To the men, annoying trends and styles that turn you off about sistas

Oh yea? who you fuckin' now?

WTF:confused::lol:Why are you stalking me:confused:seriously ... it's a little bit flattering that you watch and memorize my posts so hard but it is also a little creepy:smh:Just know that I ain't no punk bitch and if you show up at my door
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it'll be lights out for you homie:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::hmm:
 
WTF:confused::lol:Why are you stalking me:confused:seriously ... it's a little bit flattering that you watch and memorize my posts so hard but it is also a little creepy:smh:Just know that I ain't no punk bitch and if you show up at my door
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it'll be lights out for you homie:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::hmm:

:confused:Why would I stalk you?
 
That's exactly what I'm trying to figure out:confused:but you always commenting on my posts and bringing up shit from other posts and even stuff I don't think I posted so I'm confused how you know all these things about me:confused:Care to explain:dunno:

Don’t blame me if you are becoming senile.
 
You're gay. That's it isn't it. That has to be it. There would be no other reason that you would come into posts with the intention of cutting a fool.


I'm glad you’re thinking about me. You obviously have nothing else going on. Go find your (alleged;)) boyfriend, and get some attention from him.
 
This is exactly what I was saying earlier about this character ... "he" seems to know so much about us like "he" is following our posts ... but "he" said "he's" not so I guess "he's" not:dunno:

I only remember the most ridiculous posts. Can I help if my memory is better than yours? Are you ashamed of what you post?
 
Back to my original post, I'm STILL gonna be rocking my colored jeans...lol

Co-sign on so many of the "trends" noted here, especially when 50,000,000 women wear the same outfit to the club...I don't like putting my body all out there for everyone to see, so I usually go for a classier, more put-together look. It may not be the flashiest, but I stand out cause I STILL look good...lol
 
Back to my original post, I'm STILL gonna be rocking my colored jeans...lol

Co-sign on so many of the "trends" noted here, especially when 50,000,000 women wear the same outfit to the club...I don't like putting my body all out there for everyone to see, so I usually go for a classier, more put-together look. It may not be the flashiest, but I stand out cause I STILL look good...lol

*waits for the classy colored jean pic*
:D
 
Bad weaves are the most annoying IMO. It's way out of hand. Some chicks really can pull off the short hair look but are scared to try it. Unless you're workin out, sneakers are a turn-off. Long nails... unless you got chewed up smoker hands its unnecessary. All these jackets/boots with the fur trim. That shit is wack. Cosign the grease on the baby hair. And last, blonde/red highlights. Leave the blonde to the whitegirls and red to the mamis.
 
Hair seems to be a big thing on here...

Some like it permed, some relaxed, some natural...I don't get what's the big deal. Natural might not look good on the next girl but good on the one in front of you. Same thing for 'straight' hair.

There are trends that might turn some people off, (gold teeth is one for me), but my damn it ain't that serious. Can't some of you men just accept it for what it is and worry about the trends that suck ass- like electric purple eyeshadow, half wigs with less than perfect front roots, tats on titties (waste of a good tittie), legings that don't match the dress or skirt it's with, those damn skinny girls in thin black jeans with those $15 black wedge boots and that Roc-A-Wear jacket that MIGHT be real claiming they wearing $200 easy, and for the love of goodness those ponytails sitting on the side of the head like it could be a pole for horseshoes if straightened...



And who the hell would want to put gel in a baby's head?
 
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Will I ever be liberated from seeing this shit?

Also, cosign on tats and cow-smackin lips while chewing gum. You never heard a dude say, "Damn that tat is FINE!"

I think I should put some of the good stuff as well...

1.Lip-enhancing gloss. You know how you women be doing it.
2.Leg exposing skirts. Kill a brotha softly baby.
3.high-heels. not walking on stilts neither. short asses looking like clowns isnt cool. It's like a guy wearing a trench coat in the summer.
4.calfs. Yo, if you're skinny or plus-size or in between...dont underestimate the power of thighs and legs.
5.buttocks form enhancing clothing. Should have been #1.

I guess it was supposed to be about trends...
How about we keep cleanliness trendy.
 
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Hair seems to be a big thing on here...

Some like it permed, some relaxed, some natural...I don't get what's the big deal. Natural might not look good on the next girl but good on the one in front of you. Same thing for 'straight' hair.

