What Would You Do?marriage Advice

[TRUFICTION]

! That's a new one. I thought only white boy's were into there wives getting fucked by other men! Whew. I applaud you for being different brotha. I'm sure there are plenty of dudes on here willing to accommodate you.

To the dude that posted this: That chick is bugging. She's creating relationships online and shit so obviously there is a void. I didn't know what you meant at first when u said "buying him gifts". I'm too much of a tyrant for that shit though. I would pack her bags for her and send her on her way with cab fare. Leave that truck and car I pay for right in the garage and lemme get those rocks up off your fingers, neck, wrist, and ears as well.

FIRST THING
IF YOU THOUGHT WHITE PEOPLE WERE THE ONLY ONES WITH THESE TYPES OF MINDSETS THEN YOU ARE OUT OF TOUCH.
SECOND THING
I NEVER SAID I WAS INTO IT.
I SAID....AND I QUOTE
"I CAN ALMOST BE OK WITH A CHICK GOING OUT
AND GETTIN HIT ON OCCASION
THE SAME AS MEN GO OUT AND GET A LIL ASS."

I SAID THAT TO SAY
IF THAT WERE TO TAKE PLACE AND I FOUND OUT
I WOULDNT BE AS QUICK TO KICK HER TO THE CURB
BASED ON MY PAST YEARS WITH MY WIFE AND OUR RELATIONSHIP
WHICH IS NOT TOTALLY BASED ON SEX, LIKE SOME PEOPLE.

FOR ME TO PRETEND THAT I HAVENT STEPPED OUT IN THE PAST WOULD BE JUST THAT......PRETENDING.
SHE STAYED .........THROUGH ALL MY BULLSHIT.
THE BULLSHIT SHE KNEW ABOUT AND THE BULLSHIT SHE DIDNT
THATS A STRONG WOMAN.

AS A MAN , I WOULD HAVE TO FIND A WAY TO BE AS STRONG AS HER IN THAT SITUATION BECAUSE WHAT WE HAVE IS BIGGER THAN A SEXUAL ACT, IF IN FACT THATS ALL IT IS.

I FURTHER SAID IF SHE WERE TO SPEND
ANY OF HER OF MY MONEY ON ANOTHER MAN
I WOULD CONSIDER THAT A LOT MORE DISRESPECTFUL AND LOT HARDER
TO GET OVER AND IT WOULD NOT BE TOLERATED BY ME.

AS MEN WE EXPECT TO BE ABLE TO FUCK WHOEVER WE WANT
PLUS SOME MEN BUY PUSSY AND PAY STRIPPERS
YET OUR WOMEN ARE FORBIDDN FROM ACTING THE SAME AS WE DO
AND EXPECTED TO ACT LIKE THEY ARENT ATTRACTED TO OTHER PEOPLE.
WHEN THEY DO IT THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO BE HOES
BUT WHEN WE DO IT WE ARE SUPPOSED TO BE PRAISED.

BULLSHIT ! ANY MAN THAT THINKS THAT WAY IS A FOOL
AND IS ONLY FOOLING HIMSELF.

SO IN CLOSING IF YOU DONT EXPECT YOUR WOMAN TO DO IT
DONT YOU DO IT.
BUT 80 TO 90% OF MEN
AND 50 TO 60% OF WOMEN WILL DO IT ANYWAY
WITH OR WITHOUT YOUR KNOWLEGE.

 

[Zero]

I think we agree about somethings but I have to disagree with you on humans behaving like animal's

What separates man from animal is his ability to "think." He can reason to the extent that he knows his actions breed certain consequences.

If people don't have good "thinking" abilities... of course they will behave like animals..

So it makes sense to only "associate" with those who have the ability to think and reason as opposed to just simply acting like immature, big babies...or as you say.... an animal...

I NEVER met a fucked in the head female that I didn't KNOW was fucked in the head. I may have kept fucking with her for whatever reason (sex, looks, nothing else to do), but there is no damn way I could say I DIDN'T know she was fucked up. When I met females that WERE NOT fucked up, I knew that too (but I wasn't ATTRACTED TO THEM). When I met a female I was attracted to that was NOT FUCKED UP and I VIBED WITH, I married her. Shit ain't that complicated and marriage CAN WORK.

Problem is, MOST cats are about as fucked about choosing a mate as women are. They like thugs, we like pretty rats, SAME SHIT. (MOST DUDES ARE NOT THUGS and MOST females are NOT RATS, even pretty ones, but the bitch in the club drawing all that attention is as foul as the dude in the club drawing all that attention and PEOPLE in general are fucked up about their character judgement (THAT is the animal shit and as a HUMAN, you gotta be above that bullshit).

People are NOT like animals, female peacocks choose the flashiest bird on the yard, HUMAN females (that are not ANIMALISTIC hoes) choose the BEST MAN FOR THE JOB.

Problem is, most HUMANS choose the person they mate with based on superficial PEACOCK type shit.

Dudes are too damn soft hearted, most cats would never admit it, but we WISH the shitty dime had a heart of gold even though we know DAMN well she don't. FEMALES know the shitty dude is foul and just ignore it based on other criteria or the idea they can change the mufukka. At least females TRY to change the dude, most dudes that meet a foul bitch don't do shit to change her, they CHANGE THEMSELVES.

 

[elchoccolatte]

Exactly Why I'm not locking shit down with any BISH, Got too much shit too LOSE...


Fuck all Dat!!!

