I don't know who else to tell...I'm still in shock myself, but I'm pregnant. I'm 38...the last and only time I was pregnant I was 19. This ish is unbelievable! I did not even think I could get pregnant, it's been almost 20 years. I found out the day Prince passed away. I thought by now I would have it all figured out, but I'm far from it. The father is married and no I'm not his side chick. Honestly we have been messing around off and on since college. We've always had a good connection and could always pick up where we left off. Sometimes I would be in his city or he in my city and we would connect. For years we lived in different cities and I finally moved to his city to be closer to my family. We only live about 10 mins away from each other. We were /are not having an affair. The last time we had sex was Oct 2014. I called him a couple of weeks ago, b/c I was horny as hell and had not had sex since Sept. We had unprotected sex, but I made it very clear to him that I was not on birth control and he said he did not care. I even took a Plan B! So I initially assumed he had a vasectomy or something b/c he was just so careless, but we have had unprotected sex several times before and of course I did not get pregnant. But this time felt different and I just knew I was pregnant. So I told him and the 1st thing he said was when am I making an appt to take of this situation. I just don't know if I can do it. I know this is not the best condition to bring a baby into and we were not cool like that, but damn...sometimes shit happens! I really don't know what I'm going to do...he's very adamant about me not having this baby. I even told him that he could just go on with his life and I would not hold him responsible for this child. He was extremely upset and said he could never turn his back on his child but he just wants me terminate the pregnancy immediately. Money is not a problem...the child would be very well taken care of. We both have very good careers making well over 6 figures a year, however his career is somewhat high profile and I think he's headed into politics. I know this would not be a good look for him, but I really don't care. He should have thought about that before he decided not to wear a condom. Am I wrong for wanting to have this baby...
