings come back despite everything.
So now when I see him in public I'm just going to keep it moving because he's so weird around me. I try to ignore my feelings but its hard because we have history. I thought that maybe he still likes me and just doesn't know how to act around me? I have no clue. I see him getting down on the dance floor and even though I'm not dancing with him I'm thinkin, "where is he" etc, etc. Even when we do dance sometimes I'm bring up a convo or we don't talk at all, like last night. I just want him to be cordial with me in public no matter what mood he is in just like he is to other people. Could there be a reason why he acts so weird towards me? It just hurts sometimes to see someone who is your "friend" treat you like that. I just want him to act normal towards me. I'm just going to act non chalant with him in public just like he does me. I just needed to get this out. Sorry for the long read. So what do you think? Thanks in advance!
So now when I see him in public I'm just going to keep it moving because he's so weird around me. I try to ignore my feelings but its hard because we have history. I thought that maybe he still likes me and just doesn't know how to act around me? I have no clue. I see him getting down on the dance floor and even though I'm not dancing with him I'm thinkin, "where is he" etc, etc. Even when we do dance sometimes I'm bring up a convo or we don't talk at all, like last night. I just want him to be cordial with me in public no matter what mood he is in just like he is to other people. Could there be a reason why he acts so weird towards me? It just hurts sometimes to see someone who is your "friend" treat you like that. I just want him to act normal towards me. I'm just going to act non chalant with him in public just like he does me. I just needed to get this out. Sorry for the long read. So what do you think? Thanks in advance!
