What character flaw would/have you told your daughter to avoid with men?

[bgbtylvr]

What character flaw would you tell your niece or daughter to avoid when she sees it in men? The second she sees or hears it, to run. I don’t have kids but I told my niece if he talks more than he listens. If he cuts you off mid sentence to keep being wrong (lol) that’s a red flag. What’s yours?

 

[Helico-pterFunk]

Watch how he interacts with female servers and wait staff.

Or more specifically with his own mom, sister(s), aunt(s), grandma(s). That will tell you alot about his respect level w/ the ladies.

 

[Da Backshot Champ]

You really think a young Black girl will listen?, LOL! What you would consider a flaw, she would consider a trait.

 

[Darkness's]

You really think a young Black girl will listen?, LOL! What you would consider a flaw, she would consider a trait.

Let's not derail this convo. He prolly looking for advice.

 

[Dadecountycane]

Unproductive

 

[Mrfreddygoodbud]

A young knigga or chick that must smoke AND drink.

One or the other but BOTH.
Red flags should go up...

I was told that about dating older women..

You don't want a daily that needs to do both everyday.

Signs of excessive baggage

 

[^SpiderMan^]

A pattern of not finishing what he starts.

 

[phanatic]

Too much free time on his hands. I might be poisoned by my upbringing, but there is a difference between chill/decompress time, and "ain't doing shit".

 

[bgbtylvr]

You really think a young Black girl will listen?, LOL! What you would consider a flaw, she would consider a trait.

 

[kdogg3270]

never trust a man (or anyone) who does not maintain direct eye contact with you.

 

[Coldchi]

if he doesn't have any respect for his mother.................he won't have any respect for you.

 

[bgbtylvr]

if he doesn't have any respect for his mother.................he won't have any respect for you.

Depending on the circumstances with his upbringing. He could have abused, abandoned or neglected. Flip it, my last two exes didn’t like their mothers and they weren’t fun to date.

 

[34real]

A man selling dreams that he has brought himself,manipulating,lying and remember if he'll lie,he'll steal and if he'll steal,he'll kill.

 

[DiGeneral]

Damn, some really good suggestions.
If he gwan like a battyman and/or pussyhole.
If he badmind.
If he keep up argument, like gal pickney.