Ok ladies here's the deal my girlfriend mother of my first is bi and I have known that since day 1 and was ok with it. Well a few days ago we were having sex and she called me another women name and that was a turn off for me she tryed to tell she didn't mean it. and wasn't cheatin on me with anyone else male or female. So beig the person that I am i made a myspace page and acted like i was into her and she said she wanted to break up with me but wouldn't becasue if the kids my lil girl and her lil boy we have been together for all most 5yrs now and was abput to get married in the fall. I feel like shit fuck her and keep it moving but don't really want to end it.I haven't told her yet i know that she wishes to be with other females still and asked her if we could a 3sum's and what not but she always say's no .Now why is thatshe doesn't want to do that with me all i want to make her happy I wouldn't really care about the other chick because I love her. Ok what should I do
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Well.....I think the whole myspac thing is petty on both of your parts.
In regards to her not wanting a 3 sum-Not all bi women want a 3 sum especially w/ their man.
Her calling you another chicks name-she may not be cheating on you-but she was probably fantasizing during sex and got caught up.
Has she ever giving you a reason to think she would cheat?
In regards to her not wanting a 3 sum-Not all bi women want a 3 sum especially w/ their man.
Her calling you another chicks name-she may not be cheating on you-but she was probably fantasizing during sex and got caught up.
Has she ever giving you a reason to think she would cheat?
LoneStar29
Banned
I agree with Onyx ... her calling the other womans name my have just been a fantasy thing that got out of control ... and she may not want to share you with another woman hence why no 3somes
The MySpace thing was mad immature however it did give you some info to work with ... I think you should confront her about it cuz her telling a complete stranger how she wants to leave you but isn't going to for the kids is definately a problem in my book
The MySpace thing was mad immature however it did give you some info to work with ... I think you should confront her about it cuz her telling a complete stranger how she wants to leave you but isn't going to for the kids is definately a problem in my book
LoneStar29
Banned
WTF!!!!
You more worried about her not wanting to have a 3some than her saying she wants to break up with you.
BTW you mean warning not waring and 3some not 3sum.
See males can give good advice too.
There was a warning but you still came in!?!?!? WOW
I understand that you were cool with her being bi but you didn't see this coming? I mean I personally couldn't deal with a bi male cause of the potential of something like this happening. So since you knew she was bi did you think you she would be able to supress her desire to be with women?
How can one be okay with being with someone who's bi if they want a committed relationship?
How can one be okay with being with someone who's bi if they want a committed relationship?
damn from the title i was expecting some dick pics
hope everything works out...do whats best for u and your kids
lol me too!!!
This is where my "hypocrite side" comes out....
Whoa whoa whoa
1-Just because you are bi doesnt mean you cant be in a committed relationship. Bi means you are sexually attracted/sexually active w/ both genders. Not that you are some kind of sexual deviant unworthy of not fucking at all times.
2-Bi men are gross
Ewwww and yuck-
Whoa whoa whoa
1-Just because you are bi doesnt mean you cant be in a committed relationship. Bi means you are sexually attracted/sexually active w/ both genders. Not that you are some kind of sexual deviant unworthy of not fucking at all times.
2-Bi men are gross
Ewwww and yuck-update here's whats when down this morning she and the fake profile chated again and she said wants to have sex only with her and nothing more. Now i think I should just fuck it and let her do her and I am gonna do me but I still feel bad i don't know why cause if we split i will come out the winner she doen't work nor is the car she drives in her name in mines or the housee i am paying for ,and we are not married just engaged to be married on july 25.she has only what she came with the bsnk acount is under are name but i can close it tuesday and send her packin. thats how I feel right now but thats not me i wouldn't want do that her but if she is gonna cheat on me what else can i do i'm gonna tell her this evening we go have dinner with her mom this evening whats up
also I understand her wants and needs but if sshe gotta do it behind my back why be together i tryed everything else.
also I understand her wants and needs but if sshe gotta do it behind my back why be together i tryed everything else.
I think what I said may have came off wrong and for that my apologies. I didnt say they needed to have sex all the time either but if wanting to be with both sexes is what you desire how is it possible to just remain committed to just one? Is that desire to be with the same sex suppressed while in the relationship until you slip up and say the name of the person like what happened to the OP?
