If this were true, wouldn't it make sense for men to be naturally predisposed toward monogamy? Even if nature compels you to spread your DNA as much as possible, doing so in just one relationship is more likely to allow you to do so purely, unless you believe you're having sex with a string of virgins.
Men should be slut-shamed more harshly if this were true. Men would be smart to form a pact and not fuck the same women in a manner BIG described as "just pass around shit, pass the shit like a cold and shit."