well what now?

[nawlinsn931]

well yall know the story of me and my baby we met when i was bouncing in the club she knew i was married and never hid anything from her we discussed what needed to be done and also pregnancy well she got pregnant now 3 months into it she tells me that she doesn't want to harm the baby so she gone stop seein me now this is after we got engaged on new years sayin that she can't deal with my situation. now i don't discuss it with her besides the fact that i've started my divorce process and that takes time i've even moved out the house and sleeping where i can so my question is why now she says its not to see other people and i believe her but i think its her negative mother who always throws it in her face. so i'm giving her space and gone be a father for my child just wanted some views on the situation. the part that really set it off is that shes mad at me for missing her dr appt because i had to work

 

[owl]

Come on with that buulllshit, man, use a damn period at least once...

fuck, give me a sec. to reread that...

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

Come on with that buulllshit, man, use a damn period at least once...

fuck, give me a sec. to reread that...

 

[owl]

Man, shit, I really hate to belittle things, but every woman gets to acting like that once pregnant. You have a few extra issues thrown in there, but you made that bed...

Lay back, show some sympathy, and concern, make sure you dust off your "baby, I sorry" face because it'll come in handy...

You really like relationships, huh? I can't see myself jumping from a marriage to a family...but my issues are usually deeper than others...

 

[bgque12]

A simple answer...





















You are an asshole!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

First you cheat on your wife(you have no integrity) not only did you cheat, you went raw dog! And that's just nasty. So you leave your wife for a woman who doesn't have enough respect for you or the institution of marraige and expect her to be woman enough to be committed to you when niether of you have respected what the word "COMMITTMENT" means... yeah, you are an asshole.

 

[Harlem's Angel]

Come on with that buulllshit, man, use a damn period at least once...

fuck, give me a sec. to reread that...

 

[Eva Hornae]

A simple answer...


You are an asshole!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

First you cheat on your wife(you have no integrity) not only did you cheat, you went raw dog! And that's just nasty. So you leave your wife for a woman who doesn't have enough respect for you or the institution of marraige and expect her to be woman enough to be committed to you when niether of you have respected what the word "COMMITTMENT" means... yeah, you are an asshole.

OUCH!

 

[Eva Hornae]

Come on with that buulllshit, man, use a damn period at least once...

fuck, give me a sec. to reread that...

Oh shit!

 

[LoneStar29]

A simple answer...
You are an asshole!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
First you cheat on your wife(you have no integrity) not only did you cheat, you went raw dog! And that's just nasty. So you leave your wife for a woman who doesn't have enough respect for you or the institution of marraige and expect her to be woman enough to be committed to you when niether of you have respected what the word "COMMITTMENT" means... yeah, you are an asshole.

DAAAAAAANG ... THAT WAS HARSH ... but I've gotta admit that I agree a bit ... I can't give you advice on how to work on a relationship that was started off of infidelity ... I heard those only have like a 5% chance of surviving cuz the foundation is pretty much built on lies, deceipt and heartbreak .. sorry dawg ... don't mean to judge you but DANG I feel sorry for your soon-to-be ex-wife ... but on the real homegirls just being moody cuz she's pregnant ... she'll be like that until she has the baby and probably even for a while after that

 

[Harlem's Angel]

A simple answer...



You are an asshole!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

First you cheat on your wife(you have no integrity) not only did you cheat, you went raw dog! And that's just nasty. So you leave your wife for a woman who doesn't have enough respect for you or the institution of marraige and expect her to be woman enough to be committed to you when niether of you have respected what the word "COMMITTMENT" means... yeah, you are an asshole.

Damn I didn't wanna say it....

 

[Autobot8655]

A simple answer...





















You are an asshole!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

First you cheat on your wife(you have no integrity) not only did you cheat, you went raw dog! And that's just nasty. So you leave your wife for a woman who doesn't have enough respect for you or the institution of marraige and expect her to be woman enough to be committed to you when niether of you have respected what the word "COMMITTMENT" means... yeah, you are an asshole.

Dizammmmmmm!

But I agree completely.

 

[ladyscorpio]

A simple answer...

You are an asshole!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

First you cheat on your wife(you have no integrity) not only did you cheat, you went raw dog! And that's just nasty. So you leave your wife for a woman who doesn't have enough respect for you or the institution of marraige and expect her to be woman enough to be committed to you when niether of you have respected what the word "COMMITTMENT" means... yeah, you are an asshole.

How is this harsh? He's being honest.
He has a valid point.

 

[bgque12]

How is this harsh? He's being honest.
He has a valid point.

Thanks for seeing it.

 

[kjxxxx]

A simple answer...
You are an asshole!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

First you cheat on your wife(you have no integrity) not only did you cheat, you went raw dog! And that's just nasty. So you leave your wife for a woman who doesn't have enough respect for you or the institution of marraige and expect her to be woman enough to be committed to you when niether of you have respected what the word "COMMITTMENT" means... yeah, you are an asshole.

Man you come attacking the dude like you know how is marriage was. You don't know what hell the man might have been living through and for how long. Shit I know people in marriages where they sleep in separate rooms. Shit my buddy was in sleeping the same bed with his wife and couldn't get any pussy because it would start a fist fight if he ever touch her. And she called the cops on him already when one time she beating on him and he put her hand behind her and telling her to chill out. He left her in the house and went for a walk to cool out and next thing he know there is a warrant out for his arrest. He end up in court and having to go to anger management class for 6 months.

