STUPID BUT FUN CONVERSATIONS ONLY FELLAS CAN HAVE- Is this a dealbreaker??

SCENARIO: Is this a dealbreaker??

  • Yes I would confront her and break up

    Votes: 11 15.9%
  • No I wouldn't say anything but it would change our relationship

    Votes: 25 36.2%
  • Yes I would bring it up but it wouldn't change a thing

    Votes: 18 26.1%
  • I would stop dealing with her that after that night.

    Votes: 15 21.7%

  • Total voters
    69

geechiedan

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
its not a stigma... they are actions. its the whore actions...
instead with doing it with people, you do it for online profiles, for money... don't see much of a difference.

she's essentially masturbating on cam for money..she's fucking you for free..

youre the only person she's having any real sexual contact with.

do you go to strip clubs? or have you been to one?
 
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Deacs

Rising Star
Registered
she's essentially masturbating on cam for money..she's fucking you for free..

youre the only person she's having any real sexual contact with.

do you go to strip clubs? or have you been to one?

She is being paid to perform a sexual act, it could be with her alone, her with man, her with animal.. that makes her a prostitute, a whore. Even if she is not promoting herself as such on the street, the ACTIONS are the same, regardless. She is getting paid to sexualize herself

NO, I don't frequent strip clubs, yes I have been to some in my youth while I was immature, yes, I paid for lap dances, yes, I fucked some strippers, yes, I don't do so any longer because of my stance on that behavior, fifteen years ago... no, stripping, prostituting, masturbation shows have not changed during that time. Yes, they were whore back then when I went.
 

geechiedan

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
She is being paid to perform a sexual act, it could be with her alone, her with man, her with animal.. that makes her a prostitute, a whore. Even if she is not promoting herself as such on the street, the ACTIONS are the same, regardless. She is getting paid to sexualize herself

NO, I don't frequent strip clubs, yes I have been to some in my youth while I was immature, yes, I paid for lap dances, yes, I fucked some strippers, yes, I don't do so any longer because of my stance on that behavior, fifteen years ago... no, stripping, prostituting, masturbation shows have not changed during that time. Yes, they were whore back then when I went.

they were whores and YOU were a whoremonger which is just as bad..and when you did it and for the guys that do it presently should their past and present activities in whoremongering be held against them?
 

geechiedan

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
the problem the sex industry in general is its not balanced... what I mean is..

a woman's main clientele in the sex industry (regardless of what you do in it ranging from the least in camming to the most in street walking) is MEN..all of her money and attention is going to be from MEN.

A man's main clientele in the sex industry is...MEN..most of his money and attention is going to come from MEN..

Women don't buy into the sex industry at the same rate and way that men do...BUT IF THEY DID???

Fellas be HONEST..if women were lining up to pay to watch you jerk off in front of a cam are you going say you wouldn't do it??

If women paid into the sex industry and prostitution as much as men that shit would be an above board LEGAL profession that you could be a degree in.. parents would be PROUD to say "My baby just got his B.A. and now he's going to be an ESCORT!!"


and you guys KNOW it:lol:
 

Deacs

Rising Star
Registered
they were whores and YOU were a whoremonger which is just as bad..and when you did it and for the guys that do it presently should their past and present activities in whoremongering be held against them?

Yes I was a whore mongering sports fisherman. I manipulated women with truth, with lies, and omission to get what I wanted. I sought whores out, sometimes and if lucky, I would get two of them. I have dated a girl to get to her aunt, and yes all of those things are part of my past and part of me... I don't omit any longer and I answer all questions just like this. I didn't admonish them because I was more beastly than them... but there is a point where you must change or evolve past, that was mine. And as I hold myself accountable for what I do, so do I.

SO... what exactly the point which you are trying to make? Whores need those to act upon, so I mongered, I no longer monger so I have no need for whores.

In the case of this example... this is a present whore and she is with a man she is not mongering with. In fact, she omitted the fact that she performs these acts on the internet. On the sex thing, she is not obligated to act the same with him, but from the male in this story's standpoint, she acted upon the act of being pious... which is the second lie because you omitted the first.
This negates you from being considered as a main chick... hell, even hookers have more dignity in being what they are and what they do... this female didn't give him the opportunity to choose.
 

geechiedan

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
Yes I was a whore mongering sports fisherman. I manipulated women with truth, with lies, and omission to get what I wanted. I sought whores out, sometimes and if lucky, I would get two of them. I have dated a girl to get to her aunt, and yes all of those things are part of my past and part of me... I don't omit any longer and I answer all questions just like this. I didn't admonish them because I was more beastly than them... but there is a point where you must change or evolve past, that was mine. And as I hold myself accountable for what I do, so do I.

