What The Fuck Is Up With Men Wearing Earrings?

[Chi Shot Caller]

man next some of ya'll gonna say getting ur hair cut once a week, wearing wife beaters, boxer briefs and watches are gay. shit i think i look better with earings just like i do with a dry cleaned button up and a nice hair cut. stop looking at me. ur girl must've left u for a guy with earings huh? lol

 

[blaQue Ice]

I think it's hilarious when black men say that.

African men for thousands of years rocked earrings in their ears. This is just like the sandals thread.


If it's not you then it's not you.

AGREED

 

[NnubianN]

...LIKE I SAID PLAYA .......
YOU KNOW TO KEEP THAT BULLSHIT IN CYBER-SPACE.

Damn man you still e-beefn? All you do is get yourself heated over some shit aint got nothing to do with you yet here you are up in here trying to prove how much man you are to a bunch of people who don't give one cunt hair about you. Son, you got a problem. You doin all that yellin, threatenin and chest poundin while sittin in your Gumby chair safe behind your screen. It don't play to nothin more than some childish bullshit. Yo! Mr E-Gangsta! Calm yo ass down and stop actin like a simp. Got better things to do with my time than to waste it on some young buck tryin to prove he can hang with grown folks

 

[tanks1]

Got a diamond stud in my left ear. Had if for about 10 years. Women comment about it all the time.

 

[NickDigginz]

Was it gay when early Africans pierced theirs ears? Even today most tribes still do. And what abouts pants? What African tribe do u know wears pants? 'Til this day a dress-like cloth is wrapped around the body..........is that gay too. Cleary, you've been brain washed and need to go and study a lil bit.

 

[OutDaFrame2002]

I never thought as wearing earrings being gay. One earring was acceptable, but two earrings seemed feminine. Also, I thought that it was a fad, at one point I wanted to get a earring, I even had a female say that I would look cute if I got one, another reason some men might wear them to attract women. But I don't think it's good, just for the simple fact its not professional in a business setting.

 

[YoungSinister]

This thread is gay. Why the fuck are you worried about who has earrings or not?

 

[yellowmello]

so you saying dre is gay too? He got both his ears pierced.

Yall niggas and the wack ass threads you make.

 

[Twistyaaliyah]

I must say... as a female seeing a man with a earing in his ear is sexy as hell and they look more masculine to me . Its all good once the earing isn't too big and extravagant cuz all dat suggest is dat he is flashy and materialistic

 

[femmenoire]

I must say... as a female seeing a man with a earing in his ear is sexy as hell and they look more masculine to me . Its all good once the earing isn't too big and extravagant cuz all dat suggest is dat he is flashy and materialistic

I agree wholeheartedly. I've never thought that a man who had an earring in each ear was gay either. If they were small, I've always seen that as sexy and it reminded me of how regal Africans looked in pictures I've seen adorned with jewelry and colorful garb.

It's interesting what the black man deems as homosexual. It is the same kind of dudes that dissed Jay-Z for wearing sandals. Yet he's with one of the most beautiful woman in the world and is now considered a money mogul. Shit, if that's gay, I'm down.

 

[Leeeeeee]

Fuck all that "I wear ear rings cause I know my history bullshit".....most niccas wear ear rings because athletes, musicians and other entertainers wear them.

if one wants to wear ear rings,that's their thing, but in my circle no man wears ear rings.

Our ages range from 42 to 47 and we have talked about all the youngsters who wear them and none of my boys with sons allowed their sons to wear them. Period.

I was raised thinking that once I got successful and it wouldn't impact on interviews and job opportunities, I would get one....but I spend lots of time in front of juries while in trial and I'm trying to win. I know for a fact that a lot of clients I represent aren't going to trial with a lawyer with an earring or two in his ear. A juror may or may not be offended, but are you going to take that chance when it's your ass or money on the line?

50 percent of the comments justify ear rings by how much pussy they get. I wish my life was so simple that all I had to consider in making life decisions was "will this decision get me more pussy or less?"

I told my nephews don't get them; and it was clear that they wanted them because of the influence of entertainers and ballers on them. I sat them down and was like you ain't gonna be a baller or a rapper; and if you want to be in the professional or corporate world it could interfere with your success, although no one will tell you that; you just don't get the job and keep wondering why. Is that worth it just to wear jewelry?

Anyway, not knocking any one else....just a different view point that has nothing to do with being gay.

 

[BENBRIZZLE]

so you saying dre is gay too? He got both his ears pierced.

Yall niggas and the wack ass threads you make.

