STUPID BUT FUN CONVERSATIONS ONLY FELLAS CAN HAVE- Is this a dealbreaker??

[geechiedan]

Scenario: Your dating a chick, its cool and everything is going fine. Your thinking about making her your main chick. The sex is great, fantastic,she can throw the pussy with the best of them. Everything is going smooth.

Then your old buddy from school visits from a city on the other side of the country. When you introduce him to your girl he gives her a look like he's seen her before. Its a quick glance that she misses but you pick up on. At dinner, whenever she talks your friend seems really attentive and when she goes to the bathroom you notice his side glance checking her out.

You ask what the hell is up with all the looks and your friend tells you that your lady, the woman your considering getting serious with is an MFC cam model. After dinner you drop her off home and then your boy shows the site on his laptop and you see all her freaky sexy pictures and videos. You see that not only that but she is one of the freakiest models on the site. Then he rattles off her repertoire:

double penetration shows
spanking
gagging, spitting and extreme dirty talk
huge toy shows
public shows
multiple orgasm shows

She doesn't do any of this stuff with you. In fact you had to talk her into giving you a hand job at the movie theater last week. Would you confront her about it and how?

 

[Alpha_Male]

Scenario: Your dating a chick, its cool and everything is going fine. Your thinking about making her your main chick. The sex is great, fantastic,she can throw the pussy with the best of them. Everything is going smooth.

Then your old buddy from school visits from a city on the other side of the country. When you introduce him to your girl he gives her a look like he's seen her before. Its a quick glance that she misses but you pick up on. At dinner, whenever she talks your friend seems really attentive and when she goes to the bathroom you notice his side glance checking her out.

You ask what the hell is up with all the looks and your friend tells you that your lady, the woman your considering getting serious with is an MFC cam model. After dinner you drop her off home and then your boy shows the site on his laptop and you see all her freaky sexy pictures and videos. You see that not only that but she is one of the freakiest models on the site. Then he rattles off her repertoire:

double penetration shows
spanking
gagging, spitting and extreme dirty talk
huge toy shows
public shows
multiple orgasm shows

She doesn't do any of this stuff with you. In fact you had to talk her into giving you a hand job at the movie theater last week. Would you confront her about it and how?

How long you guys been dating?

 

[cmac105]

Pimp why fuck up some pussy trying to get all technical. Maybe she'll do that whole list that was made to yourself. Some chicks don't give it all in one session or the first weeks or months. Gain her trust and maybe you'll be getting 3somes with her friend or something but don't fuck up pussy on the strength of what you friend thinks.

 

[geechiedan]

How long you guys been dating?

in the scenario...couple months.

 

[cmac105]

And don't change your relationship because woman pick up on everything. Treat her the same way man and you will always come out on top.

 

[geechiedan]

Pimp why fuck up some pussy trying to get all technical. Maybe she'll do that whole list that was made to yourself. Some chicks don't give it all in one session or the first weeks or months. Gain her trust and maybe you'll be getting 3somes with her friend or something but don't fuck up pussy on the strength of what you friend thinks.

sooo thats a you wouldn't say anything

 

[REDLINE]

I'd find out if she was still currently doing vids. We could continue to fuck but she wouldn't be my main chick.

 

[cmac105]

sooo thats a you wouldn't say anything

Why would you confront her about her past? Haven't you done freaky shit with other chicks? Does she ask you about the old stuff you've done with other chicks? As man we try to think that every chick we think of being with hasn't done anything but it doesn't flow that way. Woman are freakier than man but we don't want to see it that way. If she's cool and you like her don't worry about what she's done in the past. Eventually she'll tell you about her past but that is something you don't come right out and tell someone when you meet em.

 

[Alpha_Male]

in the scenario...couple months.

I ask that to determine if she had enough time to evaluate the relationship and to come clean.
I would continue fucking for as long as I see fit and but I would immediately get rid of the notion of anything serious.

 

[cmac105]

I'd find out if she was still currently doing vids. We could continue to fuck but she wouldn't be my main chick.

It's almost like getting with a chick thats a stripper but she's not actually getting touched.

