The Approach

[Eva Hornae]

Be courteous and sweet, i love a man with a sense of humor, sometimes a little quirkiness is good! Once we get pass the formalities and start joking around , i can be receptive to the exchange of ideas then we take it from there!


I love meeting men in the supermarket, there's something about a man who's grocery shopping/isle that oozes sexiness!

 

[synyster]

I am easy to please. All I ask is that you don't call me ma,shorty,or anything along those lines. Also, my pet peeve is do not touch me. I have almost pepper sprayed a couple people because they have touched me. But I love someone who gives me a nice smile and gives me the eye contact so that I know he is interested,chances are I will make the move if you are feeling a little shy

so if someone lightly touches you on the arm or shoulder u have a problem with that

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

so if someone lightly touches you on the arm or shoulder u have a problem with that

I have my reasons hun,just trust me on this one

 

[KillaBee]

this happens to everyone, at least normal people. i see this cute girl at the gym, we always make eye contact, but i play it like a damn fool and i dont know what to say. i think if i go up to her, i won't know what to say after introducing myself. this thread gives me some motivation

 

[Eva Hornae]

this happens to everyone, at least normal people. i see this cute girl at the gym, we always make eye contact, but i play it like a damn fool and i dont know what to say. i think if i go up to her, i won't know what to say after introducing myself. this thread gives me some motivation

just be polite and be urself, everything else should fall in place, if that doesn't work and she's being a bit snobbish, then leave her alone!

 

[Bigmario23]

this happens to everyone, at least normal people. i see this cute girl at the gym, we always make eye contact, but i play it like a damn fool and i dont know what to say. I think if i go up to her, i won't know what to say after introducing myself. this thread gives me some motivation

There's always plenty women at the gym especially where I live.
just be polite and let things flow. Met a chick a few months ago
at the gym didn't even try to get the number(still haven't). Eye contact
... so I spoke to her then engaged in general convo told her have a nice work out
and kept it moving. It's okay not to try to get it all in one swoop.
Especially if she is a member of the gym your bound to see her again and again.
Then if you decided to holla next time you can approach her (confidently).
[Or she may just be checking for you] because now you know her name and a lil' about her right?



Call her by her name (confidently) "Hey Mary" (She will be blown away that you even remember her name)just concentrate on building a basic rapport if your a bit shy. Make her laugh get on somebody's wack workout attire something silly to make her laugh. Be flirtatious with her so she will know your intentions is beyond "friend box" I was there once man. I still have sooo much to learn about women in general this is no blueprint just my two cents good luck!

 

[onyxfemme]

Your approach starts before you walk up to her. Stare at her to make eye contact, then smile and look away. I said stare at her...Not her ASS, her breast or her hips. But HER.
When you look away and she is still looking at you..Come back a few minutes later and introduce yourself and compliment her. Ask her about what ever location you are at, make a joke about it. Say you have to go, but ask to exchange numbers.

 

[AristotlesOwn]

this happens to everyone, at least normal people. i see this cute girl at the gym, we always make eye contact, but i play it like a damn fool and i dont know what to say. i think if i go up to her, i won't know what to say after introducing myself. this thread gives me some motivation

Meeting women at the gym is tricky, most of them aren't there to meet anyone. However, what I did one time was I wrote a small note to a beautiful girl who frequents the gym, put my no. on it, and left in in one of the small holes on her elliptical machine, smiled and went about my business. She called me a day later It didn't work out, but we're still cordial with each other.

Why I suspect it worked: 1. I didn't interrupt her flow by talking to her. 2. Women like handwritten notes; it's endearing. 3. We had seen each other a few times before I approached, so there was familiarity. <----- correct me if I'm wrong ladies.

 

[onyxfemme]

Meeting women at the gym is tricky, most of them aren't there to meet anyone. However, what I did one time was I wrote a small note to a beautiful girl who frequents the gym, put my no. on it, and left in in one of the small holes on her elliptical machine, smiled and went about my business. She called me a day later It didn't work out, but we're still cordial with each other.

Why I suspect it worked: 1. I didn't interrupt her flow by talking to her. 2. Women like handwritten notes; it's endearing. 3. We had seen each other a few times before I approached, so there was familiarity. <----- correct me if I'm wrong ladies.

Niiiiiice

 

[absolutvodka]

Your approach starts before you walk up to her. Stare at her to make eye contact, then smile and look away. I said stare at her...Not her ASS, her breast or her hips. But HER.
When you look away and she is still looking at you..Come back a few minutes later and introduce yourself and compliment her. Ask her about what ever location you are at, make a joke about it. Say you have to go, but ask to exchange numbers.

that's a good excerpt if you're writing a book for sucker ass niggas. if a mothafucka is seen acting like that a gun is gone be in his face minutes later.

 

[Kazoo]

next woman you see that you're interested in - walk up to her
dont say a word - pull your dick out

after she gets over the shock - pull your pants up and introduce yourself

 

[synyster]

Your approach starts before you walk up to her. Stare at her to make eye contact, then smile and look away. I said stare at her...Not her ASS, her breast or her hips. But HER.
When you look away and she is still looking at you..Come back a few minutes later and introduce yourself and compliment her. Ask her about what ever location you are at, make a joke about it. Say you have to go, but ask to exchange numbers.

that's a good excerpt if you're writing a book for sucker ass niggas. if a mothafucka is seen acting like that a gun is gone be in his face minutes later.

Co-sign. This is extremely bad advice. Never look away from a female if ya'll are making eye contact. If you look away while she is looking at you, that just shows weakness.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

Meeting women at the gym is tricky, most of them aren't there to meet anyone. However, what I did one time was I wrote a small note to a beautiful girl who frequents the gym, put my no. on it, and left in in one of the small holes on her elliptical machine, smiled and went about my business. She called me a day later It didn't work out, but we're still cordial with each other.

Why I suspect it worked: 1. I didn't interrupt her flow by talking to her. 2. Women like handwritten notes; it's endearing. 3. We had seen each other a few times before I approached, so there was familiarity. <----- correct me if I'm wrong ladies.

To me that would have worked easily. But its funny that some men would see it as simpish. I would love for someone to do the note thing for me.

 

[305slugga]

props to the OP for having the cojones to make this thread. Much like the OP, I really go through some shit when I see a girl I want to talk to. This chick that works at a restaruant I frequent once a week just leaves me MUTE. Like I can barely get my order out when she asks for it (no, this ain't McDonalds, LOL) and I just sit there and watch her perfect body switch and sway around the front of the joint and I just shake my head like "WHY can't I talk to this girl?!"

Man I feel you on being left speechless. My situation is a tad bit different from yours. My enrollment counselor for my grad school is sexy as hell. When she called me over the phone to give me more info about the school I thought she sounded unattractive over the phone but when I went into the office to meet with her I was stunned. She was slim with a nice chocolate tone and had shoulder length dreads. She calls me every week to check on me but I have yet to get the nerves to make that advancement