The pickiest Blackplanet girl of all time

[c_commander]

There's nothing wrong to have standards but when i went to her page it seems she took a big ass u-turn as i read further down...Not once did this bitch mention what she could do aside from what she's done. To top it all off its kinda funny how she's looking for the ideal mate but her friends list is riddle with hood nigga, what a fucking oxymoron.

Those things as well as what her issues are with other groups of people. Maybe she should realize that she's single because she is way too busy finding fault in everyone else. She's got this huge list of requirements and does not mention what makes her a person that deserves those things.

 

[Louis Koo]

I love these kinda things. She is yet another woman who doesn't quite get it. I'm glad she has a list of things she likes. That's seriously whats up. I dont think anything is wrong with that. The issue I have is, what the fuck does she bring to the table? I'm happy she brings a degree and two possibles, but that's the thing SHE'S attracted to. What does she bring to the table that would attract the man she wants. Does she cook? Clean? Shut the fuck up while the game is on? She's probably sitting back thinking all her "qualifications" intimidate men, when the truth of the matter is, she brings nothing to the table besides paperwork, or at least that's what it would seem according to her page.

what u mean paperwork?

 

[LeroyDibiase]

There's nothing wrong with her having standards. The only bad thing IMO is that she wrote it out and publicized it. Like the dude said earlier, it's just not natural.

Does that even exist?

Yes it does my friend. I know some top notch broads with JDs and pHds.

anyone who has put that much time documenting their desired attributes in a mate has spent ZERO time developing their OWN attributes.

Exactly. I didnt see what she brought to the table.

There's nothing wrong to have standards but when i went to her page it seems she took a big ass u-turn as i read further down...Not once did this bitch mention what she could do aside from what she's done. To top it all off its kinda funny how she's looking for the ideal mate but her friends list is riddle with hood nigga, what a fucking oxymoron.

Yep. Her friends list is full of seemingly (and I hate to assume) niggas that don't fit her standards. She prolly getting dug out by random niggas and then if she ever comes across dude, he ain't gonna want her cause she used up.

 

[bootlegga]

nothing wrong with the list...

seems like she looking for a little perfection...


good luck to her on that

 

[Louis Koo]

"I'm a college graduate (Rutgers University-College of Arts & Sciences. I posses a BA in English & Psychology and currently, I'm in graduate school, pursuing my Master's of Arts Degree in Adult & Continuing Education. After I've completed my program of study, I will be applying to school again to pursue another Master's Degree in School & Community Counseling."

apparently this bitch never heard of opportunity costs

 

[oolong tea]

No doubt, but again, she doesn't show what she actually brings to the table besides a degree. She can state her likes and dislikes all day. I don't know a single man who is going to look at that and say, "I fit exactly what she needs" and emails her without finding out what she brings to the table.

Oh no doubt. Hooking up with her means you definitely will be footing part of her tuition fees before she ever divorces you! Then you ass will be devastated, trying to restore yourself at your mom's basement!

"I'm a college graduate (Rutgers University-College of Arts & Sciences. I posses a BA in English & Psychology and currently, I'm in graduate school, pursuing my Master's of Arts Degree in Adult & Continuing Education. After I've completed my program of study, I will be applying to school again to pursue another Master's Degree in School & Community Counseling."
apparently this bitch never heard of opportunity costs

Now how much money will this degree bring to the table? Maybe a project chick is cheaper?

 

[bootlegga]

what u mean paperwork?

is there anything on her page that suggests that she's a cool chick? (other than "I like to laugh")


reading that..based off of that, would you submit to her standards to see what she's about?

all her standards are fine...but can't all that be disclosed as she gets to know a dude (doesn't need to be blatent about it)

 

[H.E.A.T.]

all three of my last females had high ass standards n all three of them hoes AINT SHIT n cant figure out why they only get my voice mail when they call. Women fuckin kill me setttin standards that they don't even meet themselves. The number one standard I hear is "I want a man that isn't a liar. The worst thing you can do is lie to me." Every woman I ever heard say that shit was a habitual liar herself. Get the fuck out my face wit that shit. Thats why I aint tryin to be in no relationships. I jus wanna pound them pussy walls n be on my way.