BAD EXAMPLE DRE WAS IN THE WORLD CLASS WRECKIN CREW "LIPSTICK AND LACE"

 

[Twistyaaliyah]

I agree wholeheartedly. I've never thought that a man who had an earring in each ear was gay either. If they were small, I've always seen that as sexy and it reminded me of how regal Africans looked in pictures I've seen adorned with jewelry and colorful garb.

It's interesting what the black man deems as homosexual. It is the same kind of dudes that dissed Jay-Z for wearing sandals. Yet he's with one of the most beautiful woman in the world and is now considered a money mogul. Shit, if that's gay, I'm down.

exactly. I think ne man going around screaming about whats gay and whats not is stupid as hell. If u dont like it, that understood but dont go around forcing ur beliefs on other ppl who enjoy those things. Ppl wear these tings for comfort. Ive seen more athletes in sandals than ne thing cuz after running around in sneakers all day sandals and slippers afterwards feels so dayum good. And just in general slippers/sandals are IT. Who wants to walk around in hot ass sneakers all day and feet smell like a fishmarket mixed with garbage juice.
I rather a man who gonna wears something cuz its comfortable than one that who seek approval of what to wear from other males that got probs with every shit ( like all of these little gangster wanna bes looking like mini me in big fuckin pants and shirts).
I do agree that i find males with two earings in one ear somewhat suspicious.
MALES... JUST DO YOU! if u find a pair of men's capris and slippers comfortable wear the shit.

Next topic: Whats up with all these males bitching over frivolous shit ?

 

[Mistah__Mafioso]

Damn man you still e-beefn? All you do is get yourself heated over some shit aint got nothing to do with you yet here you are up in here trying to prove how much man you are to a bunch of people who don't give one cunt hair about you. Son, you got a problem. You doin all that yellin, threatenin and chest poundin while sittin in your Gumby chair safe behind your screen. It don't play to nothin more than some childish bullshit. Yo! Mr E-Gangsta! Calm yo ass down and stop actin like a simp. Got better things to do with my time than to waste it on some young buck tryin to prove he can hang with grown folks

 

[NnubianN]

Was it gay when early Africans pierced theirs ears? Even today most tribes still do. And what abouts pants? What African tribe do u know wears pants? 'Til this day a dress-like cloth is wrapped around the body..........is that gay too. Cleary, you've been brain washed and need to go and study a lil bit.

Do you live in Africa? Do you dress like an African? What African tribe are you from? If you live in the States do you wear tribal gear to the club? In Africa some tribes use elephants to travel around. What model elephant do you park in your garage...tusks or no tusks?

What I'm saying is this; aint but a knowledgeable few are banging hear hole rings cause of culture. It's a fashion statement. Period. The majority of men who sport earrings aren't gay. I'm not homosexual, nor homophobic. I can see by the many responses that indeed I touched a nerve. It's all cool. Lots of laughs. You guys had fun. I learned some things. Time to move on. Cya!

 

[Thothprod]

Fuck all that "I wear ear rings cause I know my history bullshit".....most niccas wear ear rings because athletes, musicians and other entertainers wear them.

if one wants to wear ear rings,that's their thing, but in my circle no man wears ear rings.

Our ages range from 42 to 47 and we have talked about all the youngsters who wear them and none of my boys with sons allowed their sons to wear them. Period.

I was raised thinking that once I got successful and it wouldn't impact on interviews and job opportunities, I would get one....but I spend lots of time in front of juries while in trial and I'm trying to win. I know for a fact that a lot of clients I represent aren't going to trial with a lawyer with an earring or two in his ear. A juror may or may not be offended, but are you going to take that chance when it's your ass or money on the line?

50 percent of the comments justify ear rings by how much pussy they get. I wish my life was so simple that all I had to consider in making life decisions was "will this decision get me more pussy or less?"

I told my nephews don't get them; and it was clear that they wanted them because of the influence of entertainers and ballers on them. I sat them down and was like you ain't gonna be a baller or a rapper; and if you want to be in the professional or corporate world it could interfere with your success, although no one will tell you that; you just don't get the job and keep wondering why. Is that worth it just to wear jewelry?

Anyway, not knocking any one else....just a different view point that has nothing to do with being gay.

Now see ...different strokes...cause I'm in my 50's....a lot of my cohorts are even older....My best friend is 65...and he rocks an earring.......
But then again most of my close friends are Musicians...artist ...etc.
and most have a healthy african cultural Identity....and all of em are definitely Heterosexual....and most have come thru different incarnations in their Life....(The Streets.....The Arts....The Movement)....guess your set was a little more conservative in their mentality.....at least as regards Dressing....

