What is a Narcissist, Toxicity, or an NPD person?

[josecuervo01]

So I have been on this board since 1996... I found this board in Southern California while searching for Black Beautiful Women Online.. thus BGOL that little icon caught my attention.(GOOGLE) .. But needless to say it was free at one point, but now it requires or needs support.. Which I will support.. but first things first..

Id like for you all to go on TikTok and follow me.. KINGPIN0045 not soliciting, or asking for a hand out, but this all goes back to looking or seeking for that one true love.. that will or will be, or probably is right now your worse nightmare.. meaning by you following me on TikTok I will help you to understand what a Narcissist is, because women like men are Narcissistic, Toxic, or fall under the spectrum of Narcissistic Personality Disorders person, thus Narcissism falls back to the young or child years of the child, man/woman/teenagers etc.

As for me I found my Toxic Narcissistic /NPD partner (woman) who later exposed herself to be addicted to drugs, a substance drug and alcoholic abuser.. (no pun Intended)....By following me you will learn about my life experience and I will help you to understand what:

- Will help you see the red flags of narcissism.
- Avoid relationships with toxic or NPD people.

There are many people in TikTok who share their stories about their abusive, narcissistic partners.. if you are in the Cycle of Abuse, or in the Abuse Cycle of Narcissism you will never know it till someone tells you, that your partner is toxic, or a Narcissistic... take heed and their their advice..they are not lying to you.. but you will not listen or hear, because you are in the mind fog, or the Cooking the frog concept of the Narcissist... Follow me

Hit the SHARE, LIKE, FOLLOW BUTTON..

 

[bgbtylvr]

hard to be a thorough, accomplished and confident person and not fall under one of those labels to a lane, weak, broke or unmotivated person. Also, if you’re fucking great at something and don’t need MF to confirm it, they’ll label you.

 

[ScorpDiesel]

WTF?

 

[Dannyblueyes]

So I have been on this board since 1996... I found this board in Southern California while searching for Black Beautiful Women Online.. thus BGOL that little icon caught my attention.(GOOGLE) .. But needless to say it was free at one point, but now it requires or needs support.. Which I will support.. but first things first..

Id like for you all to go on TikTok and follow me.. KINGPIN0045 not soliciting, or asking for a hand out, but this all goes back to looking or seeking for that one true love.. that will or will be, or probably is right now your worse nightmare.. meaning by you following me on TikTok I will help you to understand what a Narcissist is, because women like men are Narcissistic, Toxic, or fall under the spectrum of Narcissistic Personality Disorders person, thus Narcissism falls back to the young or child years of the child, man/woman/teenagers etc.

As for me I found my Toxic Narcissistic /NPD partner (woman) who later exposed herself to be addicted to drugs, a substance drug and alcoholic abuser.. (no pun Intended)....By following me you will learn about my life experience and I will help you to understand what:

- Will help you see the red flags of narcissism.
- Avoid relationships with toxic or NPD people.

There are many people in TikTok who share their stories about their abusive, narcissistic partners.. if you are in the Cycle of Abuse, or in the Abuse Cycle of Narcissism you will never know it till someone tells you, that your partner is toxic, or a Narcissistic... take heed and their their advice..they are not lying to you.. but you will not listen or hear, because you are in the mind fog, or the Cooking the frog concept of the Narcissist... Follow me

Hit the SHARE, LIKE, FOLLOW BUTTON..

People going on tik tok the share stories of their narcissistic partners.

Am I the only one who sees the irony here?

Also, our last president, who was probably the worst narcissist in American history, is completely straight edge. So what's the point of bringing up your ex-girlfriend substance issues?

 

[Princenubian]

Carry on…….

 

[Dannyblueyes]

hard to be a thorough, accomplished and confident person and not fall under one of those labels to a lane, weak, broke or unmotivated person. Also, if you’re fucking great at something and don’t need MF to confirm it, they’ll label you.

Couldn't agree more.

If you and your fiance are looking for a wedding DJ and the guy comes to you and says "I don't know, I'm pretty good at it, I guess." Are you going to hire him?