 

[oolong tea]

Shit. I'ma haveta start a Black Planet Bougie Broad Contest. See if I can find a better sidditty chick than her.

 

[J Storm]

I am a Christian and am in the process of looking for a Christ filled, Bible based, teaching church fellowship. I have been saved since 8th grade, but like many Christians, I back slid & stepped away from God. I'm no where near perfect and now I'm in the process of coming back and doing the right things. I want to be like Jesus, and do things that I know God will be pleased with and proud of me for.

ain't that what they all say?

 

[Bayareabully]

All that shit doesnt even matter....she's single. That says the most.

 

[Makkonnen]

i wouldnt let that bitch give me a handjob

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=401546

shit, my list was half of hers....



There nothing wrong with her list...Keep dating until you find what you're looking for I guess...

 

[brohammus]

cp was in my ear like.... I KNOW you aint even thinkin of....

 

[finessse]

high standards

yet the bitch is seeking on black planet.

boy i swear

shes got champagne tastes on a beer budget. shes average.

Now after that big ass shopping list.of bull shit what does shit have to offer and bring to the table​

No doubt, but again, she doesn't show what she actually brings to the table besides a degree. She can state her likes and dislikes all day. I don't know a single man who is going to look at that and say, "I fit exactly what she needs" and emails her without finding out what she brings to the table.

cooooooooooosign

 

[nukdollars]

Great to see sisters with standards, but her "Blue book" value ain't very high.

high standards

yet the bitch is seeking on black planet.

boy i swear

Haven't been to her page but i bet she doesn't know how to keep this man that doesn't exist and she doesn't even advertise her good attributes that would make this guy want to talk to her.

Funny thing is, when a Man list all of his requirements he gets labeled as "Superficial"

This Delusional Broad Actually Expects Some Guy to Meet Every One of her "Standards" but the Joke is If she was to Actually Find This Guy......HE WOULD NOT WANT HER!!!!!

C/S

You can tell she bat shit crazy, she don't realize niggas walking the other way looking for the next chic

thats how it usually works

then they instantly say oh he must be gay

vanity

Or she'll throw herself at him and be his whore then get mad when he won't committ.

I started reading some of her list but stopped half way. I didn't see anything wrong with her list. I just think listing requirements in a mate in general is just a turn off.

Especially when your 30+

CO-SIGN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[TurellSmith]

Man fuck this bitch. Niggas on here will still be cupcaking and brown nosing this bitch. Fuck this ho. This lack luster bitch getting all this unwarranted attention.

 

[BigATLslim]

It's pretty on point. She got very detailed so it seems like a lot. At the end of the day have you heeded home training and are you well adjusted socially? If so, you can have a "stab" at her.

 

[8/11Streetz]

Really don't see the problem she is a sister that knows what she wants. Now if she find it that's a different story. My only problem is she looking for that on fucking BP. Also i would like to know what she is bring to the table.




GOOD luck sister hell i hope she find what she looking for

 

[joneblaze]

Instead or writing all of that baloney she should add more pics to her page

 

[NorthsideOKC]

The problem w/ list like these is that it doesn't guarantee that there will be a connection there. Even if she's able to find a man, it doesn't guarantee a connection, which is very important. A connection isn't easy to find period. With a list like that, her finding one is very unlikely. I hope she's mentally prepared to possibly be alone for the rest of her life.

 

[HALO2]

single with no children...... impossible

 

[Lurkutus]

Originally Posted by D-TOWN REP
for real

all those internet sites are worthless now

that shit was on and poppin a couple years back

full of delusional bitches like this now

Yeah just like Kappa Beach or Black beach back in the days. It was poppin with down ass bitches that wanted to get freaky and would do anything. Then the delusional bitches invaded. Went a couple of times after the glory years and the delusional bitches were like, " I aint showing you my tits", or you guys need to respect me and why you touch my ass", I was like bitch this is Kappa Beach take yo ass home. Now usually I don't disrespect a girl but come on girls and guys no what Black Beach is. If you a sedity bitch or want to be respected then don't bring your ass down there.

 

[Better]

that's cause your biz is online, though. you're probably on the net most of the day...

