Thirsty G League Player In His Feelings After Getting Rejected On Twitter

[Camille]

I see what you mean. But you overlooked what I said about false game and applied it to strictly dating situations. You can get your throat slit anywhere. You can get harmed anywhere. Your life is in danger anywhere man or woman. To limit your safety only to a man asking your for your number is extremely naive and like I said A FALSE GAME. Think I'm lying? Look at all these mass shootings. You're never really safe regardless. You should be cautious but you should still live your life.

And I agree it's a two way street she should be held accountable for exposing the text message when he didn't say any crazy shit at first, he was just persistent. She should just stop exposing ninja when he did that video (which he shouldn't have done himself). It's just escalating and putting her in a vulnerable situation if they ever bump into each other. Like I said in my previous it's a petty society. You think Rhianna tweeted that Chris Rock tried to holla at her? No! Chris brought it up as a joke. Most petty chicks will screenprint and expose him at a drop of the dime when they have no reason to. I never comprehend the point of exposing stuff like that. If it's a vulgar text it's not a good look on the man and not a good look on the woman. If it's not vulgar the woman will still expose the chat. But people reward women doing that which is immature, obnoxious, disrespectful and tasteless *when the texts wasn't vulgar*

Who said anything about limiting safety to ONLY when a man asks for your number? We have just been talking about initial contact in their case, and first impressions, not an exhaustive list of how and when to protect yourself. I agree you can't worry about everything, but it's foolish not to minimize risk where you can. For women, the initial contact can be deadly. Even seemingly calm folks can snap.

There is always a power and strength dynamic women have to consider that men just don't have to deal with. We can't just say no, we have to calulate your possible reaction also. If you have a persistent woman after you, at the most she is a nuisance. For women, persistence can easily take on a menacing edge and become a threat to us. Men like him are a huge red flag. You can be persistent without being obnoxious. He was an ass. He showed his temper (and insecurity) the first chance he got.

Normally it is expected someone will be on their best behavior when you first meet. He didn't try to build any rapport with her at all. The first day he didn't get a response, the next day he was on the attack - bright and early- and had insults. What if she had lost her phone, had to study, had a family death or emergency? If he is acting like that now, he'd be slapping her around once he got really comfortable.

I'm not justifying her putting their business out on social media, but I can't see how any woman wouldn't be wary of him.


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[Camille]

Dammit @Camille, you ruined my image of you!

Its ok, women always exaggerate about weight, so fat just means a few extra pounds size 11 or 12, and flat ass just means wider is better.


Ok... situation rectified

I've been telling y'all this for years. It's not my fault y'all like to live in denial.

 

[ScottyPiffen745]

I don’t understand how 6’9, Six figure person even has time to argue...he should constantly pulling and be on some Derek Jeter shit..”last night was great, here are a couple of Waffle House gift cards. Don’t let the door hit cha where the good Lord split ya, loose my number, etc etc”

Hell if you are 6 feet making 60k in the A you can fuck until your balls cramp....my boy just did a bid, and he moved to the A...he is frustrated because he can’t get his life where he wants it to be because he is fucking too much and it’s all from females getting at him

Lack of game is a disability.

Like he was mentally incapable of processing the idea that this chick wasn't interested in him, even after sending 6-7 unanswered text messages.

 

[dHustla]

Y'all aren't women. If you turn someone down, chances are nothing physical can happen to you. Women are out here getting their throats slit for turning men down. Safety is a concern in every interaction we have. Don't take my word for it, ask the women in your lives.

As a cop, you should know this is his behavior after getting the number. You don't think he wasn't as persistent before then? When saying no or walking away could have resulted in a violent outburst or worse?

Menfolk don't take subtle cues. Y'all think a woman is being coy and playing hard to get. Smiling and walking quickly doesn't work. (She smiled, I got her now.) Saying you have a man doesn't work. (He can't be taking good care of you because I don't see a ring on your finger./He let you out alone. If you were my woman, you'd never leave my sight. - like that is supposed to be incentive./I don't believe you. Call him.- Yes this actually happened to me./ Also while on the phone and telling him it was my man, talking mad shit about how I deserve better. And I'm a fat chick with a flat ass. You don't think drop dead gorgeous women get it worse?) A direct "no" doesn't work either with his type. That is just a cue women want him to try harder and show her how interested he is truly.

