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BigDaddyBuk said:
i dont know, how about A TRAINED THERAPIST?

these mafuggaz HERE dont respect you, your wife or the sanctity of your marriage. asking for good advice on this topic here is like looking for a healthy meal under a pile of shit.





:lol:

you are the worst troll in the history of BGOL.

PLEASE step your game up.
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its just venting, aint nobody going to no therapist over this shit.
 
worldclass45 said:
:puzzled: xxL as much as it hurts to hear I think you mite be right
she's comfortable, she knows she got you.
you have a lazy wife that knows you ain't going no where
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You've probably been a good dude to her in those 23 years which is all good, but being good sometimes makes people take you for granted, I'm not married but my girl of 7 years said to me recently, "baby if there's anything u want me to do sexually, pls ask me, I don't want u cheating on me because u think I won't do it"

My girlfriend knows and sees chicks hitting on me, I'm just an average dude but I keep myself together.

Don't know how in shape you are, but the moment you start to workout have other chicks hitting on you at work/gym, trust me she would budge...but you can't fix 23 years in one day, you married a church girl?

If she's into you physically/mentally she would do anything, how many times have men met a girl that wouldn't do shit for their own man but let a cat bust in their face, swallow a nigga's baby etc. Just on the strength of feeling that dude.


How could she not wanna please her man in bed? It's time to start talking/fucking phat ass Tasha from next door, that's what women would do, if their men ain't pleasing, they would use that as a reason to fuck out...she just gave you the amber light bro.
 
$Money_XXL said:
You've probably been a good dude to her in those 23 years which is all good, but being good sometimes makes people take you for granted, I'm not married but my girl of 7 years said to me recently, "baby if there's anything u want me to do sexually, pls ask me, I don't want u cheating on me because u think I won't do it"

My girlfriend knows and sees chicks hitting on me, I'm just an average dude but I keep myself together.

Don't know how in shape you are, but the moment you start to workout have other chicks hitting on you at work/gym, trust me she would budge...but you can't fix 23 years in one day, you married a church girl?

If she's into you physically/mentally she would do anything, how many times have men met a girl that wouldn't do shit for their own man but let a cat bust in their face, swallow a nigga's baby etc. Just on the strength of feeling that dude.


How could she not wanna please her man in bed? It's time to start talking/fucking phat ass Tasha from next door, that's what women would do, if their men ain't pleasing, they would use that as a reason to fuck out...she just gave you the amber light bro.
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I don't fully agree with all of it but I full understand it.


*two cents*
 
8/11Streetz said:
well no..............marriage is about compromise and she aint holding up her part of the deal.............i say you get you a young lil freak on the side who will do all the shit she wont.


Better yet just stop having sex with your wife.
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Truth.com

Go to the gym and workout out constantly. When your wife acts up, stop fucking. Sooner or later she'll ask whats up. Dont glance her way while dressing, none of that shit. Then she'll bring up the famous "is there someone else", so hit her with the No, (even if there is) I'm just tired of asking for something I'm not getting.

Once that reality hits her, you'd be cashing them ass checks regularly. :dance:
 
BlackArsenic said:
Truth.com

Go to the gym and workout out constantly. When your wife acts up, stop fucking. Sooner or later she'll ask whats up. Dont glance her way while dressing, none of that shit. Then she'll bring up the famous "is there someone else", so hit her with the No, (even if there is) I'm just tired of asking for something I'm not getting.

Once that reality hits her, you'd be cashing them ass checks regularly. :dance:
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you guys are kids at heart. coming up with all these elaborate ways of getting some twang
 
BlackArsenic said:
Truth.com

Go to the gym and workout out constantly. When your wife acts up, stop fucking. Sooner or later she'll ask whats up. Dont glance her way while dressing, none of that shit. Then she'll bring up the famous "is there someone else", so hit her with the No, (even if there is) I'm just tired of asking for something I'm not getting.

Once that reality hits her, you'd be cashing them ass checks regularly. :dance:
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Although this might backfire, it is also some sound advice, and if you DON'T have a sidepiece, it allows you to divorce her ass if SHE slips up before you.
 
Jay-Vill said:
you guys are kids at heart. coming up with all these elaborate ways of getting some twang
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Whats childish? Its well know married couples have less sex than non married couples. Sometimes you gotta to what you gotta do to get what you want.
 
cooliojones said:
Although this might backfire, it is also some sound advice, and if you DON'T have a sidepiece, it allows you to divorce her ass if SHE slips up before you.
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It won't backfire, trust me. If she truly loves you then, she do what she can to maintain the relationship once she realizes that it about to hit a critical point. If she don't love you, she'll go with the flow and not initiate sex until she basically cheats. That's a win for you cause you can dead her weak ass and start over.