There are trends that might turn some people off, (gold teeth is one for me), but my damn it ain't that serious. Can't some of you men just accept it for what it is and worry about the trends that suck ass- like electric purple eyeshadow, half wigs with less than perfect front roots, tats on titties (waste of a good tittie), legings that don't match the dress or skirt it's with, those damn skinny girls in thin black jeans with those $15 black wedge boots and that Roc-A-Wear jacket that MIGHT be real claiming they wearing $200 easy, and for the love of goodness those ponytails sitting on the side of the head like it could be a pole for horseshoes if straightened...



And who the hell would want to put gel in a baby's head?

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I guess I will throw in my list

1. A bad weave job is number one on my list. Ladies need to learn that long hair does not make you sexy.

2. A lady who thinks her cell phone is her third hand. A missed call is just that, a missed call.

3. Hearing a woman say "I only have male friends because females are messy". All men have heard this and 98% of the time your the messy one.

4. Tight clothes are only nice if you have the body to pull it off. Tight is not always right.

5. Women who change there looks every week. I know you get bored easy but when you have a good look stick with it. Change is not always a good thing.

6. This is a personal preference of mines but I will take a classic women over a trendy woman any day.


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I guess I will throw in my list

1. A bad weave job is number one on my list. Ladies need to learn that long hair does not make you sexy.

2. A lady who thinks her cell phone is her third hand. A missed call is just that, a missed call.

3. Hearing a woman say "I only have male friends because females are messy". All men have heard this and 98% of the time your the messy one.

4. Tight clothes are only nice if you have the body to pull it off. Tight is not always right.


5. Women who change there looks every week. I know you get bored easy but when you have a good look stick with it. Change is not always a good thing.

6. This is a personal preference of mines but I will take a classic women over a trendy woman any day.


Dlateshow

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My bf swore me up and down that he didn't care how I wore my hair as long as it looked nice. So I cut my hair really short and he HAD A FIT! It's good that you guys know exactly what you like instead of saying awww baby I don't care if you had a blonde dyed mohawk I would love it...lol

It sounds nice but yall are def. lying!
 
Maybe you should read my post again. it's not about maintaining it once it is natural, its about the transition to going natural that is the difficulty. And you don't know what the difficulty is until YOU have to do it. Not your last girlfriend.

the transition from straighten to natural aint hard. U make as hard as u want it to be. What i did was keep my hair in braids...afro kinky to be exact. Get it rebraided every couple of weeks... WHen my new growth got to a certain length...i got all the straighten ends cut off and voila..i have natural hair!! Went thru a few mags or even watched vids on youtube to get some ideas for a hair style and im good to go. There is no hard transition unless u got brilo growing out ur head :lol::lol::lol:

A woman with natural hair or locks is X2 more nice lookin that one with straighten hair in my opinion.


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the transition from straighten to natural aint hard. U make as hard as u want it to be. What i did was keep my hair in braids...afro kinky to be exact. Get it rebraided every couple of weeks... WHen my new growth got to a certain length...i got all the straighten ends cut off and voila..i have natural hair!! Went thru a few mags or even watched vids on youtube to get some ideas for a hair style and im good to go. There is no hard transition unless u got brilo growing out ur head :lol::lol::lol:

A woman with natural hair or locks is X2 more nice lookin that one with straighten hair in my opinion.


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While that may be good for some, it may not be good for all. Continuously braiding your hair can make the hairline recede and break off, as well as be more stress on the scalp than necessary. I definitely think it could work for some, but not all. I think what makes it difficult is that many women don't know a variety of ways to make that transition from chemically-treated hair to natural. And, also, not everyone wants to. At one point in my life, I thought it would make me more "in touch" with my people if I did it, not realizing that through my actions and words, I can show it just as well...:yes:
 
While that may be good for some, it may not be good for all. Continuously braiding your hair can make the hairline recede and break off, as well as be more stress on the scalp than necessary. I definitely think it could work for some, but not all. I think what makes it difficult is that many women don't know a variety of ways to make that transition from chemically-treated hair to natural. And, also, not everyone wants to. At one point in my life, I thought it would make me more "in touch" with my people if I did it, not realizing that through my actions and words, I can show it just as well...:yes:

Well said! :)
 