 

[max-dawg]

mofos today wanna get divorced at the drop of a dime. they need to at least thy n find what the problem is and work it out. thats the big test of marrige seeing how well ppl work through fucked up situations. imo try to work it out if she not feelin that then divorce that hoe.

no mofos want to get MARRIED AT THE DROP OF A DIME.

and doing THAT leads to getting divorced at the drop of a dime... and why? cause they NEVER got to know each other in the first place.

 

[ladyscorpio]

no mofos want to get MARRIED AT THE DROP OF A DIME.

and doing THAT leads to getting divorced at the drop of a dime... and why? cause they NEVER got to know each other in the first place.

tell them baby.

 

[Zero]

no mofos want to get MARRIED AT THE DROP OF A DIME.

and doing THAT leads to getting divorced at the drop of a dime... and why? cause they NEVER got to know each other in the first place.

FOR REAL THOUGH. The problem is NOT marriage, it's stupidity. How you gonna date a broad that gives you nothing but bullshit and grief for years, then marry the same sorry broad or worse yet marry some ignorant hoe you known for six months (and DON'T FRONT, you knew she was ignorant, your momma did, your boys did, your second cousin did, but YO DUMB ASS DIDN'T)? I see that shit all the time.

 

[Strait_Laced]

FIRST THING
IF YOU THOUGHT WHITE PEOPLE WERE THE ONLY ONES WITH THESE TYPES OF MINDSETS THEN YOU ARE OUT OF TOUCH.
SECOND THING
I NEVER SAID I WAS INTO IT.
I SAID....AND I QUOTE
"I CAN ALMOST BE OK WITH A CHICK GOING OUT
AND GETTIN HIT ON OCCASION
THE SAME AS MEN GO OUT AND GET A LIL ASS."

I SAID THAT TO SAY
IF THAT WERE TO TAKE PLACE AND I FOUND OUT
I WOULDNT BE AS QUICK TO KICK HER TO THE CURB
BASED ON MY PAST YEARS WITH MY WIFE AND OUR RELATIONSHIP
WHICH IS NOT TOTALLY BASED ON SEX, LIKE SOME PEOPLE.

FOR ME TO PRETEND THAT I HAVENT STEPPED OUT IN THE PAST WOULD BE JUST THAT......PRETENDING.
SHE STAYED .........THROUGH ALL MY BULLSHIT.
THE BULLSHIT SHE KNEW ABOUT AND THE BULLSHIT SHE DIDNT
THATS A STRONG WOMAN.

AS A MAN , I WOULD HAVE TO FIND A WAY TO BE AS STRONG AS HER IN THAT SITUATION BECAUSE WHAT WE HAVE IS BIGGER THAN A SEXUAL ACT, IF IN FACT THATS ALL IT IS.

I FURTHER SAID IF SHE WERE TO SPEND
ANY OF HER OF MY MONEY ON ANOTHER MAN
I WOULD CONSIDER THAT A LOT MORE DISRESPECTFUL AND LOT HARDER
TO GET OVER AND IT WOULD NOT BE TOLERATED BY ME.

AS MEN WE EXPECT TO BE ABLE TO FUCK WHOEVER WE WANT
PLUS SOME MEN BUY PUSSY AND PAY STRIPPERS
YET OUR WOMEN ARE FORBIDDN FROM ACTING THE SAME AS WE DO
AND EXPECTED TO ACT LIKE THEY ARENT ATTRACTED TO OTHER PEOPLE.
WHEN THEY DO IT THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO BE HOES
BUT WHEN WE DO IT WE ARE SUPPOSED TO BE PRAISED.

BULLSHIT ! ANY MAN THAT THINKS THAT WAY IS A FOOL
AND IS ONLY FOOLING HIMSELF.

SO IN CLOSING IF YOU DONT EXPECT YOUR WOMAN TO DO IT
DONT YOU DO IT.
BUT 80 TO 90% OF MEN
AND 50 TO 60% OF WOMEN WILL DO IT ANYWAY
WITH OR WITHOUT YOUR KNOWLEGE.

truth!

men and women are going to do what they want to do...if it crosses your mind, bet it's going to cross hers

a little truth goes a long way towards cutting the levels of bullshit later

 

[GRIPS]

Very informative post. Scary stuff!

 

[Muttley]

Judge people by not what they say, but what they do. What she did was stupid, disrespectful, and unloving. Tell your homeboy to bail out immediately!

 

[khris1]

sometimes in marriage "divorce" becomes the new break-up to make up. it sounds really juvinile. Can u imagine how they act if they had real problems like they will later in life. Whoever fucked up flirtin and shit should take the pain and not try to defend their actions. My mom told me.. "a man can change a woman's mind if he is sincere in his heart but a man who has made up his mind is done". if he wants her, its up to him. She will holla that shit cuz its power she never had b4 as the girlfriend..ok half. My wife used to holla divorce to me so much to where it was a joke when we 1st started out. and she been with me through some serious shit!!! alot of them are scared so they do stupid stuff and need ur guidance. Be the better 1/2.

There is ALOT of shit to this story we will never know and it dont matter. They married now and have been together 9 years. I doubt this is some out of the blue shit. Most likely its payback 4 some shit he aint man up to. Hopfully they built a strong foundation cus in the big scope of things, its just all emotions gone wild.

p.s. keep ya game tight. they hate when u bust ur own damn self!
this internet shit is fucked up. dont leave no trail if u gotta have xrta tail. it aint worth it.

good luck to them. if they pass this test, they will be stronger than they ever imagined cus giving up is soooo easy.