 

[Thothprod]

Now see ...different strokes...cause I'm in my 50's....a lot of my cohorts are even older....My best friend is 65...and he rocks an earring.......
But then again most of my close friends are Musicians...artist ...etc.
and most have a healthy african cultural Identity....and all of em are definitely Heterosexual....and most have come thru different incarnations in their Life....(The Streets.....The Arts....The Movement)....guess your set was a little more conservative in their mentality.....at least as regards Dressing....

O yea your comment about the Job place is legitimate....Iv'e had "Day Gigs"....but for the most part I have not had to be dictated to...Right now I'm stll active in Music.....and run my own business.....But I do see your point......

 

[WorldEX]

I rock mine from time to time. But i choose not to in business setting.

 

[inc0gnegr0]

 

[TRUFICTION]

Damn man you still e-beefn? All you do is get yourself heated over some shit aint got nothing to do with you yet here you are up in here trying to prove how much man you are to a bunch of people who don't give one cunt hair about you. Son, you got a problem. You doin all that yellin, threatenin and chest poundin while sittin in your Gumby chair safe behind your screen. It don't play to nothin more than some childish bullshit. Yo! Mr E-Gangsta! Calm yo ass down and stop actin like a simp. Got better things to do with my time than to waste it on some young buck tryin to prove he can hang with grown folks

SHUT UP FAG BOY
AINT NOBODY BEEFIN WITH YOU......FUCK YOU
YOU MADE A DUMB ASS UNFOUNDED STATEMENT BASED ON YOUR
LIMITED LIFE AND YOU GOT CALLED ON IT
DONT GET MAD...

I BET IM AT LEAST AS OLD OR OLDER THAN YOU.
IF YOURE SO OLD WHEN THE FUCK YOU GONNA GROW UP ?

IM NOT HIDING SHIT
MY ARTWORK HAD BEEN POSTED HERE PLENTY OF TIMES.

GOOGLE BITCH
IM WORLD WIDE.

YEA YOU GOT BETTER THINGS TO DO
LIKE MAKE A NEW THREAD ABOUT MEN......FAG

 

[Leeeeeee]

.....at least as regards Dressing....

I'm smiling at that, cause you're, right, it's only dressing. A musician in the mix knows that the squarest dressing cat out there, might go harder than the youngn's when no one's looking; and the cat with the earing might be more conservative than your preacher.

For me, it's about how you make your living and whether it might hinder that.

If I could play a guitar like Prince, I would be rockin' diamonds, (maybe rubies or emeralds, since I got hep to the blood diamond thing), in both ears and hoops like a fucking pirate on the weekends, when I'm on the water, chillin' on the yacht. Damn, I can't wait to retire.

 

[Blunt]

 

[Dert Bagg]

I had an earring for a couple of weeks when I was 16. As a grown ass man, it's just not for me.

FYI, George Michael started that two earring business (long before he came out of the closet, or restroom). He had two diamond studs on Wham's "Careless Whispers" video, and the next thing you know, niggas was rocking the same shit.

How long was you rockin that dildo in ya ass, though?

I bet this pic just makes your ass pucker don't it?


"...either way, you may need stitches"
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[gant]

this board is filled with homo phobes! GAY is like ya'll favorite term, we suppose to be on here postin pussy!, ya'll cats clown each other everyday saying someone is gay! dawg why are ya'll so worried about someone else sexual orientation? are they fucking u? who the fuck cares?!!!!!! I like pussy!!!! i don't know what u like and don't care, because i like pussy! and thats that. oh yea... and i rock my ear rings every fucking day! they ain't diamonds but they get the job done... and did i mention i like pussy! pussy, pussy, pussy, pussy!!!!! so post some pussy and get off this GAY SHIT already!!!

 

[supergrover]

this board is filled with homo phobes! GAY is like ya'll favorite term, we suppose to be on here postin pussy!, ya'll cats clown each other everyday saying someone is gay! dawg why are ya'll so worried about someone else sexual orientation? are they fucking u? who the fuck cares?!!!!!! I like pussy!!!! i don't know what u like and don't care, because i like pussy! and thats that. oh yea... and i rock my ear rings every fucking day! they ain't diamonds but they get the job done... and did i mention i like pussy! pussy, pussy, pussy, pussy!!!!! so post some pussy and get off this GAY SHIT already!!!

Co-sign!

One of the first things I noticed about BGOL is the homophobes! What's up with that? Why the obsession with gays on Black GIRLS On-Line???

What's worse is that black people are discriminating as if it never happened to us. You fools are doing the same thing white people have done for years... "The reds [Russians] are coming!", "The japs are coming!", "Those people are savages", "Honey, some blacks just moved in... There goes the neighborhood!". "The sky is falling!" WTF!