 

[rNubb]

I don't like any of your options.

First, she hasn't changed. You have.

If she was cool for fucking then she is still cool for fucking.

Dude you didn't get with her because she was chaste and the fullness of honor and virtue.

You had her stroking your dick in a movie theater.

You been fucking her on the regular.

She has been your unpaid whore for months and you beefing because she was getting paid from dudes she didn't know or have never ever met.

Dude she masturbates on camera from moneys.

If she ain't no stripper or porn star then I don't see the major red flag.

Her hustle ain't a wholesome way to make money but you wasn't looking for some virginal, wholesome chick.

You appreciate that she fucks like a champ. That's shit took practice and preparation. She wasn't born that way.

Enjoy the ride.

Fuck all the confrontational shit.

She doesn't need an Intervention.

Just enjoy the ride and see where it goes.

 

[Race Harley]

I'd find out if she was still currently doing vids. We could continue to fuck but she wouldn't be my main chick.

This!

Just cross off "Main Chick" from your list and keep it moving.

 

[geechiedan]

I don't like any of your options.

First, she hasn't changed. You have.

If she was cool for fucking then she is still cool for fucking.

Do you didn't get with her because she was chaste and the fullness of honor and virtue.

You had her stroking your dick in a movie theater.

You been fucking her on the regular.

She has been your unpaid whore for months and you beefing because she was getting paid from dudes she didn't know or have never ever met.

Dude she masturbates on camera from moneys.

If she ain't no stripper or porn star then I don't see the major red flag.

Her hustle ain't a wholesome way to make money but you wasn't looking for some virginal, wholesome chick.

You appreciate that she fucks like a champ. That's shit took practice and preparation. She wasn't born that way.

Enjoy the ride.

Fuck all the confrontational shit.

She doesn't need an Intervention.

Just enjoy the ride and see where it goes.

you don't like the options but you call her an unpaid whore

you don't see an issue with that?

 

[mrbillcollecta]

you don't like the options but you call her an unpaid whore

you don't see an issue with that?

 

[Word]

i wouldnt mind if she was a cam girl i would be more a problem with her level of honesty and openness if yall close enough to move to her being your main chic and she not giving you nothing special sexually she got life fucked up.

 

[geechiedan]

bump

 

[ShortyCumStain]

I ain't gon' say a word & fuck myself up w/gettin' any of that ol' good shit. Fuck it, I'll wait a lil' bit. MOST of these hoes too square & are straight "vanilla" & none of that ol' kinky shit that I like. Nawl, not a deal breaker.

 

[ankhheru]

i wouldnt mind if she was a cam girl i would be more a problem with her level of honesty and openness if yall close enough to move to her being your main chic and she not giving you nothing special sexually she got life fucked up.

i could see where you could have a problem with her honesty. she should have been a little more forth coming with you about the entire situation. not that i would have broken it off knowing what she did but she should have still given you the option of dealing with her and her history. add to that the fact that she is trying to play pussy games and deceive you into believing that she was pure and chaste all the while she got more freak in her than a javon kearse pass rush.

with me personally i would not have had an issue with her past at this point in my life due to the fact that im morally corrupt and perverted to the highest degree. in fact that shit would have been a plus for me (except the dp shit but you dont throw out a rolls royce cause of a busted head light, you just dont ride at night).

in a nut shell i would approach her about her level of honesty in the relationship considering she was claiming to be my main chick and had me begging to get a little freaky in the movies like she dont get down like that. i wouldnt necessarily get rid of her depending on how she responds to my inquiries.

 

[clitsational]

this entire scenario is based on some hypothetical "ownership" mentality

it is not now nor will it ever b "your" pussy

it's hers and she can what she wants with it


best u can ever hope to do is enjoy your moments in it


that and hope she is sharing some of that MFC money






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[D-TOWN REP]

 

[GAMETHEORY]

LINK or DUCK TALES!

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

how can the sex be great..she throws the pussy with the best of em etc like you said at first... then suddenly she don't do nothing for you?

deal breaker?

who knows depends on her answer when i ask her about it

 

[SWATLANTA]

Why fuck up a possible pussy opportunity ? Keep kicking it with her until she does that freaky shit with you. Don't put her in the "wifey" category, just keep her in the "top flight side bitch" category...Play the game raw !!












