Re: Stop the shaming Single black mothers
Stop the shaming of Single black mothers
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It is damn appalling and wrongly fully disgusting to blame the deteriorating conditions in domestic issues relating to family values single parenthood. If you stop to think of big picture, you will see that these issues are only in relation to "Western Countries".
There are millions of single parents all over the world with worst living conditions than any American city and the crime is far less.
Does 4.47% of the world population thinks they only ones that have single mothers?
Across the industrialized world, about 15.9 percent of children live in single-parent households. The United States is at the higher end of the single-parent spectrum, with 25.8 percent of its children living with just a mother or a father..
http://economix.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/03/10/single-parents-around-the-world/
UK, Latvia, Belgium, and Estonia has more single moms taking care of child than USA, but crime rate in those countries are far less. But yet everyone bring up social issues only relating to black women as single mother.
It is time to stop bashing single black mothers, regardless of social position; the issues has to pointed to USA social and educational system that is not fairly distributed to those area to eliminate the problem.
fuk that, im a strong believer in two parent homes. fuk what you was brainwashed to believe, but i hope this continues and more decisions would be made to give a child the proper conditions to be raised in. get your self financially straight and have a plan. only thing good that has came out of it is populating the country. at least our votes will out number. thats about it
Do they?
LoneStar29
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Re: Stop the shaming Single black mothers
Spare me the bullshit
You tryin get folks in here to believe that there are more bad bw than bad bm
You tryin get people to believe that a few dudes are knocking up hundreds of thousands of women
And as usual that the women should take aaaaall the blame
This shit is just pathetic ... like I said mothafucking enemy
Whats wrong with your brain... Do you even know what "in theory" means?
As in, "in theory" one man could give every woman aids... Not meaning I could happen or would happen, but its physically possible if he was able to have sex with every female..
Spare me the bullshit
You tryin get folks in here to believe that there are more bad bw than bad bm
You tryin get people to believe that a few dudes are knocking up hundreds of thousands of women
And as usual that the women should take aaaaall the blame
This shit is just pathetic ... like I said mothafucking enemy
Re: Stop the shaming Single black mothers
Whats pathetic is that you lack the logic to understand that it takes fewer males to produce a bunch of kids than women.... My 1% to 99% ratio was only mentioned to exacerbate the notion..
Whats pathetic is that you lack the logic to understand that it takes fewer males to produce a bunch of kids than women.... My 1% to 99% ratio was only mentioned to exacerbate the notion..
LoneStar29
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Re: Stop the shaming Single black mothers
You tryin pass that shit off as some sort of truth to make it seem like so many of us are bad and so many of you are good but perceived as bad cuz of 3 or 4 bad guys .... GTFOH
You tryin pass that shit off as some sort of truth to make it seem like so many of us are bad and so many of you are good but perceived as bad cuz of 3 or 4 bad guys .... GTFOH
If you ever look at my posts, when do I give the black men that knock them up a pass? I state that they are BUMS!!
They don't deserve a kiss on the cheek from a black woman. Black women have to know this. That's my whole point. Black women have to have higher standards.
Re: Stop the shaming Single black mothers
I am talking ratio not actual numbers..... Do you even know the difference?
LoneStar29
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We should raise our standards ... even though that would leave many of us single since so many of you are out to do us dirty
I just wish someone was telling these bums to do better instead of always only yelling at us but we both know that will never happen since there isnt one thing bm accept responsibility for
Thats why you're whole rant about us being praised was bullshit ... we dont get praise, just hate and all the blame
Re: Stop the shaming Single black mothers
ignorance is to "ignore" the facts. so explain
Ignorance....
ignorance is to "ignore" the facts. so explain
LoneStar29
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Re: Stop the shaming Single black mothers
Irony
where did you get your "ratios" from? and why throw out "ratios" that perpetuate such a negative image of bw and a positive image of bm if you arent trying to imply something??? why pick numbers that arent realistic???
Ignorance....
Irony
where did you get your "ratios" from? and why throw out "ratios" that perpetuate such a negative image of bw and a positive image of bm if you arent trying to imply something??? why pick numbers that arent realistic???
Re: Stop the shaming Single black mothers
Ok let me break it down so you can understand.....
In theory, how many males does it take to get 100 women pregnant in one year?
Answer....
Ok let me break it down so you can understand.....
In theory, how many males does it take to get 100 women pregnant in one year?
Answer....
LoneStar29
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1. Where did you get your "ratios" from?
2. Why throw out "ratios" that perpetuate such a negative image of bw and a positive image of bm if you arent trying to imply something???
3. Why pick numbers that arent realistic???
My questions are clear
2. Why throw out "ratios" that perpetuate such a negative image of bw and a positive image of bm if you arent trying to imply something???
3. Why pick numbers that arent realistic???
My questions are clear
So you're a single mom? That's why you have a problem with what I said.
