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What is longest you have gone without sex and WHY??

Would go without SEX for 9 months for your future bride?

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Can't remember exactly how long it lasted, but several yrs ago I purposely stopped for a while just b/c I was tired of the headaches & distractions from dealing w/ females and I felt like I needed to focus on other things.

It lasted for about 4 or 5 months if I remember correctly, and I can honestly say I got a LOT accomplished in that time period. I was surprised how much more productive I became when I took women/sex out of the equation for a while.
 
This sound like some Steve Harvey philosophy bullshit.

And if you had half a finger, you couldn't count how many folk that bullshit helped.

Good luck with that marriage.
 
i went like 6 months because i kept striking out. Even on the easy chics. the ugly ones. worst six months of my life.

But would i wait nine months? hell no.
 
flx2000 said:
Currently 10 months, separated from my wife 10 months ago, moved out 6 months ago.
Focusing on getting my credit and paper up, trying to buy a house.
The other house is in her name so I have no worries there.
Was ruff in the beginning, but now I don't care.
Once I get my new position and purchase my house, I'll consider chasing tail.
Just don't want or need the drama.
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I need advice from you bro. I have a Separation situation on deck too.


To answer the OP

Week and a half. By choice.
 
smiffnwessun said:
I dont have a girl and I havent had sex in over ten months. I go to the titty bar and fuck in the champagne room when shit gets crazy but i havent had regular pussy in a while....to be honest shit is overated im currently looking for my summer jump off just a matter of time before some pussy drops in my lap.

there are women around my job that i know want to fuck me but i try to keep my dick in the holster around my work life.


BTW your friend is a beta male for taking her last name
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Damn my nigga. :roflmao3:

This is so sad... It's pitiful breh. You need me n' 2 one 3 to come teach you the pimp game? :lol:

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Sometimes kats take the wife's last name in order to hide some dirt that's under their original.

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Out of lurk mode....

Went five months straight, celibate. No nothing. Going through a separation and needed a time to reflect. Then wasted five months of nut a worthless female. I'll never do it again though.
 
man waiting for sex until marriage is so lame to me....... its so overrated..... but im doing it now with my current gurl.. but what she fails to realize is that her not giving me pussy only makes me not want to marry her not the other way around.... one has to be in this situation to understand how i feel........ no sex in a relationship = no passion no chemistry etc etc its essential to growth in a relationship that wants marriage

obtw the longest i have gone with no sex is my current relationship. which is like 3-5 months. when i was single the longest i have gone with out it was 1 month.. and during that drought i was getting my dick sucked faithfully! lls
 
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I found myself caring too much when I was celibate. It could also be the fact of being separated. I'm glad I was strong enough to go that long. It took that drive away that's needed when dating. When I busted ... I realized I didn't give two shits about that chick... aka waste of time/nut
 
the longest was like 2 weeks....

I dont understand your friend but then again thats his choice and if she is making all the decisions ya boy is hen pecked and she gonna drive him crazy with all her demands

when sex starts to become a problem..... leave
 
B-Witty said:
man waiting for sex until marriage is so lame to me....... its so overrated..... but im doing it now with my current gurl.. but what she fails to realize is that her not giving me pussy only makes me not want to marry her not the other way around.... one has to be in this situation to understand how i feel........ no sex in a relationship = no passion no chemistry etc etc its essential to growth in a relationship that wants marriage

obtw the longest i have gone with no sex is my current relationship. which is like 3-5 months. when i was single the longest i have gone with out it was 1 month.. and during that drought i was getting my dick sucked faithfully! lls
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Interesting.

Are u gonna cut it off?
 
WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff said:
Interesting.

Are u gonna cut it off?
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man im on the fence... im not happy at all... i love her but love aint making me happy!

i put in a year and some change with her. .and we live together etc etc so i dont want to give up but a brother can only take but so much!
 
Mello Mello said:
I know someone has caught gonorrhea,
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I did a shit load of raw fucking when i was in my teens.
Got gonorrhea when i was 15...didnt really slow me down.
Loose bitch in high school gave it to me...neva told her she was the one though. She was 14 with ah BAD acne problem, but Man!!! She had a big ol ass. BAD ASS BODY for her age!! Fucked her on the stairs in my Moms crib. But anyways...i was only leaking hot jalapeno/pus juice out my dick for about a week. took some big ass amoxicillin pills for a few days...then i was back to bizness!!


The longest break for me was 14 years. But after i started fucking...the longest break was about 6 months. Thats when i was having my erection issues from beating off too much and needed to "reformat my brain". But now that im healthy, i got that "scorpio energy" back. i feel like i hit puberty again; Wiping pretty girls backs off with baby wipes on the regular!!
 