You damned skippy. Nothing like getting paid in pajama pants and a wife-beater.

Now how much money will this degree bring to the table? Maybe a project chick is cheaper?

That's what I thought to myself. I'm not hating on her standards, because my standards are a lot higher than hers, but what she is bringing to the table is lacking in luster relative to what she wants.

 

[Damn Right]

which portions do you feel are waaaaay out??

the ones were she doesn't explain what SHE has to offer before requesting all that sheit.

2 many women want million dollar men when their azzes only retail for $39.95

 

[Sampson]

This is the kind of individual who doesn't go outside, explore, socialize and understand that you'll never find someone who meets such a demanding (but realistic) criteria. I mean, for the most part, it is reasonable... but I like imperfection in women that can be worked upon. Isn't that what relationships about? Improving each other? Why would you go into a relationship thinking that you're perfect and that there's no room for improvement? WTF?

 

[305slugga]

the moment the word "swag" comes out a woman's mouth i know she's still a child inside and not to be taken seriously.

C/S.....I hear that shyt from the high school students I work with and expect that, but when a grown ass woman say that shyt I'm turned off immediately.

anyone who has put that much time documenting their desired attributes in a mate has spent ZERO time developing their OWN attributes.

Couldn't have said it any better

The men she described sounds like all my leftovers...she must have a fucked up social circle. Anyways...this girl is crazy, its not about her looks but her own standards of living. She is looking for a come up on BP of all places...I thought BP played out in the early 2000s.

Glad to hear a females response to this. Have an extensive list like this is nothing but a set up for failure.

"I'm a college graduate (Rutgers University-College of Arts & Sciences. I posses a BA in English & Psychology and currently, I'm in graduate school, pursuing my Master's of Arts Degree in Adult & Continuing Education. After I've completed my program of study, I will be applying to school again to pursue another Master's Degree in School & Community Counseling."

apparently this bitch never heard of opportunity costs

Naw she is what you would call a professional student.....one of them folks who don't want to work so they just continue going to school and living off refund checks but eventually be drowned in 100k+ in students loans they will never repay but expect a man to help them out.



Anytime I hear a female say she likes to be spoiled then I give her the dueces. I say this cause many females these days equate being spoiled to receiving material possessions or having a nigga pay their bills and the only thing they can bring to the table is their pussy most of the time.

 

[Bridgep0rt]

Or she'll throw herself at him and be his whore then get mad when he won't committ.

Typical shit

 

[freshnclean]

The problem w/ list like these is that it doesn't guarantee that there will be a connection there. Even if she's able to find a man, it doesn't guarantee a connection, which is very important. A connection isn't easy to find period. With a list like that, her finding one is very unlikely. I hope she's mentally prepared to possibly be alone for the rest of her life.

Exactly, the dude may have all of the qualifications, but he may not feel the connection to her. Funny thing is, I turned girls like that down because I felt more connected to women with half of her accomplishments. That's something woman like that will never understand. Getting a degree, staying fit, and getting a high power job doesn't automatically make you desirable. Its all about you as a person, not the worldly things...

Yeah just like Kappa Beach or Black beach back in the days. It was poppin with down ass bitches that wanted to get freaky and would do anything. Then the delusional bitches invaded. Went a couple of times after the glory years and the delusional bitches were like, " I aint showing you my tits", or you guys need to respect me and why you touch my ass", I was like bitch this is Kappa Beach take yo ass home. Now usually I don't disrespect a girl but come on girls and guys no what Black Beach is. If you a sedity bitch or want to be respected then don't bring your ass down there.

Nah, dont get it twisted, them "stuck up" broads wanna be disrespected too, it just takes the right dude and the right game. I had some of most conservative broads you would ever meet in your life freaking out. Back in the day it was like anybody could squeeze the titties, now they more selective, but they still wanna be smutted out. Still in all the stuck up broads are wack as hell, cause the events are to have fun

Naw she is what you would call a professional student.....one of them folks who don't want to work so they just continue going to school and living off refund checks but eventually be drowned in 100k+ in students loans they will never repay but expect a man to help them out.