My man after 23 yrs, if she's not compromising, she never will. She's just at a point where sex is just a job to her and while she might not like fucking you, she does it because she feels she has to. That's explains the half ass effort she gives. Also consider woman are better cheaters than men. Not saying that she is cheating now, but maybe she did before and measures you up to that guy. Everything is all mental with women.

Fuck all that foreplay and treating a woman good to get the best sex, that only works with bitches who are uncertain about their status with you. Once they know, it is over for you unfortunately. They may give you what you want once, but that is more of a reminder/keep you at bay, cause you'll always be expecting it but never know when you'll get it. They know what they doing.
 
BlackArsenic said:
Whats childish? Its well know married couples have less sex than non married couples. Sometimes you gotta to what you gotta do to get what you want.
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Is working out, smothering yourself in baby oil is going to illicit asshole action with the reluctant wife? Thefes 2 solutions: the op has to by an anus flashlight or admit the bunghole isnt a deal breaker. You're proposing some old ass man go get his grove back.
 
Also I would say to step your game up OP. Honestly anytime I wasn't having sex in a relationship was because I said no for whatever reason. When you hit it right, girls ask for it ALL the time.

ESPECIALLY when they get older. My girl ain't into anal but said she'd do it if I wanted to. You just gotta get them (and keep them) wanting you like that. She just told me yesterday that I did some stuff to her that would be a deal-breaker if we ever broke up and the next dude DIDN'T want to do it.
 
CoochieMonster said:
1. Unacceptable
2. There should be nothing u don't try at least once with each other.
3. Why does it matter if she cums fast? She's not the one that has to get it back up. Sounds lazy or out of shape
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I don't know what makes men think that just because a woman is a woman she has to have her asshole violated. Does that mean it's open season on yours also? Of course it doesn't. Anyway nothing wrong with the other 2 don't see what the big deal is. Is she fat? Why would her thighs hurt from being on top if she's using her hips and back to move.
 
MissMighty said:
I don't know what makes men think that just because a woman is a woman she has to have her asshole violated. Does that mean it's open season on yours also? Of course it doesn't. Anyway nothing wrong with the other 2 don't see what the big deal is. Is she fat? Why would her thighs hurt from being on top if she's using her hips and back to move.
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You know she is
 


What if you woke up from surgery, incredibly groggy, and found out that the super-hot babe sitting next to you was your wife of six years? You'd probably feel like you hit the jackpot... just like this guy.
 
Esther said:
Anal sex is gross. I know a person who does that and they have hemorrhoids so bad that it had to be cut. If you want you wife to be wearing a diaper in a few years, go for it.
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You are a gay male so if you think anal sex is gross maybe you should switch sexual preferences.

My wife does everything I want her to do and I am pretty satisfied sexually. One thing she doesn't do anymore that I do miss is waking me up with some top but I am sure if I mention it she will hit me off here and there.
 
Upgrade Dave said:
:yes:

I'm pretty comfortable where we are sexually now(17 yrs in) but during times of duress when it was pretty obvious I had...outside interests, she would surprise me by opening up the playbook a little more. Then lose those chapters again when she had me all to herself.
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:lol: other interests, playbook, lose those chapters :lol:
 
Esther said:
Anal sex is gross. I know a person who does that and they have hemorrhoids so bad that it had to be cut. If you want you wife to be wearing a diaper in a few years, go for it.
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its not that she must give me anal sex
its not that I need anal sex.
its just something I thought of that would be different something done every once in a while
not every month or week :smh:
 
BGLR1212000 said:
its just venting, aint nobody going to no therapist over this shit.
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MissMighty said:
I don't know what makes men think that just because a woman is a woman she has to have her asshole violated.
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If my penis is going to belong to only one woman the least she could do is allow me to enter her in the other hole. At least give me the feeling like I'm fucking someone different(via the different hole lol). And let's not forget the basic idea here. Basically, we feel her asshole should be made available because there's always some other woman who is not only willing to try it but who LOVES it and asks for it. I've run across many woman who enjoy it. My current girlfriend does not love it but is at least willing to try it.

MissMighty said:
Does that mean it's open season on yours also? Of course it doesn't.
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I hate this argument...As a heterosexual male nothing enters into the inside of my body during intercourse. As a hetero woman, a penis enters you during intercourse. So why would the whole dynamic of heterosexual intercourse change?
 
Give me head every day

I get it every week but dammit I want head every day before I go to sleep

Yeah it's unreasonable but got dammit I don't care :hmm::lol:
 

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