Rejection also isn't new to him. He was too comfortable making that video to tell her SHE messed up. He just doesn't understand why he doesn't get results when he owns xyz. He didn't say she was missing out because he was a good man or because of any personal traits. He told her she was missing out because he had money. I'm sorry but some things money can't overcome.

I don't think her behavior was any better, if she didn't want to be bothered, she shouldn't have responded period, imo. He will remember her and might see her around town again, which, if he finds out she put his texts on social media, could be worse now. But don't act like men respect "no" to begin with. Do you actually think he was any more smooth and polished in person than he was in the video she posted? He got snippy with her immediately. I know some of ya'll believe she deleted texts but, at least for the first image, it doesn't support that. He says she hasn't responded, and I think he said that in the video, too.

I agree it is our fault to some degree. Y'all think y'alls over aggressiveness is simply persistence and welcomed because it worked, when it only worked because a woman was scared or you were becoming a nuisance and it was the fastest way to move on and get to where she is going without being followed, yelled at, or assaulted . Chicken, egg.

I feel you, sis. You're right, and you shouldn't ever have to fear for your safety over no shit like that.

Make sure you surround yourself with solid people, men & women, and those kind of interactions will come to a halt

 

[Capo]

A couple of weeks ago, my friend was telling me about some of her experiences with men approaching her. She has had to actually run from dudes more than once. I had never thought about it that deep, but women live dangerously just going to the mall. I couldn't imagine having to run from someone as an adult, but women need to think about stuff like that and carrying defensive sprays. A crazy woman is usually nothing more than a headache, but a crazy man is almost always physically dangerous. Its fucked up.

 

[Mt Airy Groove]

Insecurity is a bitch. Dude claims to have a degree and making 6-figures yet he's sweating a young jawn. Insecure
I would look at it like she's doing me a favor...and I'm only a 5-figure nikka that drives a Ford

 

[4 Dimensional]

Y'all aren't women. If you turn someone down, chances are nothing physical can happen to you. Women are out here getting their throats slit for turning men down. Safety is a concern in every interaction we have. Don't take my word for it, ask the women in your lives.

As a cop, you should know this is his behavior after getting the number. You don't think he wasn't as persistent before then? When saying no or walking away could have resulted in a violent outburst or worse?

Menfolk don't take subtle cues. Y'all think a woman is being coy and playing hard to get. Smiling and walking quickly doesn't work. (She smiled, I got her now.) Saying you have a man doesn't work. (He can't be taking good care of you because I don't see a ring on your finger./He let you out alone. If you were my woman, you'd never leave my sight. - like that is supposed to be incentive./I don't believe you. Call him.- Yes this actually happened to me./ Also while on the phone and telling him it was my man, talking mad shit about how I deserve better. And I'm a fat chick with a flat ass. You don't think drop dead gorgeous women get it worse?) A direct "no" doesn't work either with his type. That is just a cue women want him to try harder and show her how interested he is truly.

Rejection also isn't new to him. He was too comfortable making that video to tell her SHE messed up. He just doesn't understand why he doesn't get results when he owns xyz. He didn't say she was missing out because he was a good man or because of any personal traits. He told her she was missing out because he had money. I'm sorry but some things money can't overcome.

I don't think her behavior was any better, if she didn't want to be bothered, she shouldn't have responded period, imo. He will remember her and might see her around town again, which, if he finds out she put his texts on social media, could be worse now. But don't act like men respect "no" to begin with. Do you actually think he was any more smooth and polished in person than he was in the video she posted? He got snippy with her immediately. I know some of ya'll believe she deleted texts but, at least for the first image, it doesn't support that. He says she hasn't responded, and I think he said that in the video, too.

I agree it is our fault to some degree. Y'all think y'alls over aggressiveness is simply persistence and welcomed because it worked, when it only worked because a woman was scared or you were becoming a nuisance and it was the fastest way to move on and get to where she is going without being followed, yelled at, or assaulted . Chicken, egg.

Damnnn I know dudes that have done/acted like every example you posted. I’m always think to myself “damn dude it’s not that serious”, they be straight stalking these women trying to make them talk to them and then get mad when she doesn’t talk to them

I've had to put some of own homies in check in the past because of their overaggressive tendencies.