Why didn't he move out? Because he paying the rent and they had a son. The divorce now. She moved out.

My point being; Shit it happens to the best of us. As far as fucking without a condom. That happens too. Sometimes we become complacent after sleeping with a woman for months. Shit happens too when people leave the dick in too long. That's how most of the people in this world end up here.

 

[nawlinsn931]

As far as cheating we were seperated and i was staying with one of my homeboys. She wasn't gone pay for the divorce so i had to save up for one as well as pay bills and take care of my 2 kids.There was no decent or hidden anything i was honest from the start and the comment was made to her, not my wife.I'm working on the divorce now and thats the waiting game, ask anyone whose been through it.Its funny how when men cheat they are assholes and everything but the child of GOD,but when women cheat they are the victims. I respect you for voicing your opinion, but unless you knew the situation, save your attacks.Thank You

 

[LoneStar29]

As far as cheating we were seperated and i was staying with one of my homeboys. She wasn't gone pay for the divorce so i had to save up for one as well as pay bills and take care of my 2 kids.There was no decent or hidden anything i was honest from the start and the comment was made to her, not my wife.I'm working on the divorce now and thats the waiting game, ask anyone whose been through it.Its funny how when men cheat they are assholes and everything but the child of GOD,but when women cheat they are the victims. I respect you for voicing your opinion, but unless you knew the situation, save your attacks.Thank You

You never explained any of this in your first post ... how are you gonna come on a womans post and say this "well yall know the story of me and my baby we met when i was bouncing in the club she knew i was married" and not expect to get some harsh comments??? C'mon ... you set yourself up for that by not explaining the situation completelywe were only going off of what you wrote. But anyways now that I have a full understanding of the situation I will go ahead and apologize for anything I may have written that you found was attacking you ... SORRY

And as for the situation with your curent girlfriend as I wrote in my last post she's just moody from the pregnancy and she's probably gonna be like that until she has the baby and maybe even for a couple of months after that ... pregnancy really fucks with a womans hormones and all we can do is take it out on the man that got us pregnantI know it's fucked up but that's the way it isAnd I'm sure all the stress of what you're going through is adding to her stress and that's why she's probably saying she can't handle your situation ... just take it easy ... let her know you understand that she's not being herself cuz of what she's going through with the pregnancy and remind her also that this is not her usual self and that after the baby is born things should get back to normal ... good luck with everything

 

[bgque12]

Man you come attacking the dude like you know how is marriage was. You don't know what hell the man might have been living through and for how long. Shit I know people in marriages where they sleep in separate rooms. Shit my buddy was in sleeping the same bed with his wife and couldn't get any pussy because it would start a fist fight if he ever touch her. And she called the cops on him already when one time she beating on him and he put her hand behind her and telling her to chill out. He left her in the house and went for a walk to cool out and next thing he know there is a warrant out for his arrest. He end up in court and having to go to anger management class for 6 months.

Why didn't he move out? Because he paying the rent and they had a son. The divorce now. She moved out.

My point being; Shit it happens to the best of us. As far as fucking without a condom. That happens too. Sometimes we become complacent after sleeping with a woman for months. Shit happens too when people leave the dick in too long. That's how most of the people in this world end up here.

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I didn't attack him. I simply stated the facts. He was married and was going raw dog with another bun and got her pregnant. Shit doesn't happen unless you make it happen. Shit happends?! I guess when you end up with AIDS you'll still feel the same way about not using condoms. WTF is "leaving the dick in too long"? Please explain that one. As far as your boy is concerned, that's why you need to handle your business BEFORE you go get another bun pregnent!!!!!! If you are sleeping in the bed with your woman and can't get none, don't ignore the situation TALK about that shit and come to a conclusion...

And for the record, I never become complacent when it comes to safe sex but, that's just me. Maybe you don't value your life as much as I do. I have a lot to live for.

 

[bgque12]

You never explained any of this in your first post ... how are you gonna come on a womans post and say this "well yall know the story of me and my baby we met when i was bouncing in the club she knew i was married" and not expect to get some harsh comments??? C'mon ... you set yourself up for that by not explaining the situation completelywe were only going off of what you wrote. But anyways now that I have a full understanding of the situation I will go ahead and apologize for anything I may have written that you found was attacking you ... SORRY

And as for the situation with your curent girlfriend as I wrote in my last post she's just moody from the pregnancy and she's probably gonna be like that until she has the baby and maybe even for a couple of months after that ... pregnancy really fucks with a womans hormones and all we can do is take it out on the man that got us pregnantI know it's fucked up but that's the way it isAnd I'm sure all the stress of what you're going through is adding to her stress and that's why she's probably saying she can't handle your situation ... just take it easy ... let her know you understand that she's not being herself cuz of what she's going through with the pregnancy and remind her also that this is not her usual self and that after the baby is born things should get back to normal ... good luck with everything

c/s

I was just going on the info you gave. But let me ask you this... why are you going from one marraige and trying to get back into a serious relationship?

 

[Harlem's Angel]

c/s

I was just going on the info you gave. But let me ask you this... why are you going from one marraige and trying to get back into a serious relationship?

Some ppl are just like that. Can't be without a woman. Or it could've just happened without him actually wanting it to happen.

 

[nawlinsn931]

actually it just happened wasn't looking for one just was having a good time and we just grew. ladies thank you