C/S...The type to use the "I'm in school" excuse till the day she dies, because she fears actually using her degree

 

[Dark19]

"Like many Christians, I back slid & stepped away from God. I'm no where near perfect"......Translation: Im A Recovering Ho and I Have Used Up My Best Years Fucking All the Thugs in Town Yet Now Im 30+ and Expect All the Good Black Men I Wouldn't Give the Time of Day Because They Were "Too Nice" or "Didn't Have No Swag" to Now Come Running So I can Have Some Financial Security

 

[African Herbsman]

Sounds like me but I don't fuck with chicks with weave.

 

[wutdadeal3]

Don't see much wrong with it.

Then you've missed everything.

1) this type of man (black man) would constantly be on the attack (legally wise) so that he has some kind of record....even if it was a crazy ass ex-girlfriend who wanted to make him look bad so no other girl would want him (because she know she fucked up by letting him go).

2) most of those qualities she's looking for states that if the guy have all those qualities...he has no time for her. Between a high powered job that most of the time requires high power time, spending time in his community, and spending time with his other interest...leaves him time to sleep...and later plan for a vacation.

3) referring to #2...it sounds good for now but the moment she gets that, she's going to start to complain that he doesn't spend enough time with her...which is why this list is not realistic. And any female that doesn't see that hasn't fully experienced life nor matured yet.

4) she's on blackplanet looking for this type of dude. This type of dude don't have time to be on social websites. Time is money, so he most likely will be in environments that he could mix and mingle with money (Social parties thrown by corporation or exects., dinner parties, conventions, etc...).

5) the most important point "What does she have to offer?" and "Can she handle/maintain a relationship with someone like that?"


I've been there, and trust me, females talk a good game but when that's presented they act a damn fool. They can never fess-up to why or how they fucked up. Females put the blame on everyone else but themselves, and they have excuses for everything like society don't give them enough excuses to use. When they do something wrong it's always the man's fault...then boo hoo and cry about it to their friends (about the guy they fucked up on).


Women one the other hand are the most appealing, attractive, and realistic creatures of the face of the earth. I love women all day.

She's going to have to soften up on that list if she really wants a man. Besides, things happen in life. Men get with fucked up females like women get with fucked up males...and things happen. If a child is the result of it, it shouldn't be held against either party. She was better off saying no baby mama drama instead no kids. Every female I knew that said that...wound up getting with a dude, got pregnant, things didn't work out, and got pissed when the new guys were saying they didn't want her because she has a child/children already. That's when females start to look at that incredible list and say "Damn, I was young when I made this."


I not taking shots at you, just trying to help you understand what us guys are saying. Besides, I have a beautiful daughter (not biologically, she adopted me as Daddy when her dead beat father abandoned her because her mother wouldn't have sex with him anymore (he cheated on her and started another family with some other chick))....and I love her dearly. And I dare any female to pop that "He must not have kids" bullshit with me.

 

[Poobs]

This Delusional Broad Actually Expects Some Guy to Meet Every One of her "Standards" but the Joke is If she was to Actually Find This Guy......HE WOULD NOT WANT HER!!!!!

yup!

 

[Ultrak789]

I'm just trying to figure out what people mean when they say this woman is delusional. There's really no problem with the list as I look at it... Maybe people are mad because they don't measure up? Or is it that you don't believe any black man can measure up?

At any rate, nothing wrong with standards. I guess it comes down to whether you and your partner (or dream partner, as it were) are equally yoked, which really has little or nothing to do with how she looks. That's subjective. Also the value of what she brings to the table is subjective: One man's reject is another man's queen.
I have to admit it kinda looks like the issue may be a little bit of fear about not measuring up... Why should anyone be insulted/angry that she has standards? Maybe not the best idea to post them on Black Planet or anywhere for that matter, but if you're not interested, why get mad at it and go out of your way to poke holes in her game? Wish her luck and move on.

 

[thetruthhasspoken]

I agree. As soon as I hear a chick read out her resume: I got my own house, car, masters degree etc... It makes my skin crawl.

co sign...Im the same way...I dont give a shit bout your material stuff..If personality sucks then that shit dont matter..thats the difference with men...women care only bout that material shit men care bout what type of character u got.. and ladies if its all bout your car, house, degree then why are a good portion of them still by themselves....real shit think about it