SO... what exactly the point which you are trying to make? Whores need those to act upon, so I mongered, I no longer monger so I have no need for whores.

In the case of this example... this is a present whore and she is with a man she is not mongering with. In fact, she omitted the fact that she performs these acts on the internet. On the sex thing, she is not obligated to act the same with him, but from the male in this story's standpoint, she acted upon the act of being pious... which is the second lie because you omitted the first.

not being willing or excited to give a guy a handjob in a movie theater isn't being pious..

This negates you from being considered as a main chick... hell, even hookers have more dignity in being what they are and what they do... this female didn't give him the opportunity to choose.

to choose what??

According to you: On the sex thing, she is not obligated to act the same with him...that automatically means he gets no choice. If she CHOOSES to not be freaky with him then what choice does he have?
 

Mo-Better

The R&B Master
OG Investor
I've seen guys fuck up really nice situations because they're worried about what others might say. You two can always discuss the matter at some point and time. But if you and the chick really dig each other I say ride it out. She'll eventually bring it up.
 

Deacs

Rising Star
Registered
not being willing or excited to give a guy a handjob in a movie theater isn't being pious..



to choose what??

According to you: On the sex thing, she is not obligated to act the same with him...that automatically means he gets no choice. If she CHOOSES to not be freaky with him then what choice does he have?

choose another woman... simple. They are not married
 

Mo-Better

The R&B Master
OG Investor
Play dumb don't say a word to her. Enjoy her until you find someone more worthy. Just don't get her preggy.
 

Jay_from_dade

RawStrippers&Nut N Models
Certified Pussy Poster
I would just come out and say one day " they don't be wanting you to fuck somebody on cam. I will be happy to do it for you. You can even put up a pole say highest tip controls where I nutt"

^^^see how she handled that and move from there.

I would play hurt that she didn't invite me to share in none of her cam sessions.
 

xxxbishopxxx

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
my main issue would be her hiding it from me. Don't need random assholes laughing and pointing at her and I have no idea why.
 

MistaPhantastic

Rising Star
Platinum Member
Anything a chick is hiding from you; she is ashamed of.
The fact that she's willing to hide it (deceive you) says that she's not comfortable with it herself and/or she's knows it would make you not want her if you knew about it.
Plus, if she's getting money, she ain't gonna want that to stop.
If she's hiding shit, she's untrustworthy.
If she brags about it, she is the type that will challenge you with shit tests all of the time.
Do you want the lying hoe or the bitchy hoe?
 

geechiedan

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
Anything a chick is hiding from you; she is ashamed of.
The fact that she's willing to hide it (deceive you) says that she's not comfortable with it herself and/or she's knows it would make you not want her if you knew about it.
Plus, if she's getting money, she ain't gonna want that to stop.
If she's hiding shit, she's untrustworthy.
If she brags about it, she is the type that will challenge you with shit tests all of the time.
Do you want the lying hoe or the bitchy hoe?
goddam dude a bitch can't win...:lol::lol::lol:
 

Cannibal

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
Charge to the game. No mind games, bitch thinking it's one way and it's another, if it was serious before you gotta come clean. *I like you shawty but you known around the block and I can't take that home to mom. " can't have my sons and daughters teased at school, might get the bitch knocked up by mistake. Clean break for me fellas.
 

geechiedan

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
Charge to the game. No mind games, bitch thinking it's one way and it's another, if it was serious before you gotta come clean. *I like you shawty but you known around the block and I can't take that home to mom. " can't have my sons and daughters teased at school, might get the bitch knocked up by mistake. Clean break for me fellas.
goddamn nigga its just cams not heroin :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Mrfreddygoodbud

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
I got one....

You just met the girl of your dreams

Was dating for a week

You like her so you being patient

With the pussy..

Finally the booty call comes..

But before she hangs up

She tells you about her super elongated

Clit..

She says it turns a lot of guys of because it looks like a lil d

She sends you a picture pussy looking

Juicy and clean

But that elongated clit..really lookin different...

What I sayin

A. I don't have a problem long as its pussy and clean

B- nah not gonna be able to do it. And stay friends

C. Just hang up on the ho and keep it moving

Personally I ain't trying to see that shit...

At all..
 

The Plutonian

The Anti Bullshitter
BGOL Investor
I’d try my best to do every slutty and freaky thing to her. From the write up it says she been fucking other dudes on cam? I’d take my turns and release her back to the game. This ain’t no motherfucking soup kitchen playa. :hmm:
 
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