LoneStar29 said:
A year

and I've done that several times

Because I like taking breaks inbetween relationships

and sometimes it takes awhile to meet someone I'm comfortable with

I cant imagine doing what your friend is doing though. That doesnt make any sense to me. Once I'm comfortable, we fuckin all the time

Him taking her last name made me LOL I'm not down with that new age feminist shit
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I kinda like it lol

I like when a dude isn't all tied up in his ego to where he can be a real person instead of a caricature of what he THINKS he should be
 
Chitownheadbusa said:
I did a shit load of raw fucking when i was in my teens.
Got gonorrhea when i was 15...didnt really slow me down.
Loose bitch in high school gave it to me...neva told her she was the one though. She was 14 with ah BAD acne problem, but Man!!! She had a big ol ass. BAD ASS BODY for her age!! Fucked her on the stairs in my Moms crib. But anyways...i was only leaking hot jalapeno/pus juice out my dick for about a week. took some big ass amoxicillin pills for a few days...then i was back to bizness!!


The longest break for me was 14 years. But after i started fucking...the longest break was about 6 months. Thats when i was having my erection issues from beating off too much and needed to "reformat my brain". But now that im healthy, i got that "scorpio energy" back. i feel like i hit puberty again; Wiping pretty girls backs off with baby wipes on the regular!!
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14 years.... how? why

the best way not to have erection issues is get you a fine ass woman...
 
11 months, I was in the military stationed in Bahrain during the first gulf war. Funny thing about this a year earlier I was in the Philippines and was getting as much poontang as I can handle.
 
Mr. Del said:
I think you're the one with the story, but you're trying to use some type of Jedi mind trick to get other ppl to admit it first.

Just tell your STD story. Get it off your chest.
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Naw man no tricks here. If I had one I would share my story Idgaf. I've never had an STD (knock on wood) hope to never get one either.

dtownsfinest said:
:lol: Dudes use to though. I remember when a dude....might've been drunk that night he fucked around and asked BGOL why does his asshole be itching. :lol:
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:roflmao3: Say what?!!!??? :roflmao2:

Bald_Bear said:
I have 6 kids 5 BM's and I have never caught an STD... Im convinced STD's come from anal sex bro.


I thank god after I get those two annual check ups. BCBS will drop yo ass if u don't get them shits...
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STDs are essentially dirt them shits can come from anywhere on the genitals.


Chitownheadbusa said:
I did a shit load of raw fucking when i was in my teens.
Got gonorrhea when i was 15...didnt really slow me down.
Loose bitch in high school gave it to me...neva told her she was the one though. She was 14 with ah BAD acne problem, but Man!!! She had a big ol ass. BAD ASS BODY for her age!! Fucked her on the stairs in my Moms crib. But anyways...i was only leaking hot jalapeno/pus juice out my dick for about a week. took some big ass amoxicillin pills for a few days...then i was back to bizness!!


The longest break for me was 14 years. But after i started fucking...the longest break was about 6 months. Thats when i was having my erection issues from beating off too much and needed to "reformat my brain". But now that im healthy, i got that "scorpio energy" back. i feel like i hit puberty again; Wiping pretty girls backs off with baby wipes on the regular!!
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Props my dude for having the balls to share your story.

The highlighted part had me laughing :lol: Ouch!

Shit you had gonorrhea and still didn't slow down? :eek: If I had caught a std back in my teens I would've been scared to fuck any girl until I got married. :lol:
 
I went about 7 months without sex. It was after katrina and that was the last thing on my mind. We were living with my cousin at first then me and my parents got an apartment i didn't have a job so i hung out with them everyday. It wasn't a good time for my sex life. I didn't have sex until i got a job a car and my own apartment.
 
Rock'Em Sock'Em Jones said:
Can't remember exactly how long it lasted, but several yrs ago I purposely stopped for a while just b/c I was tired of the headaches & distractions from dealing w/ females and I felt like I needed to focus on other things.

It lasted for about 4 or 5 months if I remember correctly, and I can honestly say I got a LOT accomplished in that time period. I was surprised how much more productive I became when I took women/sex out of the equation for a while.
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Yep I was in college

When I went those 3 months

Basically almost that entire semester

It was my best in college, I was just fucking too many bitches and getting too fucked up

I showed the self control to sit my ass down somewhere and focus
 
B-Witty said:
man waiting for sex until marriage is so lame to me....... its so overrated..... but im doing it now with my current gurl.. but what she fails to realize is that her not giving me pussy only makes me not want to marry her not the other way around.... one has to be in this situation to understand how i feel........ no sex in a relationship = no passion no chemistry etc etc its essential to growth in a relationship that wants marriage

obtw the longest i have gone with no sex is my current relationship. which is like 3-5 months. when i was single the longest i have gone with out it was 1 month.. and during that drought i was getting my dick sucked faithfully! lls
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Man,your fiance is setting you up for no sex during your marriage. I know from experience. My ex wife did the same thing ya gal is doing. We got married and barely had sex.Notice I said ex-wife.
 
LoneStar29 said:
A year

and I've done that several times

Because I like taking breaks inbetween relationships

and sometimes it takes awhile to meet someone I'm comfortable with

I cant imagine doing what your friend is doing though. That doesnt make any sense to me. Once I'm comfortable, we fuckin all the time

Him taking her last name made me LOL I'm not down with that new age feminist shit
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THIS topic may need its own thread...
 
I don't remember ever going longer then couple of weeks.
9months? LOL Marriage won't last a year. He will be on a leash like that basketball dummy....

Life is short y'all Im not wasting it trying to please others. If she can't get with my programs or doesnt connect together then Im outta here like last year
 

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