While that may be good for some, it may not be good for all. Continuously braiding your hair can make the hairline recede and break off, as well as be more stress on the scalp than necessary. I definitely think it could work for some, but not all. I think what makes it difficult is that many women don't know a variety of ways to make that transition from chemically-treated hair to natural. And, also, not everyone wants to. At one point in my life, I thought it would make me more "in touch" with my people if I did it, not realizing that through my actions and words, I can show it just as well...:yes:


so u mean...plaiting my OWN hair in braids would also make my hairline recede? pFFFttt!! The only thing that makes ur hairline recede is when bitches try to get every single hair strand into the braid ..be it ur own hair or fake hair. Its not like u will have ur hair being replaited like..10 times.
I understand wat ur saying tho.
P.S when i say braids i dont only mean conrows i mean singles aswell. THe braids dont always have to be long u can have them short. Its less stress when u have them short.
 
so u mean...plaiting my OWN hair in braids would also make my hairline recede? pFFFttt!! The only thing that makes ur hairline recede is when bitches try to get every single hair strand into the braid ..be it ur own hair or fake hair. Its not like u will have ur hair being replaited like..10 times.
I understand wat ur saying tho.
P.S when i say braids i dont only mean conrows i mean singles aswell. THe braids dont always have to be long u can have them short. Its less stress when u have them short.

YES...just think about sisters who wear their hair in ponytails all the time, or even braid their hair back tightly (and, even not tightly)...that strains the hair in the front and can cause some severe breakage in the front. I have family members who this has happened to (who wear their hair natural), and had a girlfriend in high school who people used to call "bald eagle" cause she was losing the hair on the side of her head from constantly re-braiding it...

Overall, one should switch up their hair style, period. Not just braids all the time, even when you are transitioning from chemicals to a natural hairstyle. The hair follicles need to breathe and need rest. Your hair is probably more resilient than others hair in order to be able to take braiding. I know that my hair can take a relaxer and hair color, and still be full and thick...but, other women struggle with this.
 
the transition from straighten to natural aint hard. U make as hard as u want it to be. What i did was keep my hair in braids...afro kinky to be exact. Get it rebraided every couple of weeks... WHen my new growth got to a certain length...i got all the straighten ends cut off and voila..i have natural hair!! Went thru a few mags or even watched vids on youtube to get some ideas for a hair style and im good to go. There is no hard transition unless u got brilo growing out ur head :lol::lol::lol:

A woman with natural hair or locks is X2 more nice lookin that one with straighten hair in my opinion.


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You might as well leave it alone. Harlem's Angel thinks she clever. The more she runs her mouth the more obtuse she appears.
 
YES...just think about sisters who wear their hair in ponytails all the time, or even braid their hair back tightly (and, even not tightly)...that strains the hair in the front and can cause some severe breakage in the front. I have family members who this has happened to (who wear their hair natural), and had a girlfriend in high school who people used to call "bald eagle" cause she was losing the hair on the side of her head from constantly re-braiding it...

Overall, one should switch up their hair style, period. Not just braids all the time, even when you are transitioning from chemicals to a natural hairstyle. The hair follicles need to breathe and need rest. Your hair is probably more resilient than others hair in order to be able to take braiding. I know that my hair can take a relaxer and hair color, and still be full and thick...but, other women struggle with this.


but girl chile...i was only talkin about wat i did during my transition from straighten to natural hair. wdf.

U feel i would only have my hair in braids when i can undo it and rock an sweet afro for about 2 weeks ....when the front gets fuzzy i can flat twist it and leave the back open for another week...wash it and get it done and pinned up. Girl read hear..cuz u obviously aint following. No body should keep a hair style for too long and thats standard no need for u to be chanting the obvious.
 
but girl chile...i was only talkin about wat i did during my transition from straighten to natural hair. wdf.

U feel i would only have my hair in braids when i can undo it and rock an sweet afro for about 2 weeks ....when the front gets fuzzy i can flat twist it and leave the back open for another week...wash it and get it done and pinned up. Girl read hear..cuz u obviously aint following. No body should keep a hair style for too long and thats standard no need for u to be chanting the obvious.

You see I would try to tell you that what works for you does not work for all and its not just what you make it but you came in with an attitude so there really isn't a point to trying to exchange ideas now is there?:smh:
 
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