The comments are outrageous. We are truly doomed.
You honestly think the blame here solely rests on black men...?We're doomed yes. But we didn't have to be. Us black men could have nipped this in the bud.
Somewhere along the line it was decided that we'd accept a matriarchy, drive the price of companionship for our BW through the roof, not have any semblance of our own political beliefs, and fight eachother for no actual reason,
so we could be individuals instead of an actual community.
You honestly think the blame here solely rests on black men...?
You honestly think the blame here solely rests on black men...?
We let women be and do anything they wanted...
Wanna be a cow go for it
Wanna have 9 kids go for it
Wanna go to college 6 yrs just yo get married and raise kids, do u boo
Now all of a sudden men are to blame
Their plan to compete and prove they can do man stuff back fired. Its just like a woman, when your plan doesn't work blame someone else.
I get the point they're making, but with no safety goggles, and only one of them wearing a hard hat, they may have just been exaggerating for social media.
I'm still lost at the "we" part. How could anyone come to the conclusion that it is solely black men's fault for women's choices. You mean to tell me that society, social media, capitalism, are all absolved of any blame here all because the black man let black women "do what they want to do"???We let women be and do anything they wanted...
Wanna be a cow go for it
Wanna have 9 kids go for it
Wanna go to college 6 yrs just yo get married and raise kids, do u boo
Now all of a sudden men are to blame
Their plan to compete and prove they can do man stuff back fired. Its just like a woman, when your plan doesn't work blame someone else.
The question in my prior response applies to you as well since @Fright Night response was so well put.Yes, we could have stopped this. Instead we joined in on it
I don't get what difference an exaggeration makes here even if that were the case. Instead of simply agreeing that they wouldn't want to do this job if given a choice, their response is that men can't have babies, as if we would choose to if given a choice or are the ones trying to claim that we are all equal across the board. We just aren't...I get the point they're making, but with no safety goggles, and only one of them wearing a hard hat, they may have just been exaggerating for social media.
I'm still lost at the "we" part. How could anyone come to the conclusion that it is solely black men's fault for women's choices. You mean to tell me that society, social media, capitalism, are all absolved of any blame here all because the black man let black women "do what they want to do"???
Sounds like an absurdity to me. Hypothetically speaking, and considering you subscribe to that notion, how would you (assuming you're a black man) have prevented your black woman from doing any of these things you mentioned?
Would you beat her? Leave her? Whatever your reason, please explain how you would solely be at fault for the decisions that she made that you clearly had no control over?
I'll wait...
I agree with everything stated here!By supporting them, being their friend, fucking them.
Men hate weave but if a chic walked in with a super stoopid lookin hair hat we would still do the things I mentioned.
If we completely shun and treat them like roaches weaves would go completely away in about 6 months.
As a man your presence and attention have value. No need to hit or yell just leave her alone.
I taught my son if a chic get on your nerves more than twice to put her ass back on the shelf and find another one.
Men/we are the prize
Did I answer the question
I don't get why difference an exaggeration makes here even if that were the case. Instead of simply agreeing that they wouldn't want to do this job if given a choice, their response is that men can't have babies, as if we would choose to if given a choice or are the ones trying to claim that we are all equal across the board. We just aren't...
By supporting them, being their friend, fucking them.
Men hate weave but if a chic walked in with a super stoopid lookin hair hat we would still do the things I mentioned.
If we completely shun and treat them like roaches weaves would go completely away in about 6 months.
As a man your presence and attention have value. No need to hit or yell just leave her alone.
I taught my son if a chic get on your nerves more than twice to put her ass back on the shelf and find another one.
Men/we are the prize
Did I answer the question
Or stop using IG and social media altogether.100 percent co-sign…the biggest one that we need to fall back on is IG stop following women that don’t follow you back…Nothing wrong with looking at there page(window shopping) and stop commenting on their pictures. They don’t even respond back that’s insane!
I'm still lost at the "we" part. How could anyone come to the conclusion that it is solely black men's fault for women's choices. You mean to tell me that society, social media, capitalism, are all absolved of any blame here all because the black man let black women "do what they want to do"???
Sounds like an absurdity to me. Hypothetically speaking, and considering you subscribe to that notion, how would you (assuming you're a black man) have prevented your black woman from doing any of these things you mentioned?
Would you beat her? Leave her? Whatever your reason, please explain how you would solely be at fault for the decisions that she made that you clearly had no control over?
I'll wait...
100 percent co-sign…the biggest one that we need to fall back on is IG stop following women that don’t follow you back…Nothing wrong with looking at there page(window shopping) and stop commenting on their pictures. They don’t even respond back that’s insane!
Or stop using IG and social media altogether.
It's crazy u said that. Since Sunday I've been unfollowing chics that don't follow back.
While I agree with just about everything you said, you didn't answer my question. Also, what you're suggesting is a scorched earth approach and is in reality unreasonable and illogical.By supporting them, being their friend, fucking them.
Men hate weave but if a chic walked in with a super stoopid lookin hair hat we would still do the things I mentioned.
If we completely shun and treat them like roaches weaves would go completely away in about 6 months.
As a man your presence and attention have value. No need to hit or yell just leave her alone.
I taught my son if a chic get on your nerves more than twice to put her ass back on the shelf and find another one.
Men/we are the prize
Did I answer the question
I'm still lost at the "we" part. How could anyone come to the conclusion that it is solely black men's fault for women's choices. You mean to tell me that society, social media, capitalism, are all absolved of any blame here all because the black man let black women "do what they want to do"???
Sounds like an absurdity to me. Hypothetically speaking, and considering you subscribe to that notion, how would you (assuming you're a black man) have prevented your black woman from doing any of these things you mentioned?
Would you beat her? Leave her? Whatever your reason, please explain how you would solely be at fault for the decisions that she made that you clearly had no control over?
I'll wait...
I do as well. It's not about approaching with a closed mind, it's about a different perspective (mine) and trying to understand one that I don't agree with. It's nothing more than that. I'm not emotionally vested in any of this.Well I like having conversations about these things. If you come in to it with a closed mind it's not really a real reason to go into details. You won't learn anything because you chose not to before you asked
I do as well. It's not about approaching with a closed mind, it's about different perspective (mine) and trying to understand one that I don't agree with. It's nothing more than that. I'm not emotionally vested in any of this.
His reasoning in the 1st video reminds me of a line from the movie the last temptation of christ:
There is but one woman amongst a million faces.
Shorty lost me at… she submits to her female fiancé. At some point as men we, have to learn how to walk off on these delusional women. Started along time ago picking up women in a very diverse area. Mainly our culture has this women entitlement.