On the other hand, if that same DJ says "I keep the dance floor packed every Friday night at this hot downtown club. Played some of the best venues in the bay area, have dozens of five star reviews on google, and most of my business comes from returning customers." You might be a little more inclined.

 

[xfactor]

NPD has exploded in popularity since Trump brought it to the mainstream and mental health has been pushed since COVID lockdowns.

NPD is a mental illness and should be treated as such.

 

[Dannyblueyes]

NPD has exploded in popularity since Trump brought it to the mainstream and mental health has been pushed since COVID lockdowns.

NPD is a mental illness and should be treated as such.

Personality disorders are not mental illnesses.

Narcissists don't experience the disassociation or hallucinations of a schizophrenic. They don't go through the mania of someone with bipolar disorder. Don't experience seizures like an epileptic. Don't experience the same break with reality of a psychotic.

The story about themselves and the world around them might be completely off, but narcissists are still lucid, still understand the difference between right and wrong and are still capable of taking responsibility for their actions.

That's why nobody has ever been able to use narcissism as a credible defense for criminal or civil trial.

 

[850credit]

Every time OP wrote Follow Me I read it in this voice:

 

[850credit]

What the fuck kind of poll is that?

Get your thoughts together and try again my lord.

 

[spider705]

NPD has exploded in popularity since Trump brought it to the mainstream and mental health has been pushed since COVID lockdowns.

NPD is a mental illness and should be treated as such.

This.

And for the record, I wouldn't wish a narcissistic partner on my worst enemy.
That shit is taxing mentally, emotionally, physically... worst experience of my life.

 

[geechiedan]

Personality disorders are not mental illnesses.

Narcissists don't experience the disassociation or hallucinations of a schizophrenic. They don't go through the mania of someone with bipolar disorder. Don't experience seizures like an epileptic. Don't experience the same break with reality of a psychotic.

The story about themselves and the world around them might be completely off, but narcissists are still lucid, still understand the difference between right and wrong and are still capable of taking responsibility for their actions.

That's why nobody has ever been able to use narcissism as a credible defense for criminal or civil trial.

I think your definition is too stringent. A disorder is a disorder for a reason...can it be used as a defense for crimes committed? I dont think is the point.

 

[yasky777]

I think your definition is too stringent. A disorder is a disorder for a reason...can it be used as a defense for crimes committed? I dont think is the point.

Yes a DX is A DX but I agree with it not being an illness that calls for a lack accountability.

 

[geechiedan]

Yes a DX is A DX but I agree with it not being an illness that calls for a lack accountability.

I dunno if anyone said that tho.... lets be honest here..theres ALOT of unchecked mental illness in society.. ALOT
The thing about it is most people are highly functioning with it (and in some cases its responsible for their success to a great degree) so they have value and therefore don't get properly called on their shit.

Narcissism can cause a person to commit a crime or think they can get away with a crime. So it IS a factor, Can it be used as an excuse...I dont think anyone said it could or should be...did they??

 

[Dannyblueyes]

I think your definition is too stringent. A disorder is a disorder for a reason...can it be used as a defense for crimes committed? I dont think is the point.

Disorder means that it goes against the public order. That doesn't necessarily mean that the person is sick in the head. It doesn't necessarily mean that it's a bad thing either.

For instance, sociopaths are defied by a lack of empathy and moral compass. Not great if you're running a daycare, but good for an EMS worker or a surgeon. Those folks have to make life and death decisions every day. If it weighed on their soul every time that decision went wrong they wouldn't be able to do their job.

Likewise, most people don't like being the center of attention. However, if you're a politician looking to get an elected you HAVE to be! That's why so many politicians are narcissists.

It's also very telling that the United States has a much higher percentage of narcissists and sociopaths everywhere else in the world. It's not because Americans are all sick in the head. It's because these traits are a part of our cultural values. On top of that, in order to be diagnosed as a sociopath you have to have had significant problems with law enforcement as an adolescent. That's a lot more likely when you live in a country that's hyper focused on incarcerating children.

That's why I don't consider APD to be a mental illness.