The Black Man Shacking Up Epidemic

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to be honest i don't know about the whole shacking up thing...i was raised to believe that its wrong but i see some pro's to it...but until i have come to a semi-concrete view on it...i wont


now...i have been reading many threads on this site and how women get shitted on because they drop dudes instead of building with them

so my question is.....do guys build with their women or do they just kick em to the curb?

i just wonder about the double standards i see on this site sometimes. i can't count how many times i've read post similar to "fuck that bitch, y trip when there is a whole sea of pussy out there"

i hope people don't really think like that in every situation and they are tryna do the whole tough guy thing.

this double standard surpasses living arrangement and goes into other facets of "potential" mates...in terms of mentally, spiritually, physically and etc.


just wondering

wow...very good point

i bet u nobody will touch it with a 10 ft pole tho:rolleyes:
 
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the answer is easy. It just the type of guys that are attracted to you and your girlfriend. Remember: You are your friends to a certain extent. So yes, you and your girls will have simular situations going on. And lets not forget the other side of the coin... There are a lot of broke women living at home(in their 20s)also. I meet females all the time that say they are looking for a men with job, car, place of his own, and thats fine. But I've also noticed that most of them cant match the type of guys they say they are looking for. Isn't it interesting that some women say that the guys they date, talk to, or hang out with arent much. I want to ask them to look in the mirror. Just my 2cents
 
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wow...very good point

i bet u nobody will touch it with a 10 ft pole tho:rolleyes:

Uh, no. It's simple. Men and women want different things. A man wants pussy, first and foremost. Sorry if other men tell you different, and i'm sure some men will cape up and tell me different, but 95% of straight men want pussy. Eventually they might catch feelings, but from jump they want pussy.

Then again, maybe I don't know shit about shit.
 
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so my question is.....do guys build with their women or do they just kick em to the curb?

i just wonder about the double standards i see on this site sometimes. i can't count how many times i've read post similar to "fuck that bitch, y trip when there is a whole sea of pussy out there"

just wondering

I try to build with the mother of my child.

Not for that true love bullshit that people are always preaching but to ensure that my daughter will be in the best position to deal with this world in the event that her mother and I aren't married.

If we don't make it I want her to be 10x better than I found her.
 
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Uh, no. It's simple. Men and women want different things. A man wants pussy, first and foremost. Sorry if other men tell you different, and i'm sure some men will cape up and tell me different, but 95% of straight men want pussy. Eventually they might catch feelings, but from jump they want pussy.

Then again, maybe I don't know shit about shit.

that might be the reason...but it still doesnt take away the fact that there is a double standard

yall discuss and post pics of your "hoes" and "bitches" and if they act up yall talk about replacing them

and i say ima let a guy go and im gonna be a lonely miserable woman

:confused:

in this very thread there is a double standards...

i say i dont wanna be with a guy cause hes got a job and i get all kinds of "fuck yous"...and im a terrible woman

then in the same thread people are telling me i attract losers and i need to do better

well which one is it?...do i "stand by my man" letting him move into my house for the sake of being a good woman

or

do i go bop in front of trump towers to attract the "right man"


again...:confused:
 
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that might be the reason...but it still doesnt take away the fact that there is a double standard

yall discuss and post pics of your "hoes" and "bitches" and if they act up yall talk about replacing them

and i say ima let a guy go and im gonna be a lonely miserable woman

:confused:

in this very thread there is a double standards...

i say i dont wanna be with a guy cause hes got a job and i get all kinds of "fuck yous"...and im a terrible woman

then in the same thread people are telling me i attract losers and i need to do better

well which one is it?...do i "stand by my man" letting him move into my house for the sake of being a good woman

or

do i go bop in front of trump towers to attract the "right man"


again...:confused:

Let me unconfuse you. If a man is in a relationship with a woman and he doesn't have feelings for her and she starts getting emotional, if it is not something he can resolve or something that he thinks is worth putting effort in to resolve, he should cut bait. Most men who post their "problems" on this PORN BOARD already have their minds made up to leave, for some reason they want reassurance. No man posts about his wife or longtime wifey because he's really gonna try and work that out.

People say you attract losers because of the way you described the men, if you didn't describe them correctly, then that is your fault. But the point is, if he IS a loser, he was a fucking loser when you chose him and you knew it, so why would you let that be a determining factor in your break-up. Even with the example you posted:
DeSiRe said:
then this other guy...aww he was so sweet...when we first met he had his own place...job...and 2 cars

thru the course of 2 months...he looses his job...then his car...then he moves out of his place...i chunk him the duece...he calls back 3 months later...and you guessed it...hes boo'd up living with a female

So the nigga was right when you met him, he goes through a dry spell for 2 months and you kick him to the curb...wait I mean you "chunked him the duece" :smh: There's no double standard there, obviously you were with him and cared for him, but when that first rough patch came through, you "chunked him the duece".

Person, I don't know how old you are or whatever, but there will be double standards in life, so get used to it. Hell, I'm sure you take advantage of at least 3 or 4 everyday. You accept them all or you accept none.

And don't say y'all, you don't see me doing jack.
 
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again...

thanks for breaking it down...but it doesnt take away from the fact the double standard exsists...rationalizing it doesnt make it go away...or make it right for that matter
 
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Please, I don't know where you live, but I can assure you that the town is full of brothers who are CPAs, lawyers, doctors, HR managers etc... You don't want those brothers.

Whatever you have, that's what you wanted. :hmm:

it may just be those brothers don't want her...


and i don't mean this in an insulting way, but you may not have the qualities those brothers(the cpa's, lawyers, doctors, etc) are looking for.....you are who you attract.
 
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* hope you don't mind i corrected your typo


as far as your original question i don't have a clue as to why bruhs are trying to shack up with women quickly...


wait, yes i do.

from observation most girls are willing to "baby" a nicca. i see more girls chaffeuring niccas around in their "nice" cars while he has none.

girls let these same niccas live up in their house, eat their food, increase utilities, etc.

these same niccas who would bounce as soon as the girl asks them to get a job.

but that's what some of these girls want


notice the use of word 'girl"
 
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Yeah, I've noticed that a lot of brothas (20-31 years of age ) still live with their mamas. I wonder why...
I'm in this age range and I am a homeowner. There are plenty of cat's like me. Where are you meeting these men?
 
If chicks stopped letting the bum ass niggas hit at his mommas house,
and sucking they dicks in the the Hyundai parked in grandma's backyard
then niggas will step they game up.....

Females make it to easy.
Tell them niggas "Naw you caint have no pussy till I see a lease!"
 
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