...then post the homegrown on BGOL so we all can enjoy her sluttiness

 

[GAMETHEORY]

link?

 

[geechiedan]

link?

link to what?

 

[CPT Callamity]

Dont talk yourself out of pussy. Let her tell you but dont wife her or make her your main damey.

 

[Olosi]

Fuckin "A"!! Isn't that why we here? Get the pussy, get your freak on, don't say shit! Just don't get serious. I was "seeing this freak who confessed she was a pro years ago. She gave serious head jobs so she's a steady. Would never marry or get serious, but she is the one who got serious and wanted to break things off because I said I would never marry her or get serious. Fellas, I had no choice, I told her I loved her. Gave a great make up sex session and never said the "L" word again. Lying is acceptable in the face of such adversity.

 

[GreedySmurf]

Why fuck up a possible pussy opportunity ? Keep kicking it with her until she does that freaky shit with you. Don't put her in the "wifey" category, just keep her in the "top flight side bitch" category...Play the game raw !!












...then post the homegrown on BGOL so we all can enjoy her sluttiness

This, 100%!

 

[DWBass]

Don't make her your main chick and damn sure don't marry her!!

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Must be some reason she doesn't get freaky with you. There's a safety to doing cam. Lots of women like it. They can execute their kinky natures, without the fall out of dudes stalking or attacking, judgement. It may be her personal thing. Like to some guys they get off on things that they don't invite their wives into. Midgets or some shit like that. This is probably hers.

If she's fucking you, and doing all the good relationship stuff. Why can't she have something of her own? This is possessive male bullshit.

 

[geechiedan]

Must be some reason she doesn't get freaky with you. There's a safety to doing cam. Lots of women like it. They can execute their kinky natures, without the fall out of dudes stalking or attacking, judgement. It may be her personal thing. Like to some guys they get off on things that they don't invite their wives into. Midgets or some shit like that. This is probably hers.

If she's fucking you, and doing all the good relationship stuff. Why can't she have something of her own? This is possessive male bullshit.

I was just about to make that same observation...

all of the deal-breaker responses seem to center around the fact that she's a freaky cam model and the whore stigma of that.

the fact that she didn't tell her man is used as an EXCUSE but the real issue seem to be that dudes deep down just don't like their woman, their MAIN woman being on cam doing freaky shit.

 

[Count23]

this entire scenario is based on some hypothetical "ownership" mentality

it is not now nor will it ever b "your" pussy

it's hers and she can what she wants with it


best u can ever hope to do is enjoy your moments in it


that and hope she is sharing some of that MFC money






​

Must be some reason she doesn't get freaky with you. There's a safety to doing cam. Lots of women like it. They can execute their kinky natures, without the fall out of dudes stalking or attacking, judgement. It may be her personal thing. Like to some guys they get off on things that they don't invite their wives into. Midgets or some shit like that. This is probably hers.

If she's fucking you, and doing all the good relationship stuff. Why can't she have something of her own? This is possessive male bullshit.

 

[Deacs]

I would confront her after reviewing the evidence, but I don't see me having contact with her after that conversation.

If you are looking for a 'woman' to be with you, depending on what you deem as acceptable would make you move either with her or away from her.

It is not possessive to seek a woman which has class, dignity, or able to teach or mentor children by the example of her life... not the lesson which I want taught.

 

[BUU]

Personally I would not be mad. Too many ppl frown upon that kind of shit and that's why she hid it from you. She probably don't do any of that shit with you because she don't need to and you seem to be satisfied. Also I think you are getting the better deal because your getting the pussy for free! That's the best kind there is....

 

[geechiedan]

I would confront her after reviewing the evidence, but I don't see me having contact with her after that conversation.

If you are looking for a 'woman' to be with you, depending on what you deem as acceptable would make you move either with her or away from her.

It is not possessive to seek a woman which has class, dignity, or able to teach or mentor children by the example of her life... not the lesson which I want taught.

see..the whore stigma