Listen. Even fucking female spiders are selective when they mate. Women need to stop throwing centuries of evolution down the toilet. Choose better mates. If you start choosing better mates, males will compete for those higher standards that you want. Damn. Stop just letting anything go up in you raw. Up your standards, the game will follow.
And I am not even talking about single in all cases. If you are divorced or had you kid after establishing yourself, you're cool. But if you had your kid by some SNES playing bum when you were 19, it is what it is.
meatwad0628
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How did they become single moms? Did she get a career, stack some money, find a guy she thought was right, get married, THEN HAVE A CHILD, and then get DIVORCED.......or
Did she get pregnant at 16-23 without a penny to her name by some bum who plays PS3 all day?
These stats only talk about single moms. They don't talk about the men these single moms are choosing to reproduce with. Say what you want, but SOME black women are making some shit choices. There are far too many black women in this country who know the man they reproduced with wasn't shit. The signs were there and they still let him hit raw dog?
And what is this "shaming" bullshit? The black single-mom brigade has the most pull in the black community. There is no shame. Making your life a struggle when it didn't have to be is some kind of twisted badge of honor.
THis..... I blame modern black male hypersexual player club, strip club culture though. Black men have such low standards. And since black women come from single families as well, they have low self esteem, and settle for knuckle heads. We as black men need to better fathers, and education our women, on selecting better mates.
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Black women do have to have higher standards. Extremely high. But see there in lies the rub. Just median standards would be too high for the vast majority of black men. That's the reality. If they had high standards? No one would be with anyone. I'm speaking of having emotional standards, physical standards, economic standards, social standards, spiritual standards. High.
But the problem is no one wants to be alone. It's extremely hard for a woman to be alone. But that's supposed to be ignored and overlooked because it suits the argument better woman bad, man good. Woman flawed man perfect. Woman evil man innocent victim.
Patriarchy for ya.
So I am not saying that there are more bad women than men, nor am I suggesting the opposite (this goes for every race by the way)
What I am saying is that women have to be more careful because there are guys who go around getting multiple women pregnant, and it is not uncommon for one guy to get four or five women knocked up in a year...
What I am saying is that women have to be more careful because there are guys who go around getting multiple women pregnant, and it is not uncommon for one guy to get four or five women knocked up in a year...
LoneStar29
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I agreed we should choose better ... its just sad that ya'll dont give us a better selection to choose from AND that you have no intentions of bettering yourselves into being better options. I have YET to hear about anything bm are accepting responsibility for or anything ya'll are working on ... the finger ALWAYS comes back to us
What frustrates black males is that it often a small % of bums fucking it up for the so called good guys.... Shit I know a female who just had a baby with a dude who has at least 9 kids and he is only 27.
LoneStar29
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Yes that is uncommon ... you are just making shit up to (like I said before) make it appear as if its just a few of you who are fucked up ... your numbers give the perception that a few guys are dirty and so many women are terrible decision makers ... your argument is completely biased and coonish
Good man pickings are very, very, very slim.
Yo I worked in group homes and saw some real horror stories of women doing some dumb ass shit, in order to get a man... I know one girl who fucked a dude with HIV and caught that shit herself, because she loved him... Only to decide a few moths later, she didn't want it no more and decided she didn't have it no more... She even fucked his best friend, who was clueless to what was going down..
LoneStar29
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Give me a fucking break
See????
This is EXACTLY what I was saying that you are doing ... blaming all the bad shit on a few guys and painting most bm as good while painting the majority of bw to be bad decision makers who are destroying the black community
Man I swear the KKK aint got shit on you guys
I said its often the case, not always..... There are guys 25 who don't even know how many kids they have.... Its a known fact that men would fuck anybody, fat skinny, tall, short...
Most women go for the same type of guys, allowing a small % of men to be able to get a large % of women pregnant..
LoneStar29
Banned
Yo I worked in group homes and saw some real horror stories of women doing some dumb ass shit, in order to get a man... I know one girl who fucked a dude with HIV and caught that shit herself, because she loved him... Only to decide a few moths later, she didn't want it no more and decided she didn't have it no more... She even fucked his best friend, who was clueless to what was going down..
That heffa is an anomaly, do you hear me?? Women like her do not exist in every city in North America
See what frustrates me is how you guys will take these random ass horror stories and use them to paint bw with this big ol broad negative brush, just one huge swipe
But if its a horror story about a bm you are quick to let it be known he is a one off and that many of you arent like that
Matter of fact let a bw tell a horror story about a bm and ya'll will find a way to make it all about her by telling her its her fault, its her choice, its her environment, its the way she looks, its her status rotfl
Again I am not saying there are more fucked up black women or more fucked up black men, all I am saying is that one male can do more damage that one woman.. Shit a male can have 30 kids by the age of 24 and thats impossible for a woman to have, I don't care how much she is fucking..
This is why I tell sisters to beware and be careful out there..
LoneStar29
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Thats not often the case
but you go on and continue to stay in denial cuz thats really helping the community at the end of the day
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