What are your character flaws?

as far as the question , i have been told i am too nice , and i know i have a bit of a temper , that since i was 21 i actively take steps to control, but sometimes it comes out.lastly i am a sucka for a pretty face.

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Mine is that I'm very stubborn. Not exactly in the fact that I have to have my own way. But once a train of thought is determined, it can't be shook or it takes a long, long time to shake it off.

i've read some of your posts.

you speak the truth about yourself. respect.
 
Well, I am born the first day of Gemini- 5/21... so I'm a gemini with Taurus tendencies...

I was born an only child, but my grandmother raised me along with my older cousin.. but I do exude only child qualities!

I am sometimes selfish.. For example.. I hate when people ask for things that I haven't opened yet.. or when they eat the last of things. Or if I bought it and you more than me and we are sharing...

I am super indecisive... The lady @ the Italian place where I eat lunch sometimes even realized this. I was so offended that she called me on it!!!

I can be too nonchalant sometimes... Don't ever ask me what I want to eat, especially if you don't know... we will never eat... When I'm alone and can't decide, I get in the car and just drive.

Sometimes, I tune people out. YOu can be sitting right next to me and I'll stare right at you, and not hear a word you said... But I will smile and nod... I have a bad habit of laughing when you didn't say anything funny...And I say I'm sorry a lot.. You can say that you're foot hurts, I'll say I'm sorry... its bad!!

I'm way too nice. People think I'm always happy... And I don't show my emotions easily....

Damn.. thats me in a nutshell
 
I was recently told by one of my exes that I am a horrible person and she may be right.

I run hot and cold with a lot of things. And I am like a light switch in that regard. One second I'm all about something next time you see me it's completely opposite.

People say I am too mellow. People love it until they get in deep with me and then they just get annoyed that I don't get excited over things.

I am an opportunist and will use people and do whatever I have to do to get what I want/need.

I am also brutally honest and not sensitive at all and can't deal with overly sensitive people (I want to kick them down stairs)

I am sure their is a whole lot more ask cleo_j she has a laundry list for me . . . BTW I'm a Sagittarius my birthday is tomorrow 12/1

This sounds a lot like Jigga--a Sag... :D
 
Sometimes, I tune people out. YOu can be sitting right next to me and I'll stare right at you, and not hear a word you said...

Can't use the quote button cause im on my phone but that's me right there. My peeps ask how can I do that all the time..I unno but I can.

I share a lot of the triats posted in this thread the main one is bein calm. the big things won't upset me but a pet peeve will set me off.

Extremely bad when it comes to phone calls. I won't call to save my life...but ill text.

Horrible when it comes to bein introduced to ppl. ill get introduced then tomo ill forget about them.

Can hold a grudge for a looong time, Easily cut ppl off.

Too nice to the point where ppl think im a punk. Changin that now by sayin no a lot..now im mean and an asshole lol.

If I get screwed ova I won't resort to physical violence...ill result to mental or emotional violence. Not in the form of basic insults but in the form that ill let u continue doin what u doin so u have enough rope to hang yourself when the time comes. When im in that mode ill say or do shit that will hurt ur soul.
Very bad yes..but I do warn ppl several times..then its like F it..u asked for it.

Come off as a know it all most times..then when I don't say anything im too quiet.

can manipulate things to my advantage but rarely use it.

extremely picky

taurus btw
 
not sensitive at all and can't deal with overly sensitive people (I want to kick them down stairs)

I'm like this too, I need a shirt that says "FUCK YO FEELINGS AND MAN THE FUCK UP"
gtfoh 'ole sensitive ass - that includes women too
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Oh yea let me add on to my previous post:

I have sort of a temper, yes I can be a hot head (comes from having two parents that's taureses)

I have very little patience, especially for stupid people...
 
I'm a procrastinating perfectionist!

Not that talkative ... till I'm comfortable with you ... great listener tho.

A Momma's boy to the bone, but I was taught to be that way by my daddy.

I Love/Care till it hurts.

An introvert who'd rather be working on a car, house, yard and/or chillin intimately than going out with a lot of people. When I was younger my girlfriends hated that about me, but now my ex's love that about me.

Leonians unite!
 
I'm a procrastinating perfectionist!

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I Love/Care till it hurts.

An introvert who'd rather be working on a car, house, yard and/or chillin intimately than going out with a lot of people. When I was younger my girlfriends hated that about me, but now my ex's love that about me.

Leonians unite!

Leonian checking in- all of that is me especially procrastinating perfectionist.:)
 
Well, I am born the first day of Gemini- 5/21... so I'm a gemini with Taurus tendencies...

I was born an only child, but my grandmother raised me along with my older cousin.. but I do exude only child qualities!

I am sometimes selfish.. For example.. I hate when people ask for things that I haven't opened yet.. or when they eat the last of things. Or if I bought it and you more than me and we are sharing...

I am super indecisive... The lady @ the Italian place where I eat lunch sometimes even realized this. I was so offended that she called me on it!!!