BTW - I'm also rocking mine. I look good, I love my black self, I love life and I love women!

 

[Thothprod]

I'm smiling at that, cause you're, right, it's only dressing. A musician in the mix knows that the squarest dressing cat out there, might go harder than the youngn's when no one's looking; and the cat with the earing might be more conservative than your preacher.

For me, it's about how you make your living and whether it might hinder that.

If I could play a guitar like Prince, I would be rockin' diamonds, (maybe rubies or emeralds, since I got hep to the blood diamond thing), in both ears and hoops like a fucking pirate on the weekends, when I'm on the water, chillin' on the yacht. Damn, I can't wait to retire.

That's real talk my bro......

 

[Majestic Lion]

I ignore it for the most part. I gotta say though, whenever it was that Cam'ron and Fabolous were wearin' some doorknocker-sized earrings and tryna make it a style for men to rock those...

pure folly.

 

[LSN]

You fools are doing the same thing white people have done for years...

Shut the fukk up you fukkin piece of slime...do you see any faggots getting lynched in here...did any homos get burned...were any homos ripped apart while being tied to two horses running in opposite directions...go push your faggot agenda somewhere fukkin else... ...I wear 2 earrings too but you won't hear me say some bullshit like this to justify it...homos have NOTHING in common with Black people...NOTHING!

 

[VAHustler]

so i guess dude doesnt eat bananas either?

i mean if you really sit down and over analyze shit, you can make anything to be gay...

ex:

"bgol is gay, cause its a bunch of dudes hanging out together on a message board"

"pumping gas is gay because that pump thing resmebles a dick"

"playing basketball is gay because your coming into contact with a bunch of sweaty dudes"

"using dove soap is gay because it makes your skin soft like a woman"

man, i could go on and on with this...i feel like if your secure with your shit, you shouldnt have to go out your way to be macho and denounce every single thing you think is 'gay'. shit is corny.

I rock a earring in my left ear from time to time and

"porn is gay because your watching guys dicks in women"

 

[Darth Furious]

You mean to tell me after hundreds and thousands of years of civilization, culture and development, bloodlust, war and murder, pillage and plunder, international carnage and destruction... and EARRINGS is what you consider faggotry?

When cats is wearing pink, getting fingerwaves in their hair, and buying matching diamond rings, bracelets, and the necklass to match ... and EARRINGS is what you consider faggotry???

When at the crust of civilized human development and achievement, niggas are STILL bumping dicks together in a some bitch's hole inHALF THE PORNO'S ON THE NET ... and EARRINGS is what you consider faggotry??



Come on fam... I know cats is better than that. I'm still wondering why these young cats dont know what belts are yet? Pulling they pants up on they ass all day... that's some suspect shit holmes


oNE

 

[CarryOn]

You fools are doing the same thing white people have done for years...

Shut the fukk up you fukkin piece of slime...do you see any faggots getting lynched in here...did any homos get burned...were any homos ripped apart while being tied to two horses running in opposite directions...go push your faggot agenda somewhere fukkin else... ...I wear 2 earrings too but you won't hear me say some bullshit like this to justify it...homos have NOTHING in common with Black people...NOTHING!

 

[LordSinister]

so you saying dre is gay too? He got both his ears pierced.

Yall niggas and the wack ass threads you make.

So you ain't knowin about Dre kissin Ninjas?!?!?!?

 

[LordSinister]

Was it gay when early Africans pierced theirs ears? Even today most tribes still do. And what abouts pants? What African tribe do u know wears pants? 'Til this day a dress-like cloth is wrapped around the body..........is that gay too. Cleary, you've been brain washed and need to go and study a lil bit.

Cuzz, when in Rome....

Where I grew up, earings in the right ear would get you fucked up. Just like wearing red colors.

You can tell all the ninjas in the hood, "I'm African" and "you're ignorant", you will still look gay to the people there.

I don't condone it, but I understand it.

I have long hair, I wont cut it. That means I won't get a sell out job.

I'm willing to deal with that.

If you want to tattoo your face like an African you won't get a "gub-ment" job. If thats what you want, cool, but understand why you didn't get the job.

No Hate, just real talk.

 

[The Plutonian]

Since when did wearing earring become gay? thats black culture dood. 'we' black people are flashy like that plus for every dood that thinks it's gay or a man is gay for wearing one just put it to the ultimate test and ask about ten women-or yo girl

 

[D Town Redd]

Alright...spill the beans...where is this from?

That's a TIGHT Avatar you're referring to!

D Town Redd

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