Hearing some of the stories my wife tells me when she goes out is crazy. If she was to shoot every male idiot that don't catch on to clues of being turned down or caught in their feelings because they were rejected, there would be A LOT of dead dudes in the world.

 

[4 Dimensional]

A couple of weeks ago, my friend was telling me about some of her experiences with men approaching her. She has had to actually run from dudes more than once. I had never thought about it that deep, but women live dangerously just going to the mall. I couldn't imagine having to run from someone as an adult, but women need to think about stuff like that and carrying defensive sprays. A crazy woman is usually nothing more than a headache, but a crazy man is almost always physically dangerous. Its fucked up.

My wife and daughter are taking Muay Thai classes now because these issues. I obviously can't be around all the time, so they need to feel confident and protected.

 

[spider705]

There's so much WRONG here that my head hurts...

When he asked her out to lunch, she responded quickly. If she was this scared and disinterested in him, why even respond? So if he were closer to Penn State, she'd have met him for lunch? As the other guy said, she had her OUT, she should have taken it. But instead it comes off as "well I don't like him, and he's already displayed stalker-ish behavior, but I'll overlook all of that for free lunch at a nice restaurant." I bet she'd have went to lunch, took pictures of her food, cropped him out of the pics and posted the shit with all kinds of hashtags on IG, Twitter, FB and Snapchat.

As for women not giving out their number or just saying no, that's not an option. Like Camille said some niggas just ain't taking NO for an answer. Last year my homegirl was shot for not giving a dude her number. He pulled up on her at the bus stop in Sunnyside, she said no to his advances, he drove off, doubled back and let off 3 shots at her. One hit her thigh, one hit her waist area and the other missed.

And this dude

I just don't know where to begin with him. He probably always say he can't find a chic because they all want what he got, but then he use what he got to get the bitch in the first place. Type a nigga will send message after message after MESSAGE without a single response? Where is your pride? If I send a chic a few messages with no response, I'll assume she is not interested and delete her number. On to the next one. There's too many women out there to be sick over one that ignored your advances.

This nigga is a bitch to the nth degree.

 

[Adam Knows]

looks more like she fed the beast so she had a story to tell for trends/likes

 

[4 Dimensional]

As for women not giving out their number or just saying no, that's not an option. Like Camille said some niggas just ain't taking NO for an answer. Last year my homegirl was shot for not giving a dude her number. He pulled up on her at the bus stop in Sunnyside, she said no to his advances, he drove off, doubled back and let off 3 shots at her. One hit her thigh, one hit her waist area and the other missed.

Man, what in the entire fuck?!

What's wrong with the dudes? Where is this complex coming from?

 

[spider705]

Man, what in the entire fuck?!

What's wrong with the dudes? Where is this complex coming from?

Mmmaaaaannn that shit had me tripping when she told me about it and sent me the pictures. I couldn't believe he was that weak to go to that extreme because of a damn phone number.

And I have known this chic personally for a while. I know she was as sweet as could possibly be in rejecting his advances because that's just how she is. Still, buddy got so in his feelings that he drove off, made a U-TURN, came back by and started bussin'...

 

[pookie]

I don’t understand how 6’9, Six figure person even has time to argue...he should constantly pulling and be on some Derek Jeter shit..”last night was great, here are a couple of Waffle House gift cards. Don’t let the door hit cha where the good Lord split ya, loose my number, etc etc”

Hell if you are 6 feet making 60k in the A you can fuck until your balls cramp....my boy just did a bid, and he moved to the A...he is frustrated because he can’t get his life where he wants it to be because he is fucking too much and it’s all from females getting at him

Who said anything about limiting safety to ONLY when a man asks for your number? We have just been talking about initial contact in their case, and first impressions, not an exhaustive list of how and when to protect yourself. I agree you can't worry about everything, but it's foolish not to minimize risk where you can. For women, the initial contact can be deadly. Even seemingly calm folks can snap.

There is always a power and strength dynamic women have to consider that men just don't have to deal with. We can't just say no, we have to calulate your possible reaction also. If you have a persistent woman after you, at the most she is a nuisance. For women, persistence can easily take on a menacing edge and become a threat to us. Men like him are a huge red flag. You can be persistent without being obnoxious. He was an ass. He showed his temper (and insecurity) the first chance he got.