I'm dating a bi chic now..She has a whole other life that she does not even want me to be a part of..She doesnt want me to meet her girlfriends, she doesnt want 3somes with me involved..but she has a double standard..We have an open friendship.she does her thing and do mine..But I dont hide my friends from her..and when i do bring them around she hits on them..It doesnt bother me..But it lets me know she's just as big of a player as I am..And for this reason i cant trust her to be loyal to me..Secrets destroy relationships..So if shes not honest dump her ass and move on to greener pastures..If not you must want that 3some really bad to deal with her bullshitt..
Let me just say u are a better person than me. Knowing that she is bisexual and wants to have sex with other women wouldnt fly with me if I was in your shoes. It seems like you want her all to yourself and from what u wrote she wants to do her own thing. Hopefully u really think this through carefully cause getting married may not change her desire to want to be with other women.
I don't think you have a relationship dawg, from the things you have listed that you bring to the plate and the above statement, you are being used.
Confront her and get it over-No need to post all of this on a board of strangers who half are not in relationships themselves.
I am sorry you created the profile....She is cheating w/ you???
One more time...She is cheating w/ YOU!
Dude........Ya'll not ready for marriage
Her w/ the secret life and not knowing how to be committed and you w/ the cant communicate on a level other than a secret profile...........I hate to sound harsh it's just the truth.
I am sorry you created the profile....She is cheating w/ you???
One more time...She is cheating w/ YOU!
Dude........Ya'll not ready for marriage
Her w/ the secret life and not knowing how to be committed and you w/ the cant communicate on a level other than a secret profile...........I hate to sound harsh it's just the truth.
LoneStar29
Banned
Man fuck that bitch ... she sounds triflin' as hell ... you're the one with the job, you're the one paying the bills, you're the one with good enough credit to put shit in your name ... AND THIS BITCH WANTS TO CHEAT ON YOU????????
Cut her off and send her packing with the empty bank account she came with ... simp
*typical BGOL response*
(which I agreew with in this situation btw
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Can't one be committed emotionally to one personally even though they are attracted physically to others, be it male, female, or both?
Ok ya'll i her whats up after we all ate and told hey it's a wrap for us u gotta get yo shit and get of my house and then her mom was like wtf going on. I told her mom (lol) about it and said i don't where stay at or what you gonna do cause I not the one that can help you now bah bah we end up throwing papers and shits at each other her moms was ducking under the table talking about she gonna call the cops .So I went home and watched a lil tv and laugh my ass off when her and her cousin came with his bird chest stuck all out tlkin shit.
Asked the nigga was he done and he said fuck me so being the nice and normal person that I am I went to the closet and grabbed a loaded ak-47 and told both them they have 20 minutes to get all her shit out of my house. Then i got on here typed this .So do ya'll think I took it to far. btw homegrown and vidoes on the way
Asked the nigga was he done and he said fuck me so being the nice and normal person that I am I went to the closet and grabbed a loaded ak-47 and told both them they have 20 minutes to get all her shit out of my house. Then i got on here typed this .So do ya'll think I took it to far. btw homegrown and vidoes on the way
Ok ya'll i her whats up after we all ate and told hey it's a wrap for us u gotta get yo shit and get of my house and then her mom was like wtf going on. I told her mom (lol) about it and said i don't where stay at or what you gonna do cause I not the one that can help you now bah bah we end up throwing papers and shits at each other her moms was ducking under the table talking about she gonna call the cops .So I went home and watched a lil tv and laugh my ass off when her and her cousin came with his bird chest stuck all out tlkin shit.
Asked the nigga was he done and he said fuck me so being the nice and normal person that I am I went to the closet and grabbed a loaded ak-47 and told both them they have 20 minutes to get all her shit out of my house. Then i got on here typed this .So do ya'll think I took it to far. btw homegrown and vidoes on the way
Ok ya'll i her whats up after we all ate and told hey it's a wrap for us u gotta get yo shit and get of my house and then her mom was like wtf going on. I told her mom (lol) about it and said i don't where stay at or what you gonna do cause I not the one that can help you now bah bah we end up throwing papers and shits at each other her moms was ducking under the table talking about she gonna call the cops .So I went home and watched a lil tv and laugh my ass off when her and her cousin came with his bird chest stuck all out tlkin shit.