I can be too nonchalant sometimes... Don't ever ask me what I want to eat, especially if you don't know... we will never eat... When I'm alone and can't decide, I get in the car and just drive.

Sometimes, I tune people out. YOu can be sitting right next to me and I'll stare right at you, and not hear a word you said... But I will smile and nod... I have a bad habit of laughing when you didn't say anything funny...And I say I'm sorry a lot.. You can say that you're foot hurts, I'll say I'm sorry... its bad!!

I'm way too nice. People think I'm always happy... And I don't show my emotions easily....

Damn.. thats me in a nutshell

We could've looked at your avatar and figured most of this out... Except for your tendency to be extremely wordy :D
 
i am not a good listener or shoulder to cry on. I'm not going to just tell you what you want to hear to make you feel better
 
I can be a little too blunt.:lol:

There is always a time and place but sometimes i forget myself. I am also impatient and get turned off very easily.
 
Apathetic, almost sociopathic. Sometimes I just can't relate to people. Don't understand what their going thru, some days I just don't care. I wish I could change that, but haven't found a way.

Procrastinator: if something needs to be done, I'll get it done. But if it's not important, I will let it sit untill it is important.

Perfectionist: if it ain't perfect I'm not happy. This is why I don't like most of my writings, any type of construction that I've done pisses me off.

Laid back: takes alot to bother me. Gets me into trouble in relationships, I don't get emotional. Most arguments, my face is blank the whole time and it pisses her off more.

Independent: I don't want anyone doing things for me that I can do myself. And, even if I can't I'd rather try.

Impatient: I can drive myself crazy during the five minutes that I'm waiting for the train. And I can't STAND to be behind someone who's slower than I am. At the self checkout counter in the super market (if you are surprised by indoor plumbing, chances are the touch screen is too complex for you). Getting on/off the train, (it's rush hour, RUSH hour! People have to get to work, if you don't get off the train or get out the way). Driving (da fuk are you doing 35 in the left lane fo?). Donut shop, (you've been online for 10 minutes. you should have made a decision already!)

Quick tempered: tho I rarely show it.

Mean: if I'm angry enough I lash out. And I try to make sure it's as painful as possible.

There's a lot more, but I'm starting to feel bad typing this.
 
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I'm Bi-Polar .... I can be very laid -back or very aggressive
I get really aggressive esp. when Injustice is occuring


my Ex-girlfreinds would say I'm very Moody ,very demanding , and have to be in charge all the time ,and egotistical

but they would also say he is extremely compassionate ,giving to a fault , patient - and the best Lover I've ever had :dance::yes::lol:


July 6 Cancer
 
my flaw is that i'm too nice to my family. i grew up po, not poor, but po. i worked my ass off got a college degree and i take care of my family. no, not just my wife and kids, but my sister and her non working husband. i guess i feel that since we grew up without anything i'm suppose to take care of everyone in my family. it makes me mad when i go to their house and i smell weed andthey don't have money to pay their bills. my wife says that their taking advantage of me. i know, but they got kids
 
My temper. Though slow to anger, when I reach that breaking point it's bad for everyone.
are you a libra? this is the exact same thing i was going to post and seems to be a common libra trait.

I'm a Libra and this describes me very well. Something will upset me and I will try to let it go. . . but then it builds and builds up and I get so angry. At that point I am not someone you would even want to talk to. I've never punched through a wall though. . when I am angry I am generally very quiet so that I can refrain from saying something stupid or cursing somebody out.

I am also a huge procrastinator. . . I'm getting better though. .

I am kind selfish too. I don't like the words "borrow", "loan", or "can I have". I think it's because I've so many bad experiences with loaning people money, etc.

Are you an only child?

I have always steered away from dating men who are only children. They seem to lack the ability to share.

And I've found it's the same way for women who are only children.

I have had the same experiences with only children. . .:eek: Thought it was just the ones I knew. :smh:
 
@ Chicutie
"I'm a Libra and this describes me very well. Something will upset me and I will try to let it go. . . but then it builds and builds up and I get so angry. At that point I am not someone you would even want to talk to. I've never punched through a wall though. . when I am angry I am generally very quiet so that I can refrain from saying something stupid or cursing somebody out."


to be loved by a Libra Woman is a special experience - they really know how to pamper their Man - my girl is a Libra
 
I fight too much with worthless idiot sexually confused teenagers on the internet :hmm:
 
Moody:D, Yeah that's me
I hate too much talk:angry:
Females that Bullshit/Procrastinate:angry:
Females that let their KIDS run them...:angry::angry::angry:
Always wanna know where u at/where u going:angry::angry::angry::angry:
Can't have dinner on the table at decent hour but wanna have u help pay/fix for something:rolleyes:
Don't utilize their time WISELY:smh:
Can't wash clothes:angry:
Always wanna cook the same damn thing, Has no variety in their fuckin LIFE(chicken/rice/beans):confused:
Don't do shit to change the sexual lifestyle, Just happy with doin the same fuckin thing... Claim they don't know what to do:angry::hmm::angry::hmm:
Didn't finish H.S., Kids as teenagers already got their ass beat to gettin the Diploma.:confused::confused::confused:
Think because u texting/talking to another female u fucking, Get SWOLE because u have a female friend that HELPS you(o money) U fucking her.