Normally it is expected someone will be on their best behavior when you first meet. He didn't try to build any rapport with her at all. The first day he didn't get a response, the next day he was on the attack - bright and early- and had insults. What if she had lost her phone, had to study, had a family death or emergency? If he is acting like that now, he'd be slapping her around once he got really comfortable.

I'm not justifying her putting their business out on social media, but I can't see how any woman wouldn't be wary of him.


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A couple of weeks ago, my friend was telling me about some of her experiences with men approaching her. She has had to actually run from dudes more than once. I had never thought about it that deep, but women live dangerously just going to the mall. I couldn't imagine having to run from someone as an adult, but women need to think about stuff like that and carrying defensive sprays. A crazy woman is usually nothing more than a headache, but a crazy man is almost always physically dangerous. Its fucked up.

I've had to put some of own homies in check in the past because of their overaggressive tendencies.

Hearing some of the stories my wife tells me when she goes out is crazy. If she was to shoot every male idiot that don't catch on to clues of being turned down or caught in their feelings because they were rejected, there would be A LOT of dead dudes in the world.

There have been hundreds of cases of men violently attacking women because their advances were rejected by them. Some of these dudes got that BGOL super player/pimp mentality and when the chick shoots them down they can’t handle it. like I’ve said before I’ve seen dudes straight stalk chicks and then get mad and start calling them names when she rejects them. I was at a gas station one night and the dude in front me was trying to talk to the cashier, he started with the compliments and she’d smile and say thank you. When he started asking for her number she just smiled and told him she doesn’t give her number out, when he kept asking she finally told him that she had a boyfriend and doesn’t cheat, all of a sudden dude just snaps and starts telling her she must be a lesbian and eat pussy. Dude was just mad that quick and just threw the money at the woman. The fucked up thing is dude ALREADY HAD A GIRL IN THE CAR WITH HIM!!!!

 

[Hey Julian!]

An SS is 45k....Hahahaha

SIX FIGGA NIGGA!
He said SS proud as hell too.

 

[4 Dimensional]

There have been hundreds of cases of men violently attacking women because their advances were rejected by them. Some of these dudes got that BGOL super player/pimp mentality and when the chick shoots them down they can’t handle it. like I’ve said before I’ve seen dudes straight stalk chicks and then get mad and start calling them names when she rejects them. I was at a gas station one night and the dude in front me was trying to talk to the cashier, he started with the compliments and she’d smile and say thank you. When he started asking for her number she just smiled and told him she doesn’t give her number out, when he kept asking she finally told him that she had a boyfriend and doesn’t cheat, all of a sudden dude just snaps and starts telling her she must be a lesbian and eat pussy. Dude was just mad that quick and just threw the money at the woman. The fucked up thing is dude ALREADY HAD A GIRL IN THE CAR WITH HIM!!!!

That's fucked up

 

[actinanass]

In all fairness, you’re a black republican. You have a lot of practice taking L’s.

Original

 

[tallblacknyc]

My wife and daughter are taking Muay Thai classes now because these issues. I obviously can't be around all the time, so they need to feel confident and protected.

Been got my sis and mom pepper spray and a tazer... Some nigs be crazy so you got to prepare the females in your life proper self defense

 

[Camille]

This made me think of this thread. I don't know if it is staged or not, but a friendly reminder, that just because you like someone, doesn't mean they are required to like you back or accept your advances. Future BGOL member...

 

[Sir_Fuzzy_McWaffle_Feet]

Only issue i have is us guys dont put thirsty ratchet thots on blast the same way

 

[Mrfreddygoodbud]

This made me think of this thread. I don't know if it is staged or not, but a friendly reminder, that just because you like someone, doesn't mean they are required to like you back or accept your advances. Future BGOL member...

I hope she was joking they would make

A cute couple. ..

But you right sometimes if a chick ain't feeling you she aint feeling you.

Looks like she may have curved him to

Friend zone island.

 

[Darrkman]

Social media got a lot of people fucked up in the head. All they see if what they want you to see and when that can't live up to that in their heads thry get mad.

The most you should text a woman you just met is three times.....that's it. The third text should be "Hey if you want to hang let me know" and just leave it at that. Dudes are way too thirsty.