Asked the nigga was he done and he said fuck me so being the nice and normal person that I am I went to the closet and grabbed a loaded ak-47 and told both them they have 20 minutes to get all her shit out of my house. Then i got on here typed this .So do ya'll think I took it to far. btw homegrown and vidoes on the way
I wasn't going to comment until I saw this post.
Yes you took it too far. When weapons are drawn an implied threat is given. You're in danger of jail time bro. You can only draw a weapon if you can demonstrate to 12 reasonable people that your life was in imminent danger. Giving someone 20 minutes says to me(a reasonable person)that your life was NOT in danger and this was just an angry outburst from you which threatened the life of 2 unarmed people.
Get a hold of yourself bro and start thinking rationally. What you're going through with this woman ain't worth it.
LoneStar29
Banned
Ok ya'll i her whats up after we all ate and told hey it's a wrap for us u gotta get yo shit and get of my house and then her mom was like wtf going on. I told her mom (lol) about it and said i don't where stay at or what you gonna do cause I not the one that can help you now bah bah we end up throwing papers and shits at each other her moms was ducking under the table talking about she gonna call the cops .So I went home and watched a lil tv and laugh my ass off when her and her cousin came with his bird chest stuck all out tlkin shit.
Asked the nigga was he done and he said fuck me so being the nice and normal person that I am I went to the closet and grabbed a loaded ak-47 and told both them they have 20 minutes to get all her shit out of my house. Then i got on here typed this .So do ya'll think I took it to far. btw homegrown and vidoes on the way
WTF????????? Dawg now you're just acting scary ... I don't even know what to say to you right now
how am I actin scary
LoneStar29
Banned
Cuz why you tryin' to shoot people now and shit???
We said to kick her to the curb cuz she's using you not to shoot her ... plus what about your kid??? Don't do nothing stupid man seriously ... from what you said you have alot going for you ... don't throw it away over this one chickenhead
Dude this is all so immature! I will say it.....Again you are mad at her for cheating w/ you....
She was wrong for taking bait and you were wrong for the myspace thing. Be glad it is over-as I previously said both of you were not ready!
Now folks pulling out guns.......Some people like drama and confusion. I dont-And I think now it's best you do what is best for the child.
Why post homegrown w/o her permission? Not a good look son-your feelings are looking really soft. But the pervs will want you to do it so..........
Personally I am wondering if all this is even true...Did you say AK47, loaded? In 2009?
Maybe it is true...maybe it is.
Are you sure your not just made she didnt want a 3some?
She was wrong for taking bait and you were wrong for the myspace thing. Be glad it is over-as I previously said both of you were not ready!
Now folks pulling out guns.......
Some people like drama and confusion. I dont-And I think now it's best you do what is best for the child.Why post homegrown w/o her permission? Not a good look son-your feelings are looking really soft. But the pervs will want you to do it so..........
Personally I am wondering if all this is even true...Did you say AK47, loaded? In 2009?
Maybe it is true...maybe it is.
Are you sure your not just made she didnt want a 3some?
Ok ya'll i her whats up after we all ate and told hey it's a wrap for us u gotta get yo shit and get of my house and then her mom was like wtf going on. I told her mom (lol) about it and said i don't where stay at or what you gonna do cause I not the one that can help you now bah bah we end up throwing papers and shits at each other her moms was ducking under the table talking about she gonna call the cops .So I went home and watched a lil tv and laugh my ass off when her and her cousin came with his bird chest stuck all out tlkin shit.
Asked the nigga was he done and he said fuck me so being the nice and normal person that I am I went to the closet and grabbed a loaded ak-47 and told both them they have 20 minutes to get all her shit out of my house. Then i got on here typed this .So do ya'll think I took it to far. btw homegrown and vidoes on the way
it's all true and i not mad about anything and yes i did care about her but it's all aver now and only thing we have together is a child and thats all we will have. I had the ak-47 in the closet where I always keep it that was for her safety i wouldn't kill them or ny one else unless i had because i like being free ya dig btw time to get on some white girls and latinas now
LoneStar29
Banned
So now you hate all Black women cuz you allowed yourself to get played by one???? GTFOH with that bullshit ... and to think I almost felt sorry for you for a second there
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