(BISH step ya game up, If u had some refinable sources U could be relied on)
Can't be depended on, Doesn't do shit in life to better themselves:angry:
Can't keep HOME.:smh:
Always wanna go somewhere but can't foot the bill:rolleyes:
Gives u a trip for a B.D gift, No all inclusive , So u know U coming out ur pockets, B.D. is on the time of ur trip, Has her so called peeps come get U 12/1 pm, Mugga fukkas talking about they're going to come get U like 8/9 in the A.M. I sat around like some duck on a fucking pond, Bish woke me up at 7:angry::angry::angry: to so-called get ready, Spend all day out in the Pinos(mountains) on ur B.D., get p/u then get out to the pinos 2 in the afternoon, Spend all day at other peoples houses do nothing, Jus listening to language U don't understand, Then get back to Hotel, Bish wanna try to give me some of my cake at 10-11 at night, WHY should I have waited that long to have my damn B.D cake , I TOSSED that shit across the room, And bounced, Flew home 2 days later and Dropped the PUNYETA...


Never will go another trip again with a BITCH, I would been happier just staying home playing grease monkey


Fuckin Cabrone:angry::angry::angry::angry::angry:
 
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Moody:D, Yeah that's me
I hate too much talk:angry:
Females that Bullshit/Procrastinate:angry:
Females that let their KIDS run them...:angry::angry::angry:
Always wanna know where u at/where u going:angry::angry::angry::angry:
Can't have dinner on the table at decent hour but wanna have u help pay/fix for something:rolleyes:
Don't utilize their time WISELY:smh:
Can't wash clothes:angry:
Always wanna cook the same damn thing, Has no variety in their fuckin LIFE(chicken/rice/beans):confused:
Don't do shit to change the sexual lifestyle, Just happy with doin the same fuckin thing... Claim they don't know what to do:angry::hmm::angry::hmm:
Didn't finish H.S., Kids as teenagers already got their ass beat to gettin the Diploma.:confused::confused::confused:
Think because u texting/talking to another female u fucking, Get SWOLE because u have a female friend that HELPS you(o money) U fucking her.


(BISH step ya game up, If u had some refinable sources U could be relied on)
Can't be depended on, Doesn't do shit in life to better themselves:angry:
Can't keep HOME.:smh:
Always wanna go somewhere but can't foot the bill:rolleyes:
Gives u a trip for a B.D gift, No all inclusive , So u know U coming out ur pockets, B.D. is on the time of ur trip, Has her so called peeps come get U 12/1 pm, Mugga fukkas talking about they're going to come get U like 8/9 in the A.M. I sat around like some duck on a fucking pond, Bish woke me up at 7:angry::angry::angry: to so-called get ready, Spend all day out in the Pinos(mountains) on ur B.D., get p/u then get out to the pinos 2 in the afternoon, Spend all day at other peoples houses do nothing, Jus listening to language U don't understand, Then get back to Hotel, Bish wanna try to give me some of my cake at 10-11 at night, WHY should I have waited that long to have my damn B.D cake , I TOSSED that shit across the room, And bounced, Flew home 2 days later and Dropped the PUNYETA...


Never will go another trip again with a BITCH, I would been happier just staying home playing grease monkey


Fuckin Cabrone:angry::angry::angry::angry::angry:

damn son, looks like you need to holla at Dr. Phil :eek:

too trusting, stubburn, blunt/honest, shy, slow to anger but once there...:smh:

blunt but shy? Kind of contradicting don't you think? You need to learn to let that anger out when it happens. Ever see the movie "Anger Management"? :lol:
 
I guess u can tie laidback with procrastinating...if i'm not motivated, it ain't happing right away. I'm ALWAYS late, I usually wait till the last minute.
I'm horrible at calling people back. From my friends to my own family they all have the same beef with me when it comes to that.


I'm too nice to the point where it may seem i'm naive, so people try to take advantage of that until I flip, once I reach that boiling point.

Sometimes I just can't relate to people. Don't understand what their going thru, some days I just don't care. I wish I could change that, but haven't found a way.Procrastinator: if something needs to be done, I'll get it done. But if it's not important, I will let it sit untill it is important.


Laid back: takes alot to bother me. Gets me into trouble in relationships, I don't get emotional.

Impatient: I can be this sometimes too


Mean: if I'm angry enough I lash out. And I try to make sure it's as painful as possible.:devil: A lot of old chicks I have messed with know this first hand.

All of this is me right here.
 
damn son, looks like you need to holla at Dr. Phil :eek:



blunt but shy? Kind of contradicting don't you think? You need to learn to let that anger out when it happens. Ever see the movie "Anger Management"? :lol:

shy as in i would not be the first person to dance at a party, or to introduce myself to a group. blunt among my friends, as